The start to another chapter for Anupamaa - Page 2

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj has married a woman who already had three kids n was maintaining relationship with ex in laws too. There is a reason why ppl dont want to marry ppl with children from previous marriage. Not just men women too. Anuj already knew how anupama is living with shah's even after divorce n how she is like a slave to Shah's.

Also he can see how problematic anupama's children were n still r. So u can't just break a marriage on those grounds because most of the things anuj knew before. Anuj didn't married because he newly fell in love with her but he married because he was longing her for 26 yrs.

So now it's like once u marry a woman u lose interest in her. And marriage in this show depict same thing.

Anuj anupama didn't had a normal marriage. No business tycoon would marry a middle aged middle class woman with three grown up kids. Instead he should have married Devika who was his best friend n more practical n free from liabilities.

Though it's absurd that why kapadia's n Shah's celebrate all festival together. Generally ppl celebrate festival in their own home n not others.

I have never ever seen a mom baby her grown up children and spend so much time in their house. In fact marrying someone with grown up children is same as marrying someone with no children, as in former case, the grown up children have their own family and can live by themselves. My parents meet me perhaps once a year

And no, i dont think anuj knew anupama will emotionally cheat with her ex and spend 90% time with ex in law family. That's not how someone in a new marriage behaves. He wanted to save her from shahs and save her from being a slave which is why he married her. How will he know she loves being a slave and will go back for abuses?

If she refuses to be saved, its a valid reason for separating. Anyone who loves someone cannot see them continue to be slaves and not moving on. Even parents break-up from children if they see them doing something hurting themselves and cannot save them after trying. It hurts less not to see them like that

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anuj will keep.divorcing and keep marrying every next girl in every 6 month until he get proper eligible aaya for choti

Should I remind that its Anupama who has married twice (not that there is anything wrong in that) ? Anuj waited 26 years and married only once. I doubt he will ever love or marry again, he is not like Anupama spending time with multiple ex and husband at same time

Originally posted by: Harish111

Should I remind that its Anupama who has married twice (not that there is anything wrong in that) ? Anuj waited 26 years and married only once. I doubt he will ever love or marry again, he is not like Anupama spending time with multiple ex and husband at same time

She will remarry Vanraj so that he can have two wives. Kavya for romance and Spicebox for being a free maid and doing all the housework. If Anuj is agreeable then he can also continue playing his part so that she has two husbands in the spirit of equality. Anyway, the arrangement is actually happening unofficially. 🤣

Kisi ke 2 pati ya 2 patni ho, AAPKO KYA 😉

I respect your opinion as we all have a right to express our thoughts and you are right about anuj being too much here but his reaction is understandable as per me

Agreed that anuj knew before itself about anupama coming with baggage but he obviously didn't predict that she will not settle her priorities even a bit after marriage( considering anuj is important for her too now as she fought with everyone to marry him) and that her baggage will come first even after marriage to the extent of ignoring sick husband and missing out on fostered child's school function for a mere thing like khichdi kachumbar making for baa who never misses a chance to give her baddua and various other fiasco where she ran to shah house when it could have been avoided

He never knew that she will always prioritize her baggage more even when he and his daughter needed him the most. Even people with baggage have to settle their priorities after they get married as no matter how good and understanding a husband or wife maybe but they will have basic expectations from the partner in marriage as that is what marriage is all about after all to be there for each other when needed

Having said this it's my opinion and we all can agree to disagree

Originally posted by: Harish111

I have never ever seen a mom baby her grown up children and spend so much time in their house. In fact marrying someone with grown up children is same as marrying someone with no children, as in former case, the grown up children have their own family and can live by themselves. My parents meet me perhaps once a year

And no, i dont think anuj knew anupama will emotionally cheat with her ex and spend 90% time with ex in law family. That's not how someone in a new marriage behaves. He wanted to save her from shahs and save her from being a slave which is why he married her. How will he know she loves being a slave and will go back for abuses?

If she refuses to be saved, its a valid reason for separating. Anyone who loves someone cannot see them continue to be slaves and not moving on. Even parents break-up from children if they see them doing something hurting themselves and cannot save them after trying. It hurts less not to see them like that

Anuj and anupama's situation can never be compared because anuj never came with a baggage or bunch of liabilities. He didn't even remain contact with his only sister. He doesn't go to USA to visit her.

If anuj would be having a child or family from previous marriage then it would be very clear he too would be going to and forth like anupama.

Anuj is so emotionally obsessed with a foster child what would have been his behaviour for his own blood.

Anuj never intended to save anupama from Shah's, he just married her because he loved her.

Even after being thrown from shah house after spending night with anuj, anupama made shah house her mayka n got married from same house. There was never anything normal for anupama. She has slavery mentality. She will be abused n kicked still go to same ppl.

Anuj should have never married the woman with so much complications.

This relationship should end.. Thats it.

Anuj was delusional and stupid to marry despite knowing her baggage. All the delusions are over now .

He is not conditioned like Anupama for 45 years.

So he should see the clear picture and move on .

BUT YE SAB TO SAPNE HAIN... 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj and anupama's situation can never be compared because anuj never came with a baggage or bunch of liabilities. He didn't even remain contact with his only sister. He doesn't go to USA to visit her.

If anuj would be having a child or family from previous marriage then it would be very clear he too would be going to and forth like anupama.

Anuj is so emotionally obsessed with a foster child what would have been his behaviour for his own blood.

Anuj never intended to save anupama from Shah's, he just married her because he loved her.

Even after being thrown from shah house after spending night with anuj, anupama made shah house her mayka n got married from same house. There was never anything normal for anupama. She has slavery mentality. She will be abused n kicked still go to same ppl.

Anuj should have never married the woman with so much complications.

Anuj included Anupamaa in Malvika's life when she was in India but Anupamaa did not reciprocate the same for Bhavesh.

Whenever Anupamaa was in Shah House be it Choti's panic attack or school function or picnic, Anuj made sure that Choti didn't keep a grudge against Anupamaa, keeping their bond intact. If Anuj had biological children from other partners, he would make place for Anupamaa in their lives as their step mother. Anupamaa never created a bond between Toshu, Samar or Pakhi and Anuj. Why? Legally, he is their step father. She infact told Anuj once to let her deal with her children as they were her children.

Anupamaa in Shah House serves Baa, Bapuji, Kinjal, Kavya and a lot of times Vanraj too, not just her children. If Anuj would have been doing that, in the guise of going back and forth for his children, feminists would have got this serial to shut down within a week.

Anuj doesn't consider Choti as foster kid but own kid. So, there is no question as to how he would behave with his own blood. Foster / Adopter parents don't discriminate on the basis of blood, they are in every sense parents to their children.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Anupama told her before marriage that she cannot give him children coz she is old. Plus Anupama agreed to adopt Anu for Anuj to make this guy happy and he is acting like this. He is just jealous and envious that others have what he doesn't have. Thik hai phir. Divorse Anupama and marry a younger woman. This will be better. He still has time to start a new life. I am done with this guy!

Exactly why did she agree to have an adopted child when she knew she just wants to mingle with Shah family? She just agreed to allow CA stay as their child in the family but never took care of neither her husband nor her child. Even if she couldn't take care of CA atleast she could've looked after her spouse but no this mata just kept on visiting Shahs and it's not like she went there and came out without doing any tamasha. She always went there to fight with Vanraj until Baa and Vanraj teamed together and humiliated her badly. For her it was always Shah family and never Anuj. Just the thing that this track came up after CA's leaving, it doesn't mean it's the only thing that broke Anuj. He had been tolerating her nonsense for a long time and now he's fed up with her.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj and anupama's situation can never be compared because anuj never came with a baggage or bunch of liabilities. He didn't even remain contact with his only sister. He doesn't go to USA to visit her.

If anuj would be having a child or family from previous marriage then it would be very clear he too would be going to and forth like anupama.

Anuj is so emotionally obsessed with a foster child what would have been his behaviour for his own blood.

Anuj never intended to save anupama from Shah's, he just married her because he loved her.

Even after being thrown from shah house after spending night with anuj, anupama made shah house her mayka n got married from same house. There was never anything normal for anupama. She has slavery mentality. She will be abused n kicked still go to same ppl.

Anuj should have never married the woman with so much complications.

Truth has been spoken.

Originally posted by: Jefen

Anupama told her before marriage that she cannot give him children coz she is old. Plus Anupama agreed to adopt Anu for Anuj to make this guy happy and he is acting like this. He is just jealous and envious that others have what he doesn't have. Thik hai phir. Divorse Anupama and marry a younger woman. This will be better. He still has time to start a new life. I am done with this guy!

Do you guys believe children are toys that you agree to buy them and can neglect them as you please? Yeah thats abuse and illegal

Jealous of what? A sociopathic women who loves to go to be slave of ex in laws and be abused? A woman who is failure both as a wife and as a mother as can be seen by her failure chidren? Even a beggar on the street wont be jealous of Anupama

Anuj had a way happier life before he married Anupama. Every misery in his life is because of her

And every spouse will have a problem if their SO emotionally CHEATS with her ex and spends time in their house. In fact Anupama has more time to listen to Vanraj's problems than her.