The start to another chapter for Anupamaa

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Posted: 2 years ago
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So, now this middle aged woman, a dadi will go through another divorce and show the world how she put herself together to start another journey. She divorsed Vanraj when she was a mom. She will divorse Anuj when she is a dadi. What a journey! She will make Kapadia Mansion her third maika and marry another Anuj. Maybe this time Dinesh (Coz she is now a DaDI).



Sarcasm aside. I feel so sorry for Anupamaa now 😭. Please, give this track a nice closure and bring MaAn together.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anuj's depression to an extent was understandable but now it's overdone. If a child is so important then better he should have married long back n have gone for IVF instead of adoption.



Even in biological parents case a mother gets priority in custody here anuj was just a foster father with no legal or natural right.

He is an educated n modern fellow how hard it's ro understand that child will go to mother only.

He wanted to go to court then he should have why take permission from anupama. In mimi movie too kriti sanon backed out from going to court because she knew she will loose. So even if anupama doesn't want to fight case it's okay.


Anupama is annoying but that doesn't mean that a marriage should break just because u couldn't get a foster child into adoption. It's overly dramatic.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I have seen people whose biological kids have died…whom they have carried for 9 months and raised…behave in a more dignified way than Anuj.

Publicly shouting on your wife is not okay and dumping your wife because your foster child went away with her real mother is not okay either. Anupama has made many mistakes but Anuj is making me cringe now.

I am going to stop watching this madness till they make Anuj come to his senses.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anupama told her before marriage that she cannot give him children coz she is old. Plus Anupama agreed to adopt Anu for Anuj to make this guy happy and he is acting like this. He is just jealous and envious that others have what he doesn't have. Thik hai phir. Divorse Anupama and marry a younger woman. This will be better. He still has time to start a new life. I am done with this guy!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The reaction was over top, but its understandable as Anupamaa has given no grace to Anuj in his grief.


Does she not understand or pretends not to, despite the multiple times he asked her to be left alone and not force him to celebrate in the privacy of their home.


Anupamaa is quick to take offense, if anything is said about her lack of ability to perform her responsibilities. Example, when Anuj said she is no more his best friend.

Time and again, she had misplaced priorities.


Like, what was that Happy Holi to Anuj ?? Her disbelief of what's wrong? She clearly seems to have no concept of pain of her spouse.🤪

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: naaznin

Anuj's depression to an extent was understandable but now it's overdone. If a child is so important then better he should have married long back n have gone for IVF instead of adoption.



Even in biological parents case a mother gets priority in custody here anuj was just a foster father with no legal or natural right.

He is an educated n modern fellow how hard it's ro understand that child will go to mother only.

He wanted to go to court then he should have why take permission from anupama. In mimi movie too kriti sanon backed out from going to court because she knew she will loose. So even if anupama doesn't want to fight case it's okay.


Anupama is annoying but that doesn't mean that a marriage should break just because u couldn't get a foster child into adoption. It's overly dramatic.


The marriage is not breaking because CA had to leave, that's just the straw that broke the camel's back.


The marriage is breaking because Anupama spends 90% time at her exes house, emotionally cheats with her ex and neglects her spouse and child


CA being or not being there wouldn't have changed that. Its all neglect adding up over the year. Anupama wasnt there when he was paralyzed and needed her, she wasn't there when he wanted to spend time together with his kid, she wasnt there now when he is sad and depressed


That is way more than someone being "annoying", it's straight up meets the legal definition of neglect in a marriage. If your spouse is not with you when you are sad and depressed, but is celebrating with her ex, that marriage is already over

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fighter03

I have seen people whose biological kids have died…whom they have carried for 9 months and raised…behave in a more dignified way than Anuj.

Publicly shouting on your wife is not okay and dumping your wife because your foster child went away with her real mother is not okay either. Anupama has made many mistakes but Anuj is making me cringe now.

I am going to stop watching this madness till they make Anuj come to his senses.


He is NOT dumping his wife because foster child left, he is dumping because for years she has neglected him.and his child in multiple situations


It's the years of neglect and selfishness which is adding up now. Even now when he is sad and depressed his wife is celebrating with her ex


Simplifying that to - foster child went away - is disingenuous. Everyone watched this show, we all know why the outburst came. It was caused by years of neglect in many many situations which has been adding up

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anuj will keep.divorcing and keep marrying every next girl in every 6 month until he get proper eligible aaya for choti

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harish111


The marriage is not breaking because CA had to leave, that's just the straw that broke the camel's back.


The marriage is breaking because Anupama spends 90% time at her exes house, emotionally cheats with her ex and neglects her spouse and child


CA being or not being there wouldn't have changed that. Its all neglect adding up over the year. Anupama wasnt there when he was paralyzed and needed her, she wasn't there when he wanted to spend time together with his kid, she wasnt there now when he is sad and depressed


That is way more than someone being "annoying", it's straight up meets the legal definition of neglect in a marriage. If your spouse is not with you when you are sad and depressed, but is celebrating with her ex, that marriage is already over


Anuj has married a woman who already had three kids n was maintaining relationship with ex in laws too. There is a reason why ppl dont want to marry ppl with children from previous marriage. Not just men women too. Anuj already knew how anupama is living with shah's even after divorce n how she is like a slave to Shah's.

Also he can see how problematic anupama's children were n still r. So u can't just break a marriage on those grounds because most of the things anuj knew before. Anuj didn't married because he newly fell in love with her but he married because he was longing her for 26 yrs.

So now it's like once u marry a woman u lose interest in her. And marriage in this show depict same thing.

Anuj anupama didn't had a normal marriage. No business tycoon would marry a middle aged middle class woman with three grown up kids. Instead he should have married Devika who was his best friend n more practical n free from liabilities.

Though it's absurd that why kapadia's n Shah's celebrate all festival together. Generally ppl celebrate festival in their own home n not others.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anuj will keep.divorcing and keep marrying every next girl in every 6 month until he get proper eligible aaya for choti


He should get married to Maya itself n shut the show.

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