Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 19 Mar 2023 - Page 9

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, where are those pseudo feminists? Why aren't they crying foul over her behavior today when they would've done that if the situation were reversed?

The answer is what Anupama did is wife ki hak. She should bring her husband out of that trauma, she only can force him. Unki nazar se MERI ANU SAHI HAI....

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Yeh phir muh utha ke shah house paunch gayi ? Bhai kabhi to koi festival akele mana lo yeh kya har waqt ex inlaws ke ghar pe padi rehti hai..Am divorced too but I haven't gone back to my ex inlaws after my divorce.Haven't seen a more shameless woman than Anupama is shown.CA chali gayi lekin isko sirf Pakhi Adhik Pari ki 1st holi ki padi hai aur phir log bolte hai yeh aurat selfish nahi hai.Fact is she is a shallow,insecure n a selfish woman.

But you see, now she doesn't have to worry about choosing CA vs her other kids. She's free of CA's responsibilities and can give her full attention to her bio kids without having to justify or act like she's trying to be fair to CA.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

U r telling anupama shah house mein naukraani bani rehti tell me anupama after new year Kitni baar shah house gayi

Hardly 3 times when 3 toshu was sick

Ahd yes this is not frustration this is certainly ego of anuj

I called it ego and yes I am calling it ego because out of ego he refuses to accept the truth and want to keep choti anu any how

Anupama can also throw thing anupama can also say to anu j Mera bhi dam ghut ta hai when anuj ask.maaya to stay with them in Kapadia house

Ab anupama ko bhi Samaan fekna chahiye use bhi apna frustration show karna chahiye ki aapne kaise yeh kaha ki maaya ab hamare sath zindagi bhar yahan rahegi

And fact is that anuj bhi legal route nahi apnana chahta tha

If anuj really wanted to go with legal route then he would have not tell maaya to stay with them in Kapadia

anuj to choti ko apne saath rakhna chahta tha any how and for that he very easily say to maaya ki tum yahan hamare saath reh sakti ho ? Tumne koi khuch nahi kahega

Just because anuj can't live with without choti to anuj ka yeh kehna ki maaya tum hamare saath reh sakti ho yeh theek tha kya

I am really surprised every body questioning anupama sending anu but no one question anuj when he ask maaya to stay with forever in Kapadia house just because he cant live without choti ?

Yeh kya mental harrasnen nahi hai anuj ka anupama ki taraf ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

U r telling anupama shah house mein naukraani bani rehti tell me anupama after new year Kitni baar shah house gayi

Hardly 3 times when 3 toshu was sick

Ahd yes this is not frustration this is certainly ego of anuj

I called it ego and yes I am calling it ego because out of ego he refuses to accept the truth and want to keep choti anu any how

Anupama can also throw thing anupama can also say to anu j Mera bhi dam ghut ta hai when anuj ask.maaya to stay with them in Kapadia house

Ab anupama ko bhi Samaan fekna chahiye use bhi apna frustration show karna chahiye ki aapne kaise yeh kaha ki maaya ab hamare sath zindagi bhar yahan rahegi

And fact is that anuj bhi legal route nahi apnana chahta tha

If anuj really wanted to go with legal route then he would have not tell maaya to stay with them in Kapadia

anuj to choti ko apne saath rakhna chahta tha any how and for that he very easily say to maaya ki tum yahan hamare saath reh sakti ho ? Tumne koi khuch nahi kahega

Just because anuj can't live with without choti to anuj ka yeh kehna ki maaya tum hamare saath reh sakti ho yeh theek tha kya

I am really surprised every body questioning anupama sending anu but no one question anuj when he ask maaya to stay with forever in Kapadia house just because he cant live without choti ?

Yeh kya mental harrasnen nahi hai anuj ka anupama ki taraf ?

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Wait so Anupama can hug her ex, meet him daily, visit his house and dance with him, but Anuj can’t ask a woman to stay at his house just so he can stay with his daughter? Jaise Vanraj uske Bachon ka pita hai, waise hi Maaya uski Beti ki Maa hai.

Just FYI, the rules are different for spicebox than everyone else in the world. Because she ijj the greatest mother in the history of the universe

And the cases are different. Maaya lusting after Anuj is immoral and wrong and she cannot be Acchi Maa but Mishter Shah can be Acche Pita & Saaf Dil Nek Insaan even after doing EMA and now wanting to get unpaid maid back in his life though she is supposed to be married. Do you want to know why?

Because masala dani has herself given a clean chit to her Master Mishter Shah and his rights as Acche Pita which include summoning her at any time, breaking into her house to threaten the namesake husband and shouting at her, cannot be debarred at any time whatever he may do. Samjhe, ya aur samjhaun 😉

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

If Anuj forced himself on MAA the same way as she did today, then he would have been crucified for physical violence against women. Yes, the first five minutes were very triggering. I was feeling suffocated.

Its high time they start giving trigger warnings if they are going to be crude & insensitive towards serious issues

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And tell me where anupama hug vanraj and dance with vanraj

Anupama may be weak in making decision she might be emotional fool but some accusation on anupama is absolutely wrong

Anupama ka shah house mein jaane ka bahut galat arth lagaya jaata hai

Agar anupama ko vanraj mein itna interest then she could have meet vanraj secret anywhere be it garden resort or some hotel .why only in shah house she will come to hug and dance with vanraj b

Looks like the orignal post was edited to include this.

I tend to trace to the root cause of the problem. In my opinion ( & many others here, I think) it is completely absurd to visit ex-husband's house, even if it is for few hours, for her children etc. Reason for visiting is moot. She is divorced, she was abused by her ex-husband, ex-MIL. If her children need her, proper arrangements should be made without having to set foot in the house where her ex-husband lives. Period. Nothing more, nothing less. That is not the case with her, she is seen to go there and take over the kitchen altogether, dance and sing (for her son) - is not normal by any means. In the past, she has lived under the same roof as her ex-husband & his family is wrong, no matter how I see it.

Surabhi, I respect your opinions. You find Anuj is wrong. I/we find Anupama wrong. On some days, I/we find both wrong. It is all a matter of perspective. That is perfectly fine.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

Looks like the orignal post was edited to include this.

I tend to trace to the root cause of the problem. In my opinion ( & many others here, I think) it is completely absurd to visit ex-husband's house, even if it is for few hours, for her children etc. Reason for visiting is moot. She is divorced, she was abused by her ex-husband, ex-MIL. If her children need her, proper arrangements should be made without having to set foot in the house where her ex-husband lives. Period. Nothing more, nothing less. That is not the case with her, she is seen to go there and take over the kitchen altogether, dance and sing (for her son) - is not normal by any means. In the past, she has lived under the same roof as her ex-husband & his family is wrong, no matter how I see it.

Surabhi, I respect your opinions. You find Anuj is wrong. I/we find Anupama wrong. On some days, I/we find both wrong. It is all a matter of perspective. That is perfectly fine.

I have wanted to say this for the longest time... Everyone has a unique mindset & a lifetime of unique experiences. Its natural to have different perspectives over fictional charachters or a story. This can be a platform for expressing your thoughts.. Convincing others of a particular POV is not a requisite.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Wait so Anupama can hug her ex, meet him daily, visit his house and dance with him, but Anuj can’t ask a woman to stay at his house just so he can stay with his daughter? Jaise Vanraj uske Bachon ka pita hai, waise hi Maaya uski Beti ki Maa hai.

Well Anu is the one who first invited her to stay and put forward that 15 day challenge with her overconfidence in her nonexistent mama.

Ab yeh clowns Dhiraj and Devika dono ka patch up karwayenge... But seriously...Anupama deserves to be ignored by Anuj! Kuch bhi thhopti hai apne puppy par! Puppet bana rakha hai pati ko... Matlab he has to seek her permission even for expressing grief! Hadh ho gayi aaj to!