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Originally posted by: FieryLioness

Yeah I saw the new promo ... nd honestly I hv different take on it. I mean not that I am taking it ok coz high time haya needs to be shown her place. Murtasim is giving her free way a lot. Nd I can bet you haya will be aware of meerab coming there, this will be all her plan. As for promo I am kinda ok with it for two reasons. 1st meerab revealing contract details to Rohail nd 2nd I feel this is how meerab will realize she has started to accept his place in her life. So far we are seeing only murtasim making efforts. Nd girl use him as it pleases her . Half of show is done with murtasim showing love nd care to her and she not accepting the relationship. How far they'll stretch it? Story needs to move forward now.

So I am not that much affected with promo like I am seeing ppl going all crazy over it😆

couldn’t they show haya going to village another way!!! Lol that was silly

Yes, after having some time away from epi 24 (cuz no way in heck am I rewatching that episode on my nightly treadmill session), I’m coming to terms with the fact that we need an “effective” way to bring Meerab closer to her husband. And, ugh, unfortunately they have chosen this way, but maybe it was the only effective way given the way they had set the characters up from the beginning. (Also, maybe it won’t be as bad as we think…like others have said, Murtasim always comes through in the end. )

Meerab really is a lost soul right now. She is just “reactioning” her way through the days and is basically going through the motions. In this reactionary state, I guess they need to really give her a big reaction causing event to get at least one firm feeling out of her: love. Remember that love is not just love, it’s often also a sense of belonging. (Right now her feelings are all over the place, and understandably so, given all the mistrust and loss she’s experienced.) And maybe seeing Murtasim with Haya, in that suggestive position, amidst the more private gao environment, really is what it takes to get her to react and confess her feelings. To herself first, and then to to Murtasim. I mean, think about it. The way they have written the story, even him almost dying for her didn’t have that effect on her. LOL….it will take Haya the snake to do it.

And also from one standpoint, maybe it had to be this way, again because of how they initially set this all up. Meerab, from the get go, has been giving Haya LOTS of hope herself. She herself has been telling Haya that she and Murtasim will be separated, she will be happy and thank Haya if she separates them, and that Haya should be ready. From that type of a setup, then Haya is just doing what Meerab is letting her do. It always bugged me when Meerab used to say stuff like that to Haya, and I guess NOW she will be forced to reckon with this by taking a firm stand. And that will require her to come to terms with her own feelings.

Meerab will have to begin her recovery in life by regaining some stable, durable feeling as a start. In this case, it will be love for her husband. Love = belonging, an anchor in her life. Law will come, I’m pretty certain about it. But it’s also unrealistic to think that someone so suddenly and emotionally messed up is thinking about career right this minute. Once she regains some stability in her life, she will be more able to get back to her old self and her old dreams. Murtasim, I feel, will ultimately do anything for her.

Just some thoughts. (Sorry for some reason my iPad is causing some weird spacing issues.)

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

. Now you say that it makes sense. Otherwise meerab would never accept her love! Especially knowing she is filled with ego and very argumentative!! This was needed but.

but

couldn’t they show haya going to village another way!!! Lol that was silly

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Yes, after having some time away from epi 24 (cuz no way in heck am I rewatching that episode on my nightly treadmill session), I’m coming to terms with the fact that we need an “effective” way to bring Meerab closer to her husband. And, ugh, unfortunately they have chosen this way, but maybe it was the only effective way given the way they had set the characters up from the beginning. (Also, maybe it won’t be as bad as we think…like others have said, Murtasim always comes through in the end. )

Meerab really is a lost soul right now. She is just “reactioning” her way through the days and is basically going through the motions. In this reactionary state, I guess they need to really give her a big reaction causing event to get at least one firm feeling out of her: love. Remember that love is not just love, it’s often also a sense of belonging. (Right now her feelings are all over the place, and understandably so, given all the mistrust and loss she’s experienced.) And maybe seeing Murtasim with Haya, in that suggestive position, amidst the more private gao environment, really is what it takes to get her to react and confess her feelings. To herself first, and then to to Murtasim. I mean, think about it. The way they have written the story, even him almost dying for her didn’t have that effect on her. LOL….it will take Haya the snake to do it.

And also from one standpoint, maybe it had to be this way, again because of how they initially set this all up. Meerab, from the get go, has been giving Haya LOTS of hope herself. She herself has been telling Haya that she and Murtasim will be separated, she will be happy and thank Haya if she separates them, and that Haya should be ready. From that type of a setup, then Haya is just doing what Meerab is letting her do. It always bugged me when Meerab used to say stuff like that to Haya, and I guess NOW she will be forced to reckon with this by taking a firm stand. And that will require her to come to terms with her own feelings.

Meerab will have to begin her recovery in life by regaining some stable, durable feeling as a start. In this case, it will be love for her husband. Love = belonging, an anchor in her life. Law will come, I’m pretty certain about it. But it’s also unrealistic to think that someone so suddenly and emotionally messed up is thinking about career right this minute. Once she regains some stability in her life, she will be more able to get back to her old self and her old dreams. Murtasim, I feel, will ultimately do anything for her.

Just some thoughts. (Sorry for some reason my iPad is causing some weird spacing issues.)

my oh are correct. Much as we r complaining, do you really think if a new character comes in and try to make Meerab jealousy would have this type of affect as with haya??

No! I have read few very good story with this type of set out. Trust me you hate the other love interest from bottom of your heart as a viewer.

It is effect because:

1. Haya is murtasam cousine.
2. murtasam has a soft Connor for her.

3. Murtasam has shared his childhood with haya more than meerab.
4. haya is a orphan, therefore her characteristic has element of sympathy which we as a view hate. Because we want meerab only.

5. Haya is in love and vocal about it and meerab can do shit all because murtasam has a soft Conor for his cousine.

6. Views hates the idea that haya is his responsibility therefore he can’t run way from it and at the same time meerab is love of his life.
7. if you sacrifice who will you sacrifice??

So we as a view we know this and that’s why our hatred for haya is this strong. If it was some random girl trust me it wouldn’t have been this popular.

Hopefully I explained this well lol

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

. Now you say that it makes sense. Otherwise meerab would never accept her love! Especially knowing she is filled with ego and very argumentative!! This was needed but.

but

couldn’t they show haya going to village another way!!! Lol that was silly

That was actually silly and I am sure they are not going to stop there. We'll see haya creating more misunderstandings nd for sure they'll show murtasim dumb to realize it

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Yes, after having some time away from epi 24 (cuz no way in heck am I rewatching that episode on my nightly treadmill session), I’m coming to terms with the fact that we need an “effective” way to bring Meerab closer to her husband. And, ugh, unfortunately they have chosen this way, but maybe it was the only effective way given the way they had set the characters up from the beginning. (Also, maybe it won’t be as bad as we think…like others have said, Murtasim always comes through in the end. )

Meerab really is a lost soul right now. She is just “reactioning” her way through the days and is basically going through the motions. In this reactionary state, I guess they need to really give her a big reaction causing event to get at least one firm feeling out of her: love. Remember that love is not just love, it’s often also a sense of belonging. (Right now her feelings are all over the place, and understandably so, given all the mistrust and loss she’s experienced.) And maybe seeing Murtasim with Haya, in that suggestive position, amidst the more private gao environment, really is what it takes to get her to react and confess her feelings. To herself first, and then to to Murtasim. I mean, think about it. The way they have written the story, even him almost dying for her didn’t have that effect on her. LOL….it will take Haya the snake to do it.

And also from one standpoint, maybe it had to be this way, again because of how they initially set this all up. Meerab, from the get go, has been giving Haya LOTS of hope herself. She herself has been telling Haya that she and Murtasim will be separated, she will be happy and thank Haya if she separates them, and that Haya should be ready. From that type of a setup, then Haya is just doing what Meerab is letting her do. It always bugged me when Meerab used to say stuff like that to Haya, and I guess NOW she will be forced to reckon with this by taking a firm stand. And that will require her to come to terms with her own feelings.

Meerab will have to begin her recovery in life by regaining some stable, durable feeling as a start. In this case, it will be love for her husband. Love = belonging, an anchor in her life. Law will come, I’m pretty certain about it. But it’s also unrealistic to think that someone so suddenly and emotionally messed up is thinking about career right this minute. Once she regains some stability in her life, she will be more able to get back to her old self and her old dreams. Murtasim, I feel, will ultimately do anything for her.

Just some thoughts. (Sorry for some reason my iPad is causing some weird spacing issues.)

Bold :- see this is what needs to be shown. We need meerab to think about her own words nd actions. We badly need her POV about meerasim relationship. Coz we can't blame haya alone. Meerab always told her she is not here to stay forever. Nd meerab's this intention/thought is not only limited to haya. Even in last episode she told Rohail " ab in Sab ka fayda nahi, murtasim Mujhe nahi chhodega"( something like this)

So the thing is she still feels she is caged with murtasim nd doesn't hv way to escape.

This is where I feel she needs that jolt to realize her feelings nd come to terms that murtasim has started to affect her. This will only happen when she'll hv the fear that murtasim is going away from her, I doubt other than that anything going to help her.

In all this I also want murtasim to realize he is wrong in giving haya so much free way around him. I hope he realize it after next episode incident...

Yeh wala thread kabhi khatam hoga bhi? 🥲

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Yeh wala thread kabhi khatam hoga bhi? 🥲

There are 2 tere bin threads.. one is for all kind of chit chat nd this one is for strictly episode discussion.

I guess it's more convenient for all those who are not able to keep up with the speed of other thread😳

Originally posted by: jenshad

it is like a teaser for another drama

Why Maa begum sent Haya with Murtu.

I saw a theory saying that Maa begum was so tensed about his son's high temper and security.Moreover constant refusal to take others with him made her helpless and suddenly Haya came to the scene and unknowingly helped Maa begum to take a decision.Although She knew that Haya uski bete per lattu hain but she also knew that only Haya knows well what he needs( talking about food and other stuffs).Its kinda true.. Meerub could easily take that over but the EGO played its part here.That is why Maa begum agreed even after she decided to marry her off or sent her to her dadi previously.And Murtu being Murtu couldn’t refuse Haya in her presence 😡 Just after they left Maa begum went to scold Meerub over all these careless behavior about his son which again justify her thinking behind sending Haya.Maa begum is also giving Meerub Time to think..and love her son back which is very good.

Murstasim's character has made a complete 180-degree turn. When he wasn't married, he never spoke to Haya with basic decency. He is suddenly more concerned with removing kachra from her eyes, and the next step is to clean the booger from her nose.