Borderline Abuse or Is It Me Being Paranoid?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Hello my forumvaasis...

I am not able to rant as much as I want to in the forum anymore because 1. Life sucks 2. College sucks blood harder.


BUT... In my opinion this is abuse. Having to live in a storeroom when she literally lives in a mansion and not being allowed to have food? FOOD?

Should I be appreciative and grateful that Angad allowed water for her? Because head housekeeper looked so happy and impressed???? And I was like, whatcha smiling at lady?


What are the most important needs for a person to be alive?

1. Oxygen (Thank God it's not rationed but store room was so dusty it looked like someone was drilling there)

2. Water (Angad Mahaanji allowed that)

3. Food (Angad Maharaj decided she doesn't deserve that)

4. Shelter and Clothing (Clothing she brought with her - who dropped off the luggage and bag? Shelter, well, sign!)


And what was all that Manveer was spewing today? What did Sahiba do? Jeez!


You know, back when @Ayu_12 used to defend Sahiba and say everyone only talking about what she did wrong, I had said that it's because she is the main lead. But why is this maa-beta after Sahiba? Isn't Seerat the main lead in Angad's life? Shouldn't he be mad at her?

Displacement of anger is really messed up but understandable, but if it shifts to treating people, especially innocent people, subhumanly then that's not tolerable!!


Can we just call the police? I want Manveer and Angad to enjoy the nice air of police khaana for two days. Please.


And where did Daarju disappear off to?


Also, guests permanent members ban toh nahi rahe na? So why should she stay in the storeroom?


Stupid people and stupid logic really getting on my nerve. Just waiting for 50 episodes to whiz by so that I can enjoy lattu Angu running after his beewi.

Someone give me zabr till then!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShivaShumbo

Hello my forumvaasis...

I am not able to rant as much as I want to in the forum anymore because 1. Life sucks 2. College sucks blood harder.


BUT... In my opinion this is abuse. Having to live in a storeroom when she literally lives in a mansion and not being allowed to have food? FOOD?

Should I be appreciative and grateful that Angad allowed water for her? Because head housekeeper looked so happy and impressed???? And I was like, whatcha smiling at lady?


What are the most important needs for a person to be alive?

1. Oxygen (Thank God it's not rationed but store room was so dusty it looked like someone was drilling there)

2. Water (Angad Mahaanji allowed that)

3. Food (Angad Maharaj decided she doesn't deserve that)

4. Shelter and Clothing (Clothing she brought with her - who dropped off the luggage and bag? Shelter, well, sign!)


And what was all that Manveer was spewing today? What did Sahiba do? Jeez!


You know, back when @Ayu_12 used to defend Sahiba and say everyone only talking about what she did wrong, I had said that it's because she is the main lead. But why is this maa-beta after Sahiba? Isn't Seerat the main lead in Angad's life? Shouldn't he be mad at her?

Displacement of anger is really messed up but understandable, but if it shifts to treating people, especially innocent people, subhumanly then that's not tolerable!!


Can we just call the police? I want Manveer and Angad to enjoy the nice air of police khaana for two days. Please.


And where did Daarju disappear off to?


Also, guests permanent members ban toh nahi rahe na? So why should she stay in the storeroom?


Stupid people and stupid logic really getting on my nerve. Just waiting for 50 episodes to whiz by so that I can enjoy lattu Angu running after his beewi.

Someone give me zabr till then!

Maa beta actually wanted an assistant, but now they have got something different, they are using their insult to revenge by torturing her, but she didn't give him any attention ... Sahiba has nothing to do in later story they both are going to regret ...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I can understand the entire family not liking or wanting to accept Sahiba at the moment that she is the daughter of the woman who conned them and put them in a humiliating situation in front of media. I can understand that Angad never liked Sahiba and he was forced into marriage so don’t want her to share his room. Ok fine. But I lost it when he denied her food. Even people who are at prison is provided by with food. As veer said it’s basic humanity. Whatever be the situation he is legally married to Sahiba & if something happens to her he will answerable. And his crying over Seerat so not done. That women lied to him ditched him at alter made a joke of him in front of media by running away. Yet he is crying remembering the romantic moments spend with her? Coming to Manbir les said much better. She preaches about being classy but she doesn’t behave like a classy woman. She is technically advising her son to abuse his wife which is a crime.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Az07

I can understand the entire family not liking or wanting to accept Sahiba at the moment that she is the daughter of the woman who conned them and put them in a humiliating situation in front of media. I can understand that Angad never liked Sahiba and he was forced into marriage so don’t want her to share his room. Ok fine. But I lost it when he denied her food. Even people who are at prison is provided by with food. As veer said it’s basic humanity. Whatever be the situation he is legally married to Sahiba & if something happens to her he will answerable. And his crying over Seerat so not done. That women lied to him ditched him at alter made a joke of him in front of media by running away. Yet he is crying remembering the romantic moments spend with her? Coming to Manbir les said much better. She preaches about being classy but she doesn’t behave like a classy woman. She is technically advising her son to abuse his wife which is a crime.

Yes, he should actually be remembering all the lies she told him and how Sahiba always called her di and Seerat denied knowing her and even her mom denied; even when he asked her point blank at maasi’s house. A little bit of thinking will make things clear. He can still be angry but not do these things like deny food.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShivaShumbo

Hello my forumvaasis...

I am not able to rant as much as I want to in the forum anymore because 1. Life sucks 2. College sucks blood harder.


BUT... In my opinion this is abuse. Having to live in a storeroom when she literally lives in a mansion and not being allowed to have food? FOOD?

Should I be appreciative and grateful that Angad allowed water for her? Because head housekeeper looked so happy and impressed???? And I was like, whatcha smiling at lady?


What are the most important needs for a person to be alive?

1. Oxygen (Thank God it's not rationed but store room was so dusty it looked like someone was drilling there)

2. Water (Angad Mahaanji allowed that)

3. Food (Angad Maharaj decided she doesn't deserve that)

4. Shelter and Clothing (Clothing she brought with her - who dropped off the luggage and bag? Shelter, well, sign!)


And what was all that Manveer was spewing today? What did Sahiba do? Jeez!


You know, back when @Ayu_12 used to defend Sahiba and say everyone only talking about what she did wrong, I had said that it's because she is the main lead. But why is this maa-beta after Sahiba? Isn't Seerat the main lead in Angad's life? Shouldn't he be mad at her?

Displacement of anger is really messed up but understandable, but if it shifts to treating people, especially innocent people, subhumanly then that's not tolerable!!


Can we just call the police? I want Manveer and Angad to enjoy the nice air of police khaana for two days. Please.


And where did Daarju disappear off to?


Also, guests permanent members ban toh nahi rahe na? So why should she stay in the storeroom?


Stupid people and stupid logic really getting on my nerve. Just waiting for 50 episodes to whiz by so that I can enjoy lattu Angu running after his beewi.

Someone give me zabr till then!


I feel she will not want to move into guest room even when they leave cos she wants to be far away from Angad and will be her private space.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Dude... I am laughing so hard and at the same time, resonating with you big time too!


Also, the interaction happening between the family members kinda felt shallow! I mean, I know they are merely playing their characters, but I feel there's so much scope for them to look real!


Seerat, Gary and his mother, seem more like (forced) extras on standby to look/act/talk like jokers when makers do not have something better to show! Bottomline, I just can't stand them and that is not because they are playing their part so well but because they just don't know what the f***k they are doing.


PS. By the way, life post college is more like Dracarys losing his fire and Daenerys losing her mind because her baby is ill! 🙅🏻‍♀️ I mean, I can't find better words to describe... 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShivaShumbo

Hello my forumvaasis...

I am not able to rant as much as I want to in the forum anymore because 1. Life sucks 2. College sucks blood harder.


BUT... In my opinion this is abuse. Having to live in a storeroom when she literally lives in a mansion and not being allowed to have food? FOOD?

Should I be appreciative and grateful that Angad allowed water for her? Because head housekeeper looked so happy and impressed???? And I was like, whatcha smiling at lady?


What are the most important needs for a person to be alive?

1. Oxygen (Thank God it's not rationed but store room was so dusty it looked like someone was drilling there)

2. Water (Angad Mahaanji allowed that)

3. Food (Angad Maharaj decided she doesn't deserve that)

4. Shelter and Clothing (Clothing she brought with her - who dropped off the luggage and bag? Shelter, well, sign!)


And what was all that Manveer was spewing today? What did Sahiba do? Jeez!


You know, back when @Ayu_12 used to defend Sahiba and say everyone only talking about what she did wrong, I had said that it's because she is the main lead. But why is this maa-beta after Sahiba? Isn't Seerat the main lead in Angad's life? Shouldn't he be mad at her?

Displacement of anger is really messed up but understandable, but if it shifts to treating people, especially innocent people, subhumanly then that's not tolerable!!


Can we just call the police? I want Manveer and Angad to enjoy the nice air of police khaana for two days. Please.


And where did Daarju disappear off to?


Also, guests permanent members ban toh nahi rahe na? So why should she stay in the storeroom?


Stupid people and stupid logic really getting on my nerve. Just waiting for 50 episodes to whiz by so that I can enjoy lattu Angu running after his beewi.

Someone give me zabr till then!


She il not moveback to guest or servant room...she il prefer to stay n store room...post gary seerat wedding angad il force sahiba to move back to his room but sahiba refuses to do so angad store room ka door remove karke brick wall bana dega so sahiba il hv no option but to move back to angad room..but with in two days angad il find out abt seerat fake pregnancy. .he finds the Report in sahiba suitcase..kyu ki sahiba ko usi din pata chalega ki seerat was lying. Iske pehle wo angad ko bata pati anga ko khud report miljata haj aur he il blame sahiba and seerat plotting. ..seerat puts the blame on sahiba ...sahiba expose gary jasleen seerat and phir angad and uski mom ki band bajati hai ki ghar mai kuch bi ho blame sahiba pe hi jati hai...and finally she breaks ties with angad and brar mansion ..phir darji ki blessing leke apna mayka chali jati hai..phir angad bohot mehnat karke usko manake leke aata hai vapas ..tab seerat refuses to stay in his room saying se still remembers everything so she il prefer to stay in store room...tab se banda khud store room mai shift ho jata hai ....in bengali version they had cot but yaha tho bed bi nahi .don't no kaisa angad store room mai adjust karega. Vaha tho tiddi cot bed hote bhi bohot struggle kiya sone mai yaha tho kuch bi nahi . vaha riddhi ki kamar akad gayi thi ...yaha kya hoga dekte hai...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Slightly disagree on the storeroom bit. The way I see it, Sahiba herself chose that place to make her haven there. If she says in storeroom,

1. No one can taunt her she is fraud who did this for luxury (if they still do so, that's just plain illogical🤪)

2. It's away from everyone else's room, so she doesn't need to see ATM and Manveer's face for no reason.


But yeah if you are talking about Brars' actions, then yes, I agree, its pathetic that such rich people who supposedly have big hearts and are not miserly people, they can't spare a room for their DIL, however might be their relation with her.


The food bit, I strongly agree, its entering abuse territory and its sad that Sahiba had to faint for Angad to understand he is wrong (if he realises that is). Here more than Angad its Daarji's responsibility, if Angad is doing wrong then its Daarji's responsibility to make Angad understand and infact overide his wish and give food to Sahiba, cuz despite the fact that his intentions were good, the man himself admitted he manipulated Angad into this wedding.


Manveer to seriously she is beyond me! Manveer and Angad are classic examples of paisa kama lene se koi bada aadmi ni ban jaata...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Hey Shiva welcome back...boss enjoy the college life..Grass is always greener on other side i tell ya...i now regret lot of things i 'didnt' do in college


I feel Angad is so confused...he has been drilled with 'duty to' mom and daarji because 'supposedly' his dad didnt do right by them both.He will do anything for them and they are so misusing his trust in them..yaha to isake ghar walo ko isaki kadar nahi bahar walonse kya hi expect karoge


I lay all blame on Manbeer's feet. she claimed today tu mera beta hai mere jaisa hai so he been moulded shallow right from childhood


His anger is so misplaced but still understandable but by changing the wedding track where he knew the reality before marriage is making his behavior seem villanish. the makers are so confused that they change something from OG but then keep some stuff for drama which actually makes it more cringe worthy


anyways i hope angad doesnt force feed her..i cant wait to see angad melting btw..i like VJ in romantic mood :P his eyes ☺️

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Did you see Jasleen's reaction when Sahiba said she is going to police station? 😆 She thought Domestic Violence ka case banne wala hai abhi 😆 And with everything that's going on, that's first thing that would come to anyone's mind.

I'm not that miffed about the storeroom (though she did deserve a guestroom at least) as I feel Sahiba would be more suffocated had she got to stay with her hubby dearest, she is better off in her own space.... but this starving thing is really messed up dude. How can any human being deliberately plan to keep another starving?🤢 That's beyond cruel. That's inhuman. Had they showed that nobody cared to offer her any food or forgot about it, that would still have been somewhat bearable but someone did bring food to her and the "Hero" of the show just snatched it away in front of her and sent it back? That's so sick to the power infinity 🤢

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