Abhimanyu Prays for Abhir: Epi Air Date Mar 4 2023 - Page 17

So Smurf 🦥 didn't tell his Mama bear that his ex wife is staying in Udaipur for few more days .🤪

Mama bear was happy yesterday after hearing about Akshu going..Not any more 😆

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

@ bold but didn’t they have a discussion while agreeing to marry that things won’t change between them,they are doing it only for ruhi I think Arohi said that the equation won’t change, so how can she ask for it after mg, but today they completely changed the dialogues

I agree about Ruhi and MM from the beginning wants her son to move on in the real sense but she can’t force him to be intimate

She's always been over existent in his personal space. Many arranged marriages in India are because it's a necessity for the family and society. People have children as a responsibility. Abhimanyu and Aarohi's marriage is a forced marriage of convenience with a lot of emotional manipulation and he's guilt tripped to accept it. He can ofcourse say no, but the trouble began the moment he said yes; both his mom and Aarohi are master manipulators unlike Nav!

Didn't this same audience think she won't be able to convince him for the wedding after that stand up comedy? Didn't that change overnight. Didn't his no change to a yes overnight with one tantrum from Roohi? All these concepts of marriage of convenience sound great on paper or in a story...in reality why would a person keep suffering internally without moving on beyond a point? Aarohi was never much in love with Neil, she was using him till 5 days before his death; I'm not saying she won't have baggage or substantiating her emotions or grief...but when the love was a convenient play you know how it can go ahead easily.

Originally posted by: Tapdance

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There is no love story left and the child uniting the parents is not the redemption the audience deserves.

This is not love, keeping a woman in the mind & being obsessed with her in your head but giving zero respect to her in your life and not even being apologetic about it. Abusing her emotionally and mentally, divorcing her and then allowing everyone (including her family) to think she ditched you cause she says she got remarried. Having an ex wife who miscarried your children, being one of the best surgeons in town and not even checking on her once. Not trying to bridge the gap between the very family she sacrificed everything for when you know you are the reason.

If they show a custody battle that'll be worser than tha White day....undoing it will be skimming through a lot of cringe for plot convenience.

Yes Abhira are a crackling pair but so much disrespect to the pair that made Gen3 what it is, is extremely disappointing.

Yes, Akshara is not faultless but the relationship if ever restarts Abhimanyu has to take 10 steps for Akshu to even think about taking 1. He dumped her the worst way any woman can be humiliated in life. And it has been 3 months, there's not a single sign of remorse for any of it. Abhir's truth should be the climax not the beginning of the process of redemption.

True. he made the situation worse, even though he take 10 steps she is not in a condition to take 1.

Without cross-checking, these people are accusing her, and others are taking advantage of it. and her own family doesn't use their brains to dig into the truth, instead, they are angry with her.

Even if the marriage is canceled, how come she will accept him if he doesn't realize or accept his mistakes? Even though his mom is accusing her openly that she ran away and settle down, he is not opening his mouth. instead looking at her with a sad face.

After this many meetings and that many clues he couldn't recognize his own son, after the truth how he will face him and tell him that he is his dad? what he will tell him why he threw them on the streets?

In Kaira's second separation, when Karthik doubts her she left the house. when she come back when all accuses she doesn't say anything, but he accepts his mistake in front of all.

If they drag this too long, even if the truth comes out or he accepts his mistake there will be no effect.

Meher wats the significance of arohis reflection in mirror on that photoframe, any hidden truth??

Did you guys see this artical

https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-akshara-runs-to-save-abhimanyu-from-a-tragedy-plans-to-move-on-with-abhin_194708?ri=6&rv=5755

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

Abhimanyu fas gya chakravyuh mai

Ab bahar kaise niklega use bahar nikalna toh aata hi nhi

He needed his dad his Arjun to come out from this chakravyuh but wo toh pass mai hai hi nhi

So basically manjari is jayadrath who's stopping everyone to help him coming out from the chakravyuha

And who can save him is far away as he's only one who can see through manjari's manipulation

Interesting observation....his dad was the only one who got away from her chakravhuh!

Note: Not a supporter or justifier of abuse in any form. Abuse is abuse and wrong: mental, physical or emotional if it forces people to make choices they otherwise won't. Abuse in every form is scary but somehow only physical abuse is glorified in terms of awareness. Mental abuse many times is 10 times worse, the fear and trauma in that person's mind is difficult to understand as it's on the inside not outside more visibly!

Akshara's abuse was more internal, Abhi's abuse is more internal....both their thick families do not understand it much. Manjiri's abuse was external and much more visible and she herself is the biggest abuser on the show.

Ofcouse, he was a horrible man for all the abuse Papa Birla did over the years but she had a lot of money to walk out with, her son and dignity; son was pro her and she never did walk out. She stayed and emotionally damaged herself and her son. Victims of abuse often have such stories where they could not come out of the maze in guilt trips and have hoped for everything to turn around one day. Manjiri never had that turn around so she thinks her son will also never have that turn around. But she fails to understand a basic fact that Akshu loved Abhi unconditionally whereas HB detested Manjiri always. She unnecessarily sees HB in Akshu...plus with the deaths she has brought in all this bad luck omen concepts in her mind which she gradually pushes on everyone around her.

Both Manjiri and HB were toxic for each other but for the first 12 months of this show we only saw one form of abuse....physical and in many places mental which is very in the eye and brings immediate anger in anyone observing.

The silent mental and emotional manipulations have come out glaringly just now as Manjiri literally decides what happens and does not happen between her son and his wife until it is a bride of her choice. She literally decided Akshu could not keep her things on Abhi's table but is allowing Arohi to redesign his entire room before marriage. HB is a very pivotal character in this track, unfortunately the actor is unavailable. He's the only one who sees through the emotional manipulations by this woman, he was a horrible husband yes but now the story shows the aspects little aspects of why....not that his abuse and patriarchy is justified or should even be trued to be justified.

The thing is, it is very difficult to identify and understand mental or emotional abuse if it comes from a person you love and trust blindly. Atleast in Mahabharat, the Kauravas were the other side built that chakravuh....here it's on the inside...the innermost circle of this man that's building it. He doesn't even realize it's a maze, he's seeping deeper and deeper into it....one day he might combust with the emptiness that is his life in reality ...until ofcourse the key to unravel the maze comes along. They are showing that Abhir is the key is my understanding.

Abhimanyu coming out of that circle of abuse if they ever show will also automatically be one of his redemptions but I've lost hopes from anything being Closed properly on this show. There is a lot of potential but they waste every single one of them with cringe writing, incomplete plot lines and unnecessary grossing over disturbing issues they can't address properly.

Abhimanyu -Maa aishe godhe pe kyu savar hai.. Abhimanyu kya uss gaadhe par savar hona chahiye tha..😆

Kya tum apne Maa ko nahi jaanate..?🤪

Originally posted by: Siri918

Did you guys see this artical

https://www.indiaforums.com/article/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai-akshara-runs-to-save-abhimanyu-from-a-tragedy-plans-to-move-on-with-abhin_194708?ri=6&rv=5755

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

Leaving abhi akshu ..anyways they ll reunite..the main issue is Roohi..keeping aside she s arohi kid..a fatherless kid ...fine re all accept..kuch tho logic honaa hain aur nayee ? In today genre how many single parent give acha parvarish ...we r not living in 30s or 40s...without father how will I do blue blue blah..yes parenting s important..if at all one of partner dies or seperates or jho bhi...single parents rise up more stronger...Arohi is bad example here set....

Only worrying part is abhimanyu have given roohi a father shade not father...abhir is actual his son..when things come to light no human s perfect.. abhimanyu cannot see roohi like how he see abhir..blood s definitely thicker ...Coming to intimacy or jho bhi.. abhimanyu can't give that sort .... eventhough arohi has that desire ..he marry not marry fundamental part is abhimanyu is not right choice ..

Mahima pointed out that day ...

Come what may a husband has to behave as husband..a day ll come for sure abhimanyu ll prioritise his wife , his son that day manjari ll know how much creepy she was.

My heart goes to abhir as how can that poor soup will transform the position of papa from one admi to another

The whole single mother dialogue sounded extremely entitled TBH...though I hate to use such words. If one wants to be a victim, they'll be one even if life offers 100 chances. Then there are another set of people who know how the victim card can be worked in favour of what they want in life. They won't have the guts to go headfast and claim what they want and so they find ways and means to do it by playing the victim card..both Arohi and Manjiri seem of this kind. They are very similar in that way.

Abhi's love for Ruhi is his purpose in life but he doesn't realise that one can't keep living for other's expectations. One has to live in their own head at the end of the day and Abhi is very very uncomfortable in his head space at this point inspite of Ruhi.

The sukoon Abhir gives Abhi is a different take in my head😅 Abhir is a lovechild separated from his birth parents by hate built between his parents via circumstances and actions. But he's the symbol of every deep wish in both Abhira's hearts ...and so unknowingly works as a healer for his parents. He's the happy pill Abhi still craves though he won't say it aloud but does that stop Abhir from being the happy pill he is?

Wish they solve Abhir's paternity issue maturely with calm conversations with love and don't traumatize the kid with custody battles and public humiliation.

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Interesting observation....his dad was the only one who got away from her chakravhuh!

Note: Not a supporter or justifier of abuse in any form. Abuse is abuse and wrong: mental, physical or emotional if it forces people to make choices they otherwise won't. Abuse in every form is scary but somehow only physical abuse is glorified in terms of awareness. Mental abuse many times is 10 times worse, the fear and trauma in that person's mind is difficult to understand as it's on the inside not outside more visibly!

Akshara's abuse was more internal, Abhi's abuse is more internal....both their thick families do not understand it much. Manjiri's abuse was external and much more visible and she herself is the biggest abuser on the show.

Ofcouse, he was a horrible man for all the abuse Papa Birla did over the years but she had a lot of money to walk out with, her son and dignity; son was pro her and she never did walk out. She stayed and emotionally damaged herself and her son. Victims of abuse often have such stories where they could not come out of the maze in guilt trips and have hoped for everything to turn around one day. Manjiri never had that turn around so she thinks her son will also never have that turn around. But she fails to understand a basic fact that Akshu loved Abhi unconditionally whereas HB detested Manjiri always. She unnecessarily sees HB in Akshu...plus with the deaths she has brought in all this bad luck omen concepts in her mind which she gradually pushes on everyone around her.

Both Manjiri and HB were toxic for each other but for the first 12 months of this show we only saw one form of abuse....physical and in many places mental which is very in the eye and brings immediate anger in anyone observing.

The silent mental and emotional manipulations have come out glaringly just now as Manjiri literally decides what happens and does not happen between her son and his wife until it is a bride of her choice. She literally decided Akshu could not keep her things on Abhi's table but is allowing Arohi to redesign his entire room before marriage. HB is a very pivotal character in this track, unfortunately the actor is unavailable. He's the only one who sees through the emotional manipulations by this woman, he was a horrible husband yes but now the story shows the aspects little aspects of why....not that his abuse and patriarchy is justified or should even be trued to be justified.

The thing is, it is very difficult to identify and understand mental or emotional abuse if it comes from a person you love and trust blindly. Atleast in Mahabharat, the Kauravas were the other side built that chakravuh....here it's on the inside...the innermost circle of this man that's building it. He doesn't even realize it's a maze, he's seeping deeper and deeper into it....one day he might combust with the emptiness that is his life in reality ...until ofcourse the key to unravel the maze comes along. They are showing that Abhir is the key is my understanding.

Abhimanyu coming out of that circle of abuse if they ever show will also automatically be one of his redemptions but I've lost hopes from anything being Closed properly on this show. There is a lot of potential but they waste every single one of them with cringe writing, incomplete plot lines and unnecessary grossing over disturbing issues they can't address properly.

Amazing post Aishwarya. Very well explained. Loved the details on abuse both internal and external. 👏👏👏

Chakrayuh built by your own, Abhi's chances of coming out are quite literally 0. Only a miracle could bring him out and that miracle is Abhir mahadev's blessing. Do I have faith in makers to have thought through this deeply?. being my "positive day" I am going to believe that they have.

Thanks for this post and for the tag

P.S Be brave be the light ABROGHI not a chance