GHKPM Social media update thread #45 - Page 49

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Character wise Sai is better and yet she gets a raw deal than “Alphabet”

That's true...She always gets a raw deal

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yaar just writing few strong dialogues would not make a strong character. I have not watched other shows. But AFAIK, Yrkkh is just a franchise, there is no story or character to drive the plot. correct me if I am wrong. They pick up random conflicts to take the stroy forward. Thats what I read.

Whereas Sai is a character on whom story is developed. I feel that way. What makes Sai unique is not only her strong attributes, but also her vulnerabilities. For me, she is a girl who is believable and aspirational. She has strong moral compass, and a kind heart which are idealistic. And also her temperament issues are relatable. Her weakness towards Virat is also very understandable. She gets affected by him, making her very realistic. But she doesnt act upon them. She reigns her emotions, keeping her self respect intact. Moreover, Sai follows what she preaches.

I dont know about other FLs, but Sai is definitely not a doormat. IMO. She is a well written female character who is aspriational as well as relatable due to her flaws :)

By the way akshara is not like sai who preach strong dialogues. She is acting upon her words that's why didn't accept her ex husband back easily. She doesn't melt towards her ex husband just because he said sorry despite him being single.

If sai follows what she preaches, she wouldn't have lost vinu to virat pakhi. She would have dragged pakhi virat to court for their crimes.

If sai too doesn't accept virat back and let him pay for his mistakes. Then I too will agree that she doesn't act upon her feelings and practices what she preaches. I am sorry don't get the line that she gets affected by virat which makes her realistic?. No one expecting her to be robo. Where is her human side when it comes to abuse? A woman forgetting her abuse by her husband and his family is not realism.

My version of love is different from yours. For me respect in relationship is important. If that gets compromised in the name of love then that is not love.

Sai is typical ITV female lead who is mahaan, who pokes her nose in others business, who forgives her abusers easily. Regarding morals, every fl has morals. That's nothing unique.

Sai was unique until she had emon traits not anymore.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I agree thar no show makes FL situation as toxic as ghum.

But I disagree that Sai is WWing crimes or Sai is a doormat. Yes theres a lot that could be better but i think her dilemmas and her soft corner, her limitations have been to a large extent justified by her limited means - financial, psychosocial and emotional support is lacking and also because of her kids being in the picture. She has only shown regret at her decision to trust V and pain, anger.

She took a stand for herself when she walked away and when she didn't return. She took a stand when she filed a court case. She has not forgotten his deeds. She is just being careful with Vinus condition.

Yes it'd been logical and ideal if Sai had persisted on legal action against P and V. But sadly that didn't happen.

And it would be good if they didn't intersperse meaningless nok jhok scenes and Sai is shown cutting off Vs BS consistently instead of playful one moment and stern in the next.

But they have made her unable to do so because she does not want to hurt the sentiments of kids or involve them in anything.. Its really unfortunate but actually it's real. Many women do not report abuse just because of kids involved and they try to shield kids from everything unsavory. Many children grow up to have an amazing image of family members who are actually really cruel and pathetic. Thats what is happening to Savi Vinu.

But i can empathize with Sai as a viewer.

Then I will definitely sympathise for her.

But we all know they gonna show her uniting with virat as eternal lovers.

So I can't bring myself to sympathise with such character who let's herself get abused everytime.

Had sai took stand for herself, virat would have ripped of his uniform, pakhi would have been in jail, whole chavan family crimes would have been exposed to public.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Agree to disagree.

By the way akshara is not like sai who preach strong dialogues. She is acting upon her words that's why didn't accept her ex husband back easily. She doesn't melt towards her ex husband just because he said sorry despite him being single.

If sai follows what she preaches, she wouldn't have lost vinu to virat pakhi. She would have dragged pakhi virat to court for their crimes.

If sai too doesn't accept virat back and let him pay for his mistakes. Then I too will agree that she doesn't act upon her feelings and practices what she preaches. I am sorry don't get the line that she gets affected by virat which makes her realistic?. No one expecting her to be robo. Where is her human side when it comes to abuse? A woman forgetting her abuse by her husband and his family is not realism.

My version of love is different from yours. For me respect in relationship is important. If that gets compromised in the name of love then that is not love.

Sai is typical ITV female lead who is mahaan, who pokes her nose in others business, who forgives her abusers easily. Regarding morals, every fl has morals. That's nothing unique.

Sai was unique until she had emon traits not anymore.

Just like love definition is subjective. Doormat definition is subjective too.

For me the women who tolerate abuse, whitewashes their abusers, accept emotional infidelity r doormats.

One two dialogues about leaving their abusers only to expect their abusers to come back to them is not taking stand for me.

Anyways it's my OPINION. Just like people in the forum talk about pakhi self respect, others have right to talk about sai self respect too. Pakhi has everything from virat except love, sai has only namesake love/sex relationship with virat not respect, companionship. So for me both lack self respect to accept the man who was intimate with other woman infront of them.

If it makes me sai hater,pakhi stan. Then be it. It doesn't matter. Because my old statements in this forum itself is big proof how much I supported sai character until shruti track.

So no need to waste time in giving indirects.

Moreover a single person opinion shouldn't matter too.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

If they show sai uniting with virat as a COMPROMISE for kids sake.

Then I will definitely sympathise for her.

But we all know they gonna show her uniting with virat as eternal lovers.

So I can't bring myself to sympathise with such character who let's herself get abused everytime.

Had sai took stand for herself, virat would have ripped of his uniform, pakhi would have been in jail, whole chavan family crimes would have been exposed to public.

It would've been definitely the case in other circumstances but not in Sai's, I really think more than anything Sai has gratitude towards Chavans and Virat and hence she never took legal actions towards them, whatever they did with her, but she has gratitude that they gave her a home to live when she was mere a teenager with no one to support, they gave her name, provided her education, it's not easy for a self respecting girl like Sai to be an ungrateful person to those who directly or indirectly did help her in building her life, life is not about Kranti and all, it's about practicality and no girl in Sai's place would do that, and Sai wasn't even a meek, she did gave them back in her own way and when she felt that it's against her ideology to live with a criminal, she did leave the house and started from a scratch being pregnant herself and provided her baby everything with utmost sincerity keeping her head high......

And hence I said Akshara and Sai has a different circumstances and both are right in their place........

Originally posted by: ginn

See how she forgive Mohth easily, karshima said sorry to her but mohith he got support form sai more than anyone else in his family still after leap he mentioned her Dr.Sai Joshi and now suddenly vohini. Sai should not easy accept these idiots.

Leave mohit, she easily forgives the people who name called her dead parents.

Not even forgiving, she just forgets everything. Because forgiving is something one does when they receive apology. I can't call this action as selfless, pure soul.

Originally posted by: Shree15

It would've been definitely the case in other circumstances but not in Sai's, I really think more than anything Sai has gratitude towards Chavans and Virat and hence she never took legal actions towards them, whatever they did with her, but she has gratitude that they gave her a home to live when she was mere a teenager with no one to support, they gave her name, provided her education, it's not easy for a self respecting girl like Sai to be an ungrateful person to those who directly or indirectly did help her in building her life, life is not about Kranti and all, it's about practicality and no girl in Sai's place would do that, and Sai wasn't even a meek, she did gave them back in her own way and when she felt that it's against her ideology to live with a criminal, she did leave the house and started from a scratch being pregnant herself and provided her baby everything with utmost sincerity keeping her head high......

And hence I said Akshara and Sai has a different circumstances and both are right in their place........

Nowhere in the show they projected sai forgiving everyone as a compromise. They always showed her forgiving everything because she doesn't feel that certain action as abuse at all.

Isn't she grateful to chavan family when she dragged them to street during devkit track?

Why is this selective gratefulness towards them?

Where was her ideology when she called pakhi mother India in vinu adoption track by forgetting her crimes?

She did leave the house but only with the expectation that virat will come back to her.

Had virat come back to her, she would have easily forgetten the fact that he choosed a criminal over her and her kid.

My first statement was only about akshara. But the whole thing unintentionally converted into akshara vs sai.

well i did said in twitter today will say same thing here i would have expected this 9.30 lead ka bhashan if she will never accept her ex back in her life, she as a lead character had no qualms in naming her child after someone else because he helper her during her pregnancy her child surprisingly is more close to his adopted dad issue wha hai earlier too she had given this 2 page ka bhasan when she herself left ml and things went wrong then. I am a die heart sai fan despite that as a matter of fact i know one thing this show was introduced as virat story but ayesha and sai got more love from audience but makers of this show will never have balls to shift the narrative explicitly so voe narartive kabhe change hoga nhe reason well known to all . As far as strong bhasan like dialogues or strong steps are being considered voe ese show mae nhe hai because that would meant showing PL character wrong aaj tak she did so many kands but she has not been slapped but both sai and virat had been slapped . Mark my words this bhasan on rs show will end like that bangles todo abhiyan by same ph in 10 PM show the clownery they are doing in show with adopted child mother they have proved that what society say about them is right so what was the use of showing that nautanki last week

I don't understand this comparison between Ghum and yrkkh. Both are different shows and the FLs are totally different from each other. Since the third generation started Akshara was always called a weak doormat FL who tolerated her step sister's tortures for years. All of a sudden just because she chose Abhinav over Abhimanyu why suddenly fans are complaining? Sai ne kaunsa Virat ko chuna hai? Since the leap happened Sai has always maintained her self respect and has given it back to Virat when needed. After the leap Sai never wanted Virat nor does she want now. Even if Virat is the only man in her life it has never been easy for him to win Sai's love and trust. Abhi toh it will be even more harder than last time for him to win her heart again. If Sai will choose Virat again after he puts 100s of efforts it definitely won't be at the cost of her self respect.

Every show has different concept. This show has always been about Sai-Virat-Pakhi with Sairat being the lead couple and will remain so at least till the last episode or till a generation leap unlike yrkkh which has always changed its concepts based on new generations.