The biggest unpopular opinion - Page 2

But she won’t be taking care of him cause she needs mahaMaa there to help change Toshu diaper

MahaMaa will come and become their slave again so Kinjal can work and only be a slave after working hours

The problem is not Kinjal staying but the fact that no one else will help. WTF do Samar & Vanraj do all day? Aside from giving sad or angry stares and few dialogue. They are pathetic

Sweety and Adhik live right across …they too can help

Dolly and her husband also

they have a complete f’ing army of ppl but somehow it’s only Anu that can save them all? The brainless bot who is going on about knowing when a woman is eyeing her husband but like a maha dungar had no idea Kavya was snatching her man from under her nose ? The same dumbass that got into TWO debts then went to Rakhi house at midnight grovelling like a sloth begging for money only to have her rich ‘friend’ (Anuj) pay it off.

This is one of the cases where every lightbulb in the package is burnt. Not a single working bulb

When I wrote that line, I didn't mean that Kinjal should bother what Paritosh would think of her or what anyone else would think of her. Why should she even bother what he thinks. My statement was completely separate from Kinjal. What I wrote about Paritosh was only about him. I was thinking from story's point of view and human psyche.

What I wrote about Kinjal was completely irrespective of what Paritosh thinks.

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

It's very clear that you have really good intentions, but in the context of this show, as you already know, the extent to which they degraded his character to someone almost one-dimensional...it is just extremely difficult to feel any sympathy for his character. Like others are pointing out, Kinjal not leaving him during this time is fine, but taking care of him to the extent shown in this show...with the Shah family being the Shah family....it doesn't seem fine at all. Yes, she really should have left ages ago.

Who knows, they might actually make Toshu change for the better just like they flicked their favourite 'chameleon switch' and made Pakhi better for now. But that in itself can give a problematic message that women should keep forgiving and sacrificing over and over in the hopes that one day their partner will realise his mistakes. (Not just women, even the character of Adhik). Or in this case, crimes and criminal behaviour. Because in this show, Kinjal might stay and not leave, like you wish.

They should show many helping hands honestly. He's not her responsibility. More than her, his family should be taking care of him. But they don't do anything

Originally posted by: DJ_3

The only problem with good people is they think bad people also think like them and will treat them fairly. Kinjal can help through her money, but no she is not obligated to stay with Toshu in this time, after he cheated and stole her child's future money.

Kinjal's life should not be enslaved to the whims of Toshu becoming better. She can be in love with him, but does not mean to stay with him.

She should move on and focus on her future.

I think you are right in the context of real life. I have forgiven, done things for others, but in the end, I ended up getting the burn of it all. So, no. It doesn't work in real life. But it might in the show. And my point about Kinjal staying was only because it might feel heavy on her conscience, not because she will sudharo him for herself. That was a different point.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Why she continued to stay at Shahs after Pakhi-Adhik wedding is beyond common sense.

You are right about Kinjal's decision under the currently circumstances.

It is Shahs who need to change which..... Well 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Now that things are messed up and Rakhi ijj beck, Rakhi should insist on (because Kinjal is beyond repair):

1. Taking Pari/Arya to Dave's part-time, weekdays or by some arrangement. not leaving her at Shahs due to fear of negligence.

She can consider visitation under the conditions:

1. Shahs Hiring a maid and a male nurse with immediate effect.

2. Kinjal (and Kavya) HAVE TO WORK to support the household expenses.

For once, realisation to dawn on Vanraj to re-open the cafe with the oh so popular Anupama-special fooshun (fusion) menu.

All these good for nothing people are there only to speak so that people know if they are good or bad (good or bad means whether they support Anupamaa or not😆) nothing else.

P.S. I love all the names this forum gives to Anupamaa 🤣🤣