The biggest unpopular opinion

I know nobody is going to agree with me on this. But I think Kinjal's decision to not leave right now is okay, (if I think from her perspective). I understand where does coming from. For Kinjal, she will feel uneasy in her heart that she left him when he needed her instead of being completely free of his thoughts. Don't hate me for this but if I were in her place, even I might not be able to leave at this moment🫣. Though I would have left much before but Kinjal didn't, God knows why. If she leaves now, when Paritosh becomes alright, he won't remember all the wrongs he did to her, he will only remember that she left when he was sick. He will indulge in Self-Pity and there goes his only chance at redemption. This track is the last hope of this guy getting on track for good. He can also realise how he left Kinjal when she needed him and left her to fulfill his physical desires. The biggest aspect and the biggest vice of Paritosh's character is his good for nothing ego. Now that he can't handle even his most basic urges, this is the only time when his ego can be shattered completely.

What I want is that once Paritosh becomes fine, Kinjal leaves. I want Paritosh to apologise wholeheartedly and try to be a good person. But I want Kinjal to move on and create a happy life for herself and her child.

But I know this show is good for nothing and nothing is going to come out of it. Paritosh will remain the useless piece of garbage he has always been but still...🤣🤣

I don't think that staying and taking care of him in itself is wrong. However, we are well aware that Tamashahs will make her an unpaid nurse and the overall condition is just going to be pathetic.

They are still married and she has the means to arrange for a professional nurse and equipment required which she should. Will they let her though??? It's not a routine fever wherein you can nurse your loved one back to health by yourself. Recovery for certain conditions is complicated and there are professionals trained to help patients.

But as you said nothing like that will ever happen hence all we can do is play around in hypothetical scenarios🤔

(Also, she will never leave him. That was the whole point of Anuraj convo. That Crinjal loves Doshu in the same way as her dear mummy loves acche pita. And she has trained Crinjal well enough to keep enduring a toxic relation)

True, she should have left long ago . when she gave an earful about divorcing him, she should’ve stuck to her decision. I think the reason her char is getting a lot of brickbats now is due to a snowball effect of the number of times she has made stupid decisions to align with Anupama’s stupidity. That is what has landed her into this situation. Like others have stated, if she wasn’t as stupid as the protagonist, the maa she would first hire a care taker and manage the current situation better.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

I know nobody is going to agree with me on this. But I think Kinjal's decision to not leave right now is okay, (if I think from her perspective). I understand where does coming from. For Kinjal, she will feel uneasy in her heart that she left him when he needed her instead of being completely free of his thoughts. Don't hate me for this but if I were in her place, even I might not be able to leave at this moment🫣. Though I would have left much before but Kinjal didn't, God knows why. If she leaves now, when Paritosh becomes alright, he won't remember all the wrongs he did to her, he will only remember that she left when he was sick. He will indulge in Self-Pity and there goes his only chance at redemption. This track is the last hope of this guy getting on track for good. He can also realise how he left Kinjal when she needed him and left her to fulfill his physical desires. The biggest aspect and the biggest vice of Paritosh's character is his good for nothing ego. Now that he can't handle even his most basic urges, this is the only time when his ego can be shattered completely.

What I want is that once Paritosh becomes fine, Kinjal leaves. I want Paritosh to apologise wholeheartedly and try to be a good person. But I want Kinjal to move on and create a happy life for herself and her child.

But I know this show is good for nothing and nothing is going to come out of it. Paritosh will remain the useless piece of garbage he has always been but still...🤣🤣

Yeah man she should leave him atleast after he gets well , that would actually make her stand on a moral high ground !

But I was thinking about Anupamaa's advice to Kinjal too , I believe that was a wrong advice !

She said just feel the feeling and nothing else , that means don't think about anything practical and sensible ?? How'd kinjal manage 3 things together ? Did she ever gave it a thought ?

Taking care of Toshu and Pari and working a full time job , if she thought it out in a bit practical way instead of acting on her emotions she would've understood its practically impossible to do everything together and might've seeked help from a professional may be ??

I mean you can't always put your emotions on top and leave your brain man , especially when you've a baby to take care of

I hate this fact that Kinjal is never going to leave him. I don't know why breaking toxic relations is shown as wrong in ITV

Kinjal hiring professional help should've been shown but in this show it isn't possible at all. They don't even show a house help even in the so called rich Kapadia houseITV and their need to show the woman doing everything perfectly🤪

I didn't watch that episode/clip where Anupamaa have her this lesson but knowing Anupamaa, nothing better can be expected of her. I understand Kinjal's decision but the execution is aimed at producing emotions in viewers, not showing reality or practical things, unfortunately 😆

Thank you so much guys for your thoughtful comments🤗

I know what you mean and I agree with coming clean with your conscience. But I dont agree along the line that if Kinjal leaves now, Paritosh would get a chance to say, do, remember etc. etc. It shouldn’t matter what Paritosh would think of it, or as a matter of fact, what anyone would think of it. They can go to hell, literally. It’s only what a person thinks of his/her own action that should matter, and I think you also meant to say that if Kinju leaves Toshu now, it’d be difficult for Kinju to meet her own eyes. I agree to that.

It's very clear that you have really good intentions, but in the context of this show, as you already know, the extent to which they degraded his character to someone almost one-dimensional...it is just extremely difficult to feel any sympathy for his character. Like others are pointing out, Kinjal not leaving him during this time is fine, but taking care of him to the extent shown in this show...with the Shah family being the Shah family....it doesn't seem fine at all. Yes, she really should have left ages ago.

Who knows, they might actually make Toshu change for the better just like they flicked their favourite 'chameleon switch' and made Pakhi better for now. But that in itself can give a problematic message that women should keep forgiving and sacrificing over and over in the hopes that one day their partner will realise his mistakes. (Not just women, even the character of Adhik). Or in this case, crimes and criminal behaviour. Because in this show, Kinjal might stay and not leave, like you wish.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

I hate this fact that Kinjal is never going to leave him. I don't know why breaking toxic relations is shown as wrong in ITV

Kinjal hiring professional help should've been shown but in this show it isn't possible at all. They don't even show a house help even in the so called rich Kapadia houseITV and their need to show the woman doing everything perfectly🤪

I didn't watch that episode/clip where Anupamaa have her this lesson but knowing Anupamaa, nothing better can be expected of her. I understand Kinjal's decision but the execution is aimed at producing emotions in viewers, not showing reality or practical things, unfortunately 😆

Thank you so much guys for your thoughtful comments🤗

How can she break her toxic relationship if her favorite mother in-law hasn't been able to do so?!. she has to do what adult version of her says and do. 🤣

Stay or leave, at this point I could careless, Toshu dies or lives, nothing will change. The toxic family will still be toxic. I just wish Rakhi would take her grandchild and leave her daughter there to be unpaid nurse, maid, whatever her heart desired to be called and used.

No child should be raised in this environment.

The only problem with good people is they think bad people also think like them and will treat them fairly. Kinjal can help through her money, but no she is not obligated to stay with Toshu in this time, after he cheated and stole her child's future money.

Kinjal's life should not be enslaved to the whims of Toshu becoming better. She can be in love with him, but does not mean to stay with him.

She should move on and focus on her future.

Why she continued to stay at Shahs after Pakhi-Adhik wedding is beyond common sense.

You are right about Kinjal's decision under the currently circumstances.

It is Shahs who need to change which..... Well 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Now that things are messed up and Rakhi ijj beck, Rakhi should insist on (because Kinjal is beyond repair):

1. Taking Pari/Arya to Dave's part-time, weekdays or by some arrangement. not leaving her at Shahs due to fear of negligence.

She can consider visitation under the conditions:

1. Shahs Hiring a maid and a male nurse with immediate effect.

2. Kinjal (and Kavya) HAVE TO WORK to support the household expenses.

For once, realisation to dawn on Vanraj to re-open the cafe with the oh so popular Anupama-special fooshun (fusion) menu.