Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #236- Page 47

Originally posted by: nami2811

Is it just me or does anyone else feel there are no fatherly vibes from Shiva towards Mithu? 🤔

When Raavi is with her kid she oozes motherly sentiments. There is care, concern, love and cuteness. I don't find that between Shiva and Mithu. Blame it on memory loss or poor script or the thing I dread to say? 🤔

Don’t say that, then you will be stalked and made fun of 😆 Our husbands are nothing to compared to him Just say, Shiva is the best father anyone can get 😆

Jokes apart, I stand by my word, Raavi is a single parent raising Mitthu all by herself.

It is ofcourse poor writing and direction. Infact I find his bond with Chiku stronger and he is all praise for Shesh and thinks he is a copy of him and Krish, If this is not poor writing, then what is! 😔

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

Only thing I liked in the episode was none of the kids were hugged by mahsnta. Shesh was rescue and hugged by krush. Mithu and chiku by Shiva.

Where was shiva during the marshal scenes. Each hubby was by thier wife / gf side. Only shiva was missing.. why didn't he joined. Dud he again git confused due to his condition.

Where was Dev when the Kids were being rescued? Did he escape through the window to take a stroll and eat Pani puri 😆

Shiva was locked up in Dev- Rishira’s room protecting Chiku, God knows where he dropped Mitthu 😆
Mitthu is neither with him, nor with Suman, Gautam, Raavi, Rishita nor with Krish upstairs😆

Where did the little munchkin go? 😆

Didn’t Suman say in the pre-leap FB that she is never going to forgive for being the reason for family members to separate. Even in the first 2 episodes post leap she was rude but one heart attack changed her attitude towards Dhara, she flipped 180😆

Suman cannot be without supporting or praising her 😆 kuch toh sharam karo Suman , itna bhi neeche mat ghiro 😔

They now made Gombi, the most useless character in the show and even Suman is disgusted with him and he is her favorite son along with Shiva 😆

Usually Suman doesn’t blame her sons no matter what even if they are the ones at fault, we saw that in Shiva’s case how Suman was blind and put all the blame on Raavi. I am now surprised to see Suman is supportive of Dhara, singing her praises while dissing Gautamn😆

Dhara is slowly back to getting her Cult going in full form which she missed for 7 years

She got many in her side already post leap

- Chiku ✅

- Shesh✅

- Mitthu✅

- Shiva✅

- Prerna✅

- Krusuuuu - today✅

- Prerna and Krisuu’s Mummy Daddy ✅

- Dev - tomorrow ✅

- Gautam and Suman were always in her team✅

- Raavi and Rishita are still being tough - but its just a matter of 2 more episodes 😆

-Chutki - soon✅

- Shweta - still on the fence 😆

The cult has gotten bigger 😆

Originally posted by: Palak2812

I agree

I have started watching Yeh Rishita after Jay Soni ki entry and not fond of Abhi but Abhi's scenes with his son are soo amazing😍

Even when he thinks that kid is his ex's (even after hints he can't use brain pata nahi doc kese bana)

Anyways

But here Shiva realises that he has a kid but still feel nahi aati.

It is just both the actors are soo good that there scenes we wanna see

Just like how they wasted KDice chemistry they are goona waste Shiva and Mitthu too.

Exactly.. HC is a good actor but in yrkkh he just cries or shouts but post leap the scenes he has with the kids are so lovely to watch. The bond shines on screen.. Guess it all depends on who is directing along with the script.

Shiva's condition as I said hasn't been well thought by the writers. Now they are clueless as to what to do with him which shows on screen. Kanwar does good in emotional scenes but nowadays all he does is being lost which the audience are also losing interest to watch. Maybe just make bhabhi hit him on the head and cure him. Mahaan ka mahaan and they can go back to make Shiva and Raavi bhabhi bhakts. At least we can expect good scenes between Mithu and Shiva 🤔

PS: just realised I've lost interest in ShiVi coz all I want to see now is Shiva and Mithu 😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

Don’t say that, then you will be stalked and made fun of 😆 Our husbands are nothing to compared to him Just say, Shiva is the best father anyone can get 😆

Jokes apart, I stand by my word, Raavi is a single parent raising Mitthu all by herself.

It is ofcourse poor writing and direction. Infact I find his bond with Chiku stronger and he us all praise fir Shesh and thinks he is a copy of him and Krish, If this is not poor writing, then what is! 😔

And that's why I said I'll be dreaded to say that😆

Isn't it sad they are not exploring the father son bond? Dev and Shesh do radiate those vibes. Gautam and Chiku too for an episode had those papa beta nuances. But Mithu always has bonded with his mom or the kids but not his dad. He is scared of him in fact partly due to Raavi hiding him from Shiva due to his traumatic episodes. It could also be that he's seen Shiva lose his cool many times and doesn't go near him.

What are they doing with Shiva? They lost the plot. Is it trauma? Is it amnesia? Is it partial amnesia? Is it panic attacks? What is it?

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

So shiva saved both mitthu and chiku. Krish saved shesh. What was dev babu doing???

Reading all amazing responses to this:

I would say: usko khud ko nahin pataa woh kya kar rahaa hai..,
That’s the prize you pay for adopting Dhara pandya on your name. Directly like shiva or indirectly like dev: I live ghajni life.

Originally posted by: nami2811

Is it just me or does anyone else feel there are no fatherly vibes from Shiva towards Mithu? 🤔

When Raavi is with her kid she oozes motherly sentiments. There is care, concern, love and cuteness. I don't find that between Shiva and Mithu. Blame it on memory loss or poor script or the thing I dread to say? 🤔

Deliberate attempt.

To keep cheif bachcha sDP forever bachcha & not give audience demand Baba -beta/ ShiVi Mitthoo scenes.

Originally posted by: nami2811

And that's why I said I'll be dreaded to say that😆

Isn't it sad they are not exploring the father son bond? Dev and Shesh do radiate those vibes. Gautam and Chiku too for an episode had those papa beta nuances. But Mithu always has bonded with his mom or the kids but not his dad. He is scared of him in fact partly due to Raavi hiding him from Shiva due to his traumatic episodes. It could also be that he's seen Shiva lose his cool many times and doesn't go near him.

What are they doing with Shiva? They lost the plot. Is it trauma? Is it amnesia? Is it partial amnesia? Is it panic attacks? What is it?

Did you realize how Shiva acted normal today, infact he was much calmer than the others? To answer your question about what his condition is? As we all discussed even the writers don’t know what he is suffering from. His condition as being portrayed is a hodgepodge of few mental illnesses and they don’t even have a name for it. Instead of showing how he can be cured ot things can be improved they are waiting to write the next script how Bhabima will cure him, until then he is going to be erratic.

Anyway this show and some of the relationships are a lost cause. The only constant is Bhabima, her dukh, dard, peeda , her relationship with every single character in the show, baaki dab baad mei jaaye.
I am not expecting any Shiva- Mitthu scenes. Knowing these writers and the director they Will deliberately spoil it for us especially after Shiva gets better when he comes to know that Raavi separated him from his family 7 years, he is going to take all his anger out on Raavi which will directly affect Mitthu, They are showing him scream, act triggered and erratic in front of the kids which can be excused because he is having some problems. But when he gets better, continues to be angry, always yelling and shouting in front of the kids, imagine what will the kids go through. No I don’t want such scenes. I would rather watch just the kids scenes.

Originally posted by: nami2811

Is it just me or does anyone else feel there are no fatherly vibes from Shiva towards Mithu? 🤔

When Raavi is with her kid she oozes motherly sentiments. There is care, concern, love and cuteness. I don't find that between Shiva and Mithu. Blame it on memory loss or poor script or the thing I dread to say? 🤔

Ohh, I had asked similar question few days back, after their backyard scene where they pick marbles and hug shiva... I literally felt bad for mithoo at the point.. have seen Raavi getting that treatment I dread the same for mithoo... I thought I was overthinking but most of them had same thoughts 😭

I figured out 2 things...

First, Raavi had kept them away which she keeps on mentioning and also later she said they were away for 2 years, but still baccho ke saath toh bonding hone me zyada time nahi lagta and even though he doesn't remember his childhood still he knows he is his son, look at Shiva's bonding with chiko and shesh... So second thing I figured out is makers deliberately doing this🤣

I want mithoo to throw tantrums just like ronav did... Chiku aapka favourite hai one🤣

But Mithoo is a mamma's boy, use papa se koi matlab nahi🤣