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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I was smirking each time Deviji was disappointed by her husband's lack of enthusiasm, am I insensitive?

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

I can understand your pov.

But two situations can't be compared.

V, on several occasions has also mentioned that he married anupama because of her doormat behaviour. He wanted an adarsh bahu, kushal grahini and 24*7 available maa for his kids and he exactly got that. So he knew what he is getting himself into. And when you are marrying someone like anupama then she wont turn into kavya after marriage. Plus, V and baa never allowed little bit of self time to anupama, no personal growth happened, no career so how can you expect someone to change when you are not allowing her at the first place and even creating hurdles for her. Then V conveniently put all blame on anupama and had affair with kavya. So V is beyond redemption for me. His innumerable "paap" cant be justified anyway

Now coming to MaAn. I am clarifying in advance that I am not a anupama andh bhakt.😆

Anuj is completely opposite of V but anuj didn't have any long stable relationship in his life. He just had ONS and flings. In my opinion he is inexperienced in handling relationship. His parents passed away, his relationship with his sister was almost non existent. Only constant companion he had was gk kaka but he is his gurdian/friend/advisor and he in turn only has anuj in his life so obviously only anuj will be his priority.

What I am trying to say is anuj only had this rosy picture of 26 saal wala love in his heart where everything is pink and sunshine. He never got to live it. Never experienced the ups and downs. He also doesn't know how to handle delicate relationships.

Now we all are pissed off at anupama's shah bhakti and rightly so and hence she deserves each and every taunt, jokes, frustration and anger from us. But we are forgetting the fact that anuj also fell in love with anupama because of her holier than thou attitude and he admitted it also. Now he also wants her to change. He did fantastic job in explaining her to draw boundaries on several occasions. But he has to have patience with her. A woman coming from 26 years of being doormat and 45 years of being conditioned as people pleaser, cant change easily.

Fights, disagreement, arguments, sometimes detachment is bound to happen. And it happens in every relationship, every marriage. There is no need to sulk over it everytime.

Love is easy, marriage is not. That's why all epic romances end with lovers either living happily ever after or dying together. No ones bothers to describe their married life or else they won't be called as epic romances.🤣

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Well articulated. agree with each and every point.

IMO, it is applicable in real life not in the case of Anupama.

First of all, she could be considered a doormat before the divorce. After that, she did whatever she felt was right. She retorted back to V, she delivered a counterblast to baa many times. accepted Anuj's partnership, went to Mumbai, proposed Anuj, married Anuj... latest Dimpy case.

I agree one cannot be changed in one day. Initially, she was not even aware of Pakhi's school. Now in just few months, she has become so smart, intelligent, and wise that a leaf cannot move without her in Shah's house.Directly or indirectly, she has talked hold of shah's family after her marriage to Anuj. For once, we can ignore all these things.

What I feel is that he always takes Anuj for granted and undue advantage of his love. How is it possible, he can read the eyes of everyone but cannot understand the words of Anuj whom she considers his soulmate? I am not talking about shahs only, its Kavya, RD, Kinjal, dimpy also.

It is as simple as that it's human nature to take another person lightly if he is lenient or forgiving or you know bhai yeh toh kahi jaane waala hai nahi.

like

A mother gives more attention to a child who is fussy and throws more tantrums. pata hai bhai, yeh bada toh kuch bhi kha leta hai par chote ke naatak hai. uske liye chutney, papad, parantha ban jaayega but for other, beta aajj aachar ke saath kha le ya khichdi ban deti hoon.

As a student, we are in time if we know that the teacher will skin us alive but in the case of a lenient teacher, we think like let's first finish our cold drink, kaun sa aafat aa jaayegi.

mujhe toh iska love bhi anuj ke liye fake lagta hai. bcoz its not easy to replace a person with whom you have spent your life for 25 yrs with another one in a snap of a finger. even love of another person can't bring to normal in a few months; can't make other love with same intensity, feelings, or emotions.

For Anuj, he is portrayed as a God. He should be open before marriage tab toh mai tumhara saaman pack karta hoon, tumhe chor kar aata hoon. He was not a teenager, shaadi ki nahi toh, baarat toh bahut dekhi hogi.

But at this point, I am with him bcoz he tried to point it out many times. he never said-tum Apne bacche ko ignore karo. He supported her and her maayka more than that his own family.

Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul

I can understand your pov.

But two situations can't be compared.

V, on several occasions has also mentioned that he married anupama because of her doormat behaviour. He wanted an adarsh bahu, kushal grahini and 24*7 available maa for his kids and he exactly got that. So he knew what he is getting himself into. And when you are marrying someone like anupama then she wont turn into kavya after marriage. Plus, V and baa never allowed little bit of self time to anupama, no personal growth happened, no career so how can you expect someone to change when you are not allowing her at the first place and even creating hurdles for her. Then V conveniently put all blame on anupama and had affair with kavya. So V is beyond redemption for me. His innumerable "paap" cant be justified anyway

Now coming to MaAn. I am clarifying in advance that I am not a anupama andh bhakt.😆

Anuj is completely opposite of V but anuj didn't have any long stable relationship in his life. He just had ONS and flings. In my opinion he is inexperienced in handling relationship. His parents passed away, his relationship with his sister was almost non existent. Only constant companion he had was gk kaka but he is his gurdian/friend/advisor and he in turn only has anuj in his life so obviously only anuj will be his priority.

What I am trying to say is anuj only had this rosy picture of 26 saal wala love in his heart where everything is pink and sunshine. He never got to live it. Never experienced the ups and downs. He also doesn't know how to handle delicate relationships.

Now we all are pissed off at anupama's shah bhakti and rightly so and hence she deserves each and every taunt, jokes, frustration and anger from us. But we are forgetting the fact that anuj also fell in love with anupama because of her holier than thou attitude and he admitted it also. Now he also wants her to change. He did fantastic job in explaining her to draw boundaries on several occasions. But he has to have patience with her. A woman coming from 26 years of being doormat and 45 years of being conditioned as people pleaser, cant change easily.

Fights, disagreement, arguments, sometimes detachment is bound to happen. And it happens in every relationship, every marriage. There is no need to sulk over it everytime.

Love is easy, marriage is not. That's why all epic romances end with lovers either living happily ever after or dying together. No ones bothers to describe their married life or else they won't be called as epic romances.🤣

I agree with every single word of what you said. Also, we all understand that Anu does deserve this but it was not necessary of him to rub that into her face in front of his friend. She was making an effort to pacify him, to try to change. Yes, she did ignore him due to her duties (being a doormat) to the Shahs but she never disrespected him.