Episode discussions # 12 NT pg 142 - Page 109

Originally posted by: Saumya19

Nahi it’s not orthodox or old fashioned it is actually being responsible. Bhagna is never good idea unless of course jaan le ban aaye incase of inter caste or inter religion marriages where Marne Maarne par utar aate hain ghar wale.

I don’t know if you have heard about Nitish Kataras case. It’s one of millions

a daughter not being loyal to her parents how can she be loyal to her partner this idea I get this a lot. First things first parents child relationship does not require loyalty. Children are individual entity and entirely separate from parents. This is not a relationship which demands allegiance. It does demand love, honesty and support but by not caving in to your parents demands and ideology. An adult is free to build their lives the way they want with or without consent of their parents. The only caveat here is when a child chooses to go his or her way then he or she cannot expect support from parents either should something go wrong.

I also do not agree with waiting 10-15 years. Time is precious. Consenting adults can inform their dissenting parents of their decisions and get married legally in the court of law.

Getting married and other day standing on the stairs with suit case because they are no more compatible with their parents...and then if parents throw you out they are heartless and if they keep u even fighting with society then koi bada kaam nhi Kiya kartavya hai maa baap ka...😆 mere samne 5 cases chal rahe hain aise...ek to samne walu aunty hi hain...ma baap nhi la rahe wapis to 4 times suicide attempt kiya hai..Gali wale like pathar dil hai enka..jab bhagi thi to parvarish kharab hai enk🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

Can I say something??may be I sound like orthodox and old thought lady

But bhagna is really not a good idea...

If they do then it's really mean they having chakkar as they have no confidence on their love...

Love is only considered true when it passes all test like test of time,people thought, economic crunches and social stigmas...

For one second think a girl who not remain loyal to her family does she will remain loyal to her partner or vice versa...

Seen couples who waited for their parents permission like 10 yrs,15 yrs finally their parents give up and they are happily married..

No tagging as this is totally my point of view

Arey mera yahan ek sir aur madam ne 12 saal wait kiya kyu kyunki sir brahmin the aur madam bengali thi, sir ke gharwaale maan gye last mei. School mei unka romance famous tha. Mei jab 10 mei pahuchi to unhone shaadi ki. Sad part is jab mei 12 th ke baad school gyi to pata chala madam jo thi wo expire kar gyi bcoz of cancer and sir thode hil se gye the baad mei he adopted a girl child now he just keeps himself busy with his baby girl.

Originally posted by: md410

May be

I some reason do not like that guy

Absolutely not. Pata nahi kyu

Me too. Call me odd but I don't like his teeth and jaw structure.

Originally posted by: Scissor

Getting married and other day standing on the stairs with suit case because they are no more compatible with their parents...and then if parents throw you out they are heartless and if they keep u even fighting with society then koi bada kaam nhi Kiya kartavya hai maa baap ka...😆 mere samne 5 cases chal rahe hain aise...ek to samne walu aunty hi hain...ma baap nhi la rahe wapis to 4 times suicide attempt kiya hai..Gali wale like pathar dil hai enka..jab bhagi thi to parvarish kharab hai enk🤣

@bold That is why I said as adults we have a right to choose our paths different from our parents choices. But should anything go wrong it is their choice to support us or not. Parents have a right to be heartless but as a parent myself that is the single most stupid thing we can do. Baki logon ka kya hai logon ka to kam hai kehna. wo Dhobi aur gadhe ki kahani suni hai. Log aise hi hotey Hai kabhi khush nahi hotey never.

and of course if parents choose to support their children in need it’s not something for which they must get Bharat ratna. Like if we choose to support our parents it is no remarkable feet. Yeh normal hai koi veerta nahi ki param veer chakra mile. Paramveer chakra ki baat to tab ho jab padosi ki aulad ko bure vaqt mein support karein.

Originally posted by: carljung

Arey mera yahan ek sir aur madam ne 12 saal wait kiya kyu kyunki sir brahmin the aur madam bengali thi, sir ke gharwaale maan gye last mei. School mei unka romance famous tha. Mei jab 10 mei pahuchi to unhone shaadi ki. Sad part is jab mei 12 th ke baad school gyi to pata chala madam jo thi wo expire kar gyi bcoz of cancer and sir thode hil se gye the baad mei he adopted a girl child now he just keeps himself busy with his baby girl.

Dekha issiliye bol rahi thi time is precious 12 saal ke shadi shifa zindagi 2 baras mein samit gayi.

Originally posted by: Saumya19

ITV or not I hate toxic parents. I know there are situations like Shraddha Walker where girls do get it wrong while parents got it right, even then a responsibility of a parent is always above societal norms, above meri izzat teri izzat, above all parental ego. For a parent it should always be my child’s welfare is above and beyond every thing. The way HP and Bimla are behaving is abominable. Parental esteem should never rest on the fragile shoulders of a child how so ever old he or she is. I say this with full responsibility as parent of a teen myself. For all practical purposes Dev is not a suitable husband any father or mother would want for their daughter but alienating her the way they did today is a lethal shot of cyanide straight into the heart of a child like Vidhi. All his life Vidhi’s parent could never instill an iota of self confidence and self esteem in the girl. HP is the most medival kind of a man possible and has always been. I have seen fathers like him a lot. Such parent push their children towards harm instead of protecting them. Now coming to ITV they all live in baghban syndrome. I don’t say we should not care or respect our parents, look at them which ever way they did gave us life, they are akin to God on this earth.

Par bhagwaan kabhi khada hokar humse apne rehmat ka hisab nahi mangta. Similarly as parents we do not have a right to keep credit debit account of what we do for our children. This was the worst episode of the show until now.

Mera ye worst nightmare hai ki kahi mei kabhi future mei kharab mom na banu. I can't see kids suffering mera dimaag kharab ho jaata hai wahi par.

Originally posted by: Scissor

Arrogance jab tak peak per nhi jata tab tak insane buri tarah niche nhi girta aur bims and HP to patal mein jayenge..

🤣 Dono ne maafi maang leni hai Devji se 😆

Dev being Dev....sharafat se maaf bhi kar dena hai 😆

Originally posted by: Nany

Uski khud ki lagi padi he lanka..

Subhe se uske reaction me b dikh rha ki mood off he iska

Abhi thik hu

Originally posted by: Saumya19

Real life hoye to itne mein to jab reconciliation Ka time aate to sasuraal wale band baja dein larki wali. Ka.

yeh show ke writers directors makers are total stupids and showing so much drama ki positivity name ki to ek boond nahi bachi.

Exactly 🤣 In real ppl remember everything how they were treated .... Saas ne gin gin ke badle lene hai bahu se 🤣

Originally posted by: carljung

Mera ye worst nightmare hai ki kahi mei kabhi future mei kharab mom na banu. I can't see kids suffering mera dimaag kharab ho jaata hai wahi par.

Yahi mera worst nightmare hai. The one thing that I have stuck to is I never scold my daughter when she has done some mistakes. Or when she is scared or hurt. Main apna disappointment express karti hoon. I also try to tell her what she can do to not make same errors but never scold her. Mera worst nightmare hai she drifting away from me because of some disconnect. Rest bade hone ke saath to bacchon ki duniya alag ho hi jaati hai.