Bigg Boss 19- Daily Discussion Thread - 14th Oct 2025
Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 30
ASTHIN KA SAANP 14.10
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Oct. 14, 2025 Episode Discussion Thread
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai October 15, 2025 EDT.
KARWA CHAUTH 15.10
Kajal,Vidya and Tanya ka Gharelu Kalesh
Alia Bhatt is being roasted on Insta on Jigra BA post
Dost Dost na raha
Pankaj Dheer Passes Away
Rhea Chakraborty and her brother get their passports back
They made a mockery out if all women who has difficulty to conceive and go through all other options to have a baby..🤪
This is some serious issue man 🤪 These people should be ashamed of themselves for writing such bakwas! Even during this 25 lacs discussion with nimboopani man, Shweta made a crass remark on Dhara’s medical condition about not being able to conceive or carry full-term! Matlab jaha kahi se bhi negative clout mile usse matlab hai! 👎🏼
There was no reason for them to add that dialogue in the scene🤓
They made a mockery out if all women who has difficulty to conceive and go through all other options to have a baby..🤪
I have always wondered if what they've shown with Dhara actually happens in real life as well. Many women use birth control pills and some are even prescribed them from a young age to regulate their periods. Are they really that harmful?
Bhabhi has turned decently clever and sweet young boys into creepy criminals with her parvarish..😎
And abt going on the streets..shameless writers..what r they trying to imply..that when elder brother gets married younger ones wont have any rights on the house unless their bhabhi 'sacrifice' accommodating them?🤪
Dhara has literally done nothing to be called a sacrifice..
She supported them..yes..but not sacrificed a thing..not choosing to conceive at the age of 19 is not a sacrifice plz..its a necessity..And its her problem when she didnt consider having kids .becz the kids were not that young that they needed her full attention on them..and if it was financial liability that stopped her from planning , then thats not a sacrifice for devars..thats a situation everyone in that family had to deal with..shiva had to leave education for that....so did dhara had to wait for baby..chibeys have a very weird sense of knowledge abt relationships and responsibilities..
Bold - Completely agree. It would have made much more sense if she had been older.
I would say the correct term is not sacrifice but responsibility.
To be fair to her, Dhara has done a lot for the family. She married Gautam at a very young age despite knowing about their financial problems, took on the responsibility of his three younger brothers, looked after his paralysed mother (who was absolutely horrid to her), did all the household work as well as helped out at the store. This is not me saying she did not get anything back in return.
Personally I think the biggest problem with her character isn't actually her own behaviour but how others perceive her. Even while treating her with love, admiration, respect and gratitude if the family also saw her as a flawed human being, the same as everyone else, things would have been so different. Blindly worshiping her and always being willing to do her biding hasn't only ruined the brothers lives but in a way hers as well. It has prevented her from growing and evolving as a person. Her lack of maturity can also be explained by her not having her views and ideas ever challenged by them. Maybe that it what has made her so rigid in her beliefs and also led her to think that she is in the only one who knows what is best for her family.
Of course all of this is just my interpretation of things and others might completely disagree with it. please feel free to let me know what you think.
Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31
Lol🤣
My commentary: red parts
The best thing about Pandya Store is that it has a lot of family drama: yeh kab hua???????? It's all bhabhi
and the story is focused on every character in the show: yeh kab hua??? It's all bhabhi again
It's full of emotions whether you talk about comedy, drama, twists, and turns and the fillers in between the scenes like comedy in between makes it more interesting." he continues "The detailing of each character is done perfectly which keeps the viewers engaged. : Viewers who???? Detailing what???? --- only bhabhi is detailed 🤪
The scenes are written in such a way that sometimes the Pandya family deals with the problems in a dramatic way but sometimes they take it in a very light so this is also one of the best qualities of this show: light how??? Every other track is sasta comedy with crime patrol🤣what delusion is this??
that we don't serve similar content we always try to create something new which will be loved by the people. : Very similar villain always winning content 🤪 neither loved nor liked by anyone except a few maybe lol👎🏼
The people feel connected when they watch our show as it is filled with 8-9 family members to whom they can relate." : Nobody can ever ever ever feel connected to the show nor can people ever relate to anyone coz it's just ridiculous lol🤪
Just like store Ki nonexistent story- M has nonexistent alternate reality.
Smug tries to discredit others & tries to hog ‘exclusives’ while taking unnecessary digs at others.
That’s why just like 4x4 his diwanis are limited.
He was superstar best thing to happen to Ps with gareeb samosa chori track.
So many reels & all.
He is again looking despo piddi blabberer w/o making any sense in this crime patrol bachcha grab track.
While Shweta’s scenes with Deven get more eyeballs.
Honestly
If Dora did all this selflessly
Then har hafte jatati nahi.
If uske devar really mein uske bacche hote
Toh bacche ke peeche pagal nahi hote
On top of that
All these were 10 or 10+ when she got married
Her reason of not having her own baby for her devar is shit.
In real life ideal difference between 2 kids is 3 yrs
She talking about she did everything for devar is not true. They were sensible, knew stuffs they weren't toddlers.
She only made sure that she keeps everyone under her control and she succeeded doing it.
Now everyone only thinks about her and treat others as a used tissue.
Again saying she did things, bear Suman ka shit but it was not that huge as it is made.
Bcoz at the end
Her so called parvarish is shit and she is only spoiling the family and lives of others.
Originally posted by: Palak2812
Honestly
If Dora did all this selflessly
Then har hafte jatati nahi.
If uske devar really mein uske bacche hote
Toh bacche ke peeche pagal nahi hote
On top of that
All these were 10 or 10+ when she got married
Her reason of not having her own baby for her devar is shit.
In real life ideal difference between 2 kids is 3 yrs
She talking about she did everything for devar is not true. They were sensible, knew stuffs they weren't toddlers.
She only made sure that she keeps everyone under her control and she succeeded doing it.
Now everyone only thinks about her and treat others as a used tissue.
Again saying she did things, bear Suman ka shit but it was not that huge as it is made.
Bcoz at the end
Her so called parvarish is shit and she is only spoiling the family and lives of others.
I agree repeatedly talking about all she had done for the family does dilute it.
I don't think her wanting a child is wrong or takes away from her love for the brothers, but the way they've turned her obsessive over it is extremely problematic.
Logically the reason for her choosing to not have a child would have been financial. They already had money problems so another member in the family would have led to Dhara having less time and resources to spend on the brothers.
I could even give her a pass for not providing them with a very good upbringing given just how young she herself was and that she also came with her own baggage.
I would say her having unrestricted and unquestioned control over everything was what led to a lot of issues. She became too confident in her own abilities and never seemed to have learnt to delegate. That is why the brothers were so dependent and unable to do even basic chores. It wasn't only a disservice to them but also herself. She never got to enjoy her own life either, even if a majority of the reasons for that were self-made.
I agree repeatedly talking about all she had done for the family does dilute it.
I don't think her wanting a child is wrong or takes away from her love for the brothers, but the way they've turned her obsessive over it is extremely problematic.
Logically the reason for her choosing to not have a child would have been financial. They already had money problems so another member in the family would have led to Dhara having less time and resources to spend on the brothers.
I could even give her a pass for not providing them with a very good upbringing given just how young she herself was and that she also came with her own baggage.
I would say her having unrestricted and unquestioned control over everything was what led to a lot of issues. She became too confident in her own abilities and never seemed to have learnt to delegate. That is why the brothers were so dependent and unable to do even basic chores. It wasn't only a disservice to them but also herself. She never got to enjoy her own life either, even if a majority of the reasons for that were self-made.
@ bold: disagree. GauRa enjoyed their own life. It was well played out in initial 200 episodes & even after. We regularly get their lengthy happy scenes. Conversations. stories.
If you look at it, GauRa had best initial marital years. They had full control on everything- work, money, managing things, everything.
They had responsibility to make sure teens go to school , but then again One teen already left school to ease some of work burden on Gautam. After initial hiccup of store girvi - which a was solved within year of their marriage - they had no other problem in life. Had roof on heads- no mortgage. Had set business- just had to run it.
Dhara managed house to keep control. As Palak said, She didnot let brothers be self reliant in daily chores, because she wanted control.
GauRa had splurged on all their celebrations, had blissful marital life, Had ton of time at their disposal. 3 brothers were interdependent & self growing in aangan. W/o much supervision from GauRa.
To be honest: ShiVi never got that breather in early year of their marriage. Nor did Devta.
because bhabhi made sure one or the other Kaand is ready for them.
Both these couples initial years of togetherness is completely consumed by Bhabhi & Bhabhi Ka bachcha.
ShiVi have sacrificed the most for the family. They are true givers. Time, money, work & energy -all.
Not Bhabhi-Zombi , who consistently push toxic thought of superficial ‘sacrifice’- which is nonexistent.
