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Posted: 2 years ago

I don’t understand this from the Choubays writing with brothers and wives.

When Gautam does so much for Dhara, never goes against her, always her support system, heck doesn’t even question when she does a kaand infact finds a way to rectify the raita she spilled.

Krish has no problem with any of this since the beginning but for the first time Shiva and Dev listened to their wives and did not give their 2 cents on how Bhabima should proceed with her decision, they have become selfish??
As is Dev and Shiva, both nalayaks don’t do anything for their wives and now this idiot who has a failed martial life is telling them how to behave with Bhabima, support her in her quest to obtain Chiku by hook or crook and not listen to their wives?

Krish completely devalued and demeaned Raavi and Rishita’s little contributions to this family. He truly made them both feel like an outsider and not worth all that attention their husbands are giving which is infact next to nothing. He implied without saying directly that these 2 don’t need any respect in that housez

WTF is Krish talking about that Dev cares for Chutki more than anyone else? Of course he is going to take care of her more than anyone else, he brought her into this world, he has that responsibility as a Dad.

Dev’s first priority should be Chutki, period, definitely not Bhabima.😡

Krish to begin with has NO BRAIN CELLS left in him when he married that Criminal and now he is justifying it, MORON.

I think Writer Ben expects her devars to be at her beck and call, leaving behind their wives and children and that’s what she’s writing for this crap of a show.

I am telling you again, unlucky are those people who are around her in both in her parents side and in-laws side, must be a dominating figure and stifling them all out.

Who are these people she is watching and writing these scenes and characters other than Bhabima and Gombi who are modeled after her and her husband? I pity her writer pati too, he must be going through hell 😆

Edited by mpks1 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

For those who claimed in all SM platforms Raavi has changed after returning, no she has not. She is finally thinking practically and her views are aligning with Rishita. When Rishita questioned Bhabima, several times nobody had problems, she was given a pat in the back but when Raavi questions her, she has changed?

For those who are not watching this show, yet writing pages in all SM platforms about Raavi’s current behavior, watch today’s episode and Dhara’s behavior. Even Gombi agreed that Dhara is becoming bad, taking her frustrations on all of them when others are only trying to be reasonable. Dhara herself said she is going crazy which looks to me is a sign of mental instability and she needs to be put in a facility.

This must be the first show where they are not taking the usual adoption route from an orphanage, instead trying to take away a baby whose mother and grand parents are alive and well, worst cum worst he can be taken over by child services but Noooooooo, Female lead has set her eyes on him, has become obsessed and wants him as her child at any cost, even if it means selling the house, store and the family respect. Wah! Kya storyline hai 👏👏

Edited by mpks1 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: spdp

@ bold: disagree. GauRa enjoyed their own life. It was well played out in initial 200 episodes & even after. We regularly get their lengthy happy scenes. Conversations. stories.
If you look at it, GauRa had best initial marital years. They had full control on everything- work, money, managing things, everything.

They had responsibility to make sure teens go to school , but then again One teen already left school to ease some of work burden on Gautam. After initial hiccup of store girvi - which a was soll d within year of their narraz- they had no other problem in life. Had trofi on heads- no mortgage. Had set business- just had to run it.

Dhara managed house to keep control. As Palak said, She didnot let brothers be self reliant in daily chores, because she wanted control.


GauRa had splurged on all their celebrations, had blissful marital life, Had ton of time at their disposal. 3 brothers were interdependent & self growing in aangan. W/o much supervision from GauRa.

To be honest: ShiVi never got that breather in early year of their marriage. Nor did Devta.
becsyse bhabhi made sure one or the other kasnd is ready for them.
Both these couples initial years of togetherness is completely consumed by Bhabhi & Bhabhi Ka bachcha.


ShiVi have sacrificed the most for the family. They are true givers. Time, money, work & energy -all.

Not Bhabhi-Zombi , who consistently push toxic thought of superficial ‘sacrifice’- which is nonexistent.


I did not mean to advocate for Dhara but just felt saddened by the possibilities of what could have been. She, like the others, had all the makings so a wonderfully complex character. There was so much that could have been explored instead of what is being shown.

She certainly has had the best marital life out of all three as well as the most supportive husband. But anything in excess is bad. Gautam not preventing her from making mistakes, even when he realised she was, contributed to things getting this bad.

I think because of them ruining Dhara's character so badly we, and I do include myself in this, have started to perceive all her past actions in a very different light than how we did earlier. What may once have appeared to us as love now only looks like control. Just a thought. Also, definitely not saying it is wrong to do so. It happens with every character and even real people.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: mpks1

For those who claimed in all SM platforms Raavi has changed after returning, no she has not. She is finally thinking practically abd her views are aligning with Rishita. When Rishita questioned Bhabima, several times nobody had problems, when Raavi questions her, she has changed?

For those who are not watching this show, yet writing pages in all SM platforms about Raavi’s current behavior, watch today’s episode and Dhara’s behavior. Even Gombi agreed that Dhara is becoming bad, taking her frustrations on all of them when others are only trying to be reasonable. Dhara herself said she is going crazy which looks to me is a sign of mental instability and she needs to be put in a facility.

This must be the first show where they are not taking the usual adoption route from an orphanage, instead trying to take away a baby whose mother and grand parents are alive and well, worst cum worst he can be taken iver by child services but Noooooooo, Female lead has set her eye on him, has become obsessed and wants him as her child at any cost, even if it means selling the house, store and the family respect. Wah! Kya storyline hai 👏👏

Raavi is finally speaking up for herself and it's been a long time coming.

Wanting her to go back to quietly putting up with being mistreated and running after people who did not value her is so strange.

Losing one's voice and being submissive to others is not what being a "good wife" or "good daughter-in-law" is or should be about.

Bold - I agree. With every passing day Dhara's behaviour is shown becoming more and more erratic. There is nothing normal about it and she genuinely does appear to be in the need of a good psychiatrist.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Over glorification has spoiled the characters

Edited by Palak2812 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: anoniya

I did not mean to advocate for Dhara but just felt saddened by the possibilities of what could have been. She, like the others, had all the makings so a wonderfully complex character. There was so much that could have been explored instead of what is being shown.

She certainly has had the best marital life out of all three as well as the most supportive husband. But anything in excess is bad. Gautam not preventing her from making mistakes, even when he realised she was, contributed to things getting this bad.

I think because of them ruining Dhara's character so badly we, and I do include myself in this, have started to perceive all her past actions in a very different light than how we did earlier. What may once have appeared to us as love now only looks like control. Just a thought. Also, definitely not saying it is wrong to do so. It happens with every character and even real people.



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Gaura has to be the only couple on ITV who are going strong after 10+ yrs

They never separated, Gaumbi never threw her out of the house, CA her, called her shitty names, always kept her his priority.


So Dhara has to be the most lucky FL of ITV

On top of that she has her 3 devar who can kill their own wives and snatch their babies for her.

They will do any crime for her.


My point is What Dhara has done she has got uska nth times back


She spoiled the whole family, her devar and the lives 2 girls who will never be part of the family even if they give their life.


I know Rishita she will be the savior and shield of her baby but I am very scared for ShiVi ka baby.


Pehle I wanted a baby boy for them who will be Raavi ka shield but seeing Bhabhi obsession they will make him to Dora bhakt


I just don't want their baby

Just like his mother getting insulted every month he/she too will bear it or the kid won't respect and care for her due to her father, and grandmother's behavior.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Dhara and Madam Sir has to be the 2 characters


Whose over glorification hasade them the worst and hypocrite.

Inko apni writing se itna bigad diya haina

Ki kya kahu

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Posted: 2 years ago


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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Over glorification has spoiled the characters

This is the only thing. 👍🏼

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Dhara and Madam Sir has to be the 2 characters


Whose over glorification hasade them the worst and hypocrite.

Inko apni writing se itna bigad diya haina

Ki kya kahu


Bold) I always wanted watch that show? Is it any good?


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