Episode discussion #11note Pg 129 - Page 38

Originally posted by: Shinika

Dev kithna bhi our kuch bhi kahe uski akhon ke andar a lone tear(not coming outside). That’s all all this anguish and trolling over we will be like oh…. My poor dev!!!! We will feel bad about him started to troll Vidhi. Bechari hum fandom bhi uska chop kar raha hai.

Yeh aisa kyon hota hai because of Iqbal’s magic or Dev’s character? We never know…

I loved iqbal most who makes me fall for Dev more than Iqbal himself in each new episode... to kuch alag logic hau yaha

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

i know yaar mera bhi tha.. pehla pyar crush jo chahe bol lk 10 saal ka... amd the way it ended was excruciating for me... main kitne din royi kitti raat soyi nahi...but i had my family to take care of so i just brushed it aside to move forward and today it was the greatest rhing ever happened tp me...

as a teenager i was so naive to find right n wrong of a person... and so glad God took the decision for me...and today whatever i am is cause of that one incident

isiliye i want her to get the reality check.. dev is good man and she is lucky to have him but he deserves a mature lady in life not a stubborn teenager

*hiding behind my pillow is se pahle log ande tamatar maare*

Sorry to disagree telly.... But age gap can be a very beautiful thing yaar...

I can tell you as per my case... Me and my husband have 11 years of age gap.. I know it is not like dev vidhi... But we are like two generations... Because he belongs to pre globalization era ... That black and white one and i was born in 90s...so what we feel that... We both see life very differently... But what is the most beautiful thing ki he feels younger with me... He is like.. I am reliving my younger days because of you... Nd i am seeing world in a different way due to his age... I am seeing the aging effects and everything... Hum discuss krte hain apna apna childhood... Unka kaisa tym tha college, school mein and mera kitna alag... Nd because of this we both can explore different worlds..

Nd regarding this immaturity thing... Ye saath mein rehte rehte samaj aata hai... Like jab meri shaadi hui... To main unke liye clothes choose krti thi like today's college going boys type... More informal type... Unhone pehne ek baar... But he felt very uncomfortable... Then he told me... Sach kahun yo i felt bad as well... But later i realized ki it is not important... Jab unhone apna point of view btaya tab mujhe samaj aa gya. Nd vidhi bhi samaj gyi aaj rishabh vali baat ko lekar... So agar pyar hai to ye sab baatein solve ho jati hain...

So i feel ki dono mature nhi hone chahiye...vidhi thoda childish hogi... Dev bhi uske sath thoda vaisa bnage.. Nd vo apni life vo relive krega and vo sab enjoy leega jo vo apni us age mein nhi kr paya... But indian serials ye dikhate nhi... Inko drama hi chahiye faltu ka...

Originally posted by: Geeta06

Sorry to disagree telly.... But age gap can be a very beautiful thing yaar...

I can tell you as per my case... Me and my husband have 11 years of age gap.. I know it is not like dev vidhi... But we are like two generations... Because he belongs to pre globalization era ... That black and white one and i was born in 90s...so what we feel that... We both see life very differently... But what is the most beautiful thing ki he feels younger with me... He is like.. I am reliving my younger days because of you... Nd i am seeing world in a different way due to his age... I am seeing the aging effects and everything... Hum discuss krte hain apna apna childhood... Unka kaisa tym tha college, school mein and mera kitna alag... Nd because of this we both can explore different worlds..

Nd regarding this immaturity thing... Ye saath mein rehte rehte samaj aata hai... Like jab meri shaadi hui... To main unke liye clothes choose krti thi like today's college going boys type... More informal type... Unhone pehne ek baar... But he felt very uncomfortable... Then he told me... Sach kahun yo i felt bad as well... But later i realized ki it is not important... Jab unhone apna point of view btaya tab mujhe samaj aa gya. Nd vidhi bhi samaj gyi aaj rishabh vali baat ko lekar... So agar pyar hai to ye sab baatein solve ho jati hain...

So i feel ki dono mature nhi hone chahiye...vidhi thoda childish hogi... Dev bhi uske sath thoda vaisa bnage.. Nd vo apni life vo relive krega and vo sab enjoy leega jo vo apni us age mein nhi kr paya... But indian serials ye dikhate nhi... Inko drama hi chahiye faltu ka...

Aur jaise aap ke husband ke samjane ka tarika bolo ya aap ka un par trust, aap samaj bhi gaye .

Jaise Vidhi dev ki har baat man jati hai.

(Agar yahi baat koi aur bolta to hum NAHI sunte).

Originally posted by: Geeta06

Sorry to disagree telly.... But age gap can be a very beautiful thing yaar...

I can tell you as per my case... Me and my husband have 11 years of age gap.. I know it is not like dev vidhi... But we are like two generations... Because he belongs to pre globalization era ... That black and white one and i was born in 90s...so what we feel that... We both see life very differently... But what is the most beautiful thing ki he feels younger with me... He is like.. I am reliving my younger days because of you... Nd i am seeing world in a different way due to his age... I am seeing the aging effects and everything... Hum discuss krte hain apna apna childhood... Unka kaisa tym tha college, school mein and mera kitna alag... Nd because of this we both can explore different worlds..

Nd regarding this immaturity thing... Ye saath mein rehte rehte samaj aata hai... Like jab meri shaadi hui... To main unke liye clothes choose krti thi like today's college going boys type... More informal type... Unhone pehne ek baar... But he felt very uncomfortable... Then he told me... Sach kahun yo i felt bad as well... But later i realized ki it is not important... Jab unhone apna point of view btaya tab mujhe samaj aa gya. Nd vidhi bhi samaj gyi aaj rishabh vali baat ko lekar... So agar pyar hai to ye sab baatein solve ho jati hain...

So i feel ki dono mature nhi hone chahiye...vidhi thoda childish hogi... Dev bhi uske sath thoda vaisa bnage.. Nd vo apni life vo relive krega and vo sab enjoy leega jo vo apni us age mein nhi kr paya... But indian serials ye dikhate nhi... Inko drama hi chahiye faltu ka...

hey why you would be sorry dear... i already told na ke i havnt witnessed tbis miracle of being in love, of finding right person so i cant support this idea cause its called implicit bias based on what all a perseon has faced in life...

so you are speaking from your personal experience which is true, perfect, accurate and true at its place and i speak from my experience which is again cant be negated so we all hav to agree to disagree and be happy that we had different lives n experiences to make this forum like a rainbow of all such stories....

Mujhe sab milkar aur kitne rulawogi? Aapki post itni khoobsurat hein Geeta , mein bhi ek bacchi hoon apne husband ke liye, magical world bhi yahi batayi kyunki uske hubby uss se 9 saal bade hein. Age is just a number. Immaturity toh mujh mein bahut hein yaar , shayad mein abhi khud ko immatured hi samajhti hun unke aage. Joh joh struggling phase abb dikhane waale aisa lag rahi hein 18 saal mein meri kya haal huyi thi apne se bade umra waale se pyaar karke, wahi aur roop mein mujhe onscreen dekhne ko mil rahi hein. Vidhi ko sab pagli film kehte hein, par mein apni sochun toh uss umra mein uss se kahin zyada pagal thi....And hote hein kee jab saath mein hein toh log ungliyan udayenge, but mere husband ne hamesha mujhe himmat dee hein. Har uss mauke pe shaadi se pehle milti toh mein bahut roti thi , kabhi sochti thi woh kya sochenge mere baare mein? Mein nahi rowungi iss baar aise apne aap ko bahut bolke sambhalke chalti thi Milne par aate hi mere man kee saare dard khul jaate the , par unhone koyi shikayat nahi kee, mujhe shoulder di aur acche se mujhe samjhati thi kabhi bhi saamne roya nahi, roya toh uss din jiss din hamari shaadi huyi thi. Uss din mujhse zyada toh wahi roye, kyunki hamari families aaye ....Woh hone se precious day tak dar thaa donon ko agar family members mein se koyi ek nahi aaye toh kya hoga ? But mere saas sasur,devar, mere parents, Bhai khade the uss waqt. Aur kya chahiye life mein? Tabh maine pehli baar rote huye dekha aur mein sambhalu unhein toh mein bhi bahut ro padi.Yeh show mujhe unn saari lamhon kee yaad dilate hein Geeta.

Originally posted by: Shinika

Dev kithna bhi our kuch bhi kahe uski akhon ke andar a lone tear(not coming outside). That’s all all this anguish and trolling over we will be like oh…. My poor dev!!!! We will feel bad about him started to troll Vidhi. Bechari hum fandom bhi uska chop kar raha hai.

Yeh aisa kyon hota hai because of Iqbal’s magic or Dev’s character? We never know…

No. I think both Dev and Vidhi are right in their place and are currently going as per their characterization. We, as audience, tend to lean towards one character. It's natural. Connect ek hi character se hoti hain. Maybe because we understand where that character is coming from or because it is easy for us to put ourselves in that character's place.

There is magic in the way Iqbal is portraying, no doubt. But Rachana is no less, I feel. Esp confession and post confession episodes, she aced it. Carried the whole scene because there had been no dialogues for Dev in those and as per his character, he doesn't reveal his thoughts through his eyes.

But still we connect with Dev more. Maybe because women of this day are rarely like Vidhi. They tend to be (or rather want to be) more bold and firm. More...aware of the workings of the world. Being "too good" and "too innocent" is not easy to connect to.

Originally posted by: Dreamzz

Aur jaise aap ke husband ke samjane ka tarika bolo ya aap ka un par trust, aap samaj bhi gaye .

Jaise Vidhi dev ki har baat man jati hai.

(Agar yahi baat koi aur bolta to hum NAHI sunte).

Kyunki after a while aap realize krte ho ki ye sab matter nhi krta.. Vo kya pehan raha hai . . . Kya kha rha hai... Ye sab matter nhi krta... Nd one more thing ki we have to see it from dev's perspective as well.. Jab hamari shaadi hui to inke freind circle mein sabke bache 10 -10 saal k... Nd inko bhi odd feel hota tha mujhe sabke sambe le k jane mein... Inke friends ki wives mein main bhi uncomfortable feel krti thi... I mean i was like a college going girl and they were mature ladies... Even vo sab ka dressing style is very elegant... Nd main jeans mein... But hum dono mein jo baat sabse achi hai vo he ki we can share all these with each other... Unhe kaisa feel hota hai... Mujhe kaisa feel hota hai... To ye sab easy ho jata hai hamare liye... Ne ek mera face baby face hai... Even kayi baar mujhe logon ne pucha bhi hai.. Ki kya ye aapke father hain... Nd ab main aage hokar khud hi bta deti hun ki he is mu husband.. Logon ka expression aaj bhi vaisa hai... But ab hume hasi aa jati hai unka face dekh kar... Unko bhi to sun na pada ki bachi se shaadi ki... Nd all

But hamara relationship is sabse bahut upar hai.. We are each other's best friends... Nd ye comfort saath reh kar aata hai...

Dev ko samjhna hoga.. Ki vo vidhi ko accept kre and ye society and baki sab dheere dheere solve aa jata hai

Originally posted by: prs_725

I really want to hear your thoughts on this question and don’t know if it is discussed .. do you think they will legit break up? Like decide we love each other but can’t stay away so can’t see each other or be together at all?! They decided that it wasn’t possible so decided to not think abt next steps or anything but both of them still continued the relationship and being together - now w Vidhi dreaming etc

But Vidhi did say I can’t see my parents this way and now that they are in this condition .. do you guys think they will break up?! Like legit break up?!

sorry agar zyada serious topic ched liya toh

If they legit break up how will the story move fwd? Leap doesn't make any sense at this point. Not with this kind of age gap.

And if they do break up, would the circumstances keep throwing them together again and again? With HP so adamant that he has a heart attack at the news... wonder how that would work out.

What are your thoughts? Do you think they would break up??

So true yaar. Kaafi kuch milega sunne ko. Kuch toh log kahenge, logon kaa kaam hein kehna gaana suna hein naa ? Yahi toh chalte aa rahe Kayi saalon se ....Par hum apni zindagi mein apne husband ke saath Bahut proud life bita rahe hein. Bhagwan ne itna lucky toh bana diya hein yaar.

@ Shinika, @ Telly , @ Nany guys any one of you - can you please write ✍️ a very happy romantic OS for ViDev ? Please mujhe read karni hein. Mera man nahi kar rahi hein likhne ko .Aap me se koyi please likh lo. Zyada emotional waala mat likho yaar, please ek happy, romantic waala OS ?