One-sided Love Saga of Priyankit - Page 2

@alina.b - lovely post!👏

So clearly explained. I agree with what you said and the examples given.

I don't know them from b4, I only saw them when I started watching BB. I really like them and their relationship. No label is needed for me because what I see is love and that is all it matters.

However, recently Pri's stress is making things grim between them. She is highly strung and he is the opposite but even the calmest person has their breaking point and one of these days he may just decide enough is enough. I know they will talk openly once out of the house but I hope the memories of this House does not taint their future.

Really would like it if their love gets stronger and remains as long as they live.

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Such a long post🤓

Read it full........so dt you can be impressed😎😆

Hmm I meant that if someone reaches the end of my extremely long post without losing interest, I'm impressed. Clearly you took the time to read the whole thing, acknowledge how long it is, and replied...the longest reply to this post yet! Must say...I am quite impressed 😉

Umm

I hv a few things to say.

I hvnt analysed der relationship in dt much depth and I dnt intend to either. Bcz I feel we can discuss it as much as we like....but we cant do a thing abt it. Whatver equation they hv.......it ders and for them to figure it out.

Ofc we can't do anything about it...I don't even know them 😆 but this is a forum and we are allowed to discuss and put forward our opinions. I ended up analyzing so much because I find them interesting and relatable.

But 1 thing I know is ....they arent compatible. And no its not bcz of past traumas......its bcz of their personalities.

I completely agree - they are NOT compatible at all! But....I believe our personalities are shaped based on our previous experiences and trauma.

2nd thing.....No not all of us find Ankit the perfect BF material😆. He isnt to me. He is good. I am impressed with his personna but he is not at all expressive. He is someone who keeps to himself a lot .

I only find him dreamy when he is with Priyanka. Very weird I know😆. Those two hv definite chemistry.

Sorry I did write "every girl" (edit)🤣. To each their own - I made this statement based on my observations from twitter/IF/reddit where I have seen Ankit get a lot of appreciation from girls for his gentleman-like personality.

Priyanka ka nature stemming from her army background doesnt explain it all. I like her but even I cnt deny dt she has this " I am always ryt " attitude. Even saints cant be ryt always. She needs to learn dt. And at times give their frndshp some space to breathe . And kabhi kabar sun bhi lena chahiye usse😆

I think her "I'm always right attitude" stems from her black vs white outlook on life...it's either right or wrong and whatever she thinks is right, she believes should be right in others eyes too. Obviously it's not a good trait to have and this is why she probably gets into disagreements with people.

About Ankit......he is an introvert ...I get it. He doesnt want a relationship....I get it. But he has to be a lil more vocal at times. And he needs to assess the situation and den try to talk . And if he doesnt think its a relationship ( like he told Sajid)....he needs to stop wid the romatic gestures.

I completely agree with everything you wrote about Ankit! If it's not a relationship, then don't treat it like one.

My answers in blue

Originally posted by: elim

Priyanka is gaslighting queen. Itna koi nahi jataata. Ankit ne kabhi nahi kaha main tere liye khada rehta hu. Tere wajah se mujhe popat/joru ka gulam bolte hain.

log date karte hain compatible hai ki nahi jaanne keliye. Direct koi shaadi keliye commit nahi karta. Even we assume He likes her .He had bad experience in past . if he has feelings for a woman like Priyanka then obviously he will take time. I think Priyanka already knows he has no interest in marriage n he will go to Himalayas.

She does gaslight and I don't like how she counts the things she's done for him...even small things like coffee. If you're going to count it later and show it as an "ehsaan" then it's best not to do because it's clearly for a selfish reason. I agree with this.

I feel like they are technically dating or have dated but didn't give a label of a relationship to it...clearly they are not compatible so I don't think they get married...tbh I think they'll go back to "no contact" after BB unless they have shows or music videos lined up

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@alina.b - lovely post!👏

So clearly explained. I agree with what you said and the examples given.

I don't know them from b4, I only saw them when I started watching BB. I really like them and their relationship. No label is needed for me because what I see is love and that is all it matters.

However, recently Pri's stress is making things grim between them. She is highly strung and he is the opposite but even the calmest person has their breaking point and one of these days he may just decide enough is enough. I know they will talk openly once out of the house but I hope the memories of this House does not taint their future.

Really would like it if their love gets stronger and remains as long as they live.

I enjoy watching them together but I don't think they are very compatible. They should talk about decide what both of them want for the future. Love comes in different forms and it doesn't have to be romantic. I think they would be really good friends just not good romantic partners

@AreYaar - not sure if you are still watching the show. I remember we were discussing Priyankit's relationship in another thread couple weeks back and I said I would make a topic about it where we can discuss. Would love to know your thoughts!

I just saw few clips from today's LF & bro is talking about sexy night suits & indirectly telling her why she wears these proper night suits & not those in BB. I mean he is a friend ; which friend talk this way?

People are the loudness of priyanka in fights but what they don't or refuse to acknowledge is that that reaction of her come a from how frustrated he makes her.

In another thread I wrote how he always keeps quite while she is getting blamed how she dominates him or doesn't let him talk to others which isn't true. IMO, This is Ankit' s most toxic trait. He doesn't talk when he's requires & he uses words which are so wrong that anyone will go mad. He hardly ever finishes any conversation & leaves. He doesn't understand the timing. He's happily chill with people who despises his BFF. Being introvert is one thing but he is something else.

Let's say she's just a friend to him ; it's her who is dominating. Even then which friend won't stand up for their friend In front people who tries to corner one of them.

He is pro at giving mixed signals. One hand he passes comments like " see it's two sides ", " this story can be completed " on another he goes on & on about friendship while pinning her down like a BFF or hugging her in the most awkward position.

Priyanka is a person who is clear about what she wants, how she is & is vocal about everything which according to many is being "i, me, myself". It clears that she values her relationships. She cares about him but problem is his hot & cold behaviour towards her confuses her.

I hope this girl can do herself a favour & let him go. If he comes back, great. If not, good for her. I know it's easy to say but yeah, she deserves to be free from all this.

Originally posted by: alina.b

@AreYaar - not sure if you are still watching the show. I remember we were discussing Priyankit's relationship in another thread couple weeks back and I said I would make a topic about it where we can discuss. Would love to know your thoughts!

Hi Alina....lol since we last discussed them, Priyankit have already gone through like 3 fights and 2 patch-ups😆.....it's quite dizzying to keep up with the rollercoaster of their equation😆.

That said, I do still like watching them together. Never seen their previous show and BB has been my only window into their equation. I've found them to be quite raw and real to watch together despite the moments of hyper melodrama especially from Priyanka's side with her filmy dialogues about how she does so much and how she only ends up looking bad😆.

This most recent fight was quite ugly especially because of the way Priyanka dragged it out as a spectacle and refused to listen even for a second despite Ankit trying to reason with her...I really thought they might be done for good this time😆....but they still manage to find their way back to each other and the moment they resolve whatever fight it is, the sheer JOY on their faces when they are together😆.....they are genuinely happy in each other's company - it's hard to keep up that much of an act also simply to milk the shipping buzz😆.

Pri's feelings are obvious since she wears her heart on her sleeve....good, bad, ugly - whatever she feels is out for everyone to see....she becomes a mess mainly when it comes to Ankit - otherwise she manages to handle herself well despite so many people coming at her. In Ankit's case, the narrative is that he's some bechara tolerating a shrew like her.....lol but based on this latest fight/patch up drama, the sense comes through that he can't help himself from seeking her out....it's not that he can't talk with other people or joke around with them....he did that for the 3 day breakup they had earlier in the week...lol but there is a different kind of happiness in his body language around her....they both just light up when they are with each other - yes, despite whatever mean things they can say to each other in a fight.....lol

Now, people can keep trying to find logic in this mess that how can two people even go back to talking to each other after such big fights where such mean things are said and voices are raised....but it seems to me that they both can't stop caring about each other no matter how hurt they may feel by each other. Neither of them is doing it for effect. Even if they can't come to a resolution about their future with each other, that care is something bigger than both of them and anything they may say to each other. Warna I can't fathom two people even managing to talk to each other after the kind of fights these two have😆....but they not only resume talking, they are back to being all hugs and smiles😆.

Whatever their equation is, it seems to be bigger than this BB game....that is why they don't seem to let the game drama effect it in the long term no matter how many times they are triggered by something into blasting at each other.....lol.

End of the day, none of us are sitting here to be their therapists that we can decide what is toxic/not toxic for them in their lives. As audiences, we can only decide if we find them watchable or not....and I do find them quite watchable as a raw equation (when they are not having drawn out fights....lol). It's hard to even find that in ITV fiction these days but these two seem to have a genuine equation no matter how messy it is....

From what I have seen just in this show ankit loves Priyanka. He is just not been able to openly accept that because of whatever commitment phobia he has.
Also during the very beginning of bb this season he clearly said she wants marriage/settle down and I don't so things are not happening eventually!
Priyanka is not that bad of a person how colors team are making it out to be. She fights intensely also loves him with that intensity as well.
Anyone who is hung in the middle like Priyanka without a clear yes/no will go insane. That's whats happening with her. Since Ankit is fond of her he should give this relationship a chance.

Everyone has its past and grows up in a different environment and it does affect someone in love in different ways. But when in love completely these things come as secondary.

Seeing all these months Ankit and Priyanka in BB what all I can say is these two are completely different personalities and their compatibility is their biggest problem. But for the betterment of both parties Ankit must clear things out immediately if he is in love with Priyanka or not, he can’t just play with someone emotions and give confusing signals which is very frustrating so that Priyanka can realise that it’s not worth to be clingy with someone who doesn’t love her and move on easily in life. Or say yes and live happily together.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Hi Alina....lol since we last discussed them, Priyankit have already gone through like 3 fights and 2 patch-ups😆.....it's quite dizzying to keep up with the rollercoaster of their equation😆.

That said, I do still like watching them together. Never seen their previous show and BB has been my only window into their equation. I've found them to be quite raw and real to watch together despite the moments of hyper melodrama especially from Priyanka's side with her filmy dialogues about how she does so much and how she only ends up looking bad😆.

This most recent fight was quite ugly especially because of the way Priyanka dragged it out as a spectacle and refused to listen even for a second despite Ankit trying to reason with her...I really thought they might be done for good this time😆....but they still manage to find their way back to each other and the moment they resolve whatever fight it is, the sheer JOY on their faces when they are together😆.....they are genuinely happy in each other's company - it's hard to keep up that much of an act also simply to milk the shipping buzz😆.

Pri's feelings are obvious since she wears her heart on her sleeve....good, bad, ugly - whatever she feels is out for everyone to see....she becomes a mess mainly when it comes to Ankit - otherwise she manages to handle herself well despite so many people coming at her. In Ankit's case, the narrative is that he's some bechara tolerating a shrew like her.....lol but based on this latest fight/patch up drama, the sense comes through that he can't help himself from seeking her out....it's not that he can't talk with other people or joke around with them....he did that for the 3 day breakup they had earlier in the week...lol but there is a different kind of happiness in his body language around her....they both just light up when they are with each other - yes, despite whatever mean things they can say to each other in a fight.....lol

Now, people can keep trying to find logic in this mess that how can two people even go back to talking to each other after such big fights where such mean things are said and voices are raised....but it seems to me that they both can't stop caring about each other no matter how hurt they may feel by each other. Neither of them is doing it for effect. Even if they can't come to a resolution about their future with each other, that care is something bigger than both of them and anything they may say to each other. Warna I can't fathom two people even managing to talk to each other after the kind of fights these two have😆....but they not only resume talking, they are back to being all hugs and smiles😆.

Whatever their equation is, it seems to be bigger than this BB game....that is why they don't seem to let the game drama effect it in the long term no matter how many times they are triggered by something into blasting at each other.....lol.

End of the day, none of us are sitting here to be their therapists that we can decide what is toxic/not toxic for them in their lives. As audiences, we can only decide if we find them watchable or not....and I do find them quite watchable as a raw equation (when they are not having drawn out fights....lol). It's hard to even find that in ITV fiction these days but these two seem to have a genuine equation no matter how messy it is....

Ditto my thoughts!!

I read on Twitter that ankit signed the show just before 1-2 days of premier, so that makes me assume that he may have come here due to priyanka & maybe was going to see if the relationship works. That's why he was like "mein bhi attached hoon", " Yeh kahani poori ho sakti hai", "two sided hai". Priyanka' s close friend has also said ki feelings are mutual. He also used to be carefree with her in starting week & also used to take her side in fight (night fight with manya, stan & shiv). Don't know where it went wrong or the 1st time they started getting negative feedback he restrained himself a bit(stopped twirling & lifting her). And let her take the lead in fights.

Maybe he is confused about what he wants from the relationship, as her personality is loud & in this mad house it has amplified. It is very clear that priyanka loves him & wants commitment. He too loves her ( him going to console her after that disastrous fight) or As seen in LF he is happiest & humming songs after their patch up. And today he is on riot in LF. 😆

I too like to watch them together & they should sort out the issues when out of the house, as they will not open up on this topic in bb house. Or at least make it very clear for PCC that relationship has no future. She may cry for days but will move on. Girl is hyper & loud has some negative points but I still like her. Thats her personality. Gaslighting Or not she genuinely wishes good for Ankit.