Confession scene analysis - Pt2 pg2- why ViDev is so Real. - Page 2

@Telly was waiting for your analysis.....wonderful writing..

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

Part#2 why ViDev is so Crucial.

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Dev...

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but pahle thoda sa flahback...

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A 45 yo man who lived last 30 years as A Son, as A brother,

lived just for others, was a giver all this while, always put his family (even strangers) first...

just imagine a 15 yo boy who lost his dad and he had to be an Adult overnight, who missed his teenage years in a blink of an eye.. and all he has left with are responsibilities of the household on his shoulders as Ghar ka Bada Beta.

and he took it all with pride.. cause this is not just any family its his Dad's beloved family... and he considered it to be an honor to be able to take care of it instead of his Dad...not everyone can do so.

And he gave his all... without cribbing. and while taking care of that family he mastered the skill to keep himself at the bottom of the list... in his very own list.

Just recall that khau gali ka scene when Dev says to Vidhi "bachpan ka ek ghanta lautane ka vada kiya tha,, tumne to pura bachpan lauta diya"

why that line was used.. why it was important...??

cause it was there to emphasis that Dev..even as 45 yo man now still misses those childhood days, still misses going out, having fun, making memories with friends......

he must hv had more such moments to miss his 16 yo self being a brat at home in front of his dad, to throw tantrum to get some thing dad dint want to give him, to hide behind his mom to be saved from his dad's wrath,

or 18 yo boy who could skip college to watch movie in theatre,

20 yo boy having fun in a college outing at khau gali...

and many many many more such memories...

but he never had those memories.. he couldn't create those memories as he was always living for others.. to let them make memories.

and it was so normal until when Vidhi took him to khau gali...

she let him be, he enjoyed as a free bird first time in life... he found a friend in her... cause that 15 yo kid is still craving for a friend but all he has around are grown up people who talk like adults behave likes adults...

and first time he found someone with whom he can be a child again.

(there is a saying that if you face a trauma in childhood.. a part of you remains in that childhood forever scared and scarred waiting to be rescued by someone who can dare to look behind that façade of The Adult you)

Vidhi did that very same thing... though unknowingly.... and that thing forced him to observe her more.

he was always drawn towards her for very same reason.

She was too Masoom for her age...

(may be i am overseeing.. but i felt Dev saw a helpless kid in her who had no one to guide her, to hold her hand to help her learn... just like he was left alone fighting his own battles at 15.. he connected with her mostly cause of that.. my personal POV)

So he saw a helpless kid in her.. whom he could help n groom...

while she unknowingly gave her hand and pulled that 15 yo kid out of his trauma of being An Adult so soon.

*as always blabbering post cause bahut kuch kehna hai.. but theek se likha ya nahi pata nahi.*

Telly yaar your post bring tears in my eyes.. Let me tell you the reason. I lost my dad when i was 16..financial condition was not good at that time.. Being a elder sister i can relate to dev... Mera bhi chota bhai hai.. Jis din mere father ki death hui usi din se bhai ko settle krne ki tension hone lagi... College gyi but kabhi kuch enjoy nhi kiya.. Na Friends ka sath koi masti... Kuch nhi.. Bas ghar ko sambhalne ki tension.. Jo khud krna chahti thi.. Vo sab piche chod diya... Bahut achi thi study mein.. Bahut bade bade dreams bhi the... But sab bhoolna pada... Finally brother got settled.. I was 26...sab mujhe khadoos akdu , gusse vali nd pta nhi kya kya bulate the... Kyunki ho gyi thi main aisi... But i was very alone... Fir entry hui bestest part of my life... My husband... Mujhse 11 years bade hain... 2 months k dating period ka baad hi shaadi ki... Nd after 5 years of marriage you will see me as the happiest, chirpy, doing masti all the time type of girl..

My husband is literally my best friend.. He tried to fulfill all my dreams.. Thoda age ki wajah se kuch baatein puri na ho payi unki koshish k bawjood... But aaj mujhe life mein koi regrets type kuch nhi hai... I am reliving my childhood again...wo mujhe bilkul chote bacche ki tarah pamper krte hain... Aaj mujhe kisi ko settle nhi krna... Koi financial issues k bare meon nahi sochna.. Kuch nhi.. Vo bas yahi chahte hain ki main shararat karun... Tv dekhun... Friends k sath parties karin and everything jo main nahi kr payi... Nd now at 31 i am enjoying my life to the fullest...

Aapki post padhi to dev ka side ko bahut realistic likha aapne... Suddenly mujhe mere vo din yaad aa gye.. And once again i am thanking the Almighty for giving me world's bestest husband and my soulmate..

Thank you so much dear... May God bless you

Sorry thoda jyada lamba post likha.. Nd apni khud ki hi ramayan likhne baith gyi.. But i really wanted you to know ki why this post is close to my heart

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

Part#2 why ViDev is so Crucial.

.

Dev...

.

but pahle thoda sa flahback...

.

A 45 yo man who lived last 30 years as A Son, as A brother,

lived just for others, was a giver all this while, always put his family (even strangers) first...

just imagine a 15 yo boy who lost his dad and he had to be an Adult overnight, who missed his teenage years in a blink of an eye.. and all he has left with are responsibilities of the household on his shoulders as Ghar ka Bada Beta.

and he took it all with pride.. cause this is not just any family its his Dad's beloved family... and he considered it to be an honor to be able to take care of it instead of his Dad...not everyone can do so.

And he gave his all... without cribbing. and while taking care of that family he mastered the skill to keep himself at the bottom of the list... in his very own list.

Just recall that khau gali ka scene when Dev says to Vidhi "bachpan ka ek ghanta lautane ka vada kiya tha,, tumne to pura bachpan lauta diya"

why that line was used.. why it was important...??

cause it was there to emphasis that Dev..even as 45 yo man now still misses those childhood days, still misses going out, having fun, making memories with friends......

he must hv had more such moments to miss his 16 yo self being a brat at home in front of his dad, to throw tantrum to get some thing dad dint want to give him, to hide behind his mom to be saved from his dad's wrath,

or 18 yo boy who could skip college to watch movie in theatre,

20 yo boy having fun in a college outing at khau gali...

and many many many more such memories...

but he never had those memories.. he couldn't create those memories as he was always living for others.. to let them make memories.

and it was so normal until when Vidhi took him to khau gali...

she let him be, he enjoyed as a free bird first time in life... he found a friend in her... cause that 15 yo kid is still craving for a friend but all he has around are grown up people who talk like adults behave likes adults...

and first time he found someone with whom he can be a child again.

(there is a saying in one of my fav kdramas that if you face a trauma in childhood.. a part of you remains in that childhood forever scared and scarred waiting to be rescued by someone who can dare to look behind that façade of The Adult you)

Vidhi did that very same thing... though unknowingly.... and that thing forced him to observe her more.

he was always drawn towards her for very same reason.

She was too Masoom for her age...

(may be i am overseeing.. but i felt Dev saw a helpless kid in her who had no one to guide her, to hold her hand to help her learn... just like he was left alone fighting his own battles at 15.. he connected with her mostly cause of that.. my personal POV)

So he saw a helpless kid in her.. whom he could help n groom...

while she unknowingly gave her hand and pulled that 15 yo kid out of his trauma of being An Adult so soon.

*as always blabbering post cause bahut kuch kehna hai.. but theek se likha ya nahi pata nahi.*

Oh telly dear such a beautiful writing yaar.

Always waiting for your writeups. Thank you so sooo much 💓 💖

Geeta not this way , but some how we both have one thing common and that's the age factor. Iam 29 and my husband is 7 years elder than me. As you said you became a chirpy girl like you were never before the same was with me also. And Geeta zimmedarayin tum ne khud udai. Mere ghar mein mein badi hun par mujhe ijaazat nahi milti thi zimmedariyan udane ke liye. Issi liye kaafi haddi tak mein Vidhi ko relate kar paati hun apne se.

Telly after reading yours and Geeta's reply post I am literally feeling much sad for Dev. In life we all may have undergone to the situation at which where we wanted to enjoy according to our age but we are not able to do it because of the circumstances. Dev's situation is also the same. The guy who have to lift all responsibilities in very young age never had the time to find himself for enjoyment or for himself. What was his passion ? Even his maa Satyawati also must be unaware about it. We know him as business tycoon but there may be chances that he might have interest in other things also .But the space which Shantanu left Dev had to fill it and he would have accepted that as his path and focused on the betterment of Raichand group of companies . Because he doesn't want none of the family members should suffer financial struggle and for that he was making sure everything as best and better for the whole family. He is like the Great Wall who stood as everything in business and family . His maa Satyawati is educated and talented but she never went out for doing job because of the swear Shantanu did that women of this house are not allowed to do job. So she was raising her kids whereas Dev raised himself as big never did any complaint over it. For God sake Satyawati cares him and at some moments she says with him where we can see how she desperately wanted her son Dev should smile, he should get freedom from all the hurdles. Vidhi was like a little bird who were almost caught by her dad Hari Prasad thinking in a way that Ghar kee ladkiyan Ghar ke chaukad par karegi toh kya hoga ? This same thing I have experienced much well, here Vidhi at least gets some sort of freedom and Bimla tries to console Vidhi but in my hard times I was alone in my home. Just because I born as the girl and the first kid of home my Maa used to blame me a lot. The only person who was Little caring me was my dadi but she passed away when my age was 13. Afterwards every time I had to hear much harsh things , I don't understand why my parents blamed me . They used to tell about the caste and community thing at which they mentions that the first child should always be a boy. When I had my first periods I remembered the way how I was asked to stay inside a room and the bed was removed from the room. I questioned it and they said this time girls are apavitra. At that age I don't even understand what's the meaning of that word. Somehow my schooling was done in Kannada medium gov school , my English was so broken and pathetic. I wanted to improve myself and the only relief which I got was engaging myself in studies. The time passed and they had to send me from village because there was no proper college or university at my place. Not that they are interested in making me to get studied in any reputed college they just want their girl should get a degree because in our community it was a demand that girl should be 20 at the time of marriage and she should study in college. My brother never supported me and mostly he has a habit of questioning me like my Paapa which irritates me hell. This time also he was asking why she needs to be send to college? She has to make rotis, wash clothes and look after her family. That's her fate because she is a girl. That day my whole frustration fumed in anger and I gave a tight slap to him. Seeing the waaris because my parents believed only boy is the waaris , not a girl they slapped me back to back and somehow I was send away from my home. I could say that as the best part of life where I was staying in hostel, I was studying with full of dedication and I felt life is not much bad. Then I fell in love with someone who was working near my college and I was like a stalker. Initially I heard rejections from him but the moment he realised that I am alone he started caring me , that was the day when he was trying to advise me at a busstop and my brother came there unexpectedly and behaved very harshly that padai ke bahane tu kar rahi hein kuch aur. Teri kartoot ke liye abhi rukwati hun padhai .That time he questioned my brother and I felt some one is there for me who is able to understand me and my brother went away in anger. Later he genuinely cares me lot and eventually it developed as love and we both decided to love always. From his side things were not easy he was the elder son and he had big responsibilities to handle but fact is he has some sort of freedom in home and for me it was lacking. Age, religion , customs became barriers and to get the consent of families were not easy but later they agreed and we got married. After marriage what he is doing is to make me always happy. I am like a kid when he cares me and would capture his hand for long some time madly. He gave me the care of dad, mom, brother, friend and became my soulmate and I am so proud that I loved him and I believe I am the luckiest person in whole world to have him.

Huuhh my own story went long here but what to do Telly you have penned down from heart and Geeta's reply bought tears in my eyes which took back me to memories also. Dev wasn't able to do anything enjoyable regarding his age as he became the sole earning member of his family. Even in office Yogesh and Kanika are his friends but we never seen him very much casual and comfortable with them like the way he is with Vidhi. With Vidhi he can enjoy with kids in Baalghar, with Vidhi he can sip the street chai, have the chaat , with Vidhi he can have coffee and ask her liberally what kind of life partner she wants to see in a guy ? Did he ever asked this to any other staff of his office? Nope he can never do it. Vidhi is like a masoom kid who wants Dev sir in the little moments of happiness of her's without thinking in typical way of his classy, standard ways. Dev wore the shirt at which he got freedom from all the overcoats which hanged him like he is a bossy, stubborn and responsible person. Her little efforts of making him happy by keeping short notes made Dev to smile well like before. The day when she was telling jab baat rishton kee aati hein wahan lense of objectivity kee nahi dil kee sunna zyada zaruri hein he realised the fact that this girl has done the magic. Just that he was not ready to express it from his side. When Vidhi can think Abhi is capable of handling the situation Dev was feeling anger but he can't hurt her , so he looked her eyes and went straight towards the room. But when Abhi got applauses for appreciation he saw that Vidhi who was praying and his eyes went teary because apart from him some one is there who thinks about his family, the well being of his brother and this could have made a huge impact at his mind. The slight moments when he tried to find the hidden desire of her heart he was like a cute kid who wants desperately to hear it from Vidhi. The heart touching scenes of their journey at car he would have felt to hug her but he forcefully controlled himself because he doesn't want to give pain. But he knows he was giving pain to her and last when the engagement broken he finally took a step ahead to confess it because he felt she had the right to know it . He was able to see the tears of joy in her eyes which he wanted madly and would have extended his arms too, but he being the Umra ki Seema's person didn't did it. But his eyes , his sight made her Happy and she too confessed her feelings and it was beautiful.

Bahut zyada bak - bak kee kya ??? Sorry ho gayi mujhse ....

I can feel you yaar.. I can feel it what you have gone through just because you are a girl.. Don't know why we always need to prove ourselves, why we always need someone's permission to do something... I can feel it.. I think every girl of our generation can relate to it...

But look at the brighter side now.. We both are lucky in terms of life partners.. We both are married to love of our lives...i think this is the bestest gift anyone can ask for... Lets feel happy and blessed.

Your post is really amazing.

You have got the crux of the feelings of Dev n Vidhi absolutely in a great way.

Loved it so much.

Yes that's the best thing. Love makes life beautiful 😍 and I find it in ViDev too now

Originally posted by: Shinika

Ha yaar it’s a deep emotional feeling we couldn’t express it in words.just we will we end up by experiencing their warmth , pain ,and sukoon .

Vidhi and dev both are deep in love 😍

In contrast Iqbal and Rachna both nailed it. He with his subtle ,natural balanced emotions and Rachana’s excited confused finally that sukoon vala smile and the intensity when they said I love you…..

Literally they gave life to this scene….👏👏

indeed....Iqbal and Rachana were perfection personified in this scene