ITV parents are useless

What all the serials on ITV are portraying is that ITV parents are useless.

Take for example our very own deviji. Jis tarah se uski pyari sweetydi baat karti hai usse, agar real life mein kissi ne apnii mom se aise baat kari hoti na then they would have regretted it. Aise gaal laal karti mummian that apne aap akal and akad dono thikane aa jati.

Yahaan, deviji bas bhashan de sakti hai. “Apni ma se tameez se baat karna seekh” and “Batameezi mat kar” and all. But, uske aage dikha diya that she is incapable of fighting her own battles. Someone else has to come and do that for her— in this case Devika. Yahan tak toh aaj madam apne bhakt ko bhi control nahin kar paayi. Woh bhi uski baatein bas mazaak mein le raha tha.

Anuj could have been the strong father figure that Deviji’s rotten children needed. He could have been the one to put his foot down, discipline them and made some ground rules. But noooooo, deviji ke sangat mein rehkar galat decisions hi lena aata hai ise bhi.

I just wish they become bankrupt soon and that it is their pyaare bhaiya bhabhi and their new in-laws, the Shahs, jo yeh shubh kaam apne haath se karen.

PS: Anuj is becoming super super super irritating nowadays ki mann karta hai screen mein ghus kar khud do chapet use hi laga dun.😡😡

To be honest how parents want to correct their children .how parents want to maintain their relationship children It is their personal matter

No one can force parents to slap their children No one can force parents to broke their relationship with children

Bus advice kar sakte Hai apne bache pe dhyaan

School ke teacher kabhi bhi parents ko yeh nahi kehte ki jub yeh homework nahi kare to is do chaar chaante lagana .sub yagi kehte ki ise samjhaao ya is pe dhyaan do

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To be honest how parents want to correct their children .how parents want to maintain their relationship children It is their personal matter

No one can force parents to slap their children No one can force parents to broke their relationship with children

Bus advice kar sakte Hai apne bache pe dhyaan

School ke teacher kabhi bhi parents ko yeh nahi kehte ki jub yeh homework nahi kare to is do chaar chaante lagana .sub yagi kehte ki ise samjhaao ya is pe dhyaan do

Physical violence ki koi zaroorat hi nahin hai and na hi main woh suggest kar rahi hun. Simple move: Shaadi cancel. Thats it. That would have been enough.

But, Deviji does NOT have the GUTS to do anything of that sort. For her, rather than making sure that the child learns right from wrong, khud ki izzat pyaari hai.

Alternatively, she could have said bas usi budget se kaam hoga jo paise Vanraj ne Anuj ko diye. But, woh bhi nahin kiya Deviji ne.

Then, she has the AUDACITY to lecture Anuj about “bacchon ko galti ka inaam nahin dena chahiye” and stuff. Usne kya kiya hai? She is agreeing with everything and everyone. She has the capability of putting her foot down. Kitni baar pehle bhi kiya hai. Jab apni baat manwaani hoti hai, toh Deviji lecture de dekar manwaa hi leti hai. But, she is not doing that here.

Because she is LOUSY at parenting.

So today anupama told anuj ki lavish wedding mein kharcha karne ki jaroorst nahi .to anuj ne bola ki Mera pakhi ke liye karne ka man tha .to anupama ne bola ki agar aapko pakhi ke karne e liye man hai to uske liye education ke naam paisa jama kar dijiye

Anupama ne yeh bhi kaha ki shaadi ke baad padhik Kapadia Kapadia mein nahi rahenge sur aaj anupama ne pakhi ko logical reply diya ki tumhara poora naam pakhi adhik mehta hai padhik adhik Kapadia nahi Jo.apne aap ko Kapadia bahu maanti ho but yeh paagal pakhi apne ko Kapadia bahu maanti hai

BTW I am happy Devika is back wohi pakhi ko shayad sahi karegi apne tareeke se

Originally posted by: femmefatale09

Physical violence ki koi zaroorat hi nahin hai and na hi main woh suggest kar rahi hun. Simple move: Shaadi cancel. Thats it. That would have been enough.

But, Deviji does NOT have the GUTS to do anything of that sort. For her, rather than making sure that the child learns right from wrong, khud ki izzat pyaari hai.

Alternatively, she could have said bas usi budget se kaam hoga jo paise Vanraj ne Anuj ko diye. But, woh bhi nahin kiya Deviji ne.

Then, she has the AUDACITY to lecture Anuj about “bacchon ko galti ka inaam nahin dena chahiye” and stuff. Usne kya kiya hai? She is agreeing with everything and everyone. She has the capability of putting her foot down. Kitni baar pehle bhi kiya hai. Jab apni baat manwaani hoti hai, toh Deviji lecture de dekar manwaa hi leti hai. But, she is not doing that here.

Because she is LOUSY at parenting.

She is the worst parent ever and reason why her children are failures. Good example of someone not to follow

Yesterday anupama refuse hifi demand of pakhi ki pre wedding ki shooting beach mein nahi hogi

And today also anupama ne pakhi ko simple lehnga diya

Agar anupama pakhi ke hi fi wish ke aagey jhuk rahi uske hifi wish ki demand poori kar rahi Hai to pakhi anupama se fight kyon kar kar rahi hai aur yeh kyon keh rahi hai ki Maa ho ke aap Mujhse jalte ho aur yeh kyon ka phir yeh kyon main Aisa cheap lehga nahi pehnoongi meri friends ke beech insult hogi

Only thing is that anupama ne pakhi ko thappad nahi maara but anupama pakhi ke hi fi dream of lavish wedding ko decline kar rahi hai aur pakhi ki simple wedding hi kar rahi anupama

There are a LOT of sayings for this. Proverbs and sayings are ALL a result of ages of experience.

1. Laalayet pancha varshaanhi

Dasha varshaanhi "taadayet"|

Prapte shu shodashe varshe

Putram mitravat aacharet||

2. Laaton ke bhoot baaton se nahin nikale

3. Even in western culture, "Spare the "rod" and spoil the child.

They are not expressions of violence, every parent knows when and what intensity to use. No parent would intentionally hurt their child. Hence using fear as a tool to teach is not wrong. But if parents don't inculcate values, to take ownership of one's decisions and actions, fear of consequences or incorrect actions, they turn out like these brats.

Anupama and Vanraj should make Baa understand that Shah family has no ijjat because of Vanraj, Baa, Toshu and Pakhi karnama, so there is no need to do any remarriage. Anupamaa should focus on her life, Anuj and Anu without speaking a word for or against Pakhi. Barkha and Pakhi can deal with their fights themselves. But TRP ka chaakar, Babu Bhaiya.