Tum mardo ki problem kya hai - Page 23

Originally posted by: purplegirl7

As always beautifully written❤️.

Agree with you about communication between Sai-V and Sai-Jagtap. V wants Sai to ask questions but he fails to see that Sai feels she has no right as he has another 'wife' now. Jagtap could feel Sai's dard by just a phone call but V who has lived with her for years failed to see her pain and tears. Someone like Jagtap would have retorted angrily if slapped. Even the most calm person would have gotten angry for a second. But Jagtap stopped his dost log from responding and asked the reason for the slap.

P.s. 'chor' also means rice in Tamil.

His reaction to the slap was so good. Not for a moment did he slip into old JM. Which talks about his reformation vis-a-vis, P who has started to freak out.

@ bold - Really? I'm not that fluent in tamil. Just understand it in bits, thanks to my dad

Originally posted by: Moor278

Thank you so much... I dont try to do it purposely but I always have "this is not my story" thing at the back of my head.

Why should I defend myself or get worked up on something that I have no control over and which is not my creation 😊. Hope it makes sense.

Aisa nahi hai ki I dont have my theories.. You know I do... but will wait for them to happen... have learned that lesson from Ghum 😊

I agree to you... I did reply the same thing to Indira few pages back.

Sai assumes a strong facade in front of V ... she is all alone in that. her breakdowns are always in private. V for all he says... cannot see the meaning behind her actions... he only reacts to her words... like now on he will keep on taunting her with "you are nobody" till all of this resolves...

he did the same for anniversary... he did the same for fake divorce...

And contrast this to P... she keeps reminding him of the dosti... of the vaada... of her pain... her takleef.... he hears it... and registers it.

This is not at all in support of him but thats how he has been... needs to hear it "spast shabdo" main...

so until and unless that happens... this will continue...

I would still wait for that one breakdown in front of him... could be angry, nasty, physical... anything... but just one to break that facade.

P.S. Your tag didnt work 😆

I don't know how you do that. I keep zoning in and out. Guess with my love for AU/fictions I get too involved in them.

I wrote about this somewhere today. Can't remember if I tagged you guys.

I would not really like Sai to break down in front of this V. But......that is the only way this will get closure and Sai will find happiness. Because as far as Sai is concerned, he is capable for hurting her the most, yet he is the one who can relieve her of that pain too.

At the cost of being a sadist. It will hurt V the most to see Sai like that. We have seen how he loses it when Sai is suffering. Ironically, he hasn't realised how much she has suffered at his expense. She never showed it to him. So the realisation how he broke her and how much she suffered because of him will make him go nuts.

What is it with men? They admire strong women, but when it really gets down to personal stuff, they want their women to reach out to them, break down as if women are weak and helpless and they are their saviours. 😏

Originally posted by: Moor278

I know it hasnt...

My belief this time is based on the fact that medical intervention of any kind will lead to Vinu ka reveal...

CN and V himself have closed off themselves... they dont see the similarity in Vinu with their own blood... not even a fond recollection. The makers have not done the cinematic trope of birthmark or something... so far...

CN have accepted him as an orphan child ... so unless the makers have decided to change it and make him a non biological SaiRat kid permanently ... his reveal has to happen through his disability...

His insistence on getting treated from Sai is not just for his legs.... it is related to his parentage that needs to come out. How else will they prove it? And it helps to keep Sai associated with CN for a longer time.

I see no other way unless an acceptance from P that this is the same Vinu... and she knew all along... which is my theory 🤣

I don't know why but I keep getting reminded of this one scene before separation where Vinu had been handed over to P. Sai goes to her room to give her some clothes for Vinu saying she made them or something and that she should make him wear it to keep him warm. But P discards her suggestion.

I don't know why I think that set of clothes will make an entry in Vinu's belongings that will be safely kept with P. And Sai finds it which makes her radars active

Long shot. But somehow has been visiting my brain quite often🤣

Originally posted by: Rosyme

By seeing ML s acting and playing spouse with P, will trp audience understand Virat still loves Sai?

We are getting to know more insight into this actions due to all these analysis.

Don't know what trp audience can make out.

There are no IVs also now a days, except for VP scenes

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I agree!! We come to this forum and are able to see others analysis and then see what V feels

But trp audience only sees what's shown to them and whatever subtle hints they show for V isn't seen by the audience

I mean even I can't pick up on it until I come here and read others reviews so just imagine the rest of the audience

They don't go as in-depth in character analysis as online audience...it's all face value

Men! They want an independent woman who is only dependent on them. For her, he should be the only hero… even if he behaves as mawali or goonda

I think she will find those clothes in orphanage.

Sai doesnt feel comfortable showing her weakness in front of anyone except aabaa. That was the only time she was fully vocal about her fear to lose him and was openly scared and wanted to flee with him. At all other times it is upto others to coax the emotions out of her like V used to do LONG LONG AGO and even Pullu used to do and VERY rarely Devi and Ashwini too. But most of the time she only gives away a small part of the much bigger load of emotional load and grief she feels. And now she is completely hardened and closed off. She has seen far too much as a single parent and she is never going to tell V. It will be on Savi, UM, JM to say things that make V and Chavannis feel even a teeny bit of guilt. But I dont think UM cares. JM might- but that will be brushed away because its coming from him and so it'll be like- tum toh chup raho if he speaks up. they will rather character assassinate further if he talks about Sai's struggles that he has witnessed her manage all alone also. And Savi in her innocence may say something but I think it'll also backfire and rather than appreciation for her will, her strength and the values she instilled, V and Chavannis will blame her for Savi's parvarish being in a small house or something....They will say because of her "zidd" the child was deprived of comforts etc. Whereas reality is despite all the baba yearning Savi was actually way happier than Vinu has ever been. Sai has accommodated Savi's every wish. Reminds me of my own early childhood- paise kam bhi the toh my parents would still accomodate my every wish- instead of spending money to buy a box of sweets they would buy 1 just for me. They would not splurge on gifts for themselves but I would get what I wanted.Sai is definitely shown as that kind of parent. Ghar mein kuch ho na ho, Savi is pampered and gets what she wants. And she is also WAY more charismatic than VInu in terms of personality. Vinu is a sweet kid but there is a certain aura and charisma that Savi has, Vinu lacks.Thats why I hope Savi is not turned into a tantrum throwing kid in future tracks. I hope she stays true to Sai's upbringing and value system.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nice one! Yeah it will be good if it happens.

one thingy for sure, virat has taken nobody and not to touch her seriously. I am sure he will start apologizing even after touching her accidentally 🤣

He will keep saying I am savi’s dad! And does all the husband wala antics behind that. Except touching 😂

I'm still hoping for that scene I wrote about when Harini's case comes up. Sai dressed in western clothes to meet the guy for some modelling assignment. And the guy going all gaga over her. Touch me touch me chalega, and yahaan Dhai kilo ka haath machlega.

Bolega, main yahaan tadap raha hoon touch ke liye, aur mujhe don't touch me zone mein daal diya

Originally posted by: Rosyme

By seeing ML s acting and playing spouse with P, will trp audience understand Virat still loves Sai?

We are getting to know more insight into this actions due to all these analysis.

Don't know what trp audience can make out.

There are no IVs also now a days, except for VP scenes

.

Most trp aunties and young ladies are married like some of us and they know how exactly men behave 😬. They will understand virat instantly only issue is reality is slightly different so even if they capture emotions correctly they will take the drama with pinch of salt. That’s why in a plot , emotions are more important than plot ‘setting’. For example: in real life what virat is doing with pakhi is not possible. But this setting adds to the drama. What matters is what virat “feels”. Same thing with sai, her hiding like this for several years is far fetched. But the emotional factor behind her hiding is what makes the plot interesting.

I think being in marriage, trp audience catch these emotions instantly. That’s why I think they will not forget pakhi and her mistakes ever. Trp is sustaining because they see her suffering.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes!!! The parallels are glaring. Sai will melt and RUN back to him instantly, falling all over him ( like he desires 🤣) only if

1. He is a single parent

2. He didn’t marry

She will forgive him for all his mistakes! Even without an apology. Marrying pakhi means he forgot what pakhi did. Period.

I just hope they will stick to parallels. JM and pakhi are the same to me. One destroyed people, the other destroyed relationships. Both caused mental agony

Tough one🤣

Agree. They are same. And none can actually be forgiven for their acts. But it is the comparison, how one is enjoying the snatches with no regrets and the one reformed is facing the punishment. It is the contrast in the criminals, their reformation and their treatment by people that they are showing.