Tum mardo ki problem kya hai - Page 24

Originally posted by: purplegirl7

Now you mentioned anniversary, you do have a good point. V had ended all relationship with Sai after the fight. He didnt reveal about the cafe conversation when questioned and wants Sai to admit herself as his wife to get her answer.

Post leap he knows he is married but wants Sai to question him as wife. He is going around saying P is his wife but couldnt stand Sai saying he is nobody to her. His way of thinking is too 'complex', it becomes hard to understand him. Sai said he is sailing in two boats and it fits here too.

What accident spoiler? Is it on IF?

Precisely. He is addressing P as his wife in public, and then he is forcing his rights on Sai as her husband. What is that supposed to be? Bigamy?

There was an IF spoiler a while back that hasn't come true yet, which said that Sai will be attacked. We predicted it to be Gulab Rao and then some connection with the landlord of the house Sai has rented, as it looked seemingly shady. But haven't seen any hints yet

Originally posted by: sadiltl

The difference between JM and pakhi is that the former is mentally strong. His reformation has acceptance. Pakhi lost her mental balance when she returned back to CN after Sammy’s death. She had post partum depression, that’s another story. And went to jail. Coming back lost vinu and was responsible somewhere to sai leaving the house and seeing virat losing everything in front of her eyes. It takes a strong mind and personality to overcome this guilt. Sai, virat and JM has this strength. Pakhi is Weak. She is struggling still to do the right thing. She is definitely changed but fear is the worst enemy. It is making her weak.

Sherry, again the parallel.. sai can’t forget JMs deeds. How come virat did? Will we get some explanation? I hope so.

I'm hoping for it to happen soon. P-V are getting on my nerves now. And ab inka so called pati-patni closeness will give puke attacks

P never had real depression. she was faking it. And she is not changed. she was merely playing sly and manipulating to appear mahaan always. and that act will continue always. she is like V- thinks that she is the most unfortunate person who has faced more struggles and pain than anyone ever has , whereas she always has had it pretty cushy. parents- who supported her despite criminal behavior, in-laws who did the same. even V- i mean even presumed death of Sai couldnt make him alienate P. He considered her a "friend" always. that is why it doesnt matter if he had sex or not.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Sherry Kudos girl! Superbly put.👏

Yes Pakhi virat and JM sai parallels it is! Virat pakhi equation, why he forgave her if he did will not come out for the longest time!! Because that will give away the plot.

I still have hope in my theory. Because the most important thing that hurt him was not the slap but her words that he could not touch her because he is a nobody to her. For him, he is her husband. He doesn’t think about pakhi at all. I can’t believe he can ignore the fact that he married her!! It has to be something that makes him so casual about his marriage with pakhi. He is operating like this from day 1 he found sai. He is asking questions with full rights. As a husband. But I will leave it open for now.

See if virat thinks marriage becomes a marriage if there is love and sex, otherwise it is not then sai going back to him because he didn’t have love and sex with pakhi means she also believes in the same definition of marriage?? Yesterday she was clear that she will not answer him because he has a patni. But why did virat not clarify it?either he is stuck at kaun ho aap. Or todays more accusations on not to touch her. He took literally that she is over him. Because she has someone if not jaggy who is savi’s father. He should have told about the loveless marriage with pakhi right? Why didn’t he say it? Is it because it is true that he married or he doesn’t want to say because she said he is nobody! However the way sai operated yesterday looked like she spoke to a married man. So she said he is married and hence he is nobody to her. So why would she go back to him? Unless she has the same definition of marriage as virat’s? For kids? She is ready to share savi with him even knowing he is now married right? So why will she go back to him for kids. She will share custody.

As you said if he truly understood her, he would understand the parallels when she accused him of marrying Patralekha. But as usual he is wallowing in her affair with jaggy because apparently he didn’t have sex with anyone 😬. He is Pure she is not 😆. Double standards. Sai should have said he could have slept with an woman a night. Married anyone else but not pakhi. Atleast then he would have understood what his marriage meant to her. But sai is always ahead in her principles. If there is a marriage, she will operate as a third person and limits herself. This precisely he doesn’t want. He wants her to ask questions “poocho na” comes from there. He wants her to rip him apart for marrying pakhi. Break down for him like he did yesterday. What language they know in their head they want to hear that. 😏

that’s why I think he will try to break her going forward. He will know she has no one in her life, that she has been waiting for him. Now she asked him not to touch her as he is nobody, his ego got hurt. Physical rejection hurts men. Now he will not touch her but will break her in some way! He will want to prove that he is someone still important to her. Pakhi gives him the opportunity. She is ready to show her haq. But is he using pakhi or pakhi’s situation presented him with an opportunity where he is not using her but helps him make sai jealous too?? Because a 2 timing virat is a blot on his character as well as sai doesn’t appreciate it. So there must be a bigger reason, :)

Sai we saw yesterday will not easily go to virat. She will need an apology and much more from virat. He is not even thinking about surrogacy and his part in sending her away. How will his apology make any difference to sai now? So he suddenly realized his mistakes after 7 years?!!! And regrets?

Coming to spoiler, As you said this might be the fight they captured and wrote it as a spoiler. :) because virat after knowing savi’s truth will know sais love for him. He will be angry but will fly high. But he will want her to say that he means to him the same because she insulted him by Asking him not to touch her 😂. How petty?! But he has been like that with sai 😡

Pakhi will be deranged showing maximum haq! That will make virat’s life hell. He is be sitting on nails but pretends to have fun in front of sai! before sai breaks down, pakhi will break him down with pregnancy news!!!! I so want this to happen 🤣

Sadhika I heard nd saw a video in YouTube where she said Sai will run along with Vinnu in the race to make Vinnu encourage nd win,seeing this even virat will join Sai so both Vinnu's mother father encourage nd boosts Vinnu to win the race😊😊

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I don't know why but I keep getting reminded of this one scene before separation where Vinu had been handed over to P. Sai goes to her room to give her some clothes for Vinu saying she made them or something and that she should make him wear it to keep him warm. But P discards her suggestion.

I don't know why I think that set of clothes will make an entry in Vinu's belongings that will be safely kept with P. And Sai finds it which makes her radars active

Long shot. But somehow has been visiting my brain quite often🤣

It's not wrong TBH.

From what I know... orphanages or adoption centres keep the arrival history, belongings and other stuff of the arrived kid for the eventual parents. Thats how they trace the kid if needed...

They also click pictures at regular intervals to show how to kid has grown up.

All this is handed over to the adoptive parents later.

If you remember I had shared a post about an insta influencer who adopted. She had mentioned all this.

Technically VP should have got all this... but since this is Ghum... they might not have.

I thus had hopes that Sai ka orphanage job might lead to this unearthing ... but vo to hua hi nahi... I expected this to happen in kidnapping... par vaha bhi nahi..

So ab Pata nahi kaise karenge unless this blood test wala chij aata hai 🤪

Originally posted by: Moor278

It's not wrong TBH.

From what I know... orphanages or adoption centres keep the arrival history, belongings and other stuff of the arrived kid for the eventual parents. Thats how they trace the kid if needed...

They also click pictures at regular intervals to show how to kid has grown up.

All this is handed over to the adoptive parents later.

If you remember I had shared a post about an insta influencer who adopted. She had mentioned all this.

Technically VP should have got all this... but since this is Ghum... they might not have.

I thus had hopes that Sai ka orphanage job might lead to this unearthing ... but vo to hua hi nahi... I expected this to happen in kidnapping... par vaha bhi nahi..

So ab Pata nahi kaise karenge unless this blood test wala chij aata hai 🤪

Hypothetically what if only P got the box of original clothes and junk? So maybe she knows this is vinu based on that ? It's a stretch tho ....but if they wanna completely make her vamp

She coulda planned to put the "needs to be married" clause before adoption by bribing the lady or whatever and then lucky her when she got the box she saw it's real vinu

So that explains her "motherly love"

But then again if she found out this is real vinu why would she hide it?! 🤔.

Lol this show makes no sense to me

Originally posted by: Mikis

Hypothetically what if only P got the box of original clothes and junk? So maybe she knows this is vinu based on that ? It's a stretch tho ....but if they wanna completely make her vamp

She coulda planned to put the "needs to be married" clause before adoption by bribing the lady or whatever and then lucky her when she got the box she saw it's real vinu

So that explains her "motherly love"

But then again if she found out this is real vinu why would she hide it?! 🤔.

Lol this show makes no sense to me

Yeh Mera theory kabse hai...guess you missed that... have expressed this many times. She has orchestrated this whole adoption even seeing how V is attracted to this Vinu.

And to support my theory are the two flashbacks... of VP marriage and Vinu's adoption. Both are hers... so it might be 'her' version of all this process. We haven't heard/seen from V's perspective about Vinus adoption. There is no clarity if they adopted him jointly or V is the only parent 🤷

Her obsession can be explained only if she knows this is the same Vinu. I cannot see a P standing in front of moving vehicle for V's adopted son... it has to be more. She is not that selfless...

Glad you feel the same. Meri theory pe yakeen karne wala ek aur insaan 🤣

Originally posted by: Moor278

Yeh Mera theory kabse hai...guess you missed that... have expressed this many times. She has orchestrated this whole adoption even seeing how V is attracted to this Vinu.

And to support my theory are the two flashbacks... of VP marriage and Vinu's adoption. Both are hers... so it might be 'her' version of all this process. We haven't heard/seen from V's perspective about Vinus adoption. There is no clarity if they adopted him jointly or V is the only parent 🤷

Her obsession can be explained only if she knows this is the same Vinu. I cannot see a P standing in front of moving vehicle for V's adopted son... it has to be more. She is not that selfless...

Glad you feel the same. Meri theory pe yakeen karne wala ek aur insaan 🤣

But they should start to hint towards this more because it's unclear....I was just shooting in the dark lol because yes Ps obsession makes no sense to me either the one who was so careless in pregnancy but all of a sudden risked her life for a child that's not her?

Also a random clause added by an agency that you have to be married sounds fishy

But then it could be just makers changing rules and laws to justify the marriage and the story 🤷🏾‍♀️

agree. imo, yes in general any relationship- especially spouses- deserves work, time, care, effort BUT only if there is scope for improvement, some reflection, redemption, progress, growth, reciprocation. but ABUSE and TOXICITY is not seen in a loving relationship. its a criminal offense and such a marriage should END for good. Rooting for Sairat is essentially endorsement of an abuse. For a long time when V was still redeemable many of us had hope for reconcilitation but now it is way past that

Yes Sai loves V. Probably will never love anyone else. But her self respect is worth more. She doesnt need to tolerate abuse in the name of compromises to make a relationship work. She did ENOUGH and MORE for V. Tolerated P as surrogate, the entire pregnancy behavior of V towards her, tolerated V snatching her baby and forgave him but his behavior only got worse. She has taken every taunt, every allegation. She has watched him stand mute when his lusty bhabhi turned wife and his gharwaale maligned her, hurt her and yet she gave him benefit of doubt always. She loved selflessly. She was devoted. She did everything humanly possible. Till date she maintains decorum and has been polite, considerate and kind. Yet not only is there no reflection, guilt, shame, V is actually WORSE. how can there be any explanation for his BS - its beyond me.

If only V had retained some decency, dignity, humanity then there would have been hope for a classic "happy" ending. but now the happy ending is if Sai is free of the clutches of this man and his gharwaale forever. not even bad memories, pain but fully move on. She deserves peace, closure, happiness

Originally posted by: Itstaraa7999

Agreed.

That's why you shove the theories on people that are untrue and disturb minds too.

And make theories about his love for sai.

It's too harmful to be as toxic as virat🤢

But you feel proud in calling yourself that.

And this isn't the first time🤢

Literally everyone knows that the marriage is real and how virat keeps hurting sai and is such a bad person.

But you've a typical mindset of the society which is that they love each other nd should learn to live with each other no matter what. No other partner. 2 people should forcefully live together forever

This is such a problematic mindset🤢

People move on and leave partners it's not a big deal but you toh👎🏼

Sorry but she has done nothing of the sort.

Whatever theories she has posted come from a thinking and inspired from KD which is the source material.

It's not 'her' theories.

Neither has anyone in this thread atleast has justified the abuse ...

Guys ... please see this..