Did you have/will get heirloom KANGANS from MIL /Mother - Page 2

Originally posted by: sreeja_rox

The hindu weddings in Kerala are actually very unfair . The engagements and weddings both are done from the girl’s side and it wont end there . We got this new custom of giving kangans to MIL and groom ki sisters . 

Yaar it's  very discouraging to get married then religiously😔

Originally posted by: Ziva01

Yaar it's  very discouraging to get married then religiously😔

Hahaha i second u . We girls need to be really bold to stay on . But yea personally for me after marriage jaldi uthna sabke liye khaana banaana kind normal stuffs werent asked . Wen i was with my in laws used to wake up aaram se only by the time I had to login for my work . 😆 if they would try ti impose me with anything I would be like pehle apne bete ko bolo phir mujhe bolo 🤣🤣 

Originally posted by: sreeja_rox

Hahaha i second u . We girls need to be really bold to stay on . But yea personally for me after marriage jaldi uthna sabke liye khaana banaana kind normal stuffs werent asked . Wen i was with my in laws used to wake up aaram se only by the time I had to login for my work . 😆 if they would try ti impose me with anything I would be like pehle apne bete ko bolo phir mujhe bolo 🤣🤣 

Lol😆🤣

Good u stand ur ground👍🏼

Originally posted by: Ziva01

Lol😆🤣

Good u stand ur ground👍🏼

lol 😆 no other way out 🤣

I also got a Kangan from my MIL😳

Originally posted by: sreeja_rox

Its a custom for the north indians I believe. For people like me from south India its the reverse . We have to buy new gold kangan and give it to our MIL  

We get gold ka mangulsutra from in laws . 

No it's not a custom it's about availability. Like my family doesn't have any heirloom jewels 

So after MIL death who get those kangans? 

Originally posted by: -Raindrops-

I also got a Kangan from my MIL😳

Not anything else? 

In shows it's mostly kangans!! Like there are heirloom necklace, rings etc but no FL will get dead saas ka pyar in form of kangans only

Originally posted by: S-I-A

I have from both of my moms … I have already decide to give my mom’s to my daughter and my mother in laws kangan to my son 😆

You too only got kangans not other jewelry pieces? 

Originally posted by: shruti46

No it's not a custom it's about availability. Like my family doesn't have any heirloom jewels 

So after MIL death who get those kangans? 

I have no clue about that now . Either there beta or beti has it not sure . 😆

Originally posted by: sreeja_rox

I have no clue about that now . Either there beta or beti has it not sure . 😆

Beta will not wear it which means DIL will get it and that will be you. 

It means you are paying for your own jewelry and loaning to her🤣