How do Anupama's kids deal with her?😬 - Page 2

By saying that anupama se saari expectations anupama se kyon by that I meant ki khuch pehal anupama kare aur khuch pehal uske bache kare .

Yeh koi baat nahi Hota ki jub tuk anupama nahi kahegi main yahan nahi aa sakti tum log yahan aa Jaya Karo. Tub tuk bache yeh baat khud nahi keh sakte ki aap yahan mut aao . Hum wahan khud aa jayenenge

My point is that expectations hamesha ek person se nahi honi chahiye baaki logon se bhi honi chahiye

If I said expect anupama ko yeh baat bachon se bolni chahiye ki go to hell to main yeh baat toshu pakhi se bhi expect karti hoon unhe apni Maa ko aisi insult nahi Karni chahiye

I Am not saying ki agar unhe apnj Maa ki baat galat lagti hai to use nahi point karna chahiye but woh baat ko Bina apni Maa ka harsh shabd bole Bina bhi kaha jaa sakta hai

I have told what I want to say phir bhi agar khuch bhi conclusion nikaal Rahe then i can't help.

Guys on a side note, I’m new to this forum so how do you delete your comment after you post on the forum? I can’t see any option other than edit

I would honestly say don’t bother explaining. I tried my best in the other post and was attacked. This was literally what I tried to say.

Some expectations - for her to set boundaries and draw a line between her and her kids. Stand her ground and say she will not come to a place where she’s insulted daily (basic human nature usually, not even considered an expectation). And actually stick to it, not just say it and be back in 3 days.

Whole expectations - For her alone to do all the work of Shah House, take care of everybody’s problems, constantly go to that house even after repeated badduas and horrible statements by her so called “maa” and loving bacche.

When we ask her just for that “some expectation”, it’s literally for her own self respect and sanity. Not for anyone else. And asking her to do that doesn’t mean we are saying her kids should do as they please, obviously they shouldn’t. But they do anyway, they don’t listen to anyone, so for your own peace of mind you cut off from toxic people rather than expecting them to magically change and constantly putting yourself through hell.

But this statement of mine was apparently unreasonable and expecting Anupama to do everything and what not. So I would say let people believe what they want to! They won’t understand basic logic.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Some expectation🤔

Alright. Now tell me

1. you expecting her to tell her kids to go to hell is just some expectation,

2. but my expectation for Anupama to ask her kids to come to her house is whole expectation.

How do we measure that🤔

bachche, baa, achche pita sab ne dhakke maar maar ke, gaali deke nikala. Fir bhi Anupama shah house aa jati hai. Ab kya hi expectation kare Mataji se.

Just one request, don't ever say on the show to learn from Anupama. She has got nothing to teach others. Nothing!

Wow some people are saying mainne attack Kiya jub ki khud forum join karte isliye to tell me main baa ki Tarah hoon

Khud apna post nahi dekhte ki apne post mein muhe Kitna personal attack Kiya Hai And even moral polcimg me ki mujhe Kab kaise anupama ko support karna chahiye

.yahan ek baat to pakki hai yahan Har baat ko bhada chada kur namak mirch laga ke present Kiya jaata hai

Anupama ke dialogue ko bhi namak Mirch laga ke present Kiya jaata ki Pata nahi anupama ne aisa kya keh diya aur kya kar diya .but actual episode dekho to aise khuch Hota hi nahi

I just said expectations dono taraf honi chahiye not from one side but as usual Pata nahi khuch log bus namak Mirch laga ke kya add kya kya conclusion nikaale jaa Rahe

Originally posted by: lalaland23

Guys on a side note, I’m new to this forum so how do you delete your comment after you post on the forum? I can’t see any option other than edit

Originally posted by: Loveforworld

Her kids are handling it two ways, completely ignoring her and belittling her at every chance they get because that's the norm at shah house( toshu and pakhi). Another way is hiding behind her pallu and having no sense of self other that being a mommy's boy ( samar). Whatever they do, they are all emotionally stunted dysfunctional adults.

True but Toshu was also always a papa's boy 🤢. And Pakhi doesn't know what she is. 😂

Wow, that’s strange! Good to know though, thank you :)

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Hmm. Maybe that's why they have turned Pakhi and Toshu into the weird creatures they are😆

So that we don't feel bad for them😆