Unpopular Opinion - Page 4

BTW anupama is not general story ha

Yes muhje maaloon hai ki sabke apne favorite character hai sub apne favorite character ko jyada se jyada dekhna chahye hai but fact is show about anupama to basically to should be run around anupama

Yes they can use kinjal track as sub plot or other sub plot to run it for 20 years but main plot should be about anupama only and this what CVS doing great mistake ..

Thse CVS only focusing only on sub plots but not focusing on main plot that is why show going down hill

Originally posted by: vivacious

I agree, that person should repent for his wrong doings.. I think Toshu is putting that face because none of the shah family members are eligible to confront him.. I truly believe, he loves Kinjal and the baby..

If he commits the same mistake again after giving a second chance then Kinjal must divorce him without a second thought..

Anupama is justified to divorce Vanraj cos

Vanraj came from a Healthy Family where his parents respect each other yet committed a Sin and he is also an abuser and also clipped Anupama’s wings so that she cannot pursue her dreams.. In this case, there’s no question of Second chance ..

Unlike Vanraj, Toshu came from a Unhealthy Environment.. Where Father brings a women as a friend and gets married later and Mother brings a friend to home and gets married later.. And all the Family members are happily staying together celebrating Festives.. Shah’s never really Punished Vanraj or Showed hatred towards him..

If I have to punish someone, I see the root cause and punish accordingly..

Neither Anupama nor Vanraj were right persons to Slap Toshu.. It should either come from Rakhi or Kinjal..

Then Toshu would have reacted in a different way..

@red-HE WILL COMMIT THE MSITAKE AGAIN,dude is already planning to do it & was rubbing it in Anupama & Rakhi's face so if & but's ka koi sawaal hi nahin.Also what love are u talking about when he literally said it is OKAY of him to sleep with other women?Any man who loves his wife will never even think of such a thing,I don't know what delusion u are living in.

@Green-Coming from an unhealthy environment is no excuse for cheating just because Vanraj cheated on Anupama Toshu can't use this as his shield when being confronted about his affair.Also about not punishing Vanraj, then that was Anupama's fault, she could have sent him to jail but she chose not to. What punishment can other family members give him except a cold shoulder & breaking their relationship with him,like Samar did.Just because Vanraj didn't pay for his crimes completely that doesn't give Toshu the right to think it is OKAY for him to do it.

Originally posted by: vivacious

Kinjal shouldn’t stay at Shah House..

It doesn’t make any sense to divorce Toshu if she stays there..

Apart from Anuj.. Almost all the married men in this Serial had EMA..

Anuj too had one night stands before marriage ( I don’t know, why it is fine with so many people)

Why makers are hell bent to show.. it is only justified for a women to divorce her husband due to EMA.

A women MUST leave her husband, if he physically abuse her, threaten her, doesn’t let her grow independently.. Why can’t they address these issues?

These issues are much more worse than EMA.

Makers are actually normalizing it by saying every other Man is having EMA.. Which is a wrong message..

Do only men commit EMA’s?
Why potray Men in Poor Light to Glorify Women?

This show is One - Sided and Regressive..

Well said

I also have same question.

Men are cheaters; they have EMA, ONS but with whom

with some aliens?

May be percentage of married women is less.

every time man is not responsible.

@red-HE WILL COMMIT THE MSITAKE AGAIN,dude is already planning to do it & was rubbing it in Anupama & Rakhi's face so if & but's ka koi sawaal hi nahin.Also what love are u talking about when he literally said it is OKAY of him to sleep with other women?Any man who loves his wife will never even think of such a thing,I don't know what delusion u are living in.

@Green-Coming from an unhealthy environment is no excuse for cheating just because Vanraj cheated on Anupama Toshu can't use this as his shield when being confronted about his affair.Also about not punishing Vanraj, then that was Anupama's fault, she could have sent him to jail but she chose not to. What punishment can other family members give him except a cold shoulder & breaking their relationship with him,like Samar did.Just because Vanraj didn't pay for his crimes completely that doesn't give Toshu the right to think it is OKAY for him to do it.

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@ BOLD:

I think sleeping with a Random Women and Loving someone are completely different..

Anuj too had One Night Stands When he was deeply in Love with Anupama and nobody had a problem with it.. Remember?
According to Your Logic.. A Man who loves a Women .. Cannot sleep with Other Women.. So, Anuj doesn’t love Anupama Sincerely.

Why is sleeping with a random women before marriage is considered Progressive?
Sleeping with a random person before marriage and after marriage, both should be considered wrong.. Right?
Infact BOTH are WRONG.
Anyways, AM NOT SUPPORTING TOSHU..

I, simply said.. There are other better ways too to Punish a person apart from Divorce and at the same time Baby shouldn’t be deprived of Parents Love.

I once heard an interview where Director RGV told about an incident where they wanted to kiss a classmate who is very pretty and a Group of 5 Members were planning about it while drinking..

One person said, let’s do it after the college while she is on her way to Home..

Second Person said, No No.. Let’s do it when she returns from her Private Classes as it will be Dark

Third Person said, I think what we are thinking is Wrong, we shouldn’t do it.

Fourth Person said.. Yes, I feel the same too, by doing so.. we are hurting her, we shouldn’t do it.

Fifth person said, I agree with the Third and Fourth person.. I won’t like to come with you if you are going..

Then Second person also said.. Yea.. may be bcos of Alcohol we are thinking too much.. It’s not right to hurt a women and they all dropped the Plan and it Nvr Happened..

So, Environment around us and the people we are living with can influence us in making or stoping Mistakes..

That’s what happened in Toshu’s Case..

WHAT TOSHU DID IS DEFINITELY WRONG

BUT

BAA, KINJAL, BAPUJI, ANUPAMA and VANRAJ are EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE..

THEY GAVE HIM THAT PUSH to COMMIT INFIDELITY BY NORMALIZING IT..

I Agree with You

First of all, They are not Showing any Women Empowerment in this Serial..

If the Makers are thinking Divorcing Your Spouse and Getting Married to Other Person and Romancing Him is called Women Empowerment.. I PITY Them

Showing Men in Poor Light to Glorify Women has Nothing to do with Women Empowerment Again..

Why can’t they simply show MEN and WOMEN both are Equal and they should treat each other with Respect.
It is Mutual Respect that is more important in a relationship than Love and Romance..

Ab kis kis ka accident karwaye men ko guilty feel karwane ke liye🤣🤣

vanraj ka bhi hua tha

ab toshu ka bhi karwa de kya??

9. Divorce isn’t a good thing and it shouldn’t be the ONLY OPTION for every problem... COMPLETELY DISAGREE....watch your own words dear...so u say that one should spoil his whole life staying in continuous negativity rather than going out ...

@ BOLD

I never said to compromise or to Ignore or to Spend whole life with Toshu

I simply said, to opt for other solutions like Conscious Uncoupling etc .. so that the Kids don’t get affected due to divorced parents and grow in a healthy environment..

I repeat myself.. A wife and husband can opt for divorce without much thinking but Parents should think Twice ..

I wasn’t aware until one of our friends told me that he hinted that he would be going out and sleep around until Kinjal recovers..

In that case, Kinjal Must Leave Shah House and Go with Her Mom..

I said Toshu Deserves Second Chance as I was not aware of the above conversation.. I see the clips on Insta.. so missed that part..

Originally posted by: vivacious

@red-HE WILL COMMIT THE MSITAKE AGAIN,dude is already planning to do it & was rubbing it in Anupama & Rakhi's face so if & but's ka koi sawaal hi nahin.Also what love are u talking about when he literally said it is OKAY of him to sleep with other women?Any man who loves his wife will never even think of such a thing,I don't know what delusion u are living in.

@Green-Coming from an unhealthy environment is no excuse for cheating just because Vanraj cheated on Anupama Toshu can't use this as his shield when being confronted about his affair.Also about not punishing Vanraj, then that was Anupama's fault, she could have sent him to jail but she chose not to. What punishment can other family members give him except a cold shoulder & breaking their relationship with him,like Samar did.Just because Vanraj didn't pay for his crimes completely that doesn't give Toshu the right to think it is OKAY for him to do it.

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@ BOLD:

I think sleeping with a Random Women and Loving someone are completely different..

Anuj too had One Night Stands When he was deeply in Love with Anupama and nobody had a problem with it.. Remember?
According to Your Logic.. A Man who loves a Women .. Cannot sleep with Other Women.. So, Anuj doesn’t love Anupama Sincerely.

Why is sleeping with a random women before marriage is considered Progressive?
Sleeping with a random person before marriage and after marriage, both should be considered wrong.. Right?
Infact BOTH are WRONG.
Anyways, AM NOT SUPPORTING TOSHU..

I, simply said.. There are other better ways too to Punish a person apart from Divorce and at the same time Baby shouldn’t be deprived of Parents Love.

I once heard an interview where Director RGV told about an incident where they wanted to kiss a classmate who is very pretty and a Group of 5 Members were planning about it while drinking..

One person said, let’s do it after the college while she is on her way to Home..

Second Person said, No No.. Let’s do it when she returns from her Private Classes as it will be Dark

Third Person said, I think what we are thinking is Wrong, we shouldn’t do it.

Fourth Person said.. Yes, I feel the same too, by doing so.. we are hurting her, we shouldn’t do it.

Fifth person said, I agree with the Third and Fourth person.. I won’t like to come with you if you are going..

Then Second person also said.. Yea.. may be bcos of Alcohol we are thinking too much.. It’s not right to hurt a women and they all dropped the Plan and it Nvr Happened..

So, Environment around us and the people we are living with can influence us in making or stoping Mistakes..

That’s what happened in Toshu’s Case..

WHAT TOSHU DID IS DEFINITELY WRONG

BUT

BAA, KINJAL, BAPUJI, ANUPAMA and VANRAJ are EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE..

THEY GAVE HIM THAT PUSH to COMMIT INFIDELITY BY NORMALIZING IT..

@R-Anuj having one night stands is not & will never be a problem because he wasn't married to Anupama at that time,how can u even compare the two??????Having one night stands when ur unmarried is okay if both have consented to it .U don't have a relationship to bind u ,a person to be loyal to,vows to not break to.The whole concept of marriage is about choosing that one person to whom u will be committed to physically, mentally & emotionally. By even comparing Toshu's affair with Anuj's one night stands u discredit the whole idea of something as pure as marriage. And what did u say,a man who loves a woman cannot sleep with another women.Answer is efffing NO.NO U CANNOT SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WHILE BEING BOUND TO SOMEONE IN A RELATIONSHIP.AND IT'S NOT MY LOGIC, IT IS WHAT ANYONE WITH COMMON SENSE WOULD SAY,WHICH I SEE U COMPLETELY LACK.Gosh why am I even arguing with u,I should have understood by now that I'm speaking to a person with the brain capacity of a pea pod.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I should have understood by now that I'm speaking to a person with the brain capacity of a pea pod.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@ BOLD

While debating with you, did I atleast once belittle your intelligence or Arguing capacity or Insulted you in any way..

If you don’t understand my point or if our perspectives do not match .. you can simply ignore my Post

This Post has 45 Responses, please see how they responded.. APART From YOU..Everyone replied in a Decent, Polite and Constructive way..

I appreciate, if you can apologize to me..

Rest upto your Manners 😊

NOTE: I didn’t compare Anuj’s One Night Stands with Toshu’s EMA.. I only answered to your point that “ If you love someone, you can’t sleep with other person” by citing Anuj’s example.. That’s it!

I only reacted on that particular statement

Please don’t read between the lines

This debate has nothing to do with You win or I win..

I believe we are simply exchanging our thoughts and it should be healthy.. I hope, am not expecting too much from you..

Sorry,but your opinion is highly unpopular and is definitely far from a progressive thought process.

You are saying that Toshu's parents and his family background are responsible for why he cheated on his wife,then what about Samar?

He was also given the same environment,same parents,same atmosphere to observe and learn from, why is he so different?

Just like in a school, all students don't learn things in the same manner,similarly all children don't pick up the same things from their parents.

So, accusing his family of his behavior is not appropriate. I think he is mature enough to understand what is right and what is wrong.

And as for second chances.

How many times have we seen Toshu insulting his mom,and others,asking for forgiveness and repeating the same cycle. Has he ever improved?Or brought good changes in his character?

More than him Kavya has still evolved😆

People like Toshu don't deserve any second chances.

And as for parents thinking multiple times about divorcing,I agree to a certain extent. But don't parents have their own individuality,just because you are a mother and a father now,so your entire life,every emotion,every action should revolve only around your children?

Also,nowadays so many people run away from marriage, you know why?

Because of the unhappy marriages that people see around them.

Every relationship requires some compromise and adjustment, especially a husband and wife relationship, but when there is no respect and no trust left in the relationship,which are the basic foundations of any marriage,there is no point of being together....and cheating your partner is a breach of trust and is disrespectful. And it's not possible to forget everything,move on,switch off the button of love and stay as amicable partners after that.

Only if emotions were that easy to manage.