Habs: Feroze Khan, Ushna Shah (ARY drama) DT#2 "Saiyaan...Jaane Na" - Page 46

Originally posted by: twerping

Hey cappa! What a delightful post you wrote...loved your breakdown of the emotional responses and the underlying reasons. especially what you said about Ayesha receiving from Sadia what she craved but never did get from her own mother.

I am just thinking the discussion in this thread is so rich and has so much depth. We should bring out a Companion book for Habs. 😆

And yessss...let us discuss the kitchen scene. I liked something the fuschia magazine review mentioned which is that even when Ayesha had gone to the dinner with Fahad, Basit had been slightly restless, though we see him brush it off. Still, he waits for her to return without changing.

I think the same restlessness stuck him in the kitchen scene. I don't want to call it jealousy or even insecurity at this moment. Perhaps he felt slightly left out. When Basit did come into the kitchen, he stood where Ayesha was standing. He put himself between Fahad and Ayesha. He never looked at Ayesha directly, but you just know he is tuned to her movements.

When Basit left the kitchen after Bano came, he sent a look in Fahad's direction. Initially, I had thought it was because he guessed something between Fahad and Bano but then I realised Basit does not have that great a sense of reading people's emotions. Fahad understands him far more than Basit understands Fahad. So that look must come from that same restlessness that had brought him to the kitchen in the first place.

Basit has certainly changed. He cares what Ayesha thinks of him now. Earlier in ep 15 when he had accused Ayesha of complaining about him to his mom, that had come out of a sense of jealousy perhaps of her growing attachment to his mother. And we know he has a natural insecurity when it comes to women. Initially he had tried to keep a distance between Ayesha and himself because of this. But even within that distance, we have seen how he himself is inching closer to her in different ways.

Funny thing is just when Basit has started caring what Ayesha thinks of him, Ayesha is genuinely angry at him. When Fahad comes to tell her to watch what she says to Basit, her face hardened. But as you said, even within her anger, there is concern for Basit.

Btw congrats on your new place. Hope your shifting went smoothly.

the way all your paragraphs have captured the smallest of emotions the director aka Fahd tried to show in the episode, especially the one where you are talking about Basit sending a look towards Fahd- aah I loved reading this piece.♥

i am genuinely concerned about the next week as it seems a complex triangle of relationships is about to be woven due to misunderstandings.

Originally posted by: Shimomohamed

About basit:

1. The one who was forced to face critical decisions throughout his life without his consent

Starting from his mother left him then meeting her after his father's death and he should live with her after all these years!

Finally was his marriage.

He was very anxious to fulfill the will so that he could eventually take his decisions and he was telling fahad how happy he was while taking work decisions

2. His perspective about woman doesn't affect his kindness as we saw he helped ayesha financially earlier also, he respects ayesha obviously away from emotions that should be existed between husband and wife

3. He is responsive. Yeah he responded to ayesha inquiries many times

For example, When she talked about his way to treat her family he changed completely

Even with his mother issue, he went to her room in the morning as pet ayesha request

Also, in the last episode he responded to ayesha scolding and opened up to her about his injuries and feeling about his mother

4. He is caring but he doesn't pay attention to show his care unless he was notified to do that

Maybe as per his childhood when he lost the most caring person in the life of everybody who is his mother so he doesn't learn how caring been demonstrated

5. He is admitting his mistakes (that's a part also of his responsiveness to advices and inquiries) as he apologized to ayesha many times and admitting that he doesn't know much about relationships and needs time. Where here I really blame ayesha to not give him this time (I will talk about it later)

I think his good points weigh higher than his bad points.

His behaviour towards his mother is considered normal as per his character. How?

He kept his anger towards his mother all these years, whatever the reason for her leave for him it's nothing compared to his pain so no justifications would satisfy him

If you notice at the beginning he always scolded her individually to not interfere with his life

Then he started to do it in front of everyone

At the first he always scolded her only

Then his scolding was imbeded with blaming at the time of birthday

I thought his anger would have faded gradually as long as his mother remaining with them and with decreasing pressure inside him through time

But unfortunately he also hadn't get enough time to maintain his relation with his mother for the second and last time

I think this will make a great turning point in his life I still don't know it will be positive or negative impact but it's clear that it wouldn't be totally positive easily to have more conflicts to come in the show.

His behaviour towards ayesha is very justified to me

I rembered ayesha once said to basit when she was mad at him through the way he treated her family and said everything was clear to you about my family from the beginning

I want her to have the same idea about herself she knows initially that it was forced marriage and the reason was clear so she shouldn't expect much from him from the beginning and should observe the changes and progress happened not only talked about one situation

Moreover he didn't use her as her later said it's my responsibility to fulfill this marriage I'm not selfish

In addition to all the above points, there is something I want basit to handle with ayesha whic is the work subject especially now even his mother had died and ayesha has no one to share the daily life with so may be study or work will help her

That's from me about basit with being highly excited to know the rest of his story and relationship with ayesha with all the challenges surrounding them

Your love for Basit shines through this one. Yes yes and yess!! Beautifully composed post this was, girl! Reading the points you have put down here had me going back through the many many moments in the show when our hearts melted for Basit. What a beautifully crafted character he is truly. Even when he is at his worst, you feel his vulnerabilities, his needs, his essential goodness, so that you always feel for him. You firmly wish that he finds that love he has been craving for all his life, that love which has betrayed him so badly.

Keep writing such posts, on other characters, on scenes, on particular moments. Yours and cappacuino5's posts i read today on the way to work and those posts had me smiling through the day.

Originally posted by: SRKian

Having said all those, I know she’ll come around...she has to after all she’s the heroine 😆😳

Girl!!!! You’ve already thanked me a million times by now❤️ 😳 You’ll make me blush at this rate🙈😆 I’m really glad you gave the show a try as soon as you heard the name🤗 Like, I said before, Basit is the only Firoz character I ever liked So I had to advocate for his character and the show😆 And twer, it’s a pleasure to discuss with you about anything, really 🤗 ❤️

Hmmmmmmmmmmm...she will she will...and when she regrets it will be too sweet. That moment when she came to him and said, sorry sorry sorry...that in itself had me so excited about the future when she feels even more for Basit and feels his pain. anywaay....

so yess...I will always try stuff recommended by you because you generally suggest stuff that I end up falling for. 😆

As for your advocating characters you love, Ani, yesss!! Do that. Basit, I absolutely love. So if you are totally in his court, I love your stance. 🤗

Originally posted by: SRKian

And I see you’re spamming a lot these days🤣 Haven't seen you this active since yrs!!! Good to have you back with full force😆🤗

This show I love so much, you have no idea Ani... I have rewatched every single episode minimum 5 times...and not skipped any scenes..Rishu will understand what that means since I am the expert queen of skipping my way through dramas

Originally posted by: Shimomohamed

Very good question dear ❤️

I have replayed this scene many times because the message behind it was so impressive

Well first of all, basit went to kitchen has nothing to do with fahad

Secondly, at the time of extreme grieve and sadness where every thought brings additional pain and you feel restless in all ways

You always strike for a moment of relieve where you feel completely comfortable

I think basit went to ayesha because he wants to be with her at this moment that it would make him comfortable to be beside his wife who makes food for him (maybe it gives him the feeling of warmth)

In addition to, I remembered when she said to him that I was so shy to be alone with your friend and you don't want to appear with me in front of your friend so may be he wanted to be with her in the same frame like he is proud husband

And as per basit stubbornness he couldn't help to come to her but he never say a word to her or direct his face to her instead he was always directed to fahad but this didn't hide the fact that he wanted to be beside his wife at this moment

That's my imagination and I'm really curious to know everyone's thoughts

So true...that warmth he witnesses in the kitchen pulls him there... ❤️

Originally posted by: RishuDarling

Someone has to do this Sarce..! We can wait patiently.. For 1-2 months.. 😃

We will be patient but never silent...reminders will keep popping up...demanding, relentless and unstoppable. ❤️

Originally posted by: Krinya

At this point , jealousy , mu will be so wrong . They don't know each other enuf to be doing all this . At least the writer cud have shown ayet getting close n falling in love 🥰

Yeahh...though perhaps he might be possessive about Fahad and Ayesha a bit...Rishu was saying this somewhere that since Fahad is his best friend and Ayesha his wife, he would be possessive over both and be like why are they spending time together? 😳

Originally posted by: reshamc

The kitchen scene was a nice feel-good moment we got in between all the angst of the episode. I loved seeing Ayesha move around so freely and confidently in the kitchen. Even that scene when she wakes up on the sofa...the way she talks so naturally to the female help. This is what Sadia did for her...made her feel that this house is hers too. 😳👏

Anyways, my theory of why Basit came down is because he saw Ayesha smiling and having a good time. Normally, he always sees her in depressed mode or sulky mode. So, his curiosity brought him to the kitchen. Plus, he is still grieving. Maybe he wanted to surround himself with some joy after feeling down for too long.

@bold: I want to see more office scenes. I want to see Bano working with full sincerity and Basit getting impressed and Jawaad getting jealous😆 I want Basit and Bano to have some mutual appreciation for each other. Bano should realise her sister's husband is a good guy with a pure heart. And Basit should realise the struggles faced by Ayesha's family. Only then he will really respect Bano for the force she is!

I totally ship Fahad and Bano together. But I am in no hurry to see them happen so soon. Let's give it time and not get too excited and rush it.

This show never lets the angst build up to the point of depressive sadness... that moment I think left us all smiling and eager for the next installment.

I like how you put it...true, that warmth brought him to the kitchen, the desire to be a part of it.

So true about the role Sadia played in Ayesha feeling like she was part of the family, that this was her house, because in that Basit did nothing. And we see Sadia's blessing and her touch in how Ayesha is today, running the house, taking care of things, taking care of Basit.

And yes, let the show not rush anything...this slow development is what we absolutely love!

Loved everything you wrote...and especially to see Jawaad getting jealous...that guy was already jealous of Ayesha and the attention she received from the boss...more of that would not hurt! 😆

I love your breakdown of the kitchen scene. You say it all so beautifully. This is why I enjoy coming here. On my own, I would never have thought from this perspective.🤗

Yes, restlessness is a good word. I am going to be using it in future in reference to these three. So much better than insecurity or jealousy.

Also, can you share what sweet thing did Janice mention about Feroze? I haven't watched the interview.

Hey girl!! Welcome to the thread!!!! And seriously, I know how you feel, the website design makes it difficult to discover these niche corners! But so glad Rishu indirectly or directly led you here! Looking forward to hearing your takes and fangirling with you! 🤗

I have watched Feroze in other shows, but this is the one where he totally swept me off my feet. What a character, this Basit! Anyway, good to have you here. Your name is added to the Habs IF fandom clan (list on first page, 3rd post)