Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #210 - Page 104

Originally posted by: Yahvi

I think it's about the segment interview where KD was justifying Shiva that chhote shehar me log aise react karte hai & all.. Although I didn't say at that time but mujhe interview KD ke POV se bahut misleading laga.. I mean if chhote shehar wali baat bhool bhi jao, but he made it seem like Shiva is a victim here. He said waha sab ladke the, Raavi akeli thi to wo to bas chinta kar raha tha, chhote shehar mein aisa hi hota hai. Shaq nhi kiya. But episode me to body language se clearly laga that uski tone accusatory thi towards Raavi. Kabhi kabhi mujhe sach me lagta hai uske scene cut ho jaate hai, bcz jaisa show me dikhta hai & jaisa KD Shiva ko narrate karta hai is not the same most of the times..

Anyway I won't comment on TT ppl or what they think about us.. But it's just my personal opinion. Instead of using chhote shehar so many times and justifying character saying chhote shehar ke log aise hote hai, why not just say pandya family is like that. They are not perfect, but will strive to be. Bcz in my experience, choti badi soch is not about shehar, education, it depends upon a person. I'm from chhota shehar Udaipur which is even smaller than Somnaath, lived in bade shehar too like Mumbai, Chandigarh, now Ahmedabad. Did my internship from Florida. I've never seen family like Pandyas in my childhood in chhota shehar. But ppl like them exist, but they exist both in bade & chhote shehar.

My Dadi made all her bahus complete their study and asked them to do job, bcz she said financial independence is mandatory for women & she was illiterate. I've seen a doctor family in Mumbai who tortured their DIL for dowry who later did suicide. In Florida my colleague's husband used to hit her & he was addictive. One should stop themselves from chhote shehar, chhoti mentality generalisation. It doesn't sound good.

Both my MIL and my mother are from chote shehar and my Dad and FIL grew up in Chennai (only bade shehar in TN) at that time. They both went to college, great education and had awesome career through their lives.

When it comes to my MIL and my mother, there is a stark difference - my mother lost her mother when she was young, had several siblings. Her education was stopped by my grandfather and he got all his daughters married by 19 and 20 and didn’t send even one of them to college. The irony is he was a teacher and a farmer who owned acres of agricultural land, Chote shehar -choti soch. I have even questioned him later in life, his answer was that he was raising his kids as a single parent and it was getting difficult (one thing I had to appreciate him for that he did not remarry which was very common if Men became a widower at a young age back in those days, he raised them all as a single parent and his notion, another woman might not treat them the same way as their real mother, for that he needs to be applauded)

But my MIL had a different upbringing in Chote Shehar with both parents alive- She is the eldest of 4 daughters, was sent out to Chennai to complete her College education- Bachelors, Masters, M.Phil, became an Associate Professor and then was married to my FIL. In her mother’s family she was the first one to get college educated, her sisters followed suit and they all had successful careers including my MIL, all coming from Chote Shehar. I couldn’t be more proud of my MIL and her sisters ( maasis ) and I look upto them all.

I agree it is not about Chote shehar or Bade Shehar, it is about the thinking and pettiness is out there in both the places,

Originally posted by: mpks1

SBB segment

VO 🤣🤣 They crack me up every single time they comment on Shiva-Raavi fight 🤣

About KD’s segment interview - let justifications galore 😆apparently I am not capable of saying anything because we have not worked hard, risen in life, no talent whatsoever in us and pretty much done nothing according to some Stalkers and Trollers 😆 It’s just simply laughable, so be it, don’t have to prove anything to anyone in SM 😆

I know my family is happy with me, my husband and kids are very supportive of me and I just adore them more than they can imagine, that’s the only thing that matters to me, baaki sab baad mein jaaye 😆

https://youtu.be/CpiBP6-6Xtk

Waise I loved how SBB trolled KD's justification 😆😆

I just realised that dhara has put more efforts in saving shiva and raavi's marriage than shiva himself 🤣🤣

PS- it sounded funny in my head, so had to write it 😆

Originally posted by: Pixierocks

I just realised that dhara has put more efforts in saving shiva and raavi's marriage than shiva himself 🤣🤣

PS- it sounded funny in my head, so has to write it 😆

Dhara knew... Shiva kabhi ni sudhar sakta.... And she will get to become mahaan again n again n again if they continue being married😆

This tt girls urf shiva ki diwanis always justify each and every act of shiva and if raavi did small mistake they bash her like she did someone murder.I don't know how couples fight and than resolve their problems so i don't want to comment on recent track that who is right or wrong because I'm unmarried 23 year old girl but one thing I want to say that whenever I looking guy for me he will definitely not be like Shiva at all.Nobody want partner like shiva who want that her wife always follow his sister-in-law according to him every one is right exept raavi.He always stood up like statue when people insult raavi and never take stand for her in front of his mother in 1.5 years of their journey. 1 week ago he first time take stand for raavi and this tt diwanis Prais him like he is bestest husband in whole world than what about those things which he did in past due to his insecurity . raavi's one sentence and tt girls bash her like she is a worst wife than what about those sacrifices that she made in this 1.5 year. Raavi is the one who always forgive shiva easily and put affort for their relationship .This shiva ki diwanis are more hypocrite or i say stupid fangirls who don't want to see fact and just deffende their favorite shiva indeed shiva ki suhagans. May be i sound rude but fact is fact

Originally posted by: Ocean_breeze

Dhara knew... Shiva kabhi ni sudhar sakta.... And she will get to become mahaan again n again n again if they continue being married😆

According to Shiva and his fans, Dhara running away with the baby is again Raavi’s fault and that’s the narrative writers want to show 😆

I hope Dev continues his trolling of Dhara after she comes back. I am so glad someone is saying something against her in that house, even if it meant he gets shut up by her, atleast he is saying it. Shiva and Krish are her minions and heck scared of her. Shiva even said last week during diaper change scene, mein Dhara Bhabi ko dukhi ya naraaz nahi kar sakta 😆

Raavi will lead a life of hell all her life will be questioned by the likes of Rishita and in the future even by Shweta who might not have achieved anything big either and Shiva will be watching everyone bulldozing, questioning and humiliating Raavi and sometimes he too will join them and in the end she will be the one apologizing to all of them. It’s the life story of Raavi, it’s sad but it is what it is 😔

Shiva is angry at Raavi for hiding information from him and lying to him. But the same Shiva will have justifications for BhabiMa running away with the baby without telling anyone. Infact she will be given sabashi for her bravery that she went alone to find Chikoo’s mother and even found her. Brothers will not stop singing her praises when she returns and how she is the only selfless person who is looking out for every single human in this world, thus cementing her position as the greatest mahaan to live on earth. it’s been the narrative by the writers always - justify BhabiMa’s actions through her dialogues and make the brothers justify her actions through their dialogues.

Whereas with Raavi, the writers have a different approach, show that she is wrong through her dialogues and other characters dialogues as well - the four who always call out on her are Suman, Shiva, Dhara and Rishita. Anything Raavi does these 4 have to find fault and they take turns to call her out😔

Originally posted by: Sjmakwana

This tt girls urf shiva ki diwanis always justify each and every act of shiva and if raavi did small mistake they bash her like she did someone murder.I don't know how couples fight and than resolve their problems so i don't want to comment on recent track that who is right or wrong because I'm unmarried 23 year old girl but one thing I want to say that whenever I looking guy for me he will definitely not be like Shiva at all.Nobody want partner like shiva who want that her wife always follow his sister-in-law according to him every one is right exept raavi.He always stood up like statue when people insult raavi and never take stand for her in front of his mother in 1.5 years of their journey. 1 week ago he first time take stand for raavi and this tt diwanis Prais him like he is bestest husband in whole world than what about those things which he did in past due to his insecurity . raavi's one sentence and tt girls bash her like she is a worst wife than what about those sacrifices that she made in this 1.5 year. Raavi is the one who always forgive shiva easily and put affort for their relationship .This shiva ki diwanis are more hypocrite or i say stupid fangirls who don't want to see fact and just deffende their favorite shiva indeed shiva ki suhagans. May be i sound rude but fact is fact

One thing I can say as a married woman who has had a successful marriage for the past several years, you are right about not looking for someone like Shiva. Also don’t want a Bhabi like Dhara or Rishita and even MIL like Suman. Please be firm on that, else your life will be hell forever,

Now I want Maami to make a comeback aur fir Shiva aur pandyas ki khoob bezzati kare☺️

And Raavi should not defend pandyas or try to stop Maami and keep quiet just like how she does when others belittles her☺️

Call me a sadist par mujhe ese scenes chahie... I love to see when ML are in pain and guilt (reason why I like s&s shows lol and like FLs accident)🤪

Also TT girls agar mera post dekha aur fir tweet karne ka mann kiya ki kese IF pe sab Shiva ko bash kar rahe hai bina matlab ke toh mera naam bhi likh dena okay, me famous ho jaungi lol🤪

Also shweta ki ma looks like a sweetheart, i hope woh Raavi se mile aur uski khoob saari taarif kare... woh bhi pandyas ke saamne🤪

Okay by the way my MIL watched PS with me today & she royally trolled Shiva.. Saying sahi toh bol rahi hai Raavi, dhang se dukaan chalaayi hoti to har kuch din me sadak pe aane ki naubat nhi aati hoti🤣

Also the way he shouted on Raavi & break the mug she said kaha fas gyi ye ladki bhi, ye aadmi nhi sudharne wala😆

Now my MIL is from chhota shehar too & she doesn't approve of Shiva at all.. So what would TT fangirls say about her? She has issues,? didn't achieve anything in life? No experience? No experience of relationship?

Oh yeah only TT fangirls have all the experience.. My MIL is too inexperienced in front of them🤣