Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #210 - Page 103

SBB segment

VO 🤣🤣 They crack me up every single time they comment on Shiva-Raavi fight 🤣

About KD’s segment interview - let justifications galore 😆apparently I am not capable of saying anything because I have not worked hard, risen in life, no talent whatsoever in me and pretty much done nothing according to some Stalkers and Trollers 😆 It’s just simply laughable, so be it, don’t have to prove anything to anyone in SM 😆

I know my family is happy with me, my husband and kids are very supportive of me and I just adore them more than they can imagine, that’s the only thing that matters to me, baaki sab baad mein jaaye 😆

https://youtu.be/CpiBP6-6Xtk

Originally posted by: Yahvi

I think it's about the segment interview where KD was justifying Shiva that chhote shehar me log aise react karte hai & all.. Although I didn't say at that time but mujhe interview KD ke POV se bahut misleading laga.. I mean if chhote shehar wali baat bhool bhi jao, but he made it seem like Shiva is a victim here. He said waha sab ladke the, Raavi akeli thi to wo to bas chinta kar raha tha, chhote shehar mein aisa hi hota hai. Shaq nhi kiya. But episode me to body language se clearly laga that uski tone accusatory thi towards Raavi. Kabhi kabhi mujhe sach me lagta hai uske scene cut ho jaate hai, bcz jaisa show me dikhta hai & jaisa KD Shiva ko narrate karta hai is not the same most of the times..

Anyway I won't comment on TT ppl or what they think about us.. But it's just my personal opinion. Instead of using chhote shehar so many times and justifying character saying chhote shehar ke log aise hote hai, why not just say pandya family is like that. They are not perfect, but will strive to be. Bcz in my experience, choti badi soch is not about shehar, education, it depends upon a person. I'm from chhota shehar Udaipur which is even smaller than Somnaath, lived in bade shehar too like Mumbai, Chandigarh, now Ahmedabad. Did my internship from Florida. I've never seen family like Pandyas in my childhood in chhota shehar. But ppl like them exist, but they exist both in bade & chhote shehar.

My Dadi made all her bahus complete their study and asked them to do job, bcz she said financial independence is mandatory for women & she was illiterate. I've seen a doctor family in Mumbai who tortured their DIL for dowry who later did suicide. In Florida my colleague's husband used to hit her & he was addictive. One should stop themselves from chhote shehar, chhoti mentality generalisation. It doesn't sound good.

That was such a beautiful explanation! ❤️

Originally posted by: mandira2

That was such a beautiful explanation! ❤️

Thanks for appreciating a non human🤣

I still stand by my word that Raavi has done more for this marriage to work than Shiva has ever done.

He said that “apni career ke chakkar mein tu meri fikar karna chod di”

Really? How many times has Shiva worried about her getting humiliated and abused by his mother since Kanwad yatra until remarriage in March. Did he ever stand up for or came in support of her. Heck, he didn’t even treat her as a human being. Just keeping a sad face and saving her from danger doesn’t mean anything, you should be vocal and verbal about it, support her when she is in pain, which he has never done it. Most of the times he joined his mother in humiliating her.

Every time he commits a huge mistake like calling her characterless, filing for divorce, calling her besharam, beimman, dhokebaaz during divorce kaand and all he does say is a simple sorry and does the same thing again in few months.

It is very clear that for Shiva, his family comes first and Raavi will always be his last priority. If that was the case, he would have stopped Rishita from talking nonsense about Raavi. But he lets her go on and on. If he truly respected and trusted her, he would not have let other family members question her like they do every single time,

So this relationship will always be imbalanced and will be one-sided with Raavi putting effort every single time. But you know what she deserves it because she chose this life, in the process lost her self respect, self esteem and forever will be answerable to others for the rest of her life. No matter what she does, no one will be ever happy with her.

Originally posted by: Yahvi

I think it's about the segment interview where KD was justifying Shiva that chhote shehar me log aise react karte hai & all.. Although I didn't say at that time but mujhe interview KD ke POV se bahut misleading laga.. I mean if chhote shehar wali baat bhool bhi jao, but he made it seem like Shiva is a victim here. He said waha sab ladke the, Raavi akeli thi to wo to bas chinta kar raha tha, chhote shehar mein aisa hi hota hai. Shaq nhi kiya. But episode me to body language se clearly laga that uski tone accusatory thi towards Raavi. Kabhi kabhi mujhe sach me lagta hai uske scene cut ho jaate hai, bcz jaisa show me dikhta hai & jaisa KD Shiva ko narrate karta hai is not the same most of the times..

Anyway I won't comment on TT ppl or what they think about us.. But it's just my personal opinion. Instead of using chhote shehar so many times and justifying character saying chhote shehar ke log aise hote hai, why not just say pandya family is like that. They are not perfect, but will strive to be. Bcz in my experience, choti badi soch is not about shehar, education, it depends upon a person. I'm from chhota shehar Udaipur which is even smaller than Somnaath, lived in bade shehar too like Mumbai, Chandigarh, now Ahmedabad. Did my internship from Florida. I've never seen family like Pandyas in my childhood in chhota shehar. But ppl like them exist, but they exist both in bade & chhote shehar.

My Dadi made all her bahus complete their study and asked them to do job, bcz she said financial independence is mandatory for women & she was illiterate. I've seen a doctor family in Mumbai who tortured their DIL for dowry who later did suicide. In Florida my colleague's husband used to hit her & he was addictive. One should stop themselves from chhote shehar, chhoti mentality generalisation. It doesn't sound good.

I just love what you have written... 🙌

Chote sheher is not the problem.. Choti mentality is... And that choti mentality can exist in any person..doesn't matter from where he is coming from.

Always hearing chote sheher ye chote sheher wo can be upsetting for people... And when you are an influencer you must think before you speak.. There are kids out there who take your words and thinking seriously..

On side note I still dont understand actors problem and non acceptance with their show and characters being shitty...

Bhaiya maan lo kachra dikha rhe ho.. Accept and move on😆

Originally posted by: Yahvi

I think it's about the segment interview where KD was justifying Shiva that chhote shehar me log aise react karte hai & all.. Although I didn't say at that time but mujhe interview KD ke POV se bahut misleading laga.. I mean if chhote shehar wali baat bhool bhi jao, but he made it seem like Shiva is a victim here. He said waha sab ladke the, Raavi akeli thi to wo to bas chinta kar raha tha, chhote shehar mein aisa hi hota hai. Shaq nhi kiya. But episode me to body language se clearly laga that uski tone accusatory thi towards Raavi. Kabhi kabhi mujhe sach me lagta hai uske scene cut ho jaate hai, bcz jaisa show me dikhta hai & jaisa KD Shiva ko narrate karta hai is not the same most of the times..

Anyway I won't comment on TT ppl or what they think about us.. But it's just my personal opinion. Instead of using chhote shehar so many times and justifying character saying chhote shehar ke log aise hote hai, why not just say pandya family is like that. They are not perfect, but will strive to be. Bcz in my experience, choti badi soch is not about shehar, education, it depends upon a person. I'm from chhota shehar Udaipur which is even smaller than Somnaath, lived in bade shehar too like Mumbai, Chandigarh, now Ahmedabad. Did my internship from Florida. I've never seen family like Pandyas in my childhood in chhota shehar. But ppl like them exist, but they exist both in bade & chhote shehar.

My Dadi made all her bahus complete their study and asked them to do job, bcz she said financial independence is mandatory for women & she was illiterate. I've seen a doctor family in Mumbai who tortured their DIL for dowry who later did suicide. In Florida my colleague's husband used to hit her & he was addictive. One should stop themselves from chhote shehar, chhoti mentality generalisation. It doesn't sound good.

@Bold: Exactly

Soch doesn't comes from where you live and how much you studied.

Europe and US mein bhi dowry and DV cases hote hain (I just read an Indian girl committed suicide in US due to dowry) even after being soo developed and educated and living in so called bade sheher.

Regressive, toxic and galat log har jagah hote hain, we can't defend and blame it to particular place rather changes need to be brought rather than shit being defended.

@Red: In my family no girl gets married before having a job as you said financial security is important.

My Nanu is not much educated but he used to take my mother to give exams even if they were at some other state and city.

@Blue: Exactly

Originally posted by: Yahvi

Thanks for appreciating a non human🤣

Is it so... From aunt to non human.. Quite a progress🤣

Originally posted by: mpks1

SBB segment

VO 🤣🤣 They crack me up every single time they comment on Shiva-Raavi fight 🤣

About KD’s segment interview - let justifications galore 😆apparently I am. not capable of saying anything because we have not worked hard, risen in life, no talent whatsoever in us and pretty much done nothing according to some Stalkers and Trollers 😆 It’s just simply laughable So be it, don’t have to prove anything to anyone in SM 😆

I know my family is happy with me, my husband and kids are very supportive of me and I just adore them more than they can imagine, that’s the only thing that matters to me, baaki sab baad mein jaaye 😆

https://youtu.be/CpiBP6-6Xtk

I like SBB they were trolling Shiva and his choti soch. SBB deserves a round of applause for saying that is it not small town soch but small soch that is Shiva's problem.

I just don't want this misunderstanding to continue any longer. Shiva is back to having insecurities about his relationship with Raavi because the writers don't think the last 1 year happened and it will be cool to show it again. They don't understand that character growth is something that actually exists. They want to show misunderstanding between Shivi because showing a progressive and positive storyline between them is a crime against humanity apparently. They were on the right path with this SM with Shiva supporting her but now they introduced this stupid misunderstanding. Hope this ends soon. I am losing patience with this show and it's unprofessionalism, don't know how long I will watch

Originally posted by: mpks1

I still stand by my word that Raavi has done more for this marriage to work than Shiva has ever done.

He said that “apni career le chakkar mein tu meri fokar karna chod di”

Really? How many times has Shiva worried about her get humiliated and abused by his mother since Kanwad yatra until remarriage in March. Did he ever stand up for or came in support of her. Heck, he didn’t even treat her as a human being. Just keeping a sad face and saving her from danger doesn’t mean anything, you should be vocal and verbal about it, support her when she is in pain, which he has never done it.

Every time he commits a huge mistake like calling her characterless, filing for divorce, calling her besharam, beimman, dhokebaaz during divorce kaand and all he does say is a simple sorry and does the same thing again in few months.

It is very clear that for Shiva, his family comes first and Raavi will always be his last priority. If that was the case, he would have stopped Rishita from talking nonsense about Raavi. But he lets her go on and on. If he truly respected and trusted her, he would not have let other family members question her like they do every single time,

So this relationship will always be imbalanced and will be one-sided with Raavi putting effort every single time. But you know what she deserves because she chose this life, in the process lost her self respect, self esteem and forever will be answerable to others for the rest of her life. No matter what she does, no one will be ever happy with her.

@Bold: I just want to know one time when Shiva kept Raavi above everyone.

Shiva is shit along with his family, Raavi made mistakes, apologized, humiliated but never happened with others.

So kitna bhi koyi Shiva ko victim and Raavi ko worst bataye she is anyday the only sane and nice character of the show.

As I said in morning yeh Shivi ka relationship one sided hain as all the efforts have came from Raavi ka side, bcoz Shiva ke bharose rehte toh we would be seeing Raavi and Disaster living under the same roof.

I came to this forum after months today. Actually after I saw the segment that now Raavi is independent and earning member and this segment made my mood😒

I am happy for Raavi, now that they are showing her as independent but KD's interview clearly suggest that they are once again going for how Raavi is wrong and how Shiva and his mom are correct.

Raavi's dialogue from above segment "maine 1 baar me itna kamaya jitna tu pure 1 mahine me nahi kamata" indicates that they are heading for this track.

Raavi will be in cloud 9 with her new found independence. They will show her doing something unintentionally which will hurt others one by one

And after few months once again she will say sorry to everyone 🥺😡

This has become such a repetitive cycle now that it is boring👎🏼