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Posted: 3 years ago
#11

Won't go into the offscreen thing. Virat is just stupid. He has seen hubby-wife relationships in a blur light...his own parents or sonkar. No concrete basis.

Virat is just plain stupid. Even shruti was able to manipulate him. It's his character arc. Doesn't understand the depth of relationship he has with sai. More than trust, it's his self-righteous nature. His patriarchal upbringing is another reason.

He is unidirectional, even inplace of p, if it

had been ashwini, he would have done the same. For now p is devi for him.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Nja91

Sai is direct but I dont think she ever blamed him. Every time she questions PP intention she is NOT blaming him. ITs his own guilty conscience that he feels blamed. When Sai says she has a past with you and was obsessing over you, he immediately gets defensive. Why?! When she says he intention pertaining to surrogacy isnt right, he gets defensive, Why?

Its obviously because subconsciously he knows he is guilty of being too lenient with PP and has a soft corner for her but he cant admit it, face up to it and get over it! because no other reason that a man will be SO forgiving to a woman who has made his and his wife's life living hell!

Even if he felt like she is a changed leaf after Sam death, he would never trust her enough to let her get so involved in his matters that too willingly.

It would have made a WORLD of difference if this track had shown V being unaware of PP becoming surrogate and both Sai-V coming to terms with it together, if V also had some doubt about PPs intentions and being more sensitive towards Sai through out important sequences like pregnacy reveal, Sam death, the miscarriage, aftermath of miscarriage and surrogacy kaand.

If they had shown more emotional intimacy and honest conversations between Sai-V after shruti kaand and pp related MUs then one would feel more forgiving of V. But he has done NONE of those things.

they rushed thorough confession,Sai choosing career, his support for her during the medical negligence case and it didnt leave any impact on us. In all those scenes Sai was more impactful than V and we didnt see his protective, loving husband side. We only saw stupid machismo which landed him in jail and ultimately in all of it, Sao stepped up. It was V's turn to shine and it didnt happen. and then they used BDs for important scenes like pregnancy reveal. We didnt get any scenes of him pampering his wife, being protective. He let her handle all alone Sams death, her miscarriage. There was no protectiveness towards his wife.

And then he has disrespected her wishes, consent, reproductive right to support PP and unlawfully allowed it to happen, Instead of allowing her time to deal with it and vent, he calls her out as stubborn for being upset and blackmails/manipulates her to accept it and now when she is rolling with the punches, he still keeps on testing her tolerance and patience. Always second guessing her, getting angry at her, not valuing her concerns, brushing her away as "silly, delusional, rude and immature"

How do some people defend this guy. To me, He is worse than PP because he is SO inconsistent. When a criminal commits crimes you are not surprised. but when a guy whom you have expectations from because he is constantly hailed as mahaan keeps on erring that too with increasing magnitude of crimes committed, then it is unforgivable and indefensible.



Idc about Virat at all, but biggest disservice has been done to Sai's character imo they've literally changed her behaviour towards Virat post Shruti track, she's literally shown having no issues or confronts, puts him into his place which she used to do at past. That's what frustrates me the most. They've done this deliberately so Virat doesn't get reality check & confronted by Sai with logical retaliations! And secondly they don't bring any guy since Ajinkya track to give him a taste of his own medicine which happens in regards with Sai and like permanently part of the show...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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ya but the thing is he is not supposed to be this stupid. What has PP done to warrant this degree of trust in her? neither is their past SO strong, nor did they ever actually have a strong friendship like Sunny or Sai herself is to V, nor has PP ever done anything to be worth his trust in her.

see in typical saas-bahu when ML supports mother, atleast there is the mother card. she is the woman who gave birth, paala posa, so it is hard to disregard that blood connection. you share your DNA with your parent. nothing will ever come close to that bond.

but V has no such obligation towards PP.

now she has his child but the problem is we could understand his POV now if he hadnt always been shown as dumb and a douchebag. If he supported pp from Sai's "overbearingness" now and been lenient only now because of baby them it would be more acceptable ONLY and ONLY IF he had been established as having been an ideal husband before, and been clear about things before, been sensitive and loving towards Sai, and having not unlawfully allowed pp to be surrogate, at having not hidden her evil intentions and motives. But he has been inconsiderate jerk towards Sai ALWAYS and now this is just the newest excuse he has.

So his soft corner towards PP is not new, it is long standing and the thing is she is clearly NOT worth it at all. She has done WAY too much kaand to be worth his trust in her. that too over his wife's word and feelings.

and finally, if he say ok he is dumb- fine- but when people in his life like his OWN parents are supporting Sai over pp , why doesnt he see the obvious?!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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agree that Sai should confront him but I also kinda understand her forgiveness because she is doing it out of blind love and to avoid more MU. tif they had established an honest, open, emotionally intimate relationship between Sairat then Sai could be expected to speak up but now she is stuck in a rut. too emotionally invested to leave. too tied down. and its bordering on stockholm syndrome.

Sai is forgiving towards V because he is her everything. we often dont see the flaws of those that are closest to us and extreme is when we start to not recoginze that we are being taken for granted. its a mixture of blind love, trying to be optimistic and denial that we are feeling hurt/cheated by the person we love the most.

but the reverse is NOT happening! V doesnt accord Sai the same. He does that all for PP -the long rope, the leniency, the looking past her flaws- all reserved for PP but Sai gets his scrutiny, his rage. He only sides with her when it suits his image and mood. but there is no consistency

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

agree that Sai should confront him but I also kinda understand her forgiveness because she is doing it out of blind love and to avoid more MU. tif they had established an honest, open, emotionally intimate relationship between Sairat then Sai could be expected to speak up but now she is stuck in a rut. too emotionally invested to leave. too tied down. and its bordering on stockholm syndrome.

Sai is forgiving towards V because he is her everything. we often dont see the flaws of those that are closest to us and extreme is when we start to not recoginze that we are being taken for granted. its a mixture of blind love, trying to be optimistic and denial that we are feeling hurt/cheated by the person we love the most.

but the reverse is NOT happening! V doesnt accord Sai the same. He does that all for PP -the long rope, the leniency, the looking past her flaws- all reserved for PP but Sai gets his scrutiny, his rage. He only sides with her when it suits his image and mood. but there is no consistency

Exactly. It's very disturbing to watch. It's such one-sided relationship. Sai is doing everything, she's gaining nothing out of the relationship, that guy hasn't done anything so far till date to prove his invisible so-called namesake love!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Kyunki usko wahi dekhna hai jo wo dekhna chahta hai, just that. His character is shallow. Remember Ajinkya track. His soft corner for P isn't new, neither is his stupidity. This stupidity of virat is the weapon p has used this time. For this track, they haven't ruined but murdered virat

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

ya but the thing is he is not supposed to be this stupid. What has PP done to warrant this degree of trust in her? neither is their past SO strong, nor did they ever actually have a strong friendship like Sunny or Sai herself is to V, nor has PP ever done anything to be worth his trust in her.

see in typical saas-bahu when ML supports mother, atleast there is the mother card. she is the woman who gave birth, paala posa, so it is hard to disregard that blood connection. you share your DNA with your parent. nothing will ever come close to that bond.

but V has no such obligation towards PP.

now she has his child but the problem is we could understand his POV now if he hadnt always been shown as dumb and a douchebag. If he supported pp from Sai's "overbearingness" now and been lenient only now because of baby them it would be more acceptable ONLY and ONLY IF he had been established as having been an ideal husband before, and been clear about things before, been sensitive and loving towards Sai, and having not unlawfully allowed pp to be surrogate, at having not hidden her evil intentions and motives. But he has been inconsiderate jerk towards Sai ALWAYS and now this is just the newest excuse he has.

So his soft corner towards PP is not new, it is long standing and the thing is she is clearly NOT worth it at all. She has done WAY too much kaand to be worth his trust in her. that too over his wife's word and feelings.

and finally, if he say ok he is dumb- fine- but when people in his life like his OWN parents are supporting Sai over pp , why doesnt he see the obvious?!


In every show ML is shown dumb clueless wrt with the vamp but that happens only for a certain amount of time not like this show which has been happening since forever.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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nobody is this stupid though. actually it doesnt need intelligence, it is just pattern recognition and self preservation that is needed to stay away from danger. even a child. forget child- even an animal will not trust something that is established as being harmful. IF an animal is pelted repeatedly by a person, it will stay away. So what is the rationale for V's blind faith in PP. She has done absolutely NOTHING to be worth it. NOTHING.

NOT one instance where she has done something good.

Still blind faith.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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exactly. and that is why it is hard to forgive him, see his POV or defend him. yet some amazingly insensitive people are able to do so! i dunno how.

Tbh I would support him now if he had been shown being unaware of PP becoming surrogate, if he had always been supportive to sai, we had got good unrushed scenes of him and Sai post confession, him being the most supportive husband during career bahu debate without Sai needing to push him, if he had been protective when she landed in legal trouble with false charges and put his heart/soul into proving her innocent instead of rubbish bravado and pampered her, supported her during pregnacy/Sam death/miscarriage. but he did NONE.

so how can anyone defend him?!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysticriver


In every show ML is shown dumb clueless wrt with the vamp but that happens only for a certain amount of time not like this show which has been happening since forever.

Yes due to personal equations or whatever or he was busy with SJ, they cut short all his scenes. Their insecurity has increased tenfold since mimo track.

Mimo track was good.

Later they cut everything. So it's hard to relate why he s only supporting P.

Like how she told BK, she will tell him also that u only begged.me.to be surrogate. I helped u etc.

She might ask him to sleep with him, as in give her company at night as she's scared etc.

When he s hesitant she may say that also. She likes to guilt trip PPL. But in this show PPL feel guilty and scumb. They don't react to P s accuses.

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