Originally posted by: Nja91
Sai is direct but I dont think she ever blamed him. Every time she questions PP intention she is NOT blaming him. ITs his own guilty conscience that he feels blamed. When Sai says she has a past with you and was obsessing over you, he immediately gets defensive. Why?! When she says he intention pertaining to surrogacy isnt right, he gets defensive, Why?
Its obviously because subconsciously he knows he is guilty of being too lenient with PP and has a soft corner for her but he cant admit it, face up to it and get over it! because no other reason that a man will be SO forgiving to a woman who has made his and his wife's life living hell!
Even if he felt like she is a changed leaf after Sam death, he would never trust her enough to let her get so involved in his matters that too willingly.
It would have made a WORLD of difference if this track had shown V being unaware of PP becoming surrogate and both Sai-V coming to terms with it together, if V also had some doubt about PPs intentions and being more sensitive towards Sai through out important sequences like pregnacy reveal, Sam death, the miscarriage, aftermath of miscarriage and surrogacy kaand.
If they had shown more emotional intimacy and honest conversations between Sai-V after shruti kaand and pp related MUs then one would feel more forgiving of V. But he has done NONE of those things.
they rushed thorough confession,Sai choosing career, his support for her during the medical negligence case and it didnt leave any impact on us. In all those scenes Sai was more impactful than V and we didnt see his protective, loving husband side. We only saw stupid machismo which landed him in jail and ultimately in all of it, Sao stepped up. It was V's turn to shine and it didnt happen. and then they used BDs for important scenes like pregnancy reveal. We didnt get any scenes of him pampering his wife, being protective. He let her handle all alone Sams death, her miscarriage. There was no protectiveness towards his wife.
And then he has disrespected her wishes, consent, reproductive right to support PP and unlawfully allowed it to happen, Instead of allowing her time to deal with it and vent, he calls her out as stubborn for being upset and blackmails/manipulates her to accept it and now when she is rolling with the punches, he still keeps on testing her tolerance and patience. Always second guessing her, getting angry at her, not valuing her concerns, brushing her away as "silly, delusional, rude and immature"
How do some people defend this guy. To me, He is worse than PP because he is SO inconsistent. When a criminal commits crimes you are not surprised. but when a guy whom you have expectations from because he is constantly hailed as mahaan keeps on erring that too with increasing magnitude of crimes committed, then it is unforgivable and indefensible.
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