Originally posted by: lovereading14
I think this is very reflective of real life relationships - despite how we believe it should be.
Let me explain. You have to understand that in a relationship your partner has your best interests at heart. Believing that normally helps people look over hurtful words. Many people have certain deal breakers in relationships for someone it is cheating, for others it is something else. But the reason relationships don't break during every fight is because of the ability to let go and look beyond words.
Was bringing AKT wrong? yes. But it shows Aryan's underlying insecurities which is normal for any partner to have in any relationship. People have insecurities and it is beyond me why some people are literally crucifying him for being human. Imlie has too said hurtful things in the past that Aryan simply let go off. Her lying, her not listening.
The point is relationships are not perfect and you have to let go of things. I don't think any strong boundary has been overstepped from which they can't return. I don't want to make this about who was right and who was wrong because both of them had their own share of faults.
Every time someone says something hurtful to you, you can't go around breaking relationships. Mistakes are a real thing, learn to look at the person beyond their mistakes. As simple as that.
If the person beyond their mistakes is an ugly site, then you know you can't take them back. Aryan is not that, AKT was.