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Posted: 3 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: MiuniS

Simple Answer from a Simpleton like me : TIME HEALS MY FRIEND... TIME HEALS EVERYTHING

I agree with this Time Heals and when the time comes they might have changed perspective about the situation happened before. They might think in rational way what has gone wrong. They might see the mistake that has happened and willing to correct with whatever it takes. They might want to put love above all and give themselves a second chance. They might want to love each other unconditionally. (I know this is imaginary but this that is what I thought?)

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lethamukund

I don't think it is because Aryan accused Imlie of caring more of AKT baby. the dialogue, agar zindagi bhar mujhe dard Dena hai to thaam lo mera hath and jab bhi tum mujhe touch karegi mujhe meri loss yaad aayega, that was the worst part where she decided to walk out. if I were in her place, I would never come back to him because how much ever husband support wife for career, go against family and world, that was the moment she needed him the most. no amount of apologies will be sufficient. you should remember both of them lost cheeku and Imlie is mother. she did not run purposefully to have a MC. I have gone through a painful MC experience and such mental abuse by my husband would have made me end my life. a supportive husband is what a lady needs the most there

Since Imlie is the mother, she should be more careful on whom she is engaging. Didn't she has a first hand experience of the extent Malini can go to hurt her? MC is not at all her fault. But allowing Malini into her life and making yourself prone to physical harm is her fault. Did Aryan blame her during the infedility track? No. Just because the mother's loss is bigger and Aryan was harsher than he should be, that doesn't absolve her of her stupid actions.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Time heals or it doesn't.

I'm no body to give Gyan to married people but i remember lots of fights of my parents from my childhood (7-10 yo)

Very tough words were thrown in, I totally find them unacceptable (but that's my outlook as an outsider, i wasn't in that situation so idk what made them move past it.)

Same here, we will have to see how they mend this distance that has come in.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Aryan needs to keep his this promise 🤣🤣🤣

He made it official by signing it so he better be 😆

https://twitter.com/seldeepa/status/1549514168621060102?s=20&t=GeVEOy_S0gj5YLDX_blpIA

This is absolutely what he needs to do at the moment. He can't go back on his deal he is 10 business ka akela malik after all. 😉

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I went through this phase we are weekend unable to gain strength in our case we are loving our husband unconditionally and we not held responsible but in imlie is wrong for choices and adamant not to accept her mistakes

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Simple Answer from a Simpleton like me : TIME HEALS MY FRIEND... TIME HEALS EVERYTHING

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sur91

I know Arylie are the endgame and will come together no matter what as they are incomplete without each other

But how do you forget what your partner said to you?

How do you forget how he/she made you feel?

How do you forget the anger/hate in their eyes for you?

So after the leap let's say Aryan repents his words and profusely apologise to Imlie but why would Imlie take him back? How will she forget the hurtful things Aryan said to her? If she gives him a second chance What's the guarantee that he won't bring up AKT again?

I know it's a show so obviously she will take him back but I'm looking for genuine reasons On how I person look past the hurtful things thier partner say to them


I think this is very reflective of real life relationships - despite how we believe it should be.


Let me explain. You have to understand that in a relationship your partner has your best interests at heart. Believing that normally helps people look over hurtful words. Many people have certain deal breakers in relationships for someone it is cheating, for others it is something else. But the reason relationships don't break during every fight is because of the ability to let go and look beyond words.


Was bringing AKT wrong? yes. But it shows Aryan's underlying insecurities which is normal for any partner to have in any relationship. People have insecurities and it is beyond me why some people are literally crucifying him for being human. Imlie has too said hurtful things in the past that Aryan simply let go off. Her lying, her not listening.


The point is relationships are not perfect and you have to let go of things. I don't think any strong boundary has been overstepped from which they can't return. I don't want to make this about who was right and who was wrong because both of them had their own share of faults.


Every time someone says something hurtful to you, you can't go around breaking relationships. Mistakes are a real thing, learn to look at the person beyond their mistakes. As simple as that.


If the person beyond their mistakes is an ugly site, then you know you can't take them back. Aryan is not that, AKT was.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovereading14


I think this is very reflective of real life relationships - despite how we believe it should be.


Let me explain. You have to understand that in a relationship your partner has your best interests at heart. Believing that normally helps people look over hurtful words. Many people have certain deal breakers in relationships for someone it is cheating, for others it is something else. But the reason relationships don't break during every fight is because of the ability to let go and look beyond words.


Was bringing AKT wrong? yes. But it shows Aryan's underlying insecurities which is normal for any partner to have in any relationship. People have insecurities and it is beyond me why some people are literally crucifying him for being human. Imlie has too said hurtful things in the past that Aryan simply let go off. Her lying, her not listening.


The point is relationships are not perfect and you have to let go of things. I don't think any strong boundary has been overstepped from which they can't return. I don't want to make this about who was right and who was wrong because both of them had their own share of faults.


Every time someone says something hurtful to you, you can't go around breaking relationships. Mistakes are a real thing, learn to look at the person beyond their mistakes. As simple as that.


If the person beyond their mistakes is an ugly site, then you know you can't take them back. Aryan is not that, AKT was.

i’d disagree on this. until AKT was brought up, both of them were simply a pair of grieving parents venting their anger on each other. but the moment Aryan brought AKT up, the nature of the conflict at hand changed altogether. it was no longer about grief over a loss child, but a doubt cast on the foundation of their relationship and marriage itself. because it insinuated a certain thought process on Imlie’s part, the implications of which are seriously damning to their trust quotient. it could perhaps have been overlooked had he brought that name up at any other point at all during their marriage. but the fact that AKT was brought up at what is decisively the lowest, most vulnerable, and painful point there can ever be in a married couple’s relationship - and literally mere hours after it happened - is pretty grave. even in grief, there is a clear boundary of respect to not be crossed between couples. this line is what holds a couple together even while they’re falling apart and ensures that they fall apart together. rather unfortunately, that line was irrevocably crossed today.
Edited by handlerxsaviour - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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i’ll tell you what really broke my heart today. the way people on Twitter are mercilessly bashing her for what they saw as Imlie “omitting” information “unfavourable to her” (what in all of this was favourable to her, seriously) while talking to her mother. that’s not what she was doing. she was sharing what thoroughly broke her heart that day with the only person she now has left for herself in the whole world. regardless of her part in whatever has transpired, is she not even allowed that bit of comfort after having lost practically everything she had in the world? i know this is a fictional character in a fictional show, but these people saying these things are very real and this is the kind of “mercy” they have. it’s incredibly saddening.

Edited by handlerxsaviour - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Aryan needs to keep his this promise 🤣🤣🤣

He made it official by signing it so he better be 😆

https://twitter.com/seldeepa/status/1549514168621060102?s=20&t=GeVEOy_S0gj5YLDX_blpIA

I hope Aryan finds this paper now 🤣

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