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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: MJHTMonayaSajan


Seriously...I see that the makers are trying to take inspiration from Humsafar here...but that was a whole different story with whole different context...I think makers didn't want to make Ram "flawed" the way Ashar was in Humsafar...they didn't want to show Ram as someone who wouldnt hear his wife the way Ashar didn't hear Khirad out...instead, they wanted to show how RamPriya are "Haalat ke maare" but they ended up making both the main leads unreasonable and worse-flawed


Again, in Humsafar, Khirad could not complete her education and didn't have anyone else to support her financially...here Priya is educated, a full time teacher apparently taking 20k or something as "remaining salary", with decently well off sisters...Not being able to buy merry-go-rounds, lavish hotels and other fancy stuff is fine but not being able to afford a single meal???

Humsafar was a classic despite its cliched storyline and I won’t insult it by comparing it to this crapfest. Ashar was actually haalat ka maara bcoz his mother ensured Khizar was always around to build his suspicion. When he first caught Khirad with Khizar in a compromising state his reaction was human and his own mom whom he trusts a lot reinforcing that lie? He believed what he saw but despite that he wanted to hear her out once later on. But his mother never let him. When Khirad tried to call him his hatred shut her off from him. For me watching his breakdown was painful too. Of course my heart broke for Khirad but a little for Ashar too. Khirad had cut off her ties with Ashar but she was right when she reached out to him for Hareem’s treatment. Harem was born in this world coz of Ashar and the least he could do was give her the financial support to regain her health and live a healthy life. I love the way she bajaoed him later 😆 our shows are incapable of depicting such layered characters. So what will I hope from RaYa? 🥱

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Didn’t Priya have a bank account or her sisters & mom drained that money too? Who knows why she was left without a penny.


Why does it have to be shown as polar opposite. Either Rich or totally poor. Can't there be a middle.


Why not say Pihu and Priya lived a simple life. Why make it that Pihu went hungry? How could Priya let her daughter suffer like that when she could have gotten help even if it meant being dependent on her family.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I was cringing too. I get it if Adi or Vikrant feel bad coz when all of that was happening with Priya, they took a neutral stand but defo not Brinda. I get it, as sisters Sara and Sandy are emotional. But why the hell is Brinda crying? Did she bother to hear Priya out once?

she is the one who initiated this entire mess though it was unintentional on her side 😆, if only brinda had listened to priya that day it wont have got to this.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95


In real life if a woman accidentally pushes her husband's sister from the stairs, will the husband send her to jail ? No way. There will be anger, depression , lot of mourning but not let her rot in jail.

Ram knows how much Pri loves Shivi she will never intentionally push her . If in her hands Pri would have died instead of Shivi. Pri risked her life eating paneer to get her married. She stood unconditionally on her side when her pics with Sid were leaked. She ate the entire fish cake so that she is not hurt .

So based on the fact that MS and Varun were murderers and Shivi accused the entire family of abuse , I think Ram became vindictive to avenge her death. He somewhere felt that they as a family together harmed Shivi .

If you delete the events of MS Varun and Shivi's last words , I don't think Ram would send Priya to jail for accidentally pushing her sister .


The only reason I may want him to bail her is because I know for a fact that had Priya n her baby died because of Shivi that day , Ram would not send Shivi to jail, also there has to be gratitude for Priya going against her family , putting her life to risk multiple times to get justice for VK.

Is there no consideration for this act of Priya ?

But at the end of the day it is completely upto Ram if he wants to cut off ties from Priya or not, whether he wants to forgive or punish her for Shivi's death. He chose to punish and that is fine.

I just can't blame him .


Also if he still thinks that Soods r all collectively criminals who tortured and ultimately caused the death of Shivi , it makes it all the more unacceptable that he would use the so called criminals for deal sake.



About Priya taking away Pihu this time after the deal. I don't think she has any other choice.

How is the situation now any better than than what it was 5 years back. Nandini still hates Priya and her child and does not want them around Ram . Priya still holds herself guilty for being a curse to Ram . The only difference is she is out of jail and cannot be sent to jail again .


The whole point of lying to Ram about the paternity of the child ( won't write once again how stupid it was, and how unacceptable it is till date for me that Ram believed it ) but considering the lie is logical enough to qualify as believable and accepted by the other party , was to make him hate her to such an extent that even her shadow doesn't fall on him and protecting him thereby .

The only solution now maybe to hand over Pihu to Ram and bid tata goodbye which as a mother she won't be able to do . Even in that case it is important for Ram to cut off from Nandini , because Pihu doesn't deserve to be a victim of Nandini's venom . She is still is the same vindictive lady who threatened to orphan Pihu. Pihu is any day safe with Priya under a leaking roof than in KM .


We don't see Priya wallowing in self guilt everyday, because I think she has accepted this truth of her life that there is no possibility of reconciliation and she has to be happy so that Pihu is happy.

It is her defense mechanism to act all happy and pretend nothing happened just like how being Khadoos is Ram's defense mechanism . But she is responsible for a little life . She has a reason to shut and seal all her miseries and act like nothing happened .Otherwise I don't think it is possible that a woman who cut ties from her family, got separated from her husband , has so much guilt in heart, had to deliver her baby in jail, has no financial security can live a happy life without any bitterness .


My view of Priya generally coincides almost exactly with vaidharbhi's.


I'll play devil's advocate over Priya's apparent lack of guilt or remorse over Pihu. I remember her saying somewhere (I think in the lift episode) that she had accepted whatever she got. I'd guess that because she holds herself liable, she chooses to take her punishment, whether that's staying out of Ram's life or whatever. For her, no option exists to let Ram know Pihu is his. And if she were to say anything about this now, she'd be accused of wanting to wheedle her way back to The Good Life.


Her decisions should not preclude showing an awareness of how she's deprived Ram of the happiness Pihu could have brought him or wishing none of the crap happened, but looks like cvs don't want that. Prepare for sweeping under carpets, though I hope it will be shown somewhere.


I also feel that the scenes shot before Disha went on holiday will probably be used haphazardly, resulting in silly, disjointed sequences. Not that they need an excuse for that. I quickly scanned the episode, and it wasn't so bad.


Why are people presuming Ram had the handcuffs for sex with the Angiras? He didn't even seem rattled that Pihu was looking through those drawers. But again, as vaidharbhi says, Priya better get a clean chit before he acts lovey dovey with her.


I dislike Ram's tendency to boast. It was somewhat endearing when he was Ram1, but now it does not sit well. No need to be apologetic for being rich, but no need to brag either. Particularly cheap when it's to a little girl. About talking rudely to staff, yes, good manners dictate you try and behave courteously, ESPECIALLY with those who are in a less favourable position or circumstances, but at times his rudeness is a reaction from fear (when Priya got knocked down after the MS reveal).


Personally, I feel they should do truth reveals, each apologise, and decide they have no future together after all this, and Pihu can build a relationship with Ram, provided Nandu and Shubhi are nowhere around.

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Posted: 3 years ago

In real life, God forbid if such a situation were to arise, the husband's family will never forgive his wife. No one will accept a DIL who was responsible for the death of their daughter and thats a fact too. Accident, no accident. If MS, Varun were not responsible for VK's death then maybe Ram would have separated from Priya for sure. But maybe not sent her to jail. But two of her family members already murdering his father and then Shivi staging that drama - its not possible for a human mind to fathom. Ram knew Priya was covering for her family even when he sent her to jail. He knew she was innocent but if you are abetting a crime, that makes you a criminal too. He was never aware of the truth and that became his biggest enemy.


I wonder how Ram would have reacted if he had known Ishaan pushed Shivi in retaliation and anger after Shivi pushed Priya.

I wish Priya had died instead. It would have saved us all this trashy story.


Losing someone you loved like a child will make anyone vindictive dear. I would never forgive anyone if I lost my child coz of them. Sending them to jail? Thankfully never saw such a day and will pray I never will and nor should anyone else.


Want to see if he'll be equally vindictive if Nandu-Shubu's part comes out. IF.


Ditto. He would have separated from her but not sent her to jail for an accident. Not just Shivi. Ram lost a lot that day - he might have gotten justice for his dad but doing that opened up the wounds that had healed and while they were still raw, he was dealt with back to back blows. Even though he never admitted it, deep down he loved MM probably more than his own mother. Because he felt he had a right on her which he never felt with his stepmom. His affection and love was nothing more than servitude born out of obligation thrust upon by his late father. But with MM he shared a genuine bond. The day he realised she is shielding MS and Varun, that broke. Imagine the heartbreak he must have gone through? Even when he was coming to meet Priya, he wanted to be objective, hear her and Priya out.


I think you're on to something here. MM broke his trust bigtime. That kind of cascaded with Shivi's accusations and subsequent death.


A rational person would have forgiven Priya. You yourself have given the answer dear smiley1 If the events that occurred prior to Shivi's death had not happened, Ram would have still separated from Priya but he would never have sent her to jail.


Ram would have calmed down if it weren't for his evil family. And his useless bunch of friends did nothing to salvage the situation. I hate Brinda for what she did to Priya. She could have heard her out once. Even without the pregnancy, Ram would have come to Priya but then how will an ITV show run without MU? smiley26


You know, if Brinda hadn't played God, maybe Priya could have broken the pregnancy news to Ram before Nandini played her cards. After that, he might have questioned more had Priya suddenly come up with the Krish lie, though I doubt the outcome would have been any different. Half his acquiescence is due to wanting to please Nandini and avoid hard decisions. Nandu has always played him beautifully. Giving in gracefully when she had no option, playing on his sense of gratitude and fear of letting his dad down, pretending a generousity she could never feel.



None of what we are seeing post leap makes sense. Including Priya's mellowed down avatar. And Ram's anger. If I were him, I would not reach out to my ex who cheated on me to help me out of my mess smiley36 I would not want to give that person the edge to think they can cheat on me but still bestow a favour on me smiley17


I understand if Priya wants to walk away from Ram's life but is it her right to decide if she should separate the baby from the father? Just like how a father does not have the right to separate a child from the mother, vice versa is also true. I get her reasons for taking that call but not feeling remorse is no excuse.

Yes she is responsible for a little life and it is that responsibility that should have ensured she sought a middle way out. My only gripe is Priya 1.0 would have moved heaven and earth to get her child her rights. I never had any issues with Priya till the time she came back for the deal. One small monologue where she felt guilt for taking away Pihu from Ram. A little remorse for that? No one is saying she should become Nirupa Roy. Hell no! But knowing how much Ram wanted to be a father and seeing how much he loved his step sister, Priya chose to let him believe the child she was carrying was not his. Yes Nandu is vile but if Ram did not believe in Priya, Priya did not believe in her love for Ram either. I miss the OG Priya of BALH2 smiley19 She was such a badass. I kept hoping ki we will get to see a glimpse of her in Priya 2.0 but so far, my hope has been futile. Only the OG Priya can make Ram open his eyes and see his family for what they r.


As I said above, Priya sees not letting Ram know about Pihu as something she accepted and now has no option over. Yes, regret and guilt would be nice, though.

Priya did believe in his love. She was sure he would never believe her--and she was almost right.

Priya would be chewed up and spat out if she dared to say anything about Nandini. Besides, Nandini is too good to expose herself. Priya never had a clue.



A child will always need a mother. So I would defo not want Priya handing over Pihu to Ram. But I wish she had confided in Krish and ensured she could reach out to someone in Ram's circle and let them know about the truth. Make some attempt to ensure her child was not left bereft of a father's love.


Ram would be a disaster if he had sole custody of Pihu. He'd spoil her silly, set her bad examples, and, most of all, let Nandini do whatever she pleased with her.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Exactly!! How much worse can this show get? Where are Priya’s usools?I think they died along with old Priya. Now for her, kinky toys means cool and happening!! I have a feeling she already knows about this since she was stalking him through social media… One of the Angiras may have spilled the beans. Then it’s super wierd of her coming forward to collaborate in the dirty deal plan making her daughter to be part of it too!!

But did she even know about the alleged sex toy? I thought she was talking about her presumption that Ram has a happy life. Maybe she thinks his angry bird behaviour earlier was only with her, and she deserved it. 🙈

I think she'd probably do anything for Ram. 🤢

I really don't like them making Priya stupid.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

How fake can it get? Few weeks ago Brinda was cursing Priya and now she is crying for her and now she is back to being Sara’s BFF 😆 chal kya raha hai 🤣 and after seeing those sex toys if Priya still calls Ram her Prince Charming, she has officially lost her mind 😆

Lord, this bs got on my nerves.

I'm betting those handcuffs have an innocent explanation, unless they were just a prop for the scene and are forgotten, like much else.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BlurredLines


I don't think any show. I remember in ITV history ever crossed this line as Balh2 . Come on he is the male lead what about our trp audience. They will switch the channel if they keep showing stuff like this one


@bold - Well this is a comedic scene . We should all laugh seeing the scene not think about the traumatized kid and I feel bad for the child actor. There is a limit to subject her and this time they crossed it. Such a innocent child and they are showing this scenes with her 😡

Trp audience might not understand the implication, unless savvy youngsters are around to try and explain.

I simply don't believe it, precisely because of what you say. Unless maiyya is attempting to push boundaries again.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

That is the whole strategy of makers 🤣

Write scenes to enrage not engage the audience so that we will alternatively bash Ram, Priya, makers back to Ram , Priya ,makers n the show is in news with sufficient masala of fanwar in chidiya

Reminds of how Tony's songs get hit , many people watch it only to criticize it 🤣🤣


THIS! THIS! THIS!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: BlurredLines


I am sorry but I can't sympathise with Priya when she made those decision in the first place. Also she sacrificed so much for the sood family. How can they let her struggle that much.


Sara had a succeful bakery, Sandy worked for RK successful business man, Maithri was married to Neeraj. How can the sister completely abandon priya to her dire financial situation.

I presumed she had money in the bank, but no cash on her. It was a ridiculous story.

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