Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #37 - Page 87

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Both the shows you mentioned had such beautiful father daughter bond❤️❤️ Both the daughters lived away from their fathers for a few years but shared such an adorable bond with their fathers. And I really liked how they always behaved like kids and not 100 year olds. Even S1 Ram-Pihu had an adorable bond❤️ I know Ram was mean with her in the beginning but now he is treating her very nicely. And kids don't think so much taht this person is plotting against my mom and hold grudges against people🤪

@bold- they have just made a joke out of the whole story and characters. Nothing at this juncture makes any sense lol. The deal itself is like a joke. Ho kya raha hai? I didn't know govt contracts family man image pe milte hain

lol... yeah ... here i hoped we would see a beautiful storyline take front center with father-daughter bond ... here it is like we are thrown one idiocy after another.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

@bold- he definitely does. And needs some telling off too. But Pihu shouldn't be the one doing it Makers seem to have forgotten her age. 4-5 saal ke bachhe ke mann mein yeh sab baatein aati bhi nahi hai. I don't think they think much beyond fun and food😆

Also being like this is not only out of character for a kid but also for Pihu. I mean she was shown as a happy go lucky kid who was kind like Ram. Now suddenly she is being nasty to him even after he saved her life. In that episode she was shown seeing Ram's video and even liking it. Then she is shown talking to Maitri about him, then decides to say sorry to him but now suddenly s being plain rude even when he is being sweet

@red- I so so wish this was shown. But makers are toh hell bent on butchering her completely. Sorry to say but today Priya just came across as someone trying to save her neck bass, baki log bhaad mein jaaye bass beti ke samne image kharab nahi honi chahiye 😡 I know Nandini and Shubu are nasty people and Pihu is much better living away from them but Pihu and Ram deserved to live together and have a loving fater daughter relationship. She took away that from them and doesn't even have any regrets

I know many here will probably curse me for saying this but for the first time I felt disgusted with Priya. Ram might have a 100 flaws in him - he was gullible, never saw through Nandu's lies. Its not like he was aware of it and turned a blind eye. If that were the case I would have said myself ki Priya should have divorced him. He saw good in people even when there was nothing about it. Yes he was a fool but a good hearted fool. But what did Priya's lies turn him into? A ruthless person who believes money is the only way to get things done. Even before he flaunted his money but he used it to do good things. He was a compassionate person. Forget being mean to a kid, he would never ever have spoken rudely for a second even if that kid was mean to him. All Priya does is pray for him like her useless mother does 🤢 What good is that when you have done the damage but expect God to do damage control for you? Pihu told him up front he cannot be her father and he is mean and what not? Ram might show like he cares only for the deal but if that were the case he wouldn't be so affected by it. Priya did not feel guilty even for a second that all this was happening coz of her stupidity. Yes like I said her intentions were noble when she took Ishaan's blame and uttered that horrible lie but it was stupid. Being a wife, she made the same mistakes Ram did - let outsiders have a say in their marriage. So why cut her some slack? If you can blame Ram, then also blame Priya. She is the mother but did Ram not have any rights on Pihu being the father?

P. S - Sorry but I am really pissed off seeing today's episode. Even if I want to, I cannot empathize with Priya today.

Originally posted by: esprit_00

Sorry - but most kids are timid and they just shy away or ignore people who are rude / mean. Pihu was ok in the beginning, a bit too old for her age IMO but now it's like a tantrum throwing teenager. This character is way too OTT for an almost 5 yr old kid. If you are that age, you don't act like an old school dadi amma rather you would cry or get upset if someone you find mean approaches you. This character is not cute anymore. And I think after today most would agree. I could sense this is where the show makers wanted to take the character- just rude and disrespectful. 🤪

I haven't seen today's episode, but agree with you about kids being dadi Amma. That always has been the case with ITV. Pihu shoeing away the angiras right from the time she was introduced itself isn't something kids can think of .

About the nature of Pihu , she is caring sweet n sensitive to everyone around .She doesn't like the vibes of Ram and thinks of him as Khadoos which is completely fine. Ram earned this himself.

I remember as a kid I used to be damn scared of my house owner uncle for no reason.He was such a sweet and humble person. But I used to run away from him , hide behind mom n cry.

So I get it that a kid cannot like the vibes of certain people n Ram 2.0 is ofcourse not likeable but as u said the predominant feeling should be fear, running away , crying rather than hate n insult, because u r actually kind of scared of that person.

as for the pihu being too rude or too mature

thats what i think

as for too mature

yes i somewhat agree her dialogues r too mature, and this seems to be a common thing in itv show these days, it wasnt as common in the past. but i kinda feel bad for the kid playing pihu, she is doing her job well as a little kid and also from what i seen from some balh2 actor-actresses story that kid is very naive and innocent offscreen, she just wants to hug and play with everyone aww 🥺 i saw a story of how she told manraj hello bday boy 😆 n was playing with him. so i kinda feel bad for her onscreen she sometimes gets scolded by audience cause of this heavy dialogue thing 😒

and as for too rude, i kinda have mixed feelings about this. honestly since the time she has been here, mr khadoos hasnt been very nice, he talks rudely mostly. didnt give her cupcakes as promised, spoke rudely to her in the engagement party when she didnt even do anything, brought the merry-go-round so that she cant ride it, spoke rudely to her mom and then she sees her mom fainting in his arms ofc a kid will be scared of such a guy. if ram was nice to her throughout she would have not even think of being rude to him. she is nice to ppl who r nice to her, and also just one day she is in kapoor mansion she knows all the helpers’ name which is so sweet. but yeah i agree she shouldnt have thrown the spoon away.

though it is really good to see ram softening towards pihu and genuinely attempting to bond with her, i feel if pihu immediately accepted the cake, whatever he did with pihu would have been forgotten very easily. him bonding with pihu great to watch but he must know it is not that easy to bond with a kid you have been cold too, so i m kinda the minority here. like some were mentioning if pihu accepted the cake easily then ram may think she is greedy then that is another problem, but yeah i do agree they should tone down baby pihu a lil bit. sorry to say but ram himself invited this rude behaviour, what he did all these days was unbelievable , nandini or no one influenced him when it comes to rude behaviour with pihu thats his own fault.

and what doesnt make sense is that ram-priya got seperated cause shivi died (priya was blamed, ram sometimes thinks its meera maa’s fault) and priya lied she had an extra martial affair with her first love krish, so uss hisaab se according to ram either priya or meera maa should be blamed for this mess, how this even pihu’s fault, she wasnt even born!!

and after ram finds out pihu is his daughter, i hope he realizes how krish was ready to accept pihu as his own child unlike him who immediately left priya (though he did leave her cause priya say she loved krish, but then he hates the kid wth) krish doesnt get enough appreciation for what he did for priya and pihu only cause he is not the male lead thats why however yeah it was also weird how he never really tried telling ram about the mess and did what sara dii does stay quiet.

i think after priya’s staircase accident, ram and pihu will start bonding genuinely not for the sake of the deal, i rather wait and then watch their genuine bonding than tolerate the sake of the deal wala bonding

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I know many here will probably curse me for saying this but for the first time I felt disgusted with Priya. Ram might have a 100 flaws in him - he was gullible, never saw through Nandu's lies. Its not like he was aware of it and turned a blind eye. If that were the case I would have said myself ki Priya should have divorced him. He saw good in people even when there was nothing about it. Yes he was a fool but a good hearted fool. But what did Priya's lies turn him into? A ruthless person who believes money is the only way to get things done. Even before he flaunted his money but he used it to do good things. He was a compassionate person. Forget being mean to a kid, he would never ever have spoken rudely for a second even if that kid was mean to him. All Priya does is pray for him like her useless mother does 🤢 What good is that when you have done the damage but expect God to do damage control for you? Pihu told him up front he cannot be her father and he is mean and what not? Ram might show like he cares only for the deal but if that were the case he wouldn't be so affected by it. Priya did not feel guilty even for a second that all this was happening coz of her stupidity. Yes like I said her intentions were noble when she took Ishaan's blame and uttered that horrible lie but it was stupid. Being a wife, she made the same mistakes Ram did - let outsiders have a say in their marriage. So why cut her some slack? If you can blame Ram, then also blame Priya. She is the mother but did Ram not have any rights on Pihu being the father?

P. S - Sorry but I am really pissed off seeing today's episode. Even if I want to, I cannot empathize with Priya today.

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You have told everything that I am feeling for Priya especially uselessly praying for Ram just like her mom😡 All her love and prayers seem so hollow. Pre leap Priya was a gem. She was a bit rude to people, never falunted her love for anyone but she showed her care through her actions.

As you said Ram is very dumb and too kind I agree but he was like that to everyone. If he forgave his family or ignored their mistakes he did the same with Priya as well. He even kinds forgived her father for attempting to murder him.

Anyway it all just boils down to the fact that Priya chose all this knowingly 😔 She willingly took blame for Ishan when it was never needed, went to jail, separated father-daughter all by her own. Ram had no say in all this mess. He was forced to be like this.

It hurts more that she is not even shown thinking about how she is responsible for all this or feeling bad that Pihu doesn't have a father with her. She only seems to care about her past being revealed idk till how long can she even protect Pihu from all this. Her past is not gonna disappear if she goes away from Kapoor mansion. She will always have a criminal tag on hwr due to her own stupidity

Originally posted by: RandomWaliLadki

as for the pihu being too rude or too mature

thats what i think

as for too mature

yes i somewhat agree her dialogues r too mature, and this seems to be a common thing in itv show these days, it wasnt as common in the past. but i kinda feel bad for the kid playing pihu, she is doing her job well as a little kid and also from what i seen from some balh2 actor-actresses story that kid is very naive and innocent offscreen, she just wants to hug and play with everyone aww 🥺 i saw a story of how she told manraj hello bday boy 😆 n was playing with him. so i kinda feel bad for her onscreen she sometimes gets scolded by audience cause of this heavy dialogue thing 😒

and as for too rude, i kinda have mixed feelings about this. honestly since the time she has been here, mr khadoos hasnt been very nice, he talks rudely mostly. didnt give her cupcakes as promised, spoke rudely to her in the engagement party when she didnt even do anything, brought the merry-go-round so that she cant ride it, spoke rudely to her mom and then she sees her mom fainting in his arms ofc a kid will be scared of such a guy. if ram was nice to her throughout she would have not even think of being rude to him. she is nice to ppl who r nice to her, and also just one day she is in kapoor mansion she knows all the helpers’ name which is so sweet. but yeah i agree she shouldnt have thrown the spoon away.

though it is really good to see ram softening towards pihu and genuinely attempting to bond with her, i feel if pihu immediately accepted the cake, whatever he did with pihu would have been forgotten very easily. him bonding with pihu great to watch but he must know it is not that easy to bond with a kid you have been cold too, so i m kinda the minority here. like some were mentioning if pihu accepted the cake easily then ram may think she is greedy then that is another problem, but yeah i do agree they should tone down baby pihu a lil bit. sorry to say but ram himself invited this rude behaviour, what he did all these days was unbelievable , nandini or no one influenced him when it comes to rude behaviour with pihu thats his own fault.

and what doesnt make sense is that ram-priya got seperated cause shivi died (priya was blamed, ram sometimes thinks its meera maa’s fault) and priya lied she had an extra martial affair with her first love krish, so uss hisaab se according to ram either priya or meera maa should be blamed for this mess, how this even pihu’s fault, she wasnt even born!!

and after ram finds out pihu is his daughter, i hope he realizes how krish was ready to accept pihu as his own child unlike him who immediately left priya (though he did leave her cause priya say she loved krish, but then he hates the kid wth) krish doesnt get enough appreciation for what he did for priya and pihu only cause he is not the male lead thats why however yeah it was also weird how he never really tried telling ram about the mess and did what sara dii does stay quiet.

i think after priya’s staircase accident, ram and pihu will start bonding genuinely not for the sake of the deal, i rather wait and then watch their genuine bonding than tolerate the sake of the deal wala bonding

@bold- I don't agree here. Ram's and Krish's situation can't be compared in any way. Ram was cheated upon. His wife cheated on him with her first love and got pregnant. Its not same for Krish. We don't know how he would react if his wife cheated on him with her lover. Would he still happily accept the kid?

If Priya wasn't his wife and was his first love and Pihu was daughter born out of her first marriage I don't think Ram would have much problem accepting her and Pihu. He would have loved them with all his heart. Priya's cheating is what made him the way he is.

I agree Pihu was at no fault in this mess. But its easier said than done. Ram treating Pihu very lovingly would be the ideal situation but he is also human. He is quite bitter about what Priya did to him. Though I do believe he will come to love the kid despite not knowing the truth.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

@bold- I don't agree here. Ram's and Krish's situation can't be compared in any way. Ram was cheated upon. His wife cheated on him with her cirst love and got pregnant. Its not same for Krish. We don't know how he would react if his wife cheated with her lover. Would he still happily accept the kid?

If Priya wasn't his wife and was his first love and Pihu was daughter born out of her firat marriage I don't think Ram would have much problem accepting her and Pihu. He would have loved them with all his heart. Priya's cheating is what made him teh way he is.

i just find some things very weird. he didnt bother meeting priya until he found out she was pregnant with his child, if he didnt even know about her pregnancy i doubt if he would have gone to meet her for some time again he wanted to meet priya when she fainted i agree but did he actually meet her before knowing she was expecting?!

he still cares for priya like he did years back good to see, that scene i liked. but what doesnt make sense to me is that he hates pihu for his and priya’s seperation, shouldnt he be hating priya or meera maa for this, he keeps on saying its the kid’s fault! and he hates priya for cheating that makes sense but then he got so many hints she never married krish, she fasted for him but he still thinks she loves krish like what on earth, doesnt he have a basic common sense! and i also agree with u it was priya’s ‘betrayal’ that changed him. both ram n priya r to be blamed for this mess, priya for her mahaanta, she is now more of meera maa jnr, and ram didnt use his brains much wonder how he can crack 800 cr deal, his anger towards priya is justified but not towards pihu.

I have a different take on why Pihu was rude today..if you look at the sequence of events, they are all in the family room after N-Priya encounter. Pihu is closely observing and listening to everyone including her mom. Kids are impressionable only to an extent and they can easily assess people from their behavior. She also has seen how Ram buys out everything for his convinience. So the outcome was the rude behavior from a child seeing the dynamics between everyone. I say, she’s pretty smart for her age. Her language could be toned down to match a 5 year old.

I think Priya knows N’s vile, but she also thinks that Ram and N are a team doing all this for the deal. So if N’s threatening Priya, she might think Ram also knows about it.

Again today everything was abut the deal. Be it N, Ram, Vik, Sara, Sandy. Only Ishaan wants to unite Ram and Priya. Rest are all good time Charlies. It was a relief that V was not present today. She was definitely not missed.🤣

All the characters are at fault... but mostly it is the writers and producers. Like there is no rhyme or reason / no logic / no consistency in anything that has happened since Shivi death. I really wish they could have just shown Shivi & Akki moving away for his career rather this crap. If they needed to do a separation track, the false accusation of extra marital affair would have been enough. Right now it is nonsense. And the leads are dumbed down to (no words here).. while the positive characters are all props. It seems like Nandini & Vedika are the leads. Priya leaning on Krish didn't even make sense since the character entry was so so late.

I really hope the writers / producers take a leaf from other shows (even BALH 1) like Humsafar / Kuch Rang Pyar Ke ... and realize the potential they have. Right now everything is . I was looking forward to father daughter track ... but what i am seeing is just so crap.

I'm beyond frustrated with Priya today. I agree Ram has been quite stupid in all of this, believing Priya's lie, easily being manipulated by his mother etc. but nobody can deny that Priya messed up pretty hard by lying about the legitimacy of Pihu. Ram's life has been total darkness after that. Before today I didn't feel too bad for Ram when Pihu used to fight with him because the way he behaved with her was rude. But today I felt genuinely bad for the guy. I love Pihu, I really do, but she is being plain rude out of nowhere. I can understand her not liking him but I don't understand where all this hate is coming from. Especially the dialogues about Ram being Priya's Prince Charming. Those dialogues don't even seem to fit in to the situation at all. They just seem so forced, like the writers are just trying to make a point. I hate how passive Priya is being regarding Ram and Pihu's relationship. I've always had a problem with how Priya seems to have no guilt at all for separating a father from his daughter, or for breaking Ram the way she did with her lie. Fine, she took the decision she thought best for her child and for Ram. But wouldn't you feel atleast a little guilty? Especially after seeing how fractured Ram and Pihu's relationship is? Especially after seeing Pihu say to Ram that he is not her father and he never can be? Especially after seeing Pihu say that Ram can never be her mumma's Prince Charming? How can you not feel bad for the person that you claim to love the most when his own child is saying all these things to him and you know how that would make him feel? Pihu's words would have hurt him deep especially because of Priya's lie, wouldn't she realise that? Yet the writers showed no remorse in Priya. She could have done a much better job at explaining things to Pihu. I get it, she doesn't want to make her do anything that she doesn't want to. I respect that. But when a child is wrong, you have to explain it to them in a way they will understand. She can do so much more to make Ram - Pihu's relationship atleast a little bit better. I cannot deal with how passive Priya is being these days. Sorry for the long rant, I've so much more to say but I don't want to bore you guys to death.

Ps: I think Nakuul was fabulous today, both in his scenes with Pihu and in his scenes with Priya. You could see how hurt he was with her 'betrayal' in every word he said to Priya. Nakuul's performance is probably the reason why I feel extra bad for Ram today. How I wish the writers would give him something worthwhile to portray. So much wasted potential.