Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 6) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch ( ARY Digital ) - Page 85

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Also ,while we are discussing about safety and security. I completely understand Zainab's concern for Ushna. No matter how much a girl is strong and educated, she is surrounded by vultures and evil eyes. I have heard so many educated girls committing suicide because of dowry , stalking ,harrassment. Well ,suicide is not an option but girls face dual responsibility and face a lot with no family support. Zainab did not want to move to Mukhtar's family but she had to because when Furqan's old boss came to marry Ushna, she realised it is better to be with a toxic family than to put her daughter in the eyes of evil strangers. Zainab chose shehroz mainly because she saw him as a protector of Ushna from both evil eyes and her toxic relations. So her deal break for Ushna was most probably safety and financial security for Ushna.

Ya.. zainab's only reason to go to muktar house was to make sure ushna don't get eaten alive by vultures. Ushna was getting harassed on the road, guys were hitting on their doors at night and then a guy older than furkan had the audacity to come and ask for ushna's hands for himself😡.(i so want shehroz to hit the shit out of that guy but we know it won't happen) No matter how much insult she has to face in muktar house she was sure that her daughter will be safe from all of that. Sufiyan was not the sufi creepy back then and huzaifa is just a harmless flirt.

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Bold what 😳 I guess i missed this . That is too low. Glad Usama did not do that

Yes. I watched the first 2 episodes of rang mehal and wasn't that much impressed with the cast and someone here told me it's a good story as the FL becomes strong and will have a successful career. So to know what exactly is the story i stalked rang mehal thread and came to know that the ML is an asshole to the FL till the last few episodes but they still end up together and the drama has 90 episodes. If the ML is an asshole more more than half of the episodes then Usama did the best decision by choosing ishq jalebi over rang mehal.

After being successful she ends up marrying into the family that character assassinated her and still loved the guy that never trusted her. then what kind of a strong FL is that who cannot move on from a worthless guy?

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

In aye musht e khak, Feroze even gets the girl 😆 he only redeems after her girl gets shot 😆 while the whole time, he lies to her ,manipulates 😆

In kahin Deep Jalay, imran ashraf kicks the girl out, just because he thinks he cant become a father out of misunderstanding from the reports and blames the girl to have relationship with other man, the girl loses her child and they still end up together.

Both the dramas were blockbuster hits 😆

I have watched that drama with Faisal Qureshi and ushna shah (forgot the name. They say it's based on beauty and the beast) where he even forcefully abort their child and the girl still loves him and they end up together😡. He was like the ultimate toxic pak drama ML.

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Thank you Vibha❤️

I am so angry at India Forums , wish we get to interact with your original ID 😭

I agree with you Vibha. No one in sane mind will want a Hamza and Shehroz. If we see both the conditions, the two girls did not have any option. Well , even in real life, for girls ,choosing partners is not very much about their choices but their conditions. And i feel, these two stories show very much reflection of society. If a girl comes from a poor family and is financially independent, it is difficult for her to go with her choices , she mostly accepts what is given in that situation. Hala was kicked out from the house, she was ditched by Khurram, she did not have any option apart from marrying Hamza who was a nice guy then.

In our case, Ushna was in a much better situation, she was strong, educated and confident. But because her uncles and Sufiyan were hell bent after her, Zainab had to choose worst from the best , she chose Shehroz as she did see Naima and Wahab as nice people then and Shehroz a caring son for his mom. Ushna never wanted to marry Shehroz and that is why she had to ask another bad option Sufiyan to marry her. In both the cases,girls did not want to marry but their situation forced to.

Zunaisha had the option so she walked off like any of us would have done.

Edit :i thought i quoted Vibha and did not tag her , i cant retag people. 😒

The only problem with ushna is that she is just 20-21 and haven't finished her education to stand on her own like zunisha who is older, has already a successful career and comes from a rich family.

Ushna won't think twice before living the house if shehroze crosses the limits if she had enough educational qualification. Now even if she wants to leave her only option is muktar house. Don't know why zainab and ushna forgets about the house wahab bought for them

Originally posted by: spnfan

I have watched that drama with Faisal Qureshi and ushna shah (forgot the name. They say it's based on beauty and the beast) where he even forcefully abort their child and the girl still loves him and they end up together😡. He was like the ultimate toxic pak drama ML.

Damn i havent watched , what a crap 😳

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

Hehe, i dont forget names but actors are only relevant to me till the characters. I know , as much as i am appreciating Usama and Anmol as of now, i will do the same for another set of actors who will play such characters to discuss in depth..i will forget about Usmol till they come up with such disscussion worthy characters 😂😂

Same with me. I guess the only pak actor i care to have a look at every project of his is Bilal and even with bilal i didn't continue watching dobara because it didn't attract me much. So i will watch usmol project only if it's interesting enough and not solely for them. Going by usmol's past works i don't have much hope with with their future works 😆

Also i noticed that even after rang mehal being such a hit anmol has more insta followers than sehar. So it literally looks like the actors didn't gain any popularity even after being part of a successful project.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

vibha -- that is a great point about a family relationship being a dealbreaker. learned something new here as I never considered that before. 👏❤️

if farooq had been alive, zainab and ushna would have a regular relationship. ushna would have gotten married and made her own home eventually. but because farooq died and they had mistreatment at the brothers, zainab and ushna became survivors, comrades and a tight unit. then with the adoption fallout, it only strengthened the feelings of motherhood in zainab. she is adamant and very firm about her mamta and and her role as a mother. with ushna also, it has resolved her feelings towards zainab (and farooq) as parents and the bonds are very secure.

now here is my question -- why do see ushna-zainab as a healthy dealbreaker that we don't find any issue with? whereas with shehroze-naima, we see it as unhealthy?

Thank you girls and this is both for Renee and mango - as a newbie I can’t even tag anyone lol 😂

Why do we see zainab Ushna as good and naima Shehroz as unhealthy?

Ushna was raised with great values. Perhaps it was because she wasn’t as spoiled but she is responsible, caring, maybe too caring, and generally knows her boundaries including the one with zainab. Whereas Shehroz and Naima have this unhealthy bond where there is no place or space for another.

Zainab doesn’t butt in every aspect of Ushna’s life and Ushna also doesn’t allow her mother to butt in. She listens to the advice and she makes her decisions.

Shehroz on the other hand only rebelled when there was divorce ultimatum as he had backed off over rukhsati and was crying near the pool. Apart from that mother says jump and Shehroz says is this high enough. I also don’t like his talking about Ushna to his mother. He needs to realise that he has a wife now and yes mother gives advice but she is also a MIL and he doesn’t understand boundaries which of course that cheepdi Naima didn’t teach.

Whilst she says Ushna didn’t mean that she could very easily also say that she is your wife now and why don’t you both sort it out. How would you feel if Ushna were to talk about you to her mother? But no we hear his gossip session to his mother.

It’s not normal to be so attached in my opinion- that includes unhealthy obsession with mother, father, siblings, and spouse as well. With Shehroz there is no moderation, he is always extreme and anything extreme is unhealthy.

And yes Renee you are absolutely right Zunaisha had option and support and she walked away. I think it’s option and fear of the unknown that keeps some in a terrible relationships.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Same with me. I guess the only pak actor i care to have a look at every project of his is Bilal and even with bilal i didn't continue watching dobara because it didn't attract me much. So i will watch usmol project only if it's interesting enough and not solely for them. Going by usmol's past works i don't have much hope with with their future works 😆

Also i noticed that even after rang mehal being such a hit anmol has more insta followers than sehar. So it literally looks like the actors didn't gain any popularity even after being part of a successful project.

Apart from that, Anmol's feed is really attractive. Her style and dress sense and photo shoots are all of high quality so that is also the major reason

Well, soap actors are only give them ratings amd YT views, not individual sucesss. In india TRP matters for actors as the number of episodes are decided by TRP while with PTV anyways have limited episodes,, Rang Mahal got over in two months despite 90 episodes

Adeel Chaudhary, Sehar, Haroon Shahid they all are popular soap actors who have given huge hits but not many PTV fans even know them until they play sideys in big drama projects.

Originally posted by: 28Vibha

Thank you girls and this is both for Renee and mango - as a newbie I can’t even tag anyone lol 😂

Why do we see zainab Ushna as good and naima Shehroz as unhealthy?

Ushna was raised with great values. Perhaps it was because she wasn’t as spoiled but she is responsible, caring, maybe too caring, and generally knows her boundaries including the one with zainab. Whereas Shehroz and Naima have this unhealthy bond where there is no place or space for another.

Zainab doesn’t butt in every aspect of Ushna’s life and Ushna also doesn’t allow her mother to butt in. She listens to the advice and she makes her decisions.

Shehroz on the other hand only rebelled when there was divorce ultimatum as he had backed off over rukhsati and was crying near the pool. Apart from that mother says jump and Shehroz says is this high enough. I also don’t like his talking about Ushna to his mother. He needs to realise that he has a wife now and yes mother gives advice but she is also a MIL and he doesn’t understand boundaries which of course that cheepdi Naima didn’t teach.

Whilst she says Ushna didn’t mean that she could very easily also say that she is your wife now and why don’t you both sort it out. How would you feel if Ushna were to talk about you to her mother? But no we hear his gossip session to his mother.

It’s not normal to be so attached in my opinion- that includes unhealthy obsession with mother, father, siblings, and spouse as well. With Shehroz there is no moderation, he is always extreme and anything extreme is unhealthy.

And yes Renee you are absolutely right Zunaisha had option and support and she walked away. I think it’s option and fear of the unknown that keeps some in a terrible relationships.

Thank you Vibha. Loved reading it.❤️

I am tagging Mango on your behalf

Originally posted by: spnfan

Ptv male leads have set such a low standard that a very normal guy like humza looks like the ultimate goal. Humza came and became popular at a time when danisha and Feroze are giving hit after hit playing extremely toxic characters.

Another thing is how casually they talk about dowry 😂 I thought why ask for things from girls family? Don’t you have enough to keep the DIL well that you want her to bring stuff from her home?
I never understand that must be cultural?