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Originally posted by: mango.falooda

if you notice, both moms in zindagi gulzar hai had identities of their own that were separate from wife and mother. kashaf's mom was working in a school and had a life separate from home. so yes, she struggled to put food on the table but because she was independent and working, she could take a stand for her daughters. she didn't break no matter how many taunts her husband or his relatives gave her. as for zaroon's mom, I don't remember what her profession was but I do remember that she was really good at her job that she travelled even overseas for conference. so this was a woman that had a life outside of her husband and son. they weren't her life or her entertainment. she also raised her kids to be independent and so had to agree when he chose kashaf.

like dramabaaz explained so well about the culture aspects, a lot of these obsessive moms have also emotionally unavailable husbands. they are unhappy in their marriages and it is not fulfilling. so the sons become the support. I also think the obsession has to do with the lack of relationship progression in the parent child relationship. rather than going through child-parent to teenager-parent to adult child-parent relationship, the relationship remains stunted in the chid-parent phase. there is this great telgu/tamil movie where it opens with this line -- when you child is 2 and you hold his hand, that is fine. but when he is 25 and you are still holding his hand, that is a problem. in many of these obsessive moms, they are not willing to accept that young birds will eventually grow their wings and fly away -- that is the natural order.

Was that the movie with jayam Ravi and prakash raj? The one with genilia desouza.

One thing i didn't like about zgh was some of the regressive and chauvinist thinking of zaroon. Even though his mother let him be as free as he can, he used to judge his mother for being career oriented.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Yes that used to confuse me a lot too. Plus they are all fully clothed too 😂😂 and nothing changes behaviour wise. In ITV the ML will try to touch her a lot or bathroom funny scenes and eye moments. Here even after consummation they are exactly the way they were before 😂😂😂😂

I watched Taawan another good show with a realistic MIL where the leads were shown on the bed and FL was playing with ML hair so I figured it out that they must have done it 😂😂😂 so much work eh? Here we will either know or someone will tell us 😂😂

From some of the clips i have seen of ishq a laa, i guess they have showed pretty intimate scenes of sajal and the ML for a pak drama.

I guess the amount of hand holding and hugs depend on the channel. I feel Ary is the most conservate one.

Originally posted by: vibha28

Oh okay, sometimes real life couple don't have much chemistry. Look at Ajay Kajol I don't like watching them together. I also don't like Abhishek and Aishwarya. So could be that.

I stopped MH because of SJ too but she is the only one who can shut this Naima up. Romeo is busy stealing and Naima is busy going on a hunger strike. So this one we can have temporarily to remove the threat and SJ can go back to MH and torture poor Hala some more.

am always skeptical of real life couples who have no chemistry on camera. that is just weird. then you hear weird stories about them... 🤷 😅

I remember one kdrama -- the lead had no chemistry while they were outshone by all the side couples. in fact the side couples got nominated and won best couple at the channel awards that year while the leads didn't even get nominated. then after the drama ended, we hear that they hooked up and she was pregnant and they got married. but it didn't last too long and I recently read they got divorced. 🤷

Originally posted by: spnfan

Was that the movie with jayam Ravi and prakash raj? The one with genilia desouza.

One thing i didn't like about zgh was some of the regressive and chauvinist thinking of zaroon. Even though his mother let him be as free as he can, he used to judge his mother for being career oriented.

yes it was! santosh subramanium is one of our favourite family movies. every time it comes on tv, we all watch it and laugh. one of those movies you can watch many times and still not be bored.

as for zaroon, it was interesting -- like his friend osama said, he was a weirdo in some ways. 😂

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I used to eye roll these scenes in hindi serials at one point but now, I am weirdly attached to them. 🤣🤣 they are cheesy, romantic as well as laugh out loud funny. it is full on entertainment package. 🤣🤣

Those intimate scenes in Hindi serials are weirdly attractive 🤣.

Originally posted by: spnfan

I don't really get the hate srk's character gets in kkhh. He always treated Anjali like a friend and never even flirted with her like he did with other girls or led her on and even after Rani entered Anjali had the same importance in his life as before. He was like a typical immature college boy that failed to see the fact that his best friend had feelings for him. He cannot be held accountable for anjali's one sided love towards him. Even after 8years, Anjali held a very important place in his heart. When they met each other again he was more matured and he fell in love with her without knowing she was engaged. Even when he went to the marriage he had no intention of breaking her marriage. He would have definitely fallen in love with her even if she was still tomboyish after 8 years. Anjali and Rahul did share a special bond that even Tina knew she can never have. That bond is the reason why he fell in love with her.

I was active in Bolly forum and there too majority people hated Rahul.

I had various perspectives on this and the one you wrote is one of them.

Rahul never saw Anjali romantically not becauase she was a tom boy but because she was his best buddy. It is quite natural to not fall in love romantically with your best buddy. Because you see them in different light. Also, Anjali was never vocal about her love and Rahul being immature could never got her feelings. So, he was not at fault here.

After he met Anjali after years, he was a different Rahul than he was in college, he was much more mature ,responsible and understanding. He saw Anjali in a different light not because she was no more a tomboy. He saw Anjali close to his daughter. The new Anjali was no more that buddy for him as there was certain kind of awkwardness between them and it happens when you meet your long last friend after long . You see them in different way.

But yeah, people have different perspectives, so , I am fine with it.

Originally posted by: spnfan

Those intimate scenes in Hindi serials are weirdly attractive 🤣.

it is hilarious how they build up to the consumation episode with so many mountains that finally when you get there after 100 to 200 eps, viewers are so excited. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

am always skeptical of real life couples who have no chemistry on camera. that is just weird. then you hear weird stories about them... 🤷 😅

I remember one kdrama -- the lead had no chemistry while they were outshone by all the side couples. in fact the side couples got nominated and won best couple at the channel awards that year while the leads didn't even get nominated. then after the drama ended, we hear that they hooked up and she was pregnant and they got married. but it didn't last too long and I recently read they got divorced. 🤷

Ajay and Kajol have zero chemistry even after being married and srk-kajol have the kind of chemistry which made all the 90s kids think they were married in real life as well. 🤣🤣

I love watching kdramas but i rarely see leads having hot chemistry even though there will be kissing scenes and all. I guess it's because of their culture of seniority and all that I always feel a distance between the leads.

Originally posted by: spnfan

One thing i didn't like about zgh was some of the regressive and chauvinist thinking of zaroon. Even though his mother let him be as free as he can, he used to judge his mother for being career oriented.

Same , as much as I loved Zaroon and Kashaf, I always disliked this trait of his.

I thought I would hate episodes but I actually enjoyed,🤪 thinking how Ushna going to live with Naima 365 days in that house and how Ushna doesn't need to tolerate another Sautin named sister-in-law!!😆