NAAJAYEZ........

😭💔👎🏼🤢 That is the cruelest word anyone can use for a child in Mili's book👎🏼In my world, there are no naajayez bacche, there are only naajayez parents who put their children through hell😡

Why did I open the forum today? Why did I set my eyes on that clip?😭🤢 MAJOR RANT ALERT☢️ People who don't want their mind corrupted, please stop here.

For those of you who know me somewhat, I am firmly in the bandwagon of ASR/Aryan😳. But, I can't and won't be able to support him in this situation💔. His stance is triggering me very badly.

What exactly does Aryan want? He wants Imlie to accept that she was violated and then bring Madhav guy to justice. If he were not proven to be azoospermic, would he have batted an eye about this useless allegation? He would have chewed that BJs head up.

Let us back up, what would any person in the shoes of Aryan do, when they get their report about their fertility status? An ASR wouldn't sit quietly and accept this report till his condition is investigated to death🤢. This is my everyday experience. It doesn't have to be an ASR, but any aam man/woman would do this within their means. A ASR would be jetsetting to the best hospitals in the country and the world to figure out why, what and how about his condition? If he found out that his wife is pregnant, like Sheen mentioned before, he would have thanked his stars a thousand times for that miracle and get checked again for correctness.

Now coming to what does Aryan want from Imlie? He wants to seek justice by punishing Madhav. Fair enough. But what does he expect Imlie to do with regards to the child? Because, as a woman who had "presumably been violated" she has several choices here. 1. One of the options is to abort the child from being violated. So, shouldn't he be 100 times sure that what he is saying is the truth, not based on some cockamamie story cooked up by some nonsense? 😡2. To keep the child. For this to happen and to get Madhav guy punished, that means that the family will know, that means that Imlie and the child will get the step- treatment. Is he ready to take this route? I am not saying this isn't a route to take, but before being absolutely sure of Madhav guy, what does he expect Imlie to do other than feel bitter about him and sad about her pregnancy?

I am just peeved that he is repeatedly traumatizing an expectant mother with a bitter non-truth again and again without sufficient evidence. Instead of confirming his own condition, without confirming his serious doubt, to beat down on Imlie to agree that she was violated and carrying a product of such violation is so Ewwww.....👎🏼💔 Just because he says he trusts his wife or he loves his wife and that he frees her of all wrong doing in the mess, he doesn't get a free pass💔

That girl was called the above word though out her life. Now the child she is carrying is being labeled as such, by none other than the child's father😡😭 Is there anything more cruel than this in this whole wide world? 😡

I am sorry people if I hurt any sentiments here😭. But, I can't reconcile in anyway with ASR for the stance he is taking. I don't care how much he is hurting, he didn't need to put Imlie through this wringer and torture her with this accusation ( I know he is not accusing her, but this ugly allegation includes her too) before any confirmation about himself or his serious allegation😡☢️💔😭That is quite irresponsible😡

The only way I can make peace with him is if this is all a game he is playing to out somebody😳. But, it doesn't appear so, as I feel the writers want to show how Imlie fares by herself and how he will be the support from back stage. That is how I feel this is going to go after the baby is miscarried💔

WRITERS, I can't believe how you turned me 180 degrees around to rage on ASR, something I never thought I would😭Please end this nonsense. This is no feminism, to beat down on a pregnant lady to accept a violation. This is cruelty against that girl and the unborn child☢️.

I am not going to tag anyone today.......... I am extremely sad that I ever set my eyes on that clip😒

Thanks for making this post and got to agree with this. There is one simple ask that Imlie has and I got to resonate with it. Won't a girl know if she was violated? The most powerful ASR missing this is beyond me.

I wish the makers spent time that he is in two mind of whether its a miracle or someone plotting to separate them. There were so many incidents where Imlie's life was in danger and he did nothing to get to the root cause.

Imlie is standing and fighting to get ASR to reality. Probably the same way that she was blinded with AKT. None the less, this track has left a bad taste in my mouth.

I totally agree to your point..

As aryan POV he may be right but Indireclty he is accusing the child n baby .By taking imlie care doesn't mean the pain the guilt as a women she is suffering bcoz she is trying her best to make him understand that the child is of aryan only.. My point is where is trust for each other if she is continously saying that madhav is innocent or atleast he should find about his infertilty without jo help then he will get... I just not loving the episode tho now the episode are good from past weeks episode but the track is never ending track it seems...

Originally posted by: Priti1610

I totally agree to your point..

As aryan POV he may be right but Indireclty he is accusing the child n baby .By taking imlie care doesn't mean the pain the guilt as a women she is suffering bcoz she is trying her best to make him understand that the child is of aryan only.. My point is where is trust for each other if she is continously saying that madhav is innocent or atleast he should find about his infertilty without jo help then he will get... I just not loving the episode tho now the episode are good from past weeks episode but the track is never ending track it seems...

I know this track is very confusing but Aryan and Imlie's trust is still intact on each other.

Where :

Aryan's Trust in imlie's loyalty. He not even a second doubted on her.

Imlie knows Aryan won't attack Madhav like that. She didn't doubt that its Aryan who attacked him.

So their trust on each other is still there.

Now why Aryan isn't trusting imlie's word because imlie herself first told him that she doesn't remember anything after taking the pill and doesn't know what pill it was.

Aryan witnessed imlie forgiving Malini, Akt and Tripathies even after their horrible behavior with her. Malini who destroyed her life completely, she forgave her. He thinks imlie's inner goodness made her forgive Madhav because he's her friend.

Aryan never asked Joe or anyone else's help regarding his infertility report. Heck he didn't even share this information with anyone. Joe got to know about it from hospital and their blunder.

Aryan did second infertility test without anyone's help so how he's supposed to suspect any foul play??🤷‍♀️

Imlie whose super smart is unable to doubt on Joe due to her mask. How Arylie supposed to doubt on her? She's actively wishing good things for them.

Joe didn't even show any interest in Aryan in front of anyone that's why nobody is doubting on her.

Aryan is just blinded by his overprotectiveness and his inability to protect imlie.

"I failed again" sums up his mental state.

P.s it's us viewers who have 360 view of the characters and what's happening around them. Characters only act or react according to what is infront of them.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

I know this track is very confusing but Aryan and Imlie's trust is still intact on each other.

Where :

Aryan's Trust in imlie's loyalty. He not even a second doubted on her.

Imlie knows Aryan won't attack Madhav like that. She didn't doubt that its Aryan who attacked him.

So their trust on each other is still there.

Now why Aryan isn't trusting imlie's word because imlie herself first told him that she doesn't remember anything after taking the pill and doesn't know what pill it was.

Aryan witnessed imlie forgiving Malini, Akt and Tripathies even after their horrible behavior with her. Malini who destroyed her life completely, she forgave her. He thinks imlie's inner goodness made her forgive Madhav because he's her friend.

Aryan never asked Joe or anyone else's help regarding his infertility report. Heck he didn't even share this information with anyone. Joe got to know about it from hospital and their blunder.

Aryan did second infertility test without anyone's help so how he's supposed to suspect any foul play??🤷‍♀️

Imlie whose super smart is unable to doubt on Joe due to her mask. How Arylie supposed to doubt on her? She's actively wishing good things for them.

Joe didn't even show any interest in Aryan in front of anyone that's why nobody is doubting on her.

Aryan is just blinded by his overprotectiveness and his inability to protect imlie.

"I failed again" sums up his mental state.

P.s it's us viewers have 360 view of the characters and what's happening around them. Characters only act or react according to what is infront of them.

I'd like to add one more point here, If someone is roofied and assaulted, they wouldn't remember shit. And that's what she told him, i don't remember what happened that night. Coupled by Madhav lying (on imlie's insistence)

Brain is a very powerful tool, it blocks the worst things or changes narratives for it's own peace to make problematic things more acceptable because you can't change it and gotta live with it. I know it's happened to me, my brain has blocked some of the worst memories, i know they're there but can't access them. That's what he's saying is happening to her, which is not a wrong assessment.

It's a closed loop on all sides and a very clever narrative.

I agree that Aryan is wrong, because he doesn't have conclusive proof to convict madhav, but he has enough to doubt and accuse him, and it's creating great drama and driving the story.

Imlie is showing immense growth from being a facilitator of cheating in her past relationship, to calling out her husband when he's wrong and course correcting.

Originally posted by: SundariP

I'd like to add one more point here, If someone is roofied and assaulted, they wouldn't remember shit. And that's what she told him, i don't remember what happened that night. Coupled by Madhav lying (on imlie's insistence)

Brain is a very powerful tool, it blocks the worst things or changes narratives for it's own peace to make problematic things more acceptable because you can't change it and gotta live with it. I know it's happened to me, my brain has blocked some of the worst memories, i know they're there but can't access them. That's what he's saying is happening to her, which is not a wrong assessment.

It's a closed loop on all sides and a very clever narrative.

I agree that Aryan is wrong, because he doesn't have conclusive proof to convict madhav, but he has enough to doubt and accuse him, and it's creating great drama and driving the story.

Imlie is showing immense growth from being a facilitator of cheating in her past relationship, to calling out her husband when he's wrong and course correcting.

Exactly that's why he's unable to agree with her on Madhav being innocent.

Also the medication Jyoti brought is very potent drug looks like.

Certain medications makes you forget everything after taking it.

yes i know but my point is why badimaa or bd they didn't get why jo was helping them or arpita sundar to get to know about jo... Actually i am totally pissed of with this track i want my arylie to be back as they were before confession.... Or before that pregnancy twist came...

There are many loopholes in Aryan accusing Madhav. If Imlie was given sleeping pills, I am definite she would have taken a single pill. She is smart enough not to take multiple pills. If a lady on single sleeping pill, is assaulted in sleep, do you think she will not sense it. she may be in inebriated state, but definitely she will get to know. Even after you wake up, she will get to know if her body has been taken advantage by someone. I expected Aryan Smart Singh Rathore to be a little brainy.

Imli is someone who has endured physical and mental abuse all through her life and she is not the one who closes down and be in denial mode about what has happened to her. She always realise what is happening with her, but accepted it maybe due to circumstances or for her dear and near ones. We have seen it in AKT-Imlie marriage, Malini-AKT kaand, Aryan-Imlie marriage and many more.

If a person is given infertility report, by two tests,I am sure he/she will have multiple consultations and tests before he/she accepts the fate. That too miraculously your wife is declared pregnant. He has failed himself to test repeatedly.

When Aryan says he loves Cheeku, Cheekuwill get name and love, lekin....

That lekin comes with a truck load of baggage which can traumatise Imlie and Cheeku for a lifetime. Its the cruelest thing one can say to his own wife and child. Once his revenge on Madhav is complete, Imlie and Cheeku will be facing a lifelong ill treatment from family and society. He is digging his own grave.

Nothing can justify what Aryan Bloody Singh Rathore is talking and doing. No apologies, nothing, absolutely nothing.

I want Imlie to walk away after bringing out truth and keep him away for some time. thats the best punishment for him. Let him earn her back in his life

PS: We are in episode 499 and I don't know how they are going to expose by tomorrow 500th episode. Sita Maiyya also may not have a clue.

Originally posted by: Priti1610

yes i know but my point is why badimaa or bd they didn't get why jo was helping them or arpita sundar to get to know about jo... Actually i am totally pissed of with this track i want my arylie to be back as they were before confession.... Or before that pregnancy twist came...

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I understand your frustration but that's where Joe's smartness comes into play naa😆

We know she's dumb but itni bhi dumb nahi ke woh apne patte sabke saamne khol de. Only Nargis and Harry knows about her true motives which is to get Aryan by hook or crook.

Joe is highly manipulative and hiding behind her positivity and goodness mask. She's playing her game very well and she's not even letting BD and BM know about her true intentions who are supposed to be her allies.

OK girls, I need to clarify what I am trying to say here.

I understand Aryan is the only well wisher Imlie has apart from Meethi. I understand he is protective, he feels guilty for presumably " failing to protect" her. I get all of this.

But, BUT, he has got to know that there is at least a small possibility that he had fathered the child ( even if we go by his presumptions ). The reason? They have presumably done the deed. No matter what the tests show, tests can be wrong, numbers are not everything, miracles do happen. So, when this is a possibility, how cruel is it to constantly harp on Imlie that she is carrying a product of xxxxxx?

I am also fine with him doubting if he has enough material to question. Heck, ask me, I am skeptical about everything, so I know all about being a worry wart. Please investigate by all means.

My beef is with him constantly saying to Imlie that " he is not the father, that she is carrying the product of violation"💔😡This is what is not sitting well with me. Yes, in certain circumstances, this is time sensitive, such as immediately after a suspected violation, if they need collect evidence, I do understand if he is trying to convince her. Now, there is no urgency for him to keep on at it with Imlie, till he has confirmed his doubts.

What is he gaining by this? He is stressing out an expectant young woman . Imagine how she would feel, with husband stating to her that he is not the father of the child she is carrying, but another diddly doo is and won't back off from this claim with nothing in hand💔Like Letha said, that very pregnant lekin😭🤢 got to me....... no pun intended😒 What is love for a child when there is a lekin........ in there? 🤢If he has solid evidence, then trying to explain to her would have been more appropriate🤢

WRITERS, I can't believe you killed all vibes for me💔 How do I reconcile with ASR anymore? 😭