One sided love feelings

Somehow while watching Maan scenes you feel its purely one sided love from anuj kapadia

Its a compromise from anupama side not really love

That is why since marriage we do not feel any scenes having a charm it had before wedding

Atleast before they were not married so we can feel ok because of culture and maryada anupama hesitates to act like lover

But after marriage scenes its clear this is one sided love affair and anupama always has upper hand over anuj as she has another family and she cares more for them

Yes with anuj she gets big bungalow nice clothes jewllery outing but the soul of anupama is missing in scenes its too robotic while in shah house her reactions used to be so genuine or believable

Till shah house umbilical cord is not broken by anupama its impossible to see genuine lover or maan love

Always at back of mind viewer will fear that anupam amay go back to shahs or vanraj for some silly reason as shes so close to them

Even anuj acting like shah house is his mayka not anupama

What producer and director must understand is that if anupama was treated like princess by Shahs this is ok to digest

But anupama was abused by those shahs 26 years that cannot be easily forgotten

They have completely spolied main lead character especially anupamas because no normal abused woman behaves like her

Any abused 45 year old woman will be ever grateful to anuj for marrying her and giving her second chance in a indian conservative society

Instead all anupama can think is bapuji health, kinjal baby, Baa vanraj kavya fights etc

That is why no matter what love scenes or dance they show soul is missing because we all know anupama gives a damn to anuj one call she will run to shah house leaving honeymoon or even her kid from anuj etc

If anuj adopt little anu even than i do not think anupama will give her love as she gave toshu samar pakhi because when she cannot appreciate 27 years of anujs wait for her she will not understand an orphans pain. Because true love is not about shedding tears for victims and giving bashans but standing up for them in need which anu never did for anuj or malvika till date when shahs took advantage.

Everyone says shes anuapma means maa but she really has not defended kinjal rights or nandini rights or when Mukku was abused by vanraj in office. She has kept quiet and passively suported vanraj and baa nad shahs in abuse of other women when it heped Shahs economically or financially or in power.

Her woman empowerment's are only that hollow talks actually otherwise you see your lovers sister (Malvika) being taken advantage so many times by vanraj she never told anuj or GK although she stay with them at one home

Now a bigger problem arises if baby anu adopted y shahs kinjal and toshu. They will emotionally blackmial anupama by torturing that kid and force anupam ato give all anuj business to vanraj in his name so shahs accept little anu as their child.

This tactic vannraj has done already on anuj kapadia using mukku to snatch his empire and propertys. And we all know what anupama did nothing she covertly supported vanraj activities in office in front of her eyes. So i do see her doing same with little anu or anuj again. Allow shahs and vanraj to snatch anuj empire again to accept little anu

To ensure shahs and vanraj do not use little anu as blackmial tactics to snatch kapaiad empire from anuj (like he did with Mukku) i want anuj to adopt that child and check mate vanraj games before it starts. But i uess going by anuj past hes having no brains so i see him becoming puppet of shahs and anu again and will only keep throwing bottles on walls again as little anu is abused by shahs and finally giving up his empire for that kids safety

None in shahs family was or will be fit to be parent including jagat mata anupama. Only samar looks a bit capable of becoming a father to child. Kinjal is immature and emotional fool, toshu is narcissist and lazy, pakhi is kid herself, Baa is real nagin i mean cobra who eats other snakes too, vanraj we all know is ravaan of modern times, bapuji is shakuni no.1, mamaji is mature but has no real power to speak in that home

Just becoming mother or father not enough you have to give values, make them independent to face world but all shahs depend on kapadias and rakhi for jobs business money etc they will never work hard and go up in lfe they want anuj and rakhi to give all on platter. They have no good upbringing by anupama or vanraj or grandparents all four are themselves unfit parents