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Posted: 3 years ago
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I really enjoy all your analysis & posts. keep them coming 👍🏼

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Originally posted by: smriti25


Just a suggestion. Try writing fan fiction on AnuGun. (The selfish shipper in me talking)😆 I would love to read more fanfiction on AnuGun but there is hardly anything available on them


Okay, I'll think about it.

Do you have a special topic in mind? Or I can do whatever I want.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Nice post dear. 👏

'Privacy' is a very unknown concept for thus Kshit family. I'm still confused how did Sargam-Chandru & Golu-Divya managed to make babies

Yug n Neeti are poor souls.

Anyone can sleep in anyone's room...Chavi sleeps in Goli's room or in Sargam's, so was it with Khushi.

That's abt how privacy is foreign to them. What abt financial privacy? Charu controls the bank accounts of all members. So if any hubby wants to surprise his wife abt something...lets say intimate gift, well, they'll have to seek approval n make global (kshit) anouncement first🤪

N happiness?

Well, the Kshits have a twisted knowledge abt this too.

Golu chachu's happiness is in food. (That's the most normal happiness ever)

Chandru's happiness is in croaking...i mean singing.

N the Kshits have lied to him n basked him in false praise, for his happiness.

Charu's happiness is in being the patriarch, the man in control. He demands respect n thinks that his words are divine n decisions he makes are the ultimate righteous ones. N he loves his role of controlling his family through his twisted sanskar talks n the way he raised n inculcated his family.

Sargam, i think, never tasted happiness. A nikamma pati, a controlling sasur figure, her unique son was raised by sunanda n charu. The only 'happiness' she believes she got is her bahu.

Sunanda bears the taunts of Charu abt her being lliterate n gawaar. ( well, i never found this part funny at all) This woman has spent her whole life by his side, i can't imagine what she has endured in silence from that brute.

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Originally posted by: mehr05

Nice post dear. 👏

'Privacy' is a very unknown concept for thus Kshit family. I'm still confused how did Sargam-Chandru & Golu-Divya managed to make babies

Yug n Neeti are poor souls.

Anyone can sleep in anyone's room...Chavi sleeps in Goli's room or in Sargam's, so was it with Khushi.

That's abt how privacy is foreign to them. What abt financial privacy? Charu controls the bank accounts of all members. So if any hubby wants to surprise his wife abt something...lets say intimate gift, well, they'll have to seek approval n make global (kshit) anouncement first🤪

N happiness?

Well, the Kshits have a twisted knowledge abt this too.

Golu chachu's happiness is in food. (That's the most normal happiness ever)

1 : Chandru's happiness is in croaking...i mean singing.

N the Kshits have lied to him n basked him in false praise, for his happiness.

2 : Charu's happiness is in being the patriarch, the man in control. He demands respect n thinks that his words are divine n decisions he makes are the ultimate righteous ones. N he loves his role of controlling his family through his twisted sanskar talks n the way he raised n inculcated his family.

Sargam, i think, never tasted happiness. A nikamma pati, a controlling sasur figure, her unique son was raised by sunanda n charu. The only 'happiness' she believes she got is her bahu.

3 : Sunanda bears the taunts of Charu abt her being lliterate n gawaar. ( well, i never found this part funny at all) This woman has spent her whole life by his side, i can't imagine what she has endured in silence from that brute.


1 : 🤣


2 : That's why I call him Tryan... This man knows nothing but to impose his visions on his family members!


3 : We know the character of the Tyrant so it's normal that he'll never compliment his wife (after all, sometimes the grandmother annoys me, she looks like an idiot)!


Otherwise,

Indeed everyone sleeps with everyone else, no surprise (as he said today his family members ask to go out and he refuses most of the time) so it's to say that he just sits on the money, he gives them food is already very good.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReadLo


Okay, I'll think about it.

Do you have a special topic in mind? Or I can do whatever I want.


Anything you like! I am sure it will be a great read! ❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: smriti25


Anything you like! I am sure it will be a great read! ❤️


Okay I'll think about it at night.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Charu is not grandfather. Bade papa means elder brother of anu's father.


In KKs privacy is foreign language. In the name of giving respect to BP, all members lost their privacy n happiness. Since I never lived in joint family this kind of system is not my cup of tea.

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Originally posted by: Hari73

Charu is not grandfather. Bade papa means elder brother of anu's father.


In KKs privacy is foreign language. In the name of giving respect to BP, all members lost their privacy n happiness. Since I never lived in joint family this kind of system is not my cup of tea.


I know that.

But as he's the oldest, I said grandpa, it's quicker.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Thanks for the tag 🤗

And very nice analysis dear.


Nowadays we live in nuclear families, husband wife kids, usually away from the native town. It is said that family values are diminishing with time. Old people are forced to stay in old age homes.

I have seen the original Bengali version of KKIS where Anubhav is in such a cute joint family where the boundaries created not by Bade papa but by himself. It’s a show which made me think joint families can be nice too. No need to have vamps in the family. I still remember initial episodes of KKIS where Anubhav sings a song Kabhi Kabhi and another very cute song during Khushi’s marriage and how during Kanyadan everyone did Kanyadan of Khushi. When Goli bua said she is not Khushi’s parent everyone said she indeed is parent of Anu, Khushi, etc. And Anubhav explained Kanyadan so sweetly to Gungun.

Dr Riddhesh wanted Gungun to get this love. Where everyone love each other equally.


The KKIS story drastically changed when Dr Maya came. In Bengali version the story is still cute. Their Dr Maya never did such drama, and Dr Riddhesh didn’t die.


In KKIS we can see that thr family bond Kulsheshtras had was too much vulnerable. It depended on Adarsh and those moral poetries Bade Papa used to say. No one has no freedom and everyone is ok with that because they have the prejudice that if their family bond is broken they will not have any existence. Anubhav was the most educated and he actually started earning money that was beyond their limit. May be that’s why Bade papa knew Anubhav should never find out about the world where you can have a private life, spend your own money.

Today Anubhav was able to buy plane tickets for him and his wife, he could afford a stay in a five star hotel. This Bade papa never wanted Anubhav to know.


I know many of the KKIS viewers think that Akriti is Anubhav’s wife. But in ITV sindoor marriage is considered to be real marriage. So today’s Anugun balcony scene had no EMA in it.


The story is super messed up with full of evil villains whose happiness lies in giving Anugun pain.

Yes we have seen Gungun, she got the concept about marriage, love, sacrifice from her bua and father. She is not selfish like Maya but submissive like Garima Bua.


So as you said no matter how strongly Anubhav will want to fight with Aakriti, his family- it will be Gungun who will stop him. She grew up in a broken family. She will never want to break Anubhav’s family.

Today we saw so much happiness Anugun shared, they did look like a couple who understands each other. Their intimacy was not an accident but it was natural. We are in 2022- earlier in serials intimacy used to happen after one year of marriage. If the couple is already in love no need to wait I guess.


Some viewers have doubt about when did Anugun fell in love? All suddenly started with sindoor marriage. It’s not true. Just rewatch the old episodes.
Yes Anugun had their banters but it was not hatred. Just watch the day when Gungun had fever and Anubhav came to see her “main nahi khilata to tum khati bhi nahi” it started from there only; or the ice cream date, which was very matured.


Sorry, I wrote such a long post, so much came to my mind. 🤗


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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am happy that there are people in FD I can relate to. I do not consider it to be a EMA. Anu was never given opportunity or time to realize what just happened in party. Instead of calming him down and make him talk to GG, egoistic BP forced him to Marry RKC. Anu tried to refuse, that has never been in Kshits.on the other hand RKC wasn’t forced by any one. She made sure the wedding gets canceled. AnuGun realized they love after the losing each other temporarily. I also wished they had anu Introcept his behavior and how it affected GG but that didn’t happen. It is normal for people in love to make love. My end games has always been AnuGun no matter how many time he pissed me off. RKC is a villain, she deserves it and I have NO sympathy for her whatsoever.

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