Udariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #75 - Page 91

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

It's not even about not moving on EVER... but two things, it's been six months. Not six years. I've known people who were upset about breakups for longer.

Second they're underestimating what she meant for him. She's his anchor to his life. To begin with he had barely any idea about his own life and aspirations and everything was about family and KSV expectations to an unhealthy amount, once he met chameli, he lost every bit of himself. He became a monster whom he hated to his core.

Tejo brought him back, made him who he was, let him find himself.

And after all that he's Lost her in such an untimely painful manner.

Yup! His whole life changed forever. I lost my dad almost 5 years ago and it drives me nuts when people make comments like “oh your still upset or it must be hard” we leave it as wait until you loose a parent/sibling/significant other, that’s when you know what loss is and when it actually hits home . And time heals nothing, you begin to have a new normal but every celebration/loss after this has been bitter sweet. I feel for fateh because he’s left alone, empty, lost and there is a sadness that will never go away. Birthdays, other celebrations are harder now, losing someone is even harder and A big part of Fateh has been torn out of him and the virks expect everything to be normal and “move on”

He is also struggling with not meeting her for the last time or not knowing why she wanted to meet or not being able to save her on time, his car breaking down etc…. He watched her burn basically! That’s trauma on its own

That’s why I cried with jasmine scene too, we still haven’t let go of my dads clothes etc. A part of you can’t let go of the physical material things because of the smell and memories attached to it, it almost feels like your disconnecting by donating things. If your not emotionally ready to detach you can’t dispose their things. I can’t believe I understood Jasmine today.

Tejo was so much for him and he’s had the biggest loss in all thisz

Originally posted by: 08_maria

https://www.instagram.com/p/CcqHWiTKFpm/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Even I felt that Ankit must be enjoying this😆

Kohl was right , Kohl is nazar ka teeka🤣

The person who made this clearly knows how Pri behaves with Anki the cutie patuti gandi bachi🤣

I really want a Ankish picture/video like this😒

Originally posted by: Mink

Yup! His whole life changed forever. I lost my dad almost 5 years ago and it drives me nuts when people make comments like “oh your still upset or it must be hard” we leave it as wait until you loose a parent/sibling/significant other, that’s when you know what loss is and when it actually hits home . And time heals nothing, you begin to have a new normal but every celebration/loss after this has been bitter sweet. I feel for fateh because he’s left alone, empty, lost and there is a sadness that will never go away. Birthdays, other celebrations are harder now, losing someone is even harder and A big part of Fateh has been torn out of him and the virks expect everything to be normal and “move on”

He is also struggling with not meeting her for the last time or not knowing why she wanted to meet or not being able to save her on time, his car breaking down etc…. He watched her burn basically! That’s trauma on its own

That’s why I cried with jasmine scene too, we still haven’t let go of my dads clothes etc. A part of you can’t let go of the physical material things because of the smell and memories attached to it, it almost feels like your disconnecting by donating things. If your not emotionally ready to detach you can’t dispose their things. I can’t believe I understood Jasmine today.

Tejo was so much for him and he’s had the biggest loss in all thisz

Even today I'm always careful while talking to my mom so that I don't mention grand mom's name because she starts crying. No matter if it's the love of your life , family or even a friend , if someone so close to you dies ,the pain will stay forever , just because you continue with life doesn't mean that you can forget the person.

My grand father has not let anyone touch my grand mom's things except for their children and yes not a single piece related to her is moved , the room is still like that , just the way she wanted it. they just clean it everyday and my grand dad sleeps there.

Families in UD are insane , no one behaves normal , it's the families that the children's lives are this way. Rupi would have definitely got a heartattack if Angad had died !! He would hold his chest and say....."aaabb meri Tejo se shaadi kaun karega" !

No one has any idea how much Tejo means to him💔

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I really want a Ankish picture/video like this😒

I don't think Ankit would let her touch his hair , he's touchy with only few people and Isha hasn't entered that category🤣

Originally posted by: 08_maria

shuru hogayi

I don't think Ankit would let her touch his hair , he's touchy with only few people and Isha hasn't entered that category🤣

I am going to keep manifesting until I get it

One day they will just make a reel, where she is playing with his hair in his lap. Like that Priyankit video

Originally posted by: 08_maria

Exactly, even I didn't get with Virk's " it's been 6 months and move on". My grand mom passed away 7 months back and even now when I think of her not being a part of any celebration is saddening. There are times when I have something which I would first like to tell my grand mom and now suddenly not having that person beside you , that is a whole another pain.

Even today I'm always careful while talking to my mom so that I don't mention grand mom's name because she starts crying. No matter if it's the love of your life , family or even a friend , if someone so close to you dies ,the pain will stay forever , just because you continue with life doesn't mean that you can forget the person.

My grand father has not let anyone touch my grand mom's things except for their children and yes not a single piece related to her is moved , the room is still like that , just the way she wanted it. they just clean it everyday and my grand dad sleeps there.

Families in UD are insane , no one behaves normal , it's the families that the children's lives are this way. Rupi would have definitely got a heartattack if Angad had died !! He would hold his chest and say....."aaabb meri Tejo se shaadi kaun karega" !

No one has any idea how much Tejo means to him💔

families in UD are messed up. Sandhu’s emotionally blackmailed Tejo all the time and expect her to be happy. Them getting her married to Angad was so hard to watch, can’t you see she’s not happy she’s doing this because you want it.

And then Virks disappointed with it’s been 6 months how long will he cry for. Help your son heal and help him with giving some joy to his life, don’t complain to him about him being sad, they will only push him away because they don’t understand him.

Originally posted by: 08_maria

No one has any idea how much Tejo means to him💔

Death of someone is a weird scary hollow thing.

When my grandmother died I was a bit relieved because she was in so much pain despite the injections and she just kept talking about death. However most of the time I don't even feel like she is dead. I have a picture of her in my room and sometimes I just talk to her like I used to do. .. it feels like she is right there.

And one thing which is very selfish of me about death is I want to die before my parents. Lol I told my mom this and she threw a book at me.

In his case she was his world and it was such an untimely painful death. All he would think his entire life is had he reached there of few minutes ago she would have been alive. .. that kind of regret never leave you really

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Death of someone is a weird scary hollow thing.

When my grandmother died I was a bit relieved because she was in so much pain despite the injections and she just kept talking about death. However most of the time I don't even feel like she is dead. I have a picture of her in my room and sometimes I just talk to her like I used to do. .. it feels like she is right there.

And one thing which is very selfish of me about death is I want to die before my parents. Lol I told my mom this and she threw a book at me.

In his case she was his world and it was such an untimely painful death. All he would think his entire life is had he reached there of few minutes ago she would have been alive. .. that kind of regret never leave you really

One of my closest relatives , he was 33 when his wife died in a accident , he loved her so so much. That sudden death just left him depressed and for a year he kept cursing himself because he refused to drop her somewhere and she took the car herself but never came back. His family was like get married things will go smoothly later in life, you have to come out of this and all , he used to be silent all the time , just doing what's needed to be done , no proper food , no meeting people. Yes that's when I saw a soul less body, slowly he started to lose alot of weight was going bald and died while in sleep after 14 months of his wife's demise.

That's why I said I'm not able to imagine Fateh's pain.

Originally posted by: 08_maria

This !! This is why his pain is not a easy one! He knows he lost her for silly behaviour of his and him not being there on time , that car break down , not being able to save her and watching her burn , that's trauma that can't be explained! He is living in a hell , the way Fateh is behaving now , his depression , with deteriorating health he too is close to his death.

One of my closest relatives , he was 33 when his wife died in a accident , he loved her so so much. That sudden death just left him depressed and for a year he kept cursing himself because he refused to drop her somewhere and she took the car herself but never came back. His family was like get married things will go smoothly later in life, you have to come out of this and all , he used to be silent all the time , just doing what's needed to be done , no proper food , no meeting people. Yes that's when I saw a soul less body, slowly he started to lose alot of weight was going bald and died while in sleep after 14 months of his wife's demise.

That's why I said I'm not able to imagine Fateh's pain.

If someone loses their life because of you it will haunt you forever.

It will always bother you that you took away everything from someone. .. specially when they are so young.

And the fact that it was someone who is your own life which you lost, it will just leave you an open shell. That is what Fateh is

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

If someone loses their life because of you it will haunt you forever.

It will always bother you that you took away everything from someone. .. specially when they are so young.

And the fact that it was someone who is your own life which you lost, it will just leave you an open shell. That is what Fateh is