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Originally posted by: Neha179

Off topic-

Why some dumb newbee send some dumb message against any forum member ... Have had never seen such a thing before ... We all are friends here ...

Is there any way to report against such a person...

Originally posted by: tptwi

this is the ultimate dream!

Originally posted by: tptwi

you are the only queen rits don't worry 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

it is a public forum and we have free speech rights 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

forget so much time... how does someone have so many email addresses?? 🤣

Originally posted by: Neha179

This was really a cute step... Editors 😭😭😭😭😭 https://twitter.com/NaimaShaikh15/status/1515341402615742466?s=20&t=ukFEeQjR7WrrGbL-kWrWyg

Originally posted by: Neha179

Editors will cut scenes next week 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: India_TV

pata nahi...i did not like akshu's acts....personal opinion hai mera....and this has been deliberately put in...woh accident drama ko aur tool milega....abhi will think ki akshu ne nahi bataya...arohi ko bachane ke liye...he will not trust akshu...lets c kitne din kheenchege makers abhi ki narazgi....dream to nahi lag raha ....abhi is watching akshu dance and enjiy...😂 ...how mean can mahima be?? uska koi lena dena nahi...and she is sooo mean...[mujhe bahut mann hai ki first tilak ka bhi puta kissa sab ko pata chale ki this was delibrately created by mahima...how easily she escaped......mujhe bilkul pasand nahi aaya...aise scot free uska nikalna....😂

Agree with you

Originally posted by: tptwi

There is no mahaepisode related to the plot behen.. it will be BTS 🤣

And I really loved this post. I just wrote an answer to someone's else post saying that Abhi's insecurities are ultimately rooted in his family dynamics. He has grown up seeing no love nor respect nor understanding between any of the married couples in his family. Specifically when it comes to his parents, he sees Manjari giving her all to Harsh, but Harsh prioritizing everyone and everything above her. How we grow up shapes how we ourselves act in our relationships. And, Akshu choosing Aarohi over him during tialk 1/the months that followed triggered the insecurities he had developed from his childhood. After that, even the smallest things started setting him off. For instance, Akshu was not wrong to stop him from hitting Kairav during the Anisha track, but he saw that as her choosing her family. And then with the marbles -- it was a joke during a stupid game, but he got triggered. This is very normal -- when your deepest insecurities are left unaddressed.

As for Harsh giving advice, I'd rather not go there. In my opinion, he was just taking this opportunity to instigate Abhi, like he always does. Even if something happened that made him lose trust in Manjari, the way he abuses her and treats her is unacceptable. He is the last person who should be giving relationship advice. But, I do think that Manjari is also not as innocent as she seems.

There has been a lot of talk about trust in the past few episodes. Trust means nothing if you don't act on it. It is easy to do trust ka jaap, but it is harder to stand by it in the most difficult moments. Akshu upheld her end of the trust in this relationship when she went to tell Abhi the accident truth the second the found out and confirmed with Aarohi. Now, it is Abhi's turn. He himself has said in the past that Akshu can mess up, but she is not dishonest. Will he remember everything that happened and piece it all together in the heat of the moment or will he lose his cool?

I agree with you that Abhi is going to try to talk to Akshu in private. We might get some sort of "kyun kyun kyun" type situation happening again. Mahima's plan is surely going to backfire, because this is just a set up for her to hate Akshu even more.

As for the video, I still think 2 other people did the accident and that will be revealed later!

I thought a maha was coming 😆 But that's been cleared now by you and Disco. Thanks 😊

This episode editing was all over the place not sure why they decided to cram all this into one episode. Maybe they are in a hurry to shoot as much as they can now before they head to Jaipur? Or they did the here are all your lollipops before the accident drama explodes and we get some angsty angry fighting next week.

Obviously the wedding will continue moving forward just we have to see who is hiding what and when are things going to revealed to all. I do want Abhi's insecurities to be addressed but I don't think creatives are going to be too kind to us. That's a trump card track they can hold over all of us and bring it back here and there for drama sake. I don't have much faith in the writers to clean that up. At most we will get the accident track completed. The next track will be adoption drama. That is the track for Akshara to take a stand and show the elders how much she does value Abhi and does love him equally. It will also demonstrate that her love is pure. She doesn't love him for what he is (name, profession, wealth) she loves him for who he is. A man who is flawed but has a good heart.

I know Harsh should be the last person to give advice but at the same time what he is saying isn't wrong either. But the Birla elders seem to always have a negative mindset. So the first conclusion is to jump to the extreme bad thought. The only person who does not do that is Anand but once you tick him off he will behave in the same toxic manner. Manjari is definitely not clean in all the matters. She has hidden things for sure and has a weak heart toward the kids that I think sometimes encourages the disrepectful behavior that goes on in the house. She plays dumb a lot to try and maintain peace but sometimes I think she plays dumb to get certain reactions out of people in the house to always protect and make them go poor chachi or poor ma when that is further from the truth. Case in point her stubbornness to get Abhi married regardless of whom the bride was. Never mind that her son was still going through a heartbreak 🤔

I am beginning to think there is some huge trust misunderstanding between Harshvardhan and Manjari which explains why Harshvardhan acts the way he does. I am not excusing his behavior. I am simply understanding why he behaves the way he does. I know call me crazy but there have been dialogues where he scolds Manjari for eating sweets or running around the kitchen all the time. He does it in a very angry and disrespectful tone. But if you flip it the other way and what we know of him he is very stern and straightforward. He maybe upset over some huge misunderstanding and he takes his anger out in the way he talks. Maybe he won't admit it but he probably deep down inside cares for Manjari whether it is over the years he has slowly come to depend on her in ways he does not see. Maybe angry over what happened in the past and it conflicts with his deep rooted care for Manjari. He knows she has health issues and wants her to rest and also watch what she eats. But he won't say it to her lovingly like Abhi does. He comes out gruff and stern because she ignores everyone's words and continues to cook for the family despite her health etc. So he plays bad cop all the time.

Manjari may have understood some of this over years of hearing him. But whatever partial truth that Abhi knows about his father or has seen between his parents has set up an unhealthy dynamic between the 3. A son who is frustrated at his father and thus calls him Sir to distance himself from their relationship. A son frustrated with his mother for letting his father mistreat her yet still cling to the husband and wife relationship when she is so disrespected. But since Abhi sees majority of the fault coming from his father he takes his mother under his wing and acts as her shield since she cannot stand up for herself. Harshvardhan sees that his son is moving away from him and the only parent his son recognizes is his mother which creates this jealousy. Especially if we find out later Manjari isn't even the biological mother. Harshvardhan himself cannot see he is also causing his own problems by the way he treats his wife.

Thing is, is that truly the reality? YRKKH has shown gray characters and even the so called "good" characters have made some pretty poor decisions sometimes. So if we go by this I almost want to say that Manjari has probably done some big khaand that she allows herself to be slightly mistreated as her internal punishment (please don't misunderstand that I believe Manajri deserves abuse. She does not). Or she sometimes proposefully with hold truths but she knows when Abhi finds out he will stand up to Harshvardhan for her. She has learned to fight in this way because she alone cannot go up against the other 3 Birlas. The power dynamic is so toxic in that household. Abhi is the only lion that everyone is afraid of but he cannot be there all the time to defend people. He also over reacts and honestly sometimes pour more fuel to the fire.

So you need another neutral calming force to come in...dun, dun, dun...here is why Akshara is the answer to all of Abhi's problems 😆

Okay sorry for this off the tangent long response 😳

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I thought a maha was coming 😆 But that's been cleared now by you and Disco. Thanks 😊

This episode editing was all over the place not sure why they decided to cram all this into one episode. Maybe they are in a hurry to shoot as much as they can now before they head to Jaipur? Or they did the here are all your lollipops before the accident drama explodes and we get some angsty angry fighting next week.

Obviously the wedding will continue moving forward just we have to see who is hiding what and when are things going to revealed to all. I do want Abhi's insecurities to be addressed but I don't think creatives are going to be too kind to us. That's a trump card track they can hold over all of us and bring it back here and there for drama sake. I don't have much faith in the writers to clean that up. At most we will get the accident track completed. The next track will be adoption drama. That is the track for Akshara to take a stand and show the elders how much she does value Abhi and does love him equally. It will also demonstrate that her love is pure. She doesn't love him for what he is (name, profession, wealth) she loves him for who he is. A man who is flawed but has a good heart.

I know Harsh should be the last person to give advice but at the same time what he is saying isn't wrong either. But the Birla elders seem to always have a negative mindset. So the first conclusion is to jump to the extreme bad thought. The only person who does not do that is Anand but once you tick him off he will behave in the same toxic manner. Manjari is definitely not clean in all the matters. She has hidden things for sure and has a weak heart toward the kids that I think sometimes encourages the disrepectful behavior that goes on in the house. She plays dumb a lot to try and maintain peace but sometimes I think she plays dumb to get certain reactions out of people in the house to always protect and make them go poor chachi or poor ma when that is further from the truth. Case in point her stubbornness to get Abhi married regardless of whom the bride was. Never mind that her son was still going through a heartbreak 🤔

I am beginning to think there is some huge trust misunderstanding between Harshvardhan and Manjari which explains why Harshvardhan acts the way he does. I am not excusing his behavior. I am simply understanding why he behaves the way he does. I know call me crazy but there have been dialogues where he scolds Manjari for eating sweets or running around the kitchen all the time. He does it in a very angry and disrespectful tone. But if you flip it the other way and what we know of him he is very stern and straightforward. He maybe upset over some huge misunderstanding and he takes his anger out in the way he talks. Maybe he won't admit it but he probably deep down inside cares for Manjari whether it is over the years he has slowly come to depend on her in ways he does not see. Maybe angry over what happened in the past and it conflicts with his deep rooted care for Manjari. He knows she has health issues and wants her to rest and also watch what she eats. But he won't say it to her lovingly like Abhi does. He comes out gruff and stern because she ignores everyone's words and continues to cook for the family despite her health etc. So he plays bad cop all the time.

Manjari may have understood some of this over years of hearing him. But whatever partial truth that Abhi knows about his father or has seen between his parents has set up an unhealthy dynamic between the 3. A son who is frustrated at his father and thus calls him Sir to distance himself from their relationship. A son frustrated with his mother for letting his father mistreat her yet still cling to the husband and wife relationship when she is so disrespected. But since Abhi sees majority of the fault coming from his father he takes his mother under his wing and acts as her shield since she cannot stand up for herself. Harshvardhan sees that his son is moving away from him and the only parent his son recognizes is his mother which creates this jealousy. Especially if we find out later Manjari isn't even the biological mother. Harshvardhan himself cannot see he is also causing his own problems by the way he treats his wife.

Thing is, is that truly the reality? YRKKH has shown gray characters and even the so called "good" characters have made some pretty poor decisions sometimes. So if we go by this I almost want to say that Manjari has probably done some big khaand that she allows herself to be slightly mistreated as her internal punishment (please don't misunderstand that I believe Manajri deserves abuse. She does not). Or she sometimes proposefully with hold truths but she knows when Abhi finds out he will stand up to Harshvardhan for her. She has learned to fight in this way because she alone cannot go up against the other 3 Birlas. The power dynamic is so toxic in that household. Abhi is the only lion that everyone is afraid of but he cannot be there all the time to defend people. He also over reacts and honestly sometimes pour more fuel to the fire.

So you need another neutral calming force to come in...dun, dun, dun...here is why Akshara is the answer to all of Abhi's problems 😆

Okay sorry for this off the tangent long response 😳

In terms of the adoption track, I agree with you that it will be for Akshu to stand up for Abhi, but I have a problem when people keep saying she needs to prove or demonstrate things about her love. I think it is clear that she loves Abhi just as much as she loves her and for the right reason. The only thing is that her family is bigger, and Abhi has just Manjari -- so her love is spread out amongst many people, whereas Abhi has just one person. Both of them have chosen their families over each other, and yet only Akshu seems to get called out for it/bashed for it.

Interesting take on Manjari + Harsh, and I agree that there is definitely a backstory there + that Manjari is for sure hiding something. Even if that is the case, Harsh is a vile man who has no respect for women. I don't think anything that happened in the past justifies his current behavior towards her (I know you agree with this point -- not saying you said otherwise!).

You are so right about the Birlas always assuming the worst. Harsh does it every single time, especially when it comes to Akshu.