Moving on...

I know majority ppl love Arylie n 2-3 ppl saying anything is best ignored.. However, what appalls me is the sheer hypocrisy of some PPL.

You give free pass to 30+ man who was in relationship for 7 years when he says thats what he felt for Malini was mere friendship. However, you hold a 19 years old girl for every word she said.🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️

Adi can get away from even after saying Hum Moon ke the, Moon ke hai., celebrating Valentine day n savitri pooja n all lovey dovey romance.🙆🏻‍♀️ n Aur jo log itni Original ki dhuhai dete hai. In Orginal it was clearly shown that Archie n Moon had physical relationship too.. Here, in Hindi version they kept it ambiguous.. N after spending seven months if one says its was friendship toh hadd hai. Kaise friends bhai. Seems they were friends with benefits🙄🙆🏻‍♀️

Imlie didnt ask Adi to fall for her. She always said that her belief n she alone is enough to carry it. It was his guilt actually which turned into love for him.🙄

Also, we have to also see from where she was coming from.. she had a difficult childhood. She had seen her mother constantly insulted for being unwedded mother..Knew how things would have been different if her mother was married. so, even if it was forced marriage for her too. She knew what this things means. Thats the reason she respects Mangalsutra n Sindoor so much. N when the same girl burns the MS shows that she must have reached the saturation point of her tolerance..

Originally posted by: shalu79

I know majority ppl love Arylie n 2-3 ppl saying anything is best ignored.. However, what appalls me is the sheer hypocrisy of some PPL.

You give free pass to 30+ man who was in relationship for 7 years when he says thats what he felt for Malini was mere friendship. However, you hold a 19 years old girl for every word she said.🙆🏻‍♀️🙆🏻‍♀️

Adi can get away from even after saying Hum Moon ke the, Moon ke hai., celebrating Valentine day n savitri pooja n all lovey dovey romance.🙆🏻‍♀️ n Aur jo log itni Original ki dhuhai dete hai. In Orginal it was clearly shown that Archie n Moon had physical relationship too.. Here, in Hindi version they kept it ambiguous.. N after spending seven months if one says its was friendship toh hadd hai. Kaise friends bhai. Seems they were friends with benefits🙄🙆🏻‍♀️

Imlie didnt ask Adi to fall for her. She always said that her belief n she alone is enough to carry it. It was his guilt actually which turned into love for him.🙄

Also, we have to also see from where she was coming from.. she had a difficult childhood. She had seen her mother constantly insulted for being unwedded mother..Knew how things would have been different if her mother was married. so, even if it was forced marriage for her too. She knew what this things means. Thats the reason she respects Mangalsutra n Sindoor so much. N when the same girl burns the MS shows that she must have reached the saturation point of her tolerance..

You're asking people to have a fair standard when many think that ethics change with the change of landscape. Adi is allowed to break up and moooooveeee on because that's his urban ethics. Only Sheheri people are allowed to move on. While Imlie doesn't go through the same hormonal and mental upheavals that adolscents go through because rural people take crushes for lifelong virginal sacrifices apparently. So, Imlie can be crucified for letting go of her "rural ethics" of being trapped in ephebophilic relationships and turning into a seheri like Aditya by moving on. Audience ki ethics ka hi bas pata nahi.

Also, didn't know that being rural was coded into looking a certain way instead of being tied to the primary sector— the socioeconomic definition of a rural area, y'know? How dare a rural person wear aviators or be proficient in a standardised language? Such butchering of her character.

How is Aditya responsible for lying to Malini when Imlie lied to the Tripathis first? She gave him a leeway, and he took it! Pray, tell, where is the spinelessness in that?

To jub usne bola tha hum moon ke Hain to us waqt move on ker jaati 🤡haq ke larai kerty rahi aik insan ke life kharab ker d to ub miss flipper ko move on kerne ka khial Aya 🤡😂

Originally posted by: Deltablues

You're asking people to have a fair standard when many think that ethics change with the change of landscape. Adi is allowed to break up and moooooveeee on because that's his urban ethics. Only Sheheri people are allowed to move on. While Imlie doesn't go through the same hormonal and mental upheavals that adolscents go through because rural people take crushes for lifelong virginal sacrifices apparently. So, Imlie can be crucified for letting go of her "rural ethics" of being trapped in ephebophilic relationships and turns a seheri like Aditya by moving on. Audience ki ethics ka hi bas pata nahi.

Also, didn't know that being rural was coded into looking a certain way instead of being tied to the primary sector— the socioeconomic definition of a rural area, y'know? How dare a rural person wear aviators or be proficient in a standardised language? Such butchering of her character.

How is Aditya responsible for lying to Malini when Imlie lied to the Tripathis first? She gave him a leeway, and he took it! Pray, tell, where is the spinelessness in that?

Itna sach aur logic? Palle padega

Main problem yahan GENDER ki hai..... Dono similar situation mein fas jaate hain but rule dono k liye alag alag. Yahan age/socioeconomic condition ki koi importance nahi hai.

Mard- Mere dard aur majboori ko tum samjho ,jano aur mehsoos karo. Aur expect karta hun ki tum mujhe maaf karogi qnki tum mujhe pyaar karti ho.

Aurat- Mene kuch galat nahi kiya fir v mere character par ilzaam lagaya , newspaper pe dhindhora peet daala, gharwalo k saamne gold digger bol daala peeth peeche. Bolne ka mauka tak nahi diya aur na sach Jaan ne ki kosis ki bas jo tumhare ego ko sahi laga wohi kiya. Mein agar pati se jyada sucessful hojaun toh mein Titli hun par agar sucessful hojao toh tum mehnati aadmi ho. Meri mehnat ko tumne sexual favor ka naam de diya .

The societal mindset of objectification of women to the thing that has to adjust according to the convinience of men in her life is perpetuated by women only.

If imlie knew adi loves malini, is married to her, she should move on forgetting her beliefs in marriage.

If adi realised after 7 yrs of relationship and 7 months of marriage that he does not love her, malini should move on forgetting all the time and efforts she put in her 'perfect' relationship.

If adi wants to give imlie her haq suddenly to assuage his guilt, imlie should do as her husband expects and not think about collateral damage.

If adi after marrying another woman, asks imlie to leave her career and come back to babysit him and his child, imlie should come back for true love.

Sure sure 🤡

Originally posted by: Pearl21

To jub usne bola tha hum moon ke Hain to us waqt move on ker jaati 🤡haq ke larai kerty rahi aik insan ke life kharab ker d to ub miss flipper ko move on kerne ka khial Aya 🤡😂

Time lagta hai realise hone ko time lagta hai.. If Aditya can realise with Malini it was friendship after 7 years of relationship n 4-5 months of marriage.. . toh a young girl can too take atleast this much time.

And also it was not like Aryan ke liye Aditya ko choda.. Jaise Aditya ne kiya Imlie ke liye Malini ke saath.

The problem started much before Aryan coming into her life n she left the house burning her mangalsutra n sindoor too before that..

thank you for starting this topic. i agree with you completely. you know our brains dont even completely develop until we are 21 or 24. one of those. Imlie has absolutely every right to move on. like she said at the pageant. when she leaves her sufferings behind and moves beyond it she is beautiful.

She has as much of a right to change her mind on things as AKT does when he ding dongs between the two girls. as much a right to change her mind as ASR does when he says you are just my employee. as much a right to say something and mean something as ASR does.

thats not feminism thats not 'as a woman i hold the right to change my mind' ITS equality in mind, thoughts, and decisions!

honestly, it is depressing to see people saying such things, upar se their attitude while saying it is even more bothersome. The insensitivity is hurtful, to say the least.

Imlie doesn't deserve this bashing.

I liked adilie but after a point, I didn't want to see them together anymore but Imlie didn't move on. I never bashed her for not moving on.. I don't understand these vile minds.

You know what Aditya was never in love with anyone except himself.

If you see it carefully all his relationships were one sided and whenever they asked for any accountability from his side he flipped and changed sides😑

Let explain it how:

1. Aditya's family loved him but show me a one example where he did something to prove his love for them. When he went to PD after imlie he didn't even bothered to inform them about his whereabouts. His whole family was going bonkers but he was busy romancing imlie 🤷‍♀️

He was even ready to ditch his family and live in PD without informing them about his and imlie's relationship.

2. Malini was very co-operative as a GF. She always let him be and didn't ask for any accountability from him but once she became Wife she started demanding responsibility from him as a husband. Which made him uncomfortable and he flipped to imlie because at that time imlie was doing the things which Malini did for 7 yrs. Giving him everything without anything in return.

3. Imlie at first was doing everything for him without any expectations. So he fell for her because she wasn't asking anything from him unlike Malini who was asking wife's rights from him.

Once imlie started to demand accountability in their relationship after the truth reveal he flipped again and started to ignore her and started believing in Malini because she was back to her no accountability thingy😂😂

Iss show mein agar sabse bada FLIPPER Hai toh woh Aditya hai. Aditya was never a GIVER in any of his Relationships..he was the TAKER. Once other persons demanded any responsibility and Accountability he Flipped to the other side where he can enjoy non- accountability and responsibility free status.

Relationships are like 2 way street but Aditya is unable to understand this.