Originally posted by: Real_Me
I understand what you are saying and that’s what I don’t agree. It is not about physical, Ram was emotionally attached to V after marrying Pri, it was evident in the initial episodes, but not until V moved into his home, if he was, his concern would have been about her physical and emotional well-being when she moved in, but he was concerned about Pri’s feelings even then. He didn’t even notice that it was V who was injured when both V & Pri went to hospital which was much much before his realisation (his connect with V was lost even before Diwali)
Nobody blames Priya for the Neeraj matter. In my opinion, from the beginning, Ram does understand that Neeraj doesn’t matter to Pri. But how did Neeraj behave when the truth has come out, he claimed openly that Priya can’t move on from him. That’s the kind of behaviour which repulses Ram. It is wrong to say Ram takes V’s side over Pri. Even in the early days of their marriage, Ram didn’t believe V when she said Priya is still in love with Neeraj,
I am of the view that there is nothing wrong with exes being friends, but Ram-V are not truly friends, she was always taking advantage of him, and he was being an emotional fool for her.
Yes, Priya said her past is irrevelant and Ram said he still loves his ex, both were being truthful, it is not like he had hidden his love from Priya and married her by hiding things. Yes, Ram made a huge mistake in not revealing about V, and yes Priya has every right to feel humiliated, but saying Ram had been 2 timing is totally wrong in IMO.