Originally posted by: ajacob31
when I said two lives here, it’s not about physical relationship or clandestinely living with V. Ram’s married to Priya but was emotionally attached to(still is) to V. Until recently he would leave everything to be with V if she needed him( he still does). So for everyone he’s married to Priya but emotional attachment is with V. This is just what Neeraj was saying. He was like that until recently till his feelings towards Priya changed. I agree Neeraj’s truth came out in the most ugly way, but Priya cannot be blamed because she has moved on from him for a very long time. About Priya not wanting to know about Ram’s ex, she mentioned in her engagement that for her past is irrelevant. She doesn’t care if it remains as past. But here his past is very relevant and stays in his house under the facade as friend!
I understand what you are saying and that’s what I don’t agree. It is not about physical, Ram was emotionally attached to V after marrying Pri, it was evident in the initial episodes, but not until V moved into his home, if he was, his concern would have been about her physical and emotional well-being when she moved in, but he was concerned about Pri’s feelings even then. He didn’t even notice that it was V who was injured when both V & Pri went to hospital which was much much before his realisation (his connect with V was lost even before Diwali)
Nobody blames Priya for the Neeraj matter. In my opinion, from the beginning, Ram does understand that Neeraj doesn’t matter to Pri. But how did Neeraj behave when the truth has come out, he claimed openly that Priya can’t move on from him. That’s the kind of behaviour which repulses Ram. It is wrong to say Ram takes V’s side over Pri. Even in the early days of their marriage, Ram didn’t believe V when she said Priya is still in love with Neeraj,
I am of the view that there is nothing wrong with exes being friends, but Ram-V are not truly friends, she was always taking advantage of him, and he was being an emotional fool for her.
Yes, Priya said her past is irrevelant and Ram said he still loves his ex, both were being truthful, it is not like he had hidden his love from Priya and married her by hiding things. Yes, Ram made a huge mistake in not revealing about V, and yes Priya has every right to feel humiliated, but saying Ram had been 2 timing is totally wrong in IMO.