Heart vs Mind :)

Finally, in today's episode we got to see a little bit of what s going on in Virat's head! Thank You Sunny !!

Today, I was reminded of Sai's dialogue from Sivaratri track. - Virat Chavan ke andar do Virat Chavan hain 😉 Thats exactly whats going on now.

The Virat who portrays hate and anger to Sai - I would call him Virat and the real Virat , sweet sa pooran poli ki tarah, muskuratha hua, who is so much in love with Sai and who does not want to be away from her even for a minute - I would call him Viru 😃

Now the dilemma is real and is between Virat and Viru.

The reason for his anger was shown today - though it wasnt that convincing to me. The kind of kaands he has done to Sai and how easily she forgave him every time, he is now acting too entitled and pricey. But yes I can see why he is hurt , its how Sai behaved with him during the divorce drama and at the hostel. Wo ek baat iske dimaag mein jaake bait gaya hain. 🤔Now Virat is operating based on that conviction that Sai hates him. Sai's good intentions and her love is nothing now because that "hate" feeling supersedes everything at this moment. So Virat cannot think straight, he is so unreasonable and downright mean to her.

However Viru is trapped inside Virat and he is struggling to come out at every available opportunity. Holi was Viru's time and usne khoob enjoy kiya. Nasha utarne ke baad now he gets only very few moments to peep out but Virat is like a watchdog and when he gets the opportunity to overpower Viru, koi kasar nahin chodtha. He will push Viru back with all his might 😃

Sai is very smart and perceptive. She has now understood his dilemma and she is operating based on that. Thats why she confidently told Chavannis Viru will be back. And she also told them to keep trying. Because in the end they have to work together to throw Virat out with his mask and bring Viru into the forefront.

So I would say I like that teeny tiny progression that happened today but we are yet to see Vanku isko kitne episodes tak keech sakta hain

My beef with writers today : 😡 - Since when is Paki calling the shots in CN? Who the heck is she to decide how Virat will be treated and by whom? That was just BAD WRITING!!😡 And on top of that, Sai and Aayi trying to convince Paki was so disgusting 😡

I know Vanku is trying to push the importance of the so called third angle into our face - but please write something logical - itna bakwas bhi mat dikhao. It leaves a bad taste in the mouth.🤢

PS - I can see Neil getting his craft back a little bit. He was really good showing his dilemma today flipping between Virat and Viru 👍🏼 Sakt launda ban ne ka khoshish jaari hain par kya karen Sai ke samne tho launda tezi se pigal raha hain 😆 This time the struggle is real for Viru 🤣

I don't think Virat thinks she hates him

He is very hurt with what she told him in anger at the hostel and during divorce.....and also she left him

Usko pakad ke baith gaya hai banda

From his POV, he feels dispensable, not important to Sai....otherwise how could she have judged him so harshly, left him without dilemma

He is not thinking from Sai's POV ...and no one to help bring about a reconciliation

I honestly didn't see him emote his dilemma. He just said the words of his dialogue imo. Similarly i didn't actually see the love in his eyes when Sai was near him. There was BG music and slowed down so we know he is affected but to me his face looked blank.

He seemed to have got spark back in the "tum tak" sequence and the sher/sherni thing but its gone again. I'm disappointed once again by his lack of clearly displaying a dilemma in his face/eyes, body language. There is no softness. Only glycerin in his eyes. I also wish they had incorporated some FBs effectively- him remembering Sais care in his prior gunshot time, the time she gave him a massage after he slept on sofa, the head massages shes given him twice- (both brutally cut short in screen time) ,the time she went with him to doctors appointment with no reminder- only coz she felt his health was important, people telling him everything she did to save his life this time and now calming him down and doing her due diligence.

Today it had the much needed tharav... It was shot beautifully..otherwise I have given up decipher Neil's expressions..

Two things stood out for me he was crying when remembering the cold compressor...and by the end of the session he looked irritated when Sai tied up her hair.

Ayesha was outstanding.. She was thoughrouly convincing to portray her controlling emotions for the love of his life..

It's not the divorce hurt him but his male ego got crashed down by Sai ...He is still not over with fact that Sai refuced to marry him and held him responsible for her father's death.. Had they consummated he wouldn't have come up with such terms.. He knows once Sai is single she can find a better man... That thought always haunted him..

Virat ko sai ki nafrat dikhi par kay virat ko sai ka dard dikha nahi na virat yeh kyun bhul gaya ke jo halat paida kiye woh kis ne kare virat ne phir usko apna kiya kyun yaad nahi sai ke lafz yaad hai bas .kay virat ka pyaar ehsaan hai jo sai ko yaad rakha hoga ..

Waise virat adat se majboor hai apni galti kabhi mani nahi hamesha sai ka fault nikalta .

Virat ki yeh bhi adath hai nehraoing wife sai ka touch bohut effect karta hai

Sai jis tarha virat ko bola effect him.

Iss 'TREATMENT ke dhauran, mujhe aapko 'CHOONA' hoga, aapke 'KAREEB' aana hoga aapke 'STIFF MUSCLES ko move karana hoga

Virat side eyeing Sai ,sai smart move 😜😜

Tufan mail kay karegi mere saath mein khud surrender kar deta hu .virat relax hogay Sara dard chumanter hogaya .

Morning therapy bakhi hai☺️

He is trying hard to stay away from sai but sai toh Sai hai apne pati ko achi tarha jaanti hai .

Virat ek dum butter ki tarha pigal gaya Sai ke touch se nehraoing wife sai ka Baal bandna virat ko pasand nahi aya .

Last mein sai ne dream land se wapis layi toh gussa hogaya 😆😆

Neil was very good today I thought.

He visibly relaxed with her massage or whatever she was doing. Otherwise he was so irritable. He brought out that change well as also towards the end, when he looked at her hand & almost melted.

But Ayesha surprised me. Because this was a simple scene. She aced it Her concern, her love, her care. She was being so careful with him, trying not to make him feel uncomfortable because his well being was paramount. Ayesha was too good. I hope she continues acting with this calmness.

I liked one moment when he is struggling to remove his buttons, she kind of pushes his hand & does it herself, almost irritated, but controlling herself.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Neil was very good today I thought.

He visibly relaxed with her massage or whatever she was doing. Otherwise he was so irritable. He brought out that change well as also towards the end, when he looked at her hand & almost melted.

But Ayesha surprised me. Because this was a simple scene. She aced it Her concern, her love, her care. She was being so careful with him, trying not to make him feel uncomfortable because his well being was paramount. Ayesha was too good. I hope she continues acting with this calmness.

I liked one moment when he is struggling to remove his buttons, she kind of pushes his hand & does it herself, almost irritated, but controlling herself.

You said everything..

Neil was less irritable today.. He looked genuinely hurt when Sai was giving him massage

Ayesha is picking up those minute nuances is so amazing..

The part of neilsha I like is their rawness.. They response to each other naturally in the simplest scenes..❤️

Originally posted by: Shaome

The part of neilsha I like is their rawness.. They response to each other naturally in the simplest scenes..❤️

At times like these, i hope Sairat have an intense conversation where she makes him understand her hurt and he understands what she's trying to say! It could be a beautiful scene if only Vankar would write it.

Of course, Virat questioning his family for solely blaming Sai would be a bonus.

But where do we get such bonuses??!

While I agree to all the above points, a few I would like to add is.

V ko aaj tak apne aap se kabhi uski galti samajh nahi aai hai.

He always had had someone or something to point out his mistakes. That's his pattern.

He is too self absorbed to notice it directly. But his subconscious is noticing it and registering it. That's why he cries after every kaand and asks for forgiveness.

This pattern has to change.

Sai ko mortal peril hona shouldn't be the only solution for him to repent. I hope is baar aisa na ho. Kyunki inke logic se ek baar main ek hi injured hota hai. It's V this time.

Another factor is he is too emotional... especially when it comes to Sai. He thinks with his heart and not his brains. Which is why he takes everything personally and needs someone else or something happening to Sai to bring him back to reality. Also, the reason that people like Pakhi can manipulate him easily against Sai.

Right now, divorce ka "intention" is his sore point. He has been brought up in an environment where nothing must have been denied to him ever and Sai is the only person who did that to him. Ego pe baat aa gai hai.

But I also feel this time it is different...

For once, so far only one of them was either repenting or forgiving.

This time, while Sai is not completely wrong, she is guilt ridden but she is also smart enough to read him accurately. I especially loved the fact in todays episode when she referred to herself as Sai Joshi and him as Mr. Chavan. The professional approach was so good. Because she has understood that he is still not in a mental state to listen to her or anyone else. For that matter, Sunny understood it too. Hence, he didnt press much on Sai's POV. Sai dealt with him as a doctor and not as wife, which he couldnt deny.

Sai was good in her mannerism. She was a thorough professional and I feel this also unnerved him because he couldnt make that difference. He wanted to be unaffected but he wasnt. Whereas Sai has always had that sense. She did in Shruti track too. Sai is in complete control of her emotions, he isnt. That's the core difference in their characters. Both Ayesha and NB was brilliant in conveying this.

On the other hand, he might also take it as she is still in "deal" mode until he remembers Lahu.

I feel this time, Sai will wait for him to cool down and then will make him listen to her POV. So far, her hurt, her POV has been conveyed to him from someone else. Its time she does it on her own. And considering the emotions involved, only Sai can make him understand what she feels. And if they want to make a 'real' relationship, it has to happen right now.

Vanku has promised a heart to heart conversation na. I think it will come to this.

I hope I dont have to eat my words.😔