Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #19 - Page 72

Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid

Does this look like rayakasafar?🤔

more like #raya.ke.chakkar.me.fd.suffer 😂

Tell me, where is the arc/growth/ resolution?🤔

This is basic structure of a plot of protagonists…

story’s leads have a motive, obstacle, action towards obstacle, raising action , major challenge(internal conflict/external influence), overcoming challenge, falling action and resolution.

I don't see anything beyond action towards obstacles. Forget about Rising Action, Conflict, Falling Action, and Resolution.

They are stuck at 'Obstacle.'

Originally posted by: ajacob31

Priya remembered all the right things today from the convo they had at their dinner meeting to what Ram said at their engagement. She thinks if she had known who Ram’s ex was at their engagement, she would have kept her guards up and stayed away from getting any close to him since the ex was always present everywhere. She unknowingly got close to him unaware of the ex being always present in his life still. She agreed that their marriage is real not knowing about his exes presence. For her, he still loves his ex and will never love anybody. Even if she recollects all the good things that she and Ram shared, she cannot progress without Ram assuring her that his ex is his past and he doesn’t love her anymore. He never stepped up to do this. As long as he doesn’t do it, she will be insecure and people like Neeraj and Vedika can easily add fuel to this. This is where Ram is lacking and his friends or her sister who knows both sides are of no help. She cannot start trusting him with all of this insecurities. Ram has to do the needful first. I hope they have meaniful conversation after this dreaded Holi. I said dreaded because the way Bri and co made Priya inebriated is beyond my understanding! I am also not able to digest the way Sarah is enjoying seeing her sister behaving in her drugged state without remembering the heartbreak!. I hope nobody gets a sister like Sarah. For Bri, she is thinking only about Ram.

Every time I am watching Pri, she is like cursing herself. She was feeling like - "wish I knew ..."

I so want her to barsaao as much TANAA as she wants on him. Itna tanaa marna, ke he stay 50 miles radius away from her.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I wish she left that day!!🤣

You wish? I have been telling that from day 1. She should have left after the IV and told Ram "Stay Away" from me.

Uske baad what ever EMA Ram-Viper would have been engaged with, bhaad mein jaata. Who cares?

And, and if Ram wanted to get back with Pri, then naak ragad ragad ke jab tak nehin ata, tab tak she shouldn't have taken him. Period.

The one thing that stuck me today is after the huge ex reveal happened, and now Ram loves Priya, he never even asked how she is coping with the news! After having to deal with such a serious situation, he should have gone to her no matter whoever says what! Here Ram and co walking into the party as if nothing grave happened! Ram knows Priya is drugged, but he asks Bri why Priya is acting like this!! The writers are seriously having something strong to write like this!

Exactly!! Even I was thinking this. However much u may fear a backlash, your love for the person will push u to seek the person out & ensure she is alright.

His instinctive first response should have been “omg how must she be feeling”, not “omg what do I do now”.

Originally posted by: Bana

Exactly!! Even I was thinking this. However much u may fear a backlash, your love for the person will push u to seek the person out & ensure she is alright.

His instinctive first response should have been “omg how must she be feeling”, not “omg what do I do now”.

He did ask. I am watching to get the pointers, he did want to go and talk to her immediately but by the time he came to know Bri already drugged Pri. Yeah, during the party he knew that she was drugged; so that was discontinuation in the dialogue part.

Did you read about the blue part that I wrote yesterday?

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Did you read about the blue part that I wrote yesterday?

About the dress? I did. I have some weird pointers for today. Will you be online after some time? on and off is also fine with me.

Reposting my views on Mythri/Sara/Bri reactions, from another thread:

There are basically 2 sides to the reveal - (1) that Vedika is the ex, which is a fact (2) that Ram is still desiring to get back with Vedika & doing his duty by Priya, which is an inference based on many things.

I think Pri could have handled the first point well, after initial shock & anger. But the second point is a completely different battle. It it is easy to see how Pri made that inference - Ram’s pre-wedding bheeshma pratigya, his closeness to V, V’s proprietorial behaviour, the private messages on Pri’s phone & on Ram’s laptop, Ram not verbalising his love & retraction of the pratigya, Pri’s own experiences & demons, and above all how Mythri broke the news to her.

It will take a lot of clear words & corrective actions from Ram’s side plus Pri doing her own thinking & slaying her demons, for her to handle point 2 of the reveal. The future track should be all about this.

On all incl Ram:

An important thing to note here is that the others, incl Ram, are not privy to most of the reasons I have listed under point 2. They dont know abt the messages, or how Vedika has been portraying things, or even abt Pri’s inner demons. So, they dont see that Pri has been hit hard by this inference, they are only seeing that she is shocked by discovering the fact that V is the ex, so they may not understand her full angst. They may even wonder why she is taking it so badly.

On Mythri/Sara:

But Mythri drawing the same inference as point 2 is based only on the partial convo she overheard between Neeraj & Vedika. And it can be easily contested by Sara who knows both sides of the story, Mythri will believe her also.
So, it is completely baffling why Sara-Bri did not correct M in point 2 when thry had the chance.

I think Ram telling Sara not to tell Pri that she knew about it all along is more to protect Pri from - feeling even more betrayed, shunning Sara’s support and thus becoming more alone. What good can come from Pri knowing it anyway? In this Ram has shown good EQ.

On Bri:

Bri’s modus operandi has always been to immediately diffuse the situation or ‘taalo’ the matter, then figure out what to do. She did the same thing by spilling her drink on annulment papers, knowing they can be redrafted but at least we buy time to address it. For this she is ready to use any out of the box means. So she has done the same by getting Pri talli.

Not condoning it, merely explaining. Whiskey on documents is one thing, getting a lady drunk in public is potentially humiliating to the lady & robs her of agency.

Originally posted by: Doodle

About the dress? I did. I have some weird pointers for today. Will you be online after some time? on and off is also fine with me.

Yes, I have already started working. I work for customers in AUS, so start my day early 😆