Arylie Discussion Thread 40 🧿 - Page 71

Originally posted by: radicalleftist

@b: at the foundation of it all, you're 100% right. But since this is itv where logic is far and in between, I feel like I can overlook certain things (particularly for my women who already go through so much shit).

I just found myself still excusing her because she had also been through a near death experience (several actually 🙄) and this whole Adi and T-fam business had completely shocked her. Plus she is still 19/20 so I use that as an excuse for a lot of her flip floppity- but only to an extent.

4 example

Like her thinking Aryan would keep the flashdrive at an obvious location or wouldnt keep several 100 copies. Even I have limits dammit.

Hope this reads ok, im super sleepy but needed to respond now because I literally won't remember to do it tomorrow.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

There are two different styles of communication here -- Aryan is a doer while Imlie communicates with words. For Aryan, deeds and action translate into feelings whereas for Imlie, she needs to hear sentences and words stringed together.

What is Aryan hearing -- while Imlie may say that her ex no longer matters, she is still tied to the hip to the Tripathy family. She is even prepared to do a fake marriage to keep Aditya out of jail. Now any sane person would ask why go to such lengths unless you are in still love with the person. So Aryan would logically translate her extreme actions as someone who still has feelings for Aditya

What is Imlie hearing -- she relies on words and not actions. For her, Aryan refusing to explain and the only words he has said about hating Aditya has made her think that he is obsessed with his revenge enough to even use her. She wanted an explanation and he asked her to look at his actions. From her perspective, the only reason he wants to marry her is revenge.

In order to have a true conversation, Aryan needs to come to a point where he feels safe enough to let down his shield. Right now, there isn't much about Imlie where she makes him feel safe. He is a ride till you die type character -- meaning super loyal. He does not know whether Imlie is by his side. In a roundabout way, marriage is a way of asking her for loyalty. He is asking her to stick up for him. Till she does that in action and shows that she is choosing him first over the Tripathy family, she will never hear the words she needs to hear. He needs to feel safe.

Finally someone put it out perfectly❤️

I am confused, frustrated, tired, exhausted.

Confused with both Imlu and Aryan, what is their real purpose behind the challenges. Both of them wants to win. Fine for me. What is the reward of winning this challenge(of stopping marriage for Imlie and getting married for Aryan). Is the reward for Imlie is #Saving ex-BS and Ts or #SavingImlieFromForcedMarriage?if it is #Saving ex-BS, she should get married to Aryan, otherwise Aryan will go to any extent to get his revenge. She should have known that by this time. Aryan is not a silly player to play with the support of only one video against AKT. If her reward is #SavingImlieFromForcedMarriage, say NO to Aryan and back out. Let AKT and Ts fight for themselves. Imlie should make clear to herself atleast what she is playing this challenge game. Coming to Aryan, what reward he wants by getting married. Is it that he wants #ImlieToRealiseHerSelfRespect or #ImlieAryanSinghRathod. He is confusing me when he says he wants all rasams and a real marriage. Has the Ashiq Singh Rathod overpowering Shrewd Businessman Singh Rathod. Atleast give some monologues to clear our confusion

I am frustrated how a beautiful 50-50 partnership is skewed to 90-10 partnership. Imlie is just 10% now. Aryan is overpowering her and it is frustrating me as it is to Imlie. From yesterday I am getting the vibe of Shikari and Shikar. Not played fairly. I just hate when any FL is being shown as weak, crying buckets, helpless. And I believe it is the best way to get TRPs, and it is how Indian Society works. Every show starts with a fierce FL and ends up being helpless and craving for husband's love. Are women supposed to end up only getting married and manage a family. No show actually shows about their career, studies, how they have personal life, hang out and party with friends etc.Maybe audience wants only drama and drama.TRP matters.

I am tired and exhausted of seeing silly pranks by Imlie and Aryan outsmarting her in every move. Where is the Imlie who was state topper, intelligent and faced anything with courage. Where did she keep her brain?In some locker or left in PD after Atank episode? Why can't she see the counteraction by Aryan for her every step. She is not a good player, but she gets frustrated at her failures. She is behaving exactly like my child, who thinks he can win any challenge and gets angry and out of control when he fails. Because he can't accept failure. I must appreciate Aryan is too shrewd a player for an opponent like Imlie. He has made a spider web/chakravyuh for her, where if any one of them wins the challenge, both of them loose a friend and trust of their family. Ab in done ke saath hum phi is chakravyuh mean bhasa huh hai

I don't know why both of them are not thinking of the family, atleast Narmada and Arpita, what will happen to them when either Imlie or Aryan wins this challenge. How will both of them face them. What will happen to the respect of Rathod Family. It will be too embarrassing to stop the marriage at 7th phera.

Atif and team should wind up the track. It is a wedding track where you don't get any wedding vibe, No real music, masti, no smile on faces of bride and groom. Like Aryan said in today's episode, Chalo, we have to go now. Kal ke function kharab karna bhi to plan karna hai tumhe. So lets wait and see what is up their sleeves for tomorrow.

Hum pe raham karo, give us some good music and dance. After all itna kharcha kayak hai dress, make up, set decoration, jewellery and all.

I sometimes feel aryans main motive is imlies job...though subconsciously he might be attracted to her...

I still feel aryan is not in love as he claims that to himself n to arpi.. mujhe love meter 90 bhi nahi lagta uska Less hona chahiye ...Or rather he doesn't want to go into thinking about love yet.

He was right today she was strong during adini marriage n now she is weak ... the examples he gave for strong persons was so real. No wonder this man expects n asks her how is work even in hospital after NDE...

P.s. oh btw Yesterday's confrontation scene just went top of my head ...especially the part where he said he needs Sach mein shaadi...

Do I understand and empathise with Aryan's silent pain? Yes. But do I want Imlie to stop giving him hell? HELL NO.

He has chosen this twisted path so he better be prepared for the angst and accusations and all the biting Imlie will give him. His emotional and verbal repression needs to be broken and until he reaches his limit of masochistic tolerance, he wont come clean about his fears and insecurities to her. So I am all for her making his life Hell. Cuz the soft method only makes him avoid and use work as an excuse.

Now coming to Imlie. I have made peace with her being a slowpoke (FINALLY!) and am simply going to enjoy the process of how she stumbles and stumbles and finally stands up. (Meaning - I am ready to wait as many episodes as it takes and just enjoy the angst and love).

can someone tell me what ABP actually means, I never understand what the second word starting with B actually means when Imlie says it...

ABP is Ajeeb Bikat Praani which means Strange Scary Creature.😆

I think the makers owe us a proper explanation of track on show or an article which kind of answers all our queries...in all this utter chaos and confusion...

and lastly I hate myself for investing in this show

hey...

see they were 50/50 only because aryan allowed it to be,

but as she needs to understand her strengths she also needs to understand her limitations and that's what a true partner does for us.

he keeps reminding her about her strength,

while before he held her hand and filled in on where she lacks,

now it's more about making her understand her limitations

that she cannot and should not bear the burdens of other adults

she should make her responsibilities her priority and let others deal with their shit on their own.

Originally posted by: LostTraveller

ABP is Ajeeb Bikat Praani which means Strange Scary Creature.😆

Scarily big

if i may add 😆