Well explained Freddie. Love is selfless and boundless. It can't be compared in partners as giving equal.at same time. It depends on their nature to express it differently. It's not physical love anytime. It's the internal soulful love which makes you stand for a person when needed showing true love for partner. Bit there won't be expectations too anytime in it. What Abhi told is its like mom's love unconditional and no expectations.Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
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I get it you are disappointed but look at it this way:
You need to look at the episode from their perspective -she was concerned about her sister, needed to talk, to make sure she is not climbing a ledge - Arohi is mentally weak - and then they were in an accident. She could not speak to Abhi in that emotional moment but she did send a txt. When she did speak, she had to be careful because her family still had no knowledge and Arohi was hysterical with worry and she had to take that in consideration as well. She knows Abhi, he will come running and everything will just escalate especially when he finds out Arohi was involved - don't forget they day they had, Akshu just did not want to stir any more trouble between these two because she always gets stuck in the middle (I had mentioned this so many times before!). Beside she was shaken, hurt and not thinking very clearly beyond trying to find out who got hurt and worrying about the consequences.
We all have families and we do love them. We can get annoyed and angry and go NC but love prevails in times of danger. So it did here. Akshu has never hidden her love for her sister - think back to the initial show promo, it was laid out very clearly. Arohi is her priority. I would be disappointed if she had just left her sister and walked away because that is not the Akshu we have come know and love. Yes her mahan act can get annoying but every gesture needs to be put in the context of the story. Here she was just being a sister. Not Mahan, not a lover but a sister.
She is not taking Abhi for granted, in fact knows how passionate he is. But after the day they had, she wanted some time and there is nothing wrong about that. When she gave thanks, she was just thinking in her family context, following of from accident, then she added Abhi, showing she knows he is part of her family but is distant from this accident repercussion.
We don't get to choose family but we can choose who we love. That love needs to make a place in your life, not at the expense of getting rid of a member. Love naturally makes a place for itself, which is untouched and secure and not related to anything else. Yes, there are times you need to put that love above others, but by that rule that love can also come last when needed. True lovers will understand and appreciate. Problem arises when expectation is heavy on one side and pushes, prod or start giving ultimatum. Love can never be forced.
The thing is Abhi is so similar to Arohi, I think Akshu has picked this up hence her carefulness when answers his question about how she always puts her family above him. There is a need but there will also come a time when she will put him above as well. She just hasn't clarified it yet. One thing about Akshu, when she loves she gives her whole heart.
Abhira are heading for an existential crisis. In the long run it would be good for them as a couple. They will emerge stronger and more in love than before.
Abhi voices out more and stands for her. Yesterday he shouted on her as she choses her sister. When Ar took kasm all shocked. So Ak and kv trusted Ar. For Puja she has to stay with him but for her apart from him she has her own world her family. When abhi asked javo apni behn ke peeche tumhe mein nahi dikhta..she asked him are you a child. Giving importance to all relations is her nature and she puts all her loved ones in it. Today when Abhi is in anger , Ak asked Manjari first time told maa aap abhi ka khayal rakhiye. She had tears in her eyes for him..she is struck between Ar and Abhi always both are pushing her time and again to chose them alone. He himself got on his head i should not have shouted yesterday. That's where his senses came back saying it's her family. If Ar is outsider and did many khaands they could have thrown her away. She is part of their family so with flaws they need to love them..Those who from outside don't need to accept her relations properly but can't ignore the fact that Ar is her permanent relation which they can't cut..already the girl is suffering a lot with her loneliness and trauma. If Ak told him truth today he could have ran there and scolded Ar again. This is where Ak stopped. She won't increase their fights. Ak added all names and along with family she told Abhi what about Abhi because he is important for her. What if something happened he could not have survived. Ak actions are slow but she shows her love properly to all. It's not give and take immediately for soulmates. Its always standing together when needed for each other even though difference of opinions are there. Today the episode is very good in terms of story where they closed Sirat fiasco through Ar.
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