Can we plz give abhi a break..☹️ - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

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I get it you are disappointed but look at it this way:

You need to look at the episode from their perspective -she was concerned about her sister, needed to talk, to make sure she is not climbing a ledge - Arohi is mentally weak - and then they were in an accident. She could not speak to Abhi in that emotional moment but she did send a txt. When she did speak, she had to be careful because her family still had no knowledge and Arohi was hysterical with worry and she had to take that in consideration as well. She knows Abhi, he will come running and everything will just escalate especially when he finds out Arohi was involved - don't forget they day they had, Akshu just did not want to stir any more trouble between these two because she always gets stuck in the middle (I had mentioned this so many times before!). Beside she was shaken, hurt and not thinking very clearly beyond trying to find out who got hurt and worrying about the consequences.

We all have families and we do love them. We can get annoyed and angry and go NC but love prevails in times of danger. So it did here. Akshu has never hidden her love for her sister - think back to the initial show promo, it was laid out very clearly. Arohi is her priority. I would be disappointed if she had just left her sister and walked away because that is not the Akshu we have come know and love. Yes her mahan act can get annoying but every gesture needs to be put in the context of the story. Here she was just being a sister. Not Mahan, not a lover but a sister.

She is not taking Abhi for granted, in fact knows how passionate he is. But after the day they had, she wanted some time and there is nothing wrong about that. When she gave thanks, she was just thinking in her family context, following of from accident, then she added Abhi, showing she knows he is part of her family but is distant from this accident repercussion.

We don't get to choose family but we can choose who we love. That love needs to make a place in your life, not at the expense of getting rid of a member. Love naturally makes a place for itself, which is untouched and secure and not related to anything else. Yes, there are times you need to put that love above others, but by that rule that love can also come last when needed. True lovers will understand and appreciate. Problem arises when expectation is heavy on one side and pushes, prod or start giving ultimatum. Love can never be forced.

The thing is Abhi is so similar to Arohi, I think Akshu has picked this up hence her carefulness when answers his question about how she always puts her family above him. There is a need but there will also come a time when she will put him above as well. She just hasn't clarified it yet. One thing about Akshu, when she loves she gives her whole heart.

Abhira are heading for an existential crisis. In the long run it would be good for them as a couple. They will emerge stronger and more in love than before.

Abhi voices out more and stands for her. Yesterday he shouted on her as she choses her sister. When Ar took kasm all shocked. So Ak and kv trusted Ar. For Puja she has to stay with him but for her apart from him she has her own world her family. When abhi asked javo apni behn ke peeche tumhe mein nahi dikhta..she asked him are you a child. Giving importance to all relations is her nature and she puts all her loved ones in it. Today when Abhi is in anger , Ak asked Manjari first time told maa aap abhi ka khayal rakhiye. She had tears in her eyes for him..she is struck between Ar and Abhi always both are pushing her time and again to chose them alone. He himself got on his head i should not have shouted yesterday. That's where his senses came back saying it's her family. If Ar is outsider and did many khaands they could have thrown her away. She is part of their family so with flaws they need to love them..Those who from outside don't need to accept her relations properly but can't ignore the fact that Ar is her permanent relation which they can't cut..already the girl is suffering a lot with her loneliness and trauma. If Ak told him truth today he could have ran there and scolded Ar again. This is where Ak stopped. She won't increase their fights. Ak added all names and along with family she told Abhi what about Abhi because he is important for her. What if something happened he could not have survived. Ak actions are slow but she shows her love properly to all. It's not give and take immediately for soulmates. Its always standing together when needed for each other even though difference of opinions are there. Today the episode is very good in terms of story where they closed Sirat fiasco through Ar.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

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I get it you are disappointed but look at it this way:

You need to look at the episode from their perspective -she was concerned about her sister, needed to talk, to make sure she is not climbing a ledge - Arohi is mentally weak - and then they were in an accident. She could not speak to Abhi in that emotional moment but she did send a txt. When she did speak, she had to be careful because her family still had no knowledge and Arohi was hysterical with worry and she had to take that in consideration as well. She knows Abhi, he will come running and everything will just escalate especially when he finds out Arohi was involved - don't forget they day they had, Akshu just did not want to stir any more trouble between these two because she always gets stuck in the middle (I had mentioned this so many times before!). Beside she was shaken, hurt and not thinking very clearly beyond trying to find out who got hurt and worrying about the consequences.

We all have families and we do love them. We can get annoyed and angry and go NC but love prevails in times of danger. So it did here. Akshu has never hidden her love for her sister - think back to the initial show promo, it was laid out very clearly. Arohi is her priority. I would be disappointed if she had just left her sister and walked away because that is not the Akshu we have come know and love. Yes her mahan act can get annoying but every gesture needs to be put in the context of the story. Here she was just being a sister. Not Mahan, not a lover but a sister.

She is not taking Abhi for granted, in fact knows how passionate he is. But after the day they had, she wanted some time and there is nothing wrong about that. When she gave thanks, she was just thinking in her family context, following of from accident, then she added Abhi, showing she knows he is part of her family but is distant from this accident repercussion.

We don't get to choose family but we can choose who we love. That love needs to make a place in your life, not at the expense of getting rid of a member. Love naturally makes a place for itself, which is untouched and secure and not related to anything else. Yes, there are times you need to put that love above others, but by that rule that love can also come last when needed. True lovers will understand and appreciate. Problem arises when expectation is heavy on one side and pushes, prod or start giving ultimatum. Love can never be forced.

The thing is Abhi is so similar to Arohi, I think Akshu has picked this up hence her carefulness when answers his question about how she always puts her family above him. There is a need but there will also come a time when she will put him above as well. She just hasn't clarified it yet. One thing about Akshu, when she loves she gives her whole heart.

Abhira are heading for an existential crisis. In the long run it would be good for them as a couple. They will emerge stronger and more in love than before.

I don’t knw when she will keep him above everything still the day has not come ..hope the day comes soon..

Underline:- I m myself against tht I’ll never leave my family for my love ☺️ My only concern is she is not initiating it first..it’s always abhi who approaches her first after they fight.it looks like she is taking him for granted..😢

I agree with ur others points mention above..😀

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Well explained Freddie. Love is selfless and boundless. It can't be compared in partners as giving equal.at same time. It depends on their nature to express it differently. It's not physical love anytime. It's the internal soulful love which makes you stand for a person when needed showing true love for partner. Bit there won't be expectations too anytime in it. What Abhi told is its like mom's love unconditional and no expectations.

Abhi voices out more and stands for her. Yesterday he shouted on her as she choses her sister. When Ar took kasm all shocked. So Ak and kv trusted Ar. For Puja she has to stay with him but for her apart from him she has her own world her family. When abhi asked javo apni behn ke peeche tumhe mein nahi dikhta..she asked him are you a child. Giving importance to all relations is her nature and she puts all her loved ones in it. Today when Abhi is in anger , Ak asked Manjari first time told maa aap abhi ka khayal rakhiye. She had tears in her eyes for him..she is struck between Ar and Abhi always both are pushing her time and again to chose them alone. He himself got on his head i should not have shouted yesterday. That's where his senses came back saying it's her family. If Ar is outsider and did many khaands they could have thrown her away. She is part of their family so with flaws they need to love them..Those who from outside don't need to accept her relations properly but can't ignore the fact that Ar is her permanent relation which they can't cut..already the girl is suffering a lot with her loneliness and trauma. If Ak told him truth today he could have ran there and scolded Ar again. This is where Ak stopped. She won't increase their fights. Ak added all names and along with family she told Abhi what about Abhi because he is important for her. What if something happened he could not have survived. Ak actions are slow but she shows her love properly to all. It's not give and take immediately for soulmates. Its always standing together when needed for each other even though difference of opinions are there. Today the episode is very good in terms of story where they closed Sirat fiasco through Ar.

@ red. This is will become a problem for Abhira.

Loved your explanation. The episode isn't complete, we still have one more to fully understand what happened. I feel like a new story is coming up, maybe to do with the adoption.

Majari's behaviour and the constant need to go to Mandir is just cemented it for me.

Originally posted by: pbv3434

bold:-i don’t think arohi and abhi are same ..abhi would have never run away if he had hit someone..abhi is impulsive bt he do realizes his mistakes afterwards..☺️N arohi is very selfish and self centered..she always thinks tht I’m the best and everybody’s attention should be on me ..

I don’t knw when she will keep him above everything still the day has not come ..hope the day comes soon..

Underline:- I m myself against tht I’ll never leave my family for my love ☺️ My only concern is she is not initiating it first..it’s always abhi who approaches her first after they fight.it looks like she is taking him for granted..😢

I agree with ur others points mention above..😀

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@ red, you are just comparing one tiny action. When someone said they are similar they mean in temperament or personality traits if you like.

Both Akshu and Abhi are strong, alpha and used to getting their own way. That is how they are similar. Another thing they both crave is Akshu's undiluted love. Arohi is used to having that and now it's causing her a problem. She is also mentally weak. Abhi has never loved but since falling in love demands her 100% which is often not possible and he is now giving her grief when she is worried about her sister's welfare. The thing is, Abhi's temperament can be a big issue later on...we saw him breaking things, yelling, shouting...that shows he cannot handle strong emotions or has not been taught to handle strong emotions or voice them out.

How they deal with little things is totally up to them and depends on a variety of factors mainly their experience, life events that shaped them and their personal morality.

It's not love if the person you are in love with gets irritated with you as you deal with life. Abhi vowed to take Akshu as she is and here it is. This is her. He will get angry and then quickly get pacified, which is also wrong. They need to have a heart to heart and it's heading there. She is not taking him for granted, she had to help her sister and see to her. Abhi is a grown man, he can wait for a phone call! Taking for granted means using them and at no point is Akshu doing that.

But she has a life that she can't just chop of to be with him. He can, and had made it clear he will leave everyone for Akshu except his mum. Akshu in her own is teaching him that sometimes families have to come first and especially when in danger.

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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@ red. This is will become a problem for Abhira.

Loved your explanation. The episode isn't complete, we still have one more to fully understand what happened. I feel like a new story is coming up, maybe to do with the adoption.

Majari's behaviour and the constant need to go to Mandir is just cemented it for me.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

People expect Abhi and Akshu to be equal in everything. But it's contrast personalities. In real life too in partners one is more expressive and another is calm giving .what I liked in Abhi shown is he accepts his faults when his anger is down..he has no ego on it anytime..which is the most needed part in anyone. We tell kids but when it comes to accept and adjust we make daughters that way conditioned. Sons get easy lift always being a boy..when people complain on it i feel this is what the change needed in society now .if Ak is wrong let her admit it but she is not impulsive anytime. She thinks much and acts. When it comes to say sorry both are equal for me. I am.lovimg what Abhi is. And their future problem if he is that types and she is if different types none can change internal traits any time .it's just adjusting for partners depending on situations. And love will never decrease with all the issues pointed out .it onky grows along with our flaws too .it's new beginning now in story don't know where they hit but built up started today with the hit of car. And always precaps are half half.promos are not enough to.tell story. Need to wait for episodes what they want to give us..only drama drags the story all the time and Abhira churn it.

Abhi definitely lets go of his ego when it comes to Akshu. I really like that about him.👍🏼

Going forward, definitely Akshu should tell Abhi everything but for the moment her concern is for Arohi and rightly so. She was dangerous, took pills and was driving. I'd rather see her drinking than doing all that...when that child was in the road, my heart was in my throat, talk about reckless. But it was needed, the accident that happened will affect them badly. Akshu needs to either get some sense in Arohi or tell the family (useless and I doubt that would happen). Akshu's protective instinct will go haywire. I think she will connect the dot, realise it may be Manjari and go back to that site to have a look....to protect Akshu but to also find proof or who it was to see if she can help...

One thing puzzled me, the car hit a brick wall yet later that is the side to have blood streaks!🤣 So someone was sleeping in the hay...😈

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

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@ red, you are just comparing one tiny action. When someone said they are similar they mean in temperament or personality traits if you like.

Both Akshu and Abhi are strong, alpha and used to getting their own way. That is how they are similar. Another thing they both crave is Akshu's undiluted love. Arohi is used to having that and now it's causing her a problem. She is also mentally weak. Abhi has never loved but since falling in love demands her 100% which is often not possible and he is now giving her grief when she is worried about her sister's welfare. The thing is, Abhi's temperament can be a big issue later on...we saw him breaking things, yelling, shouting...that shows he cannot handle strong emotions or has not been taught to handle strong emotions or voice them out.

How they deal with little things is totally up to them and depends on a variety of factors mainly their experience, life events that shaped them and their personal morality.

It's not love if the person you are in love with gets irritated with you as you deal with life. Abhi vowed to take Akshu as she is and here it is. This is her. He will get angry and then quickly get pacified, which is also wrong. They need to have a heart to heart and it's heading there. She is not taking him for granted, she had to help her sister and see to her. Abhi is a grown man, he can wait for a phone call! Taking for granted means using them and at no point is Akshu doing that.

But she has a life that she can't just chop of to be with him. He can, and had made it clear he will leave everyone for Akshu except his mum. Akshu in her own is teaching him that sometimes families have to come first and especially when in danger.

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Italic:- I m not saying in tht way I know she loves him a lot..her not initiating is not understandable to me..anyways I respect ur view..😃
Underline:- i second u on this..abhi needs to learn abt family importance and ak is teaching him tht in her own way..🤗he can’t have her all by himself..she has family which is equally important..☺️

Originally posted by: pbv3434

bold:- I completely agree with u on tht ..he needs to stop being impulsive n learn to control his anger..breaking things is not the solution to it..

Italic:- I m not saying in tht way I know she loves him a lot..her not initiating is not understandable to me..anyways I respect ur view..😃
Underline:- i second u on this..abhi needs to learn abt family importance and ak is teaching him tht in her own way..🤗he can’t have her all by himself..she has family which is equally important..☺️

This will make them grow and become stronger as a couple. When they both learn the lessons of these tracks, they will become an unbeatable couple.

I also understand what you meant by taking him for granted but adult relationships is not straight forward nor linear. If it had been any other situation then yes I would have been angry at Akshu but here everything was clearly laid out. Example of Akshu not taking his call - still shaken, fearful and stunned and don't forget she got hurt also. That really was not the time to be talking to Abhi. He is angry with Arohi and this will just tip him of. If she told him what happened, what do you think he will do? I'm betting he would have turned up with the police to have Arohi taken away. Akshu is a good judge of character and knew it would just inflame the situation more.

But yes, at some point she does need to tell him. It could affect her and their relationship so for that reason only.

Akshu has a great linage - grandmother and mother all give families importance. So will she but she will balance it nicely with love and other responsibilities. We are just seeing a slice of their story so far. Have miles, miles to go yet and things will change, turn upside down and etc. There will come a time when Abhi will put his family over Akshu. That is life, all married couple can attest to that.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Abhi definitely lets go of his ego when it comes to Akshu. I really like that about him.👍🏼

Going forward, definitely Akshu should tell Abhi everything but for the moment her concern is for Arohi and rightly so. She was dangerous, took pills and was driving. I'd rather see her drinking than doing all that...when that child was in the road, my heart was in my throat, talk about reckless. But it was needed, the accident that happened will affect them badly. Akshu needs to either get some sense in Arohi or tell the family (useless and I doubt that would happen). Akshu's protective instinct will go haywire. I think she will connect the dot, realise it may be Manjari and go back to that site to have a look....to protect Akshu but to also find proof or who it was to see if she can help...

One thing puzzled me, the car hit a brick wall yet later that is the side to have blood streaks!🤣 So someone was sleeping in the hay...😈

Isn't strange no screams from that person.... generally when accident happens means we will get to know na..they may scream or shout ..here ntg shown...