Aarohi is depressed..what a joke !? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

Yaar i don't understand aarohi's trauma..aarohi was introduced as a confident girl..who was career oriented and yes she wanted to marry abhimanyu but she never loved him..

So now seeing aarohi obsessed over her broken marriage is something that I can't understand..

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Aaru is obsessed over her broken marriage coz she has never suffered a setback in her life. She has to deal with stuff which is new for her..akshu getting what she thinks she deserved ..aaru being punished..everyone praising akshu(they already forgave her ) ..she thought bade papa would never agree for her marriage but he did..her innermost fear that akshu will snatch everything good from her is coming true.

Basically nothing going her way. Yes she had it coming but she didn't plan any of it. She was dreaming of becoming a Birla bahu , abhimanyus wife wife a great career.

I am not supporting her . I can see where she comes from. I hope the writer addresses these issues n aaru rises above all this n becomes a better person..not the petty version of herself.

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

yeah I get your point..

But again in season 2 gayu was also deeply in love with kartik but she backed off the moment she got to know about kaira being in love..plus gayu also happily celebrated Kaira's wedding..so yeah there are girls who know how to take rejections gracefully and aarohi is not one of them

gayu deeply loved and respected akshara and naitik. She loved naira too. She welcomed naira with open arms when she came bk and took her place ..she did feel left out after naira accepted akshara but she also understood that it's natural ..naira didn't take her place..there was no room for jealousy or insecurity.. Gayu was very different from aaru..she was always sweet and understanding girl. The best thing about her was that she stepped down when she knew kartik loved naira , she took her space and time n when she came bk, she accepted kaira whole heartedly .

I agree , aaru is more like kuhu ..from the beginning ..kuhu kept on plotting against mishti , she didn't want mishti to be married in the same house as hers ..but she was never really called out for her actions..she too kept switching from psycho mode to caring sister to plotting to hurt mishti to feeling guilty of hurting her. Those who have seen yrhpk will know. Aaru , harsh , mahima etc will be mean to akshu but will also sing slow mo yrkkh with abhira. It's Like..its OK to keep loving the family even if they are horrible to you bec they are family.

Abhi is in really angry mode with arohi.now she did some accident or something nd akshu had some wound on her forehead...don't know what he will do after seeing all these??

Originally posted by: ishq_vibes

Abhi is in really angry mode with arohi.now she did some accident or something nd akshu had some wound on her forehead...don't know what he will do after seeing all these??

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Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I don't deny you but if you see how she was shown to be someone who was always obsessed with Abhimanyu and win him. Yes she didn't love him but wanted Abhimanyu for herself. And Abhi taking proposal made her bestest dream come true .. So when he didn't show up on marriage can she forget him easily no .. And she never loved Akshara truly ...I don't think she got changed.. We human beings have tendency to throw our failures on someone else and she used to do that on Akshara.. Always blamed her for anything wrong in her life so now seeing same customs on her sister and guy whom she wanted to win she is not able to take it but that doesn't mean she is not depressed ... She is depressed, feeling suffocated , mad and that's because of how writers rushed things

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Originally posted by: _charu_

gayu deeply loved and respected akshara and naitik. She loved naira too. She welcomed naira with open arms when she came bk and took her place ..she did feel left out after naira accepted akshara but she also understood that it's natural ..naira didn't take her place..there was no room for jealousy or insecurity.. Gayu was very different from aaru..she was always sweet and understanding girl. The best thing about her was that she stepped down when she knew kartik loved naira , she took her space and time n when she came bk, she accepted kaira whole heartedly .

I agree , aaru is more like kuhu ..from the beginning ..kuhu kept on plotting against mishti , she didn't want mishti to be married in the same house as hers ..but she was never really called out for her actions..she too kept switching from psycho mode to caring sister to plotting to hurt mishti to feeling guilty of hurting her. Those who have seen yrhpk will know. Aaru , harsh , mahima etc will be mean to akshu but will also sing slow mo yrkkh with abhira. It's Like..its OK to keep loving the family even if they are horrible to you bec they are family.

Yeah, I think RS is going down that way with S3 of YRKKH.

Fed up of sisters fighting like cats and then being loving. Arohi should just go away somewhere and Akshu gets married and makes her home.

Oh wait, where's the fun? better show them fighting, plotting and what not. Is there no original story left with this production house? or maybe it's a case of if it works, why mess with it?

Gayu is a totally different kind. She never had bad intention, had always been loving. Arohi always had a jealous streak. I saw some episodes of them as children and was shocked at the way child Arohi was with Akshu!😕

Originally posted by: ishq_vibes

Abhi is in really angry mode with arohi.now she did some accident or something nd akshu had some wound on her forehead...don't know what he will do after seeing all these??

Yeah he and Arohi will clash badly and I think everyone is going to then view Abhi negatively. Then poor Akshu will have to make choices again.

I think she should just go on a holiday, somewhere nice and warm and enjoy herself.❤️😆😃

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@ blue, not true. Depression makes people focus so inwardly that they are not aware how their external actions is affecting the people around them. They cannot see the right or the wrong of it as long as it makes them feel ok. Majority are not doing it to hurt anyone, but more to bring some peace or a sense of wellbeing into their life. Depression is an illness. It is often described as black dog, as it creeps up on people. Life events can cause anyone to go through it - death, separation, breakdown of marriages, not doing well at school, pregnancies, loss of job/home/children and etc.

Even fictional characters have roots in reality. So the character of Arohi is created with all the personality that a real life person may have - the writers had to decide what her conflict and motivation is, where it is coming from and what will trigger her and make her behave in different circumstances. We know her driving factor, her internal motivation. She has been made to create/sustain conflict in this family drama and she will do that. She will also be a lovable sister as well. It all depends on what the situation calls for.

There are people like Arohi all over the world.

True. Depression makes people unpredictable. When they are not completely under it, they are fine. And then something happens and it hits them and it's a downward journey from there until something else happens that restores their mental state temporarily once again. "Temporary" being the operative word.

Are the events happening for Abhira (Tilak / ganpati pooja / wedding card / ...) triggering something in Arohi? It's definitely possible. And she is not the kind to curl up and cry. She would lash out when provoked. That's what she is going to do. She is not Akshara to silently suffer. She won't drown in her sorrows. She'll drown others.

Having said that, I have no problem if that's what makers are trying to show - as in Arohi conflicted, struggling to accept what's happening around her, unable to and thus her grey shades coming out. But if they are trying to show her being manipulative (not depressed. Just manipulative) and hiding behind the concept of PTSD or depression - then I would have an issue with it.

The reason I suspect her being manipulative contrary to being depressed is the topic she was discussing with the other doctor today. Maybe that was when it struck her that she can use it in her own way for her own goal.

Sab writers / makers ke haath mein hain.

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

yeah I get your point..

Aarohi never loved abhimanyu but she was obsessed with the idea of being with abhimanyu..

She herself admitted on her broken wedding day that she was dying to marry him as he was her dream man..

But abhimanyu rejecting her brutally twice for akshara has taken a toll on her and she's not able to cope up with it..

Its just that she's not able to take the rejection

But again in season 2 gayu was also deeply in love with kartik but she backed off the moment she got to know about kaira being in love..plus gayu also happily celebrated Kaira's wedding..so yeah there are girls who know how to take rejections gracefully and aarohi is not one of them

now are we comparing Gayu and aaru NO we cant, what gayu had with Naira was plain sibling rivalry in the childhood and the fact that she genuinely loved naira was also true. While in aarohis case she hated to share, when she came to know Sirat wasnt akshus birth mother she wanted sirat for herself and not share with akshu, while akshu and kairav whole hearted shared naira and her memories with sirat and aarohi.

Sirat always loved akshu more and considered her as one of her own she never differentiated between the two, natural tendency for any mom would be to protect the weaker child and in sirats case it was aarohi because of her big mouth and anger issues. She asked akshu to support the weaker one knowing that aarohis anger wont take her anywhere while akshu with her loving nature was always a winner.

Aaru always wanted to be No1. ever since her nani told her that goenkas will always prefer akshu more because she is nairas daughter and because she was rich, aarohi being a child thought that her mother is shown down because of money and family background... her hate for akshara and kairav stems from there, it has nothing to do with sirats death... she simply blames akshara for something she has not done and even she knows it... she thinks by doing this she will be the no1 girl for the goenkas but fails badly, this was the reason aarohi asked akshara to leave the house because she wanted everything for herself and when akshu is there all the attention goes to her.

The depression aaru is dealing with has nothing to do with abhi, she has never understood how abhi can fall for someone like akshu who is simple and not a high achiever like her, she fails to understand that she manipulated her way to the wedding that was supposed to take place according to her it isnt wrong because she has always got everything she wanted through manipulation while akshu had to struggle.

Now that its out in open that abhi and akshu love each other and the families have also accepted it after a struggle she isnt able to digest the fact that how akshu gets everything in the end despite all the hurdles that she had created and the venom she had spat...

aarohi would have reacted the same way even if the person wasnt abhimanyu..... that is what her charecter is she hates akshu and all the forgiveness thing is a big drama which she has put in front of the family so that she gets their attention