Aarohi is depressed..what a joke !? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

Please.. are makers realty trying to whitewash aarohi by using depression card??

I mean you want me to believe a girl who cunningly fooled everyone..lied to everyone and then manipulated people left right and center to marry her sister's lover...is now a victim of mental sickness and depression?

Makers seriously need to find a better reason to whitewash aarohi and gain sympathy from viewers for aarohi..

Depression and mental health are serious issues and it shouldn't be wasted on a trash person like aarohi..

What about akshara's depression..poor girl was blamed and bullied by witch aarohi her entire life for killing her mother..stayed away all alone from her family for 3 years..poor girl gets panic attacks...but she's not a victim of depression..

And here we have princess aarohi getting everything in her life whatever she wanted by snatching from akshara..and now she's depressed because finally akshara found a little happiness and is getting married..😒 pathetic writing

Depression is no joke. It can happen to people across all strata, good and bad. Depression does not discriminate at all.

However, in this case it is most likely PTSD that Arohi is suffering and combined with the internal suppressed fury and anger, it is taking it's toll on her. She will use this to her advantage and maybe play a long game in which Abhi is ultimately blamed for (if) anything happens to her. Last time, after tilak 1 she ended up in the hospital. This suggests she has fragile grasp on reality to start with. Goenka's should have put all their kids in therapy, they had such a shitty start in life and then trauma after trauma.😆

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Depression is no joke. It can happen to people across all strata, good and bad. Depression does not discriminate at all.

However, in this case it is most likely PTSD that Arohi is suffering and combined with the internal suppressed fury and anger, it is taking it's toll on her. She will use this to her advantage and maybe play a long game in which Abhi is ultimately blamed for (if) anything happens to her. Last time, after tilak 1 she ended up in the hospital. This suggests she has fragile grasp on reality to start with. Goenka's should have put all their kids in therapy, they had such a shitty start in life and then trauma after trauma.😆

A depressed person can't play mind games ..

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

but aarohi is not a real person..she's a fictional character..plus she had been planning to spoil abhira's wedding since Tilak.. it was clear in her monologs that she's not depressed..

A depressed person can't play mind games ..

@ blue, not true. Depression makes people focus so inwardly that they are not aware how their external actions is affecting the people around them. They cannot see the right or the wrong of it as long as it makes them feel ok. Majority are not doing it to hurt anyone, but more to bring some peace or a sense of wellbeing into their life. Depression is an illness. It is often described as black dog, as it creeps up on people. Life events can cause anyone to go through it - death, separation, breakdown of marriages, not doing well at school, pregnancies, loss of job/home/children and etc.

Even fictional characters have roots in reality. So the character of Arohi is created with all the personality that a real life person may have - the writers had to decide what her conflict and motivation is, where it is coming from and what will trigger her and make her behave in different circumstances. We know her driving factor, her internal motivation. She has been made to create/sustain conflict in this family drama and she will do that. She will also be a lovable sister as well. It all depends on what the situation calls for.

There are people like Arohi all over the world.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

So we will have one more tilak 🤡 ye tilak kya kehlatha hai 😆 either akshu will break marriage and wr will have one more tilak of abhira or akshu will force abhi to marry arohi which will have 2 more tilak in the show 😆 i hope dkp does not choose both and give us normal story 😑

Lol Diya this was funny to read ...Last season i heard we had lot of weddings and this season they are compensating with Tilaks 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@ blue, not true. Depression makes people focus so inwardly that they are not aware how their external actions is affecting the people around them. They cannot see the right or the wrong of it as long as it makes them feel ok. Majority are not doing it to hurt anyone, but more to bring some peace or a sense of wellbeing into their life. Depression is an illness. It is often described as black dog, as it creeps up on people. Life events can cause anyone to go through it - death, separation, breakdown of marriages, not doing well at school, pregnancies, loss of job/home/children and etc.

Even fictional characters have roots in reality. So the character of Arohi is created with all the personality that a real life person may have - the writers had to decide what her conflict and motivation is, where it is coming from and what will trigger her and make her behave in different circumstances. We know her driving factor, her internal motivation. She has been made to create/sustain conflict in this family drama and she will do that. She will also be a lovable sister as well. It all depends on what the situation calls for.

There are people like Arohi all over the world.

Best comment I read today. See makers neither addressed Aksharas panic attacks nor depression when Aarohi was torturing her and they are doing same with Aarohi. It's very easy to hate Aarohi but she is also going through same mental issues that needs to be addressed. She has seen all the marriage customs and yes she forced herself in that marriage but it's not easy to see same again her sister doing that with guy who who was supposed to marry her.. Makers should have shown 1-2 years leap where Aarohi moved on or had professionally grown in her career and both sisters in real made up but this sudden shift is making her depressed and mad..

Depressed with suicidal tendency n intent to hurt others. Indication for hospitalization! Send her off then. Depressed bolkar kuchh karo bhi nahi n main lead ko again sacrificial lamb bana do…boring!

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Best comment I read today. See makers neither addressed Aksharas panic attacks nor depression when Aarohi was torturing her and they are doing same with Aarohi. It's very easy to hate Aarohi but she is also going through same mental issues that needs to be addressed. She has seen all the marriage customs and yes she forced herself in that marriage but it's not easy to see same again her sister doing that with guy who who was supposed to marry her.. Makers should have shown 1-2 years leap where Aarohi moved on or had professionally grown in her career and both sisters in real made up but this sudden shift is making her depressed and mad..

Makers showing sisters as night and day. Akshu sunny and naturally positive overcomes things. Arohi dark in nature, holds grudges and does not forget things. People who have negative tendencies do often suffer from mental health issues.

All they should have shown was someone talking with Arohi. It would be even better if it was Akshu. Both having a heart to heart chat.

Both sisters have hurt each other and took their 'revenge' and for all intent and purpose they are even now. They are starting fresh but Arohi can't. She is being triggered and this is causing the current lot of problems for them.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Makers showing sisters as night and day. Akshu sunny and naturally positive overcomes things. Arohi dark in nature, holds grudges and does not forget things. People who have negative tendencies do often suffer from mental health issues.

All they should have shown was someone talking with Arohi. It would be even better if it was Akshu. Both having a heart to heart chat.

Both sisters have hurt each other and took their 'revenge' and for all intent and purpose they are even now. They are starting fresh but Arohi can't. She is being triggered and this is causing the current lot of problems for them.

So much agree with you. I would have loved Akshu talking to her and having heart to heart chat instead of becoming suddenly insensitive towards her feelings but also I feel even if she talks will Aarohi understand maybe not. That's why it was important to show some leap and her focus changed to career or anything so she can better understand things. But you described both sisters so nicely and yes agree lot of Aarohis exist in real.

Yaar i don't understand aarohi's trauma..aarohi was introduced as a confident girl..who was career oriented and yes she wanted to marry abhimanyu but she never loved him..

So now seeing aarohi obsessed over her broken marriage is something that I can't understand..

I mean its not like that aarohi and abhimanyu were in a relationship or abhimanyu gave her promises or got physically close to her..they had NOTHING..

People so get depressed when they suffer a break up..but aarohi and abhimanyu had no relationship..they never talked to each other properly or went on a date..

It was just a marriage which was based on lies and manipulations..and it broke..that's all

And now aarohi is behaving so psychotic..and how can she even compare her own marriage with abhira's marriage..I mean the only similarity between both the weddings was abhimanyu..apart from that the emotion, feeling ,intimacy everything is different..

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

So much agree with you. I would have loved Akshu talking to her and having heart to heart chat instead of becoming suddenly insensitive towards her feelings but also I feel even if she talks will Aarohi understand maybe not. That's why it was important to show some leap and her focus changed to career or anything so she can better understand things. But you described both sisters so nicely and yes agree lot of Aarohis exist in real.

Ideally, there would have been a gap of months or even weeks.

I felt the same that suddenly Akshu is so insensitive to Arohi. It could be explained by the fact that she is punishing Arohi for her actions ie why give her any consideration now? and or there is a crack in the sisters relationship now. They are too busy to think about it but one day they will. Each episode we are being shown in some way suggests this.

TV writing can by abysmal, the need to sustain viewership drives the story and often sense and logic can be sacrificed.