Guys actually I first watched the precap and then with it I lost the mood to watch the episode.. But with Mehers persistence I watched it...
We might be upset with Harsh and his attitude towards this alliance but his dislike towards Akshara and this alliance is valid.. Akshara had publicly twice rejected Abhi in front of the family and then he was ready to do anything for Abhi if Akshara had accepted and confessed. But she humiliated his son and his love in front of everyone without stating her reason leading to the misery of Abhi.. Any father in his place would feel the same.. On top he can find himself losing his son to this girl and that is his biggest scare and insecurity of his life.. He does and still do everything only for his son..We can see his genuine concern and anxiety and love for his son..The only person that affects him to the core is his son... and we get affected only with whom we have a deep emotional bond.
Next he was not consulted when the alliance was fixed and all of a sudden announced in front of him and even without giving a chance or time to prepare himself for it.. his son uninvited him for the marriage.. That is the most hurtful and insulting act any son can do...
Furthermore, instead of convincing her husband for the alliance, she put that responsibility and guilt over Abhis head and conveniently made Harsh and Abhi stand on stage again countering each other.. In addition to that when the goenkas call her to discuss the alliance in front of everybody so that the past episodes will not be repeated, she instead of asking more time to convince the father,, went ahead and entertained them alone at home,, fixed the tilak without consulting any of the elder members of the home.. This again is the repeat of the arohis marriage fiasco, where she was in mute mode and went ahead with the baraat to the temple without the bridegroom and then we all know rest of the story..
She simply goes ahead without communicating properly and creates misunderstandings and dumps everything on others head at times of crisis where she gets onto the mute spectator.. That what is shown in the precap.. She went ahead and fixed the Tilak3 and now throwing Abhi under that bus saying she cannot attend without her husband.. She showed her stand and choice to abhi.. who is still living in a delusional world.. with his matha jaap..
Coming to Abhi... He is height of double standard.. He had one whole episode of thandav and pages of pledge of doing everything and anything for Akshara simply because Akshara was expressing her concerns in a vulnerable moment.. and her struggle to keep everyone happy..
Now what happened to that pledge??? Akshara had made it easier for both matha and Abhi in cancelling the deal and sparing the trouble of making a choice..
But that same deal is in a real practical mode now.. where each of their choices are shown.. Harsh chose his hurt ego over his son, Manjeri chose her husband and abandoned the son and Abhi the son chose his mother Manjeri over his love Akshara...
So at the end of the day Abhis pledge was blown off in air and he very conveniently chose his mom.. I know Abhi is right in choosing his mother and not abandoning his family but then what was the need of his words and the pledge.. So this shows that life is never easy and always puts us in a difficult spot... He did the same thing as Akshara did, he chose his family that is his mother and abandoned Akshara and left her again... I mean this guy never really regrets for any of his actions.. He had rejected tilak1 and left,, he had rejected Arohis marriage and abandoned her publicly in the temple.. without any regret.. and when finally he got Akshara,, he is still on the repeat mode of abandoning the girl... Hadd ho gayi yaar.. and look at his audacity to scream on the top of his lungs that he can do anything and everything to get akshara in his life..
Coming to Askhara,, she deserved those harsh and rude words from her sasur Dr. Harshwardhan Birla.. Its the after effects of her rejections.. Abhi in his blind love can forget conveniently what Akshara had done throughout but not his father...All his words were bang on.. I would stand with this fellow cause in his shoes, he is right..Akshara was the root cause of all this along with Manjeri matha..
Now i guess push pull game is going on in the birla house.. Harsh riled up manjeri with his words that he being her husband is going to uninvite himself from his son's marriage. So Harsh is not going to get convinced easily,, Manjeri is not going to leave her husband and Poor Abhi for the first time getting a reality check of his illusion and his mother..
Akshara clueless of all this waiting for her abhi.. This is their future guys.. Bade Papas concern and worries were valid.. Akshara is never going to be happy in that Birla house or family.. LIke how today there was this door of the Abhis chamber between Abhi and Akshara... Birla family will always stand between abhi and akshara.. sometimes it can be Harsh and sometimes it can be Matha.. But at the end of the day Akshara will suffer everyday in that family..
I really wish now that Abhi had got married to Arohi, she would have put every member of Birla family in their place especially Kaand maker Manjeri..Papa would have been happy.. so matha too happy and all the members as well. and Abhi over time would have become ok and got completely immersed himself in his work.. No issues at all.. Akshara too in some other family would have had a better family and better life.. with all her idealogies intact..and would have been at peace atleast...
Edited by Deep_deep - 4 years ago