Originally posted by: Stardust91
So today on yeh kahaani; deewane ka kissa ya phir ek deeewani.......
1. I was shook when Abhi said he was just giving a suggestion, nothing else. Then, when Harsh agreed I was like has he mellowed? Or was he so happy that Birlas ki ekloti shaan was returning that he didn't care who else came along?
2. Akshu starts her meri wajah se with Kairav; BM has more sense than Kairav and tells her to be happy that Abhi saved MG. Akshu doesn't understand this and is more concerned about Anisha.
3. I actually agreed with what she said to Anisha. Isn't that what all.mummies are like? Bigadna upar se mohabbat andar se kare woh teri ma....Anisha telling her that Mahima was not like other mothers stayed with me. Is it the fact that Mahima was heartbroken by what Anisha did or is it that Anisha didn't live up to what Mahima expected? Isn't a mother's love meant go be unconditional?
4. Anisha has no sense or filter. It seems like mother like daughter. My only thought when Mahima was telling Akshu to stay out of their family matters was had Abhi been there he would have said "Taiji, ab Akshu bhi hamari family hai". Also how can best doctor aunty say something so insensitive like "you don't have a mother." I wish Abhi had heard this.
5. MG melting and agreeing to AbhiRa ki shaadi to Swarna and Kittu dadi? Does this mean we get to see din shagana da soon??I can't wait.....
6. So wanted to mention this before i went on to THE CONVERSATION but Abhi tried to get Akshu to think about his heart beating for her and not go on a bade papa and his kids and family speech. Yet, she didn't get the hint. Doosri baar isko hint nahin mila.
7. Now coming to that conversation. Someone tell me was Abhi already emotional sitting out there with her? Or was he just tired? His expression when she said unki Akshu ne unhe itni taqleef di; Akshu ka pyaar unki zindagi le gaya. Lekin Abhi saved him...why isn't she concentrating on that? Silly girl why are you telling him that you were the reason for something that didn't even happen?
This is why.. this is exactly why Akshu needs other friends...yes Abhi is her everything but some things he didn't need to hear. Akshu need to understand that she can tell him everything but blaming their love for MG ki halaat isn't something that he would've wanted to hear.
Her leaving for Aarohi's khushi and her saying that HAMARE PYAAR ki keemat aise deni padegi are two completely different things. How was she equating those? Who was she equating those to? His expression when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat was like she had hurt his heart so badly. That's when he actually cried. When she said tumhare pyar ne mujhse duniya ki sabse badi khushi di...that didn't make him as happy as it should have because he was still stuck with the hamare pyar ki keemat aise chukani padegi.
Also she didn't include him in her apne?
Aisa pyar nahin manga tha maine? Again pyar ki keemat parivaar?
This is why the concept of one person being your everything might sound so romantic and so happy and sharing everything with your future husband might be the best thing but can one person really be your everything? Your love, your best friend, your therapist for free? Can one person really carry the weight of all that you tell them in addition to their own baggage?
This is why people have besties..best friends who are removed from parivaar vs pyaar so you can have these conversations with them and it doesn't affect your love to the extent that its hurting and affecting Abhi.
I know Akshu has no one but Abhi; I have said that myself but she could then have been a bit more tactful and diplomatic considering this is the guy she put through an entire kabhi haan kabhi naa...family above all else; nahin DR Abhimanyu Birla main tumse pyar nahin karti scenario even though Gauri Shankar ji ke jaise jodi ban jaaye haan aisi jodi ban jaaye; tode se na toote....
To those who I know will tell me that there should be no secrets between AbhiRa and she needs to share everything with him, I will just ask whether they think saying all this again and again and blaming her love to the one person who thinks she is the world was the right thing to do.
This is why people need other people around them; this is why people need friends.
Abhi might tell Manjari or Neil how hurt he was by her words and won't tell her but here I feel she needs to know how much her words hurt him sometimes. He cannot let everything go and forgive her words yet again without telling her how bad he felt when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat etc.
OK as you can see , I have a lot to say about this scene. If it seems I am only team Abhi then I am team AbhiRa but I adore Abhi waaay too much. I feel Akshu doesn't realise how much she hurts Abhi at times. I am not saying she shouldn't tell Abhi her secrets but she should sometimes know what she is saying can be perceived the wrong way or can hurt him or how at times she shouldn't insult his love.
From her POV she is sharing but what about his feelings. It reminds me of the Shenaaz Gill statement "meri koi feeling nahin hai? Tumhari feeling, tumhari!!!"
Anyways this scene will continue tomorrow.
8. I liked Vansh and Kairav's bond. This bond has been ongoing since S2.
9. Abhi is so hurt; and Akshu is busy dancing. Matlab MG is fine, she is dancing but my Abhi is upset because Akshu ko sab kuch dikhta hai but why does his love have to be on the back seat always?
10. I don't want this hurt to erupt onto Akshu.. he should tell her how it isn't fair to him to feel this way. He can't keep it all in or else if it erupts badly then it won't be fair to either of then.
11. Also where is the Shiv-Parvati connection with whatever Akshu was telling him today? Yes there won't be a sacrifice there but did Gauri ma ever tell Shivji that pyar ki keemat can't be parivaar?
12. I m telling you guys BP will arrive at Birla House towards the end of Saturday's episode. Then we will have to wait all of Sunday for this cycle to start again. Waise its fine., I need to finish my Netflix shows.
Please tell me what you guys think...I look forward to all the debates.
So here’s my take on it:
My heart just broke for Abhi today...all her rejection didn't hurt him as much as these words... she still hasn't considered him as same as her family...deep down she still differentiates and she didn't even realize how much she hurt Abhi through these words... that's the sad part...
Now even if Bade Papa and entire family agree...Abhi wont/shouldn't till she can love both him and her family equally without differentiating and blaming their love for every storm that comes their way...
sometime in a relationship partners say things they don't mean.... in a flow... as a way of letting out their emotions.. and that's what happened here... In any relationship one shouldn't have to think twice about how the other person will receive their words/actions.. it should be natural like breathing, without thought... that's what Akshara is feeling with Abhi... she shares things with him that she wouldn't even share with her family... but her past treatment towards Abhi doesn't help in this situation and has brought all his fear to the forefront... He can fight the world for her.. but if she leaves him again he wont be able to survive...and according to what Akshu is saying, he's getting the message as shes ready to leave him..and the past sure doesn't help him ease out of these thoughts,,,, so now is the most futile time for these two to communicate and put each others insecurities aside.. she need to assure him that he is her Apne too.. and that no matter what storms come their way she wont leave him...He needs to understand her trauma and conditioning (which Im sure he's figured out, but doesn't know the full extent of it... he needs to get her out of her guilt tripping/tyag mode).....
Lets hope the makers handle this with utmost care and not ruin it... it would be a pleasure to watch HC and Pranali performing these scenes...
P.S. to anyone who feels like what more does Akshu need to prove... she went against her family and came to save him from jail... in Abhii's eyes he wouldn't have expected her to come.... infact it was similar to molestation case time...he would have preferred her to stay at home and convince them if possible, he wouldn't have taken her wrong...his fear is the same as after the molestation case she had said KOI BHI..and now she's blaming her love for BP's attack..he's afraid she'll back out and leave him again... like I said she needs to assure her love by not leaving him... it doesn't matter whether she saves him from cases/jail or not if the next minute she gives him mixed signal about their relationship.
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