Deewane Ka Kissa Ya Phir Ek Deewani*STRICTLY INVITES ONLY* CC#4 - Page 38

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Also for the past few days it's been like "they will break up!";"no they will separate" and I ve been like Abhi would NEVER...he loves her toooooo damn much and he KNOWS she has nobody except him. And yet the whole "mutually separate thing" was like pushed.

Even now, Abhi is UPSET because he should be her top priority and yet....

Separation is fine if it does something positive for them. I wasn't okay with separation if it would just be a whole lot of crying and nothing productive.

Rn, after the heart attack, I don't think Abhi can be her top priority. Also, for Akshara, family will always be first. And in general also, I think it's impossible for your SO to be top priority all the time. It's more of a balance. More about being equal priority. If they are important, so is he. Equally. That's the kind of reassurance that Abhi needs. And that'll only come if they get some time with each other and talk things out.

The statement Akshara made in the promo was not correct, badly timed and hurtful, tbh. But, I don't think she understands the meaning behind those words. Let's see how they play out the whole scenario.

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

Separation is fine if it does something positive for them. I wasn't okay with separation if it would just be a whole lot of crying and nothing productive.

Rn, after the heart attack, I don't think Abhi can be her top priority. Also, for Akshara, family will always be first. And in general also, I think it's impossible for your SO to be top priority all the time. It's more of a balance. More about being equal priority. If they are important, so is he. Equally. That's the kind of reassurance that Abhi needs. And that'll only come if they get some time with each other and talk things out.

The statement Akshara made in the promo was not correct, badly timed and hurtful, tbh. But, I don't think she understands the meaning behind those words. Let's see how they play out the whole scenario.

I understand what you are saying. However, I am looking at it from Abhi's POV because for him Akshu is his number 1. Also, are you saying priorities change?

I don't mean to sound apathetic but Manish has enough people who can make him their top priority. His mother, his wife, AG, DOCTOR BEST INTERN Aarohi, Vansh and Kairav, the other sacrificing mahaan. Akshu needs to balance her family and Abhi but Abhi should always remain her priority.

Yes, I agree that her words in the precap were very hurtful. She said something similar in the episode about it being her fault that really seemed to hurt Abhi but he brushed it off when she said that Abhi was the reason BP was fine.

He seems to be really upset....I don't blame him. She is busy doing ghoomar so clearly Manish's heart attack doesn't need her prioritisation. Then there is the issue of not calling him....

Disclaimer: I really like Akshu, her character is very cute and sweet and she is my Abhi's whole heart but what's wrong is wrong.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I understand what you are saying. However, I am looking at it from Abhi's POV because for him Akshu is his number 1. Also, are you saying priorities change?

I don't mean to sound apathetic but Manish has enough people who can make him their top priority. His mother, his wife, AG, DOCTOR BEST INTERN Aarohi, Vansh and Kairav, the other sacrificing mahaan. Akshu needs to balance her family and Abhi but Abhi should always remain her priority.

Yes, I agree that her words in the precap were very hurtful. She said something similar in the episode about it being her fault that really seemed to hurt Abhi but he brushed it off when she said that Abhi was the reason BP was fine.

He seems to be really upset....I don't blame him. She is busy doing ghoomar so clearly Manish's heart attack doesn't need her prioritisation. Then there is the issue of not calling him....

Disclaimer: I really like Akshu, her character is very cute and sweet and she is my Abhi's whole heart but what's wrong is wrong.

Sorry forgot to tag...

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Yes off course you can call me Sia.

Aww thanks, I like analysing this show more than any other show I ve ever watched...so I tend to look at everything...

I am also liking the fact that Kairav is standing by Akshu and supporting her and he most likely also likes Abhi.

I think Abhi will be really affected with her words and also assume that she is ignoring him. So she will really need to step up and make him feel like he is truly the most important person to her. Lets wait for emotional scenes now.

With every sentence his heart ached coz Akshu said mera but for him it was hamara pyar.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Sorry forgot to tag...

So today on yeh kahaani; deewane ka kissa ya phir ek deeewani.......

1. I was shook when Abhi said he was just giving a suggestion, nothing else. Then, when Harsh agreed I was like has he mellowed? Or was he so happy that Birlas ki ekloti shaan was returning that he didn't care who else came along?

2. Akshu starts her meri wajah se with Kairav; BM has more sense than Kairav and tells her to be happy that Abhi saved MG. Akshu doesn't understand this and is more concerned about Anisha.

3. I actually agreed with what she said to Anisha. Isn't that what all.mummies are like? Bigadna upar se mohabbat andar se kare woh teri ma....Anisha telling her that Mahima was not like other mothers stayed with me. Is it the fact that Mahima was heartbroken by what Anisha did or is it that Anisha didn't live up to what Mahima expected? Isn't a mother's love meant go be unconditional?

4. Anisha has no sense or filter. It seems like mother like daughter. My only thought when Mahima was telling Akshu to stay out of their family matters was had Abhi been there he would have said "Taiji, ab Akshu bhi hamari family hai". Also how can best doctor aunty say something so insensitive like "you don't have a mother." I wish Abhi had heard this.

5. MG melting and agreeing to AbhiRa ki shaadi to Swarna and Kittu dadi? Does this mean we get to see din shagana da soon??I can't wait.....

6. So wanted to mention this before i went on to THE CONVERSATION but Abhi tried to get Akshu to think about his heart beating for her and not go on a bade papa and his kids and family speech. Yet, she didn't get the hint. Doosri baar isko hint nahin mila.

7. Now coming to that conversation. Someone tell me was Abhi already emotional sitting out there with her? Or was he just tired? His expression when she said unki Akshu ne unhe itni taqleef di; Akshu ka pyaar unki zindagi le gaya. Lekin Abhi saved him...why isn't she concentrating on that? Silly girl why are you telling him that you were the reason for something that didn't even happen?

This is why.. this is exactly why Akshu needs other friends...yes Abhi is her everything but some things he didn't need to hear. Akshu need to understand that she can tell him everything but blaming their love for MG ki halaat isn't something that he would've wanted to hear.

Her leaving for Aarohi's khushi and her saying that HAMARE PYAAR ki keemat aise deni padegi are two completely different things. How was she equating those? Who was she equating those to? His expression when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat was like she had hurt his heart so badly. That's when he actually cried. When she said tumhare pyar ne mujhse duniya ki sabse badi khushi di...that didn't make him as happy as it should have because he was still stuck with the hamare pyar ki keemat aise chukani padegi.

Also she didn't include him in her apne?

Aisa pyar nahin manga tha maine? Again pyar ki keemat parivaar?

This is why the concept of one person being your everything might sound so romantic and so happy and sharing everything with your future husband might be the best thing but can one person really be your everything? Your love, your best friend, your therapist for free? Can one person really carry the weight of all that you tell them in addition to their own baggage?

This is why people have besties..best friends who are removed from parivaar vs pyaar so you can have these conversations with them and it doesn't affect your love to the extent that its hurting and affecting Abhi.

I know Akshu has no one but Abhi; I have said that myself but she could then have been a bit more tactful and diplomatic considering this is the guy she put through an entire kabhi haan kabhi naa...family above all else; nahin DR Abhimanyu Birla main tumse pyar nahin karti scenario even though Gauri Shankar ji ke jaise jodi ban jaaye haan aisi jodi ban jaaye; tode se na toote....

To those who I know will tell me that there should be no secrets between AbhiRa and she needs to share everything with him, I will just ask whether they think saying all this again and again and blaming her love to the one person who thinks she is the world was the right thing to do.

This is why people need other people around them; this is why people need friends.

Abhi might tell Manjari or Neil how hurt he was by her words and won't tell her but here I feel she needs to know how much her words hurt him sometimes. He cannot let everything go and forgive her words yet again without telling her how bad he felt when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat etc.

OK as you can see , I have a lot to say about this scene. If it seems I am only team Abhi then I am team AbhiRa but I adore Abhi waaay too much. I feel Akshu doesn't realise how much she hurts Abhi at times. I am not saying she shouldn't tell Abhi her secrets but she should sometimes know what she is saying can be perceived the wrong way or can hurt him or how at times she shouldn't insult his love.

From her POV she is sharing but what about his feelings. It reminds me of the Shenaaz Gill statement "meri koi feeling nahin hai? Tumhari feeling, tumhari!!!"

Anyways this scene will continue tomorrow.

8. I liked Vansh and Kairav's bond. This bond has been ongoing since S2.

9. Abhi is so hurt; and Akshu is busy dancing. Matlab MG is fine, she is dancing but my Abhi is upset because Akshu ko sab kuch dikhta hai but why does his love have to be on the back seat always?

10. I don't want this hurt to erupt onto Akshu.. he should tell her how it isn't fair to him to feel this way. He can't keep it all in or else if it erupts badly then it won't be fair to either of then.

11. Also where is the Shiv-Parvati connection with whatever Akshu was telling him today? Yes there won't be a sacrifice there but did Gauri ma ever tell Shivji that pyar ki keemat can't be parivaar?

12. I m telling you guys BP will arrive at Birla House towards the end of Saturday's episode. Then we will have to wait all of Sunday for this cycle to start again. Waise its fine., I need to finish my Netflix shows.

Please tell me what you guys think...I look forward to all the debates.

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Originally posted by: Stardust91

So today on yeh kahaani; deewane ka kissa ya phir ek deeewani.......

1. I was shook when Abhi said he was just giving a suggestion, nothing else. Then, when Harsh agreed I was like has he mellowed? Or was he so happy that Birlas ki ekloti shaan was returning that he didn't care who else came along?

2. Akshu starts her meri wajah se with Kairav; BM has more sense than Kairav and tells her to be happy that Abhi saved MG. Akshu doesn't understand this and is more concerned about Anisha.

3. I actually agreed with what she said to Anisha. Isn't that what all.mummies are like? Bigadna upar se mohabbat andar se kare woh teri ma....Anisha telling her that Mahima was not like other mothers stayed with me. Is it the fact that Mahima was heartbroken by what Anisha did or is it that Anisha didn't live up to what Mahima expected? Isn't a mother's love meant go be unconditional?

4. Anisha has no sense or filter. It seems like mother like daughter. My only thought when Mahima was telling Akshu to stay out of their family matters was had Abhi been there he would have said "Taiji, ab Akshu bhi hamari family hai". Also how can best doctor aunty say something so insensitive like "you don't have a mother." I wish Abhi had heard this.

5. MG melting and agreeing to AbhiRa ki shaadi to Swarna and Kittu dadi? Does this mean we get to see din shagana da soon??I can't wait.....

6. So wanted to mention this before i went on to THE CONVERSATION but Abhi tried to get Akshu to think about his heart beating for her and not go on a bade papa and his kids and family speech. Yet, she didn't get the hint. Doosri baar isko hint nahin mila.

7. Now coming to that conversation. Someone tell me was Abhi already emotional sitting out there with her? Or was he just tired? His expression when she said unki Akshu ne unhe itni taqleef di; Akshu ka pyaar unki zindagi le gaya. Lekin Abhi saved him...why isn't she concentrating on that? Silly girl why are you telling him that you were the reason for something that didn't even happen?

This is why.. this is exactly why Akshu needs other friends...yes Abhi is her everything but some things he didn't need to hear. Akshu need to understand that she can tell him everything but blaming their love for MG ki halaat isn't something that he would've wanted to hear.

Her leaving for Aarohi's khushi and her saying that HAMARE PYAAR ki keemat aise deni padegi are two completely different things. How was she equating those? Who was she equating those to? His expression when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat was like she had hurt his heart so badly. That's when he actually cried. When she said tumhare pyar ne mujhse duniya ki sabse badi khushi di...that didn't make him as happy as it should have because he was still stuck with the hamare pyar ki keemat aise chukani padegi.

Also she didn't include him in her apne?

Aisa pyar nahin manga tha maine? Again pyar ki keemat parivaar?

This is why the concept of one person being your everything might sound so romantic and so happy and sharing everything with your future husband might be the best thing but can one person really be your everything? Your love, your best friend, your therapist for free? Can one person really carry the weight of all that you tell them in addition to their own baggage?

This is why people have besties..best friends who are removed from parivaar vs pyaar so you can have these conversations with them and it doesn't affect your love to the extent that its hurting and affecting Abhi.

I know Akshu has no one but Abhi; I have said that myself but she could then have been a bit more tactful and diplomatic considering this is the guy she put through an entire kabhi haan kabhi naa...family above all else; nahin DR Abhimanyu Birla main tumse pyar nahin karti scenario even though Gauri Shankar ji ke jaise jodi ban jaaye haan aisi jodi ban jaaye; tode se na toote....

To those who I know will tell me that there should be no secrets between AbhiRa and she needs to share everything with him, I will just ask whether they think saying all this again and again and blaming her love to the one person who thinks she is the world was the right thing to do.

This is why people need other people around them; this is why people need friends.

Abhi might tell Manjari or Neil how hurt he was by her words and won't tell her but here I feel she needs to know how much her words hurt him sometimes. He cannot let everything go and forgive her words yet again without telling her how bad he felt when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat etc.

OK as you can see , I have a lot to say about this scene. If it seems I am only team Abhi then I am team AbhiRa but I adore Abhi waaay too much. I feel Akshu doesn't realise how much she hurts Abhi at times. I am not saying she shouldn't tell Abhi her secrets but she should sometimes know what she is saying can be perceived the wrong way or can hurt him or how at times she shouldn't insult his love.

From her POV she is sharing but what about his feelings. It reminds me of the Shenaaz Gill statement "meri koi feeling nahin hai? Tumhari feeling, tumhari!!!"

Anyways this scene will continue tomorrow.

8. I liked Vansh and Kairav's bond. This bond has been ongoing since S2.

9. Abhi is so hurt; and Akshu is busy dancing. Matlab MG is fine, she is dancing but my Abhi is upset because Akshu ko sab kuch dikhta hai but why does his love have to be on the back seat always?

10. I don't want this hurt to erupt onto Akshu.. he should tell her how it isn't fair to him to feel this way. He can't keep it all in or else if it erupts badly then it won't be fair to either of then.

11. Also where is the Shiv-Parvati connection with whatever Akshu was telling him today? Yes there won't be a sacrifice there but did Gauri ma ever tell Shivji that pyar ki keemat can't be parivaar?

12. I m telling you guys BP will arrive at Birla House towards the end of Saturday's episode. Then we will have to wait all of Sunday for this cycle to start again. Waise its fine., I need to finish my Netflix shows.

Please tell me what you guys think...I look forward to all the debates.

wrote a bit on main forum too…akshu definitely needs more friends lol…not everything can n should be shared with significant other…sometimes all of us need some space to process our own thoughts n feelings…but more than that akshu needs to understand that abhi is her own too if not more then same as anyone else from goenkas…n lastly there is a saying think before you speak…it is good to vent out but be mindful coz words hurt More than arrows

Originally posted by: Stardust91

So today on yeh kahaani; deewane ka kissa ya phir ek deeewani.......

1. I was shook when Abhi said he was just giving a suggestion, nothing else. Then, when Harsh agreed I was like has he mellowed? Or was he so happy that Birlas ki ekloti shaan was returning that he didn't care who else came along?

2. Akshu starts her meri wajah se with Kairav; BM has more sense than Kairav and tells her to be happy that Abhi saved MG. Akshu doesn't understand this and is more concerned about Anisha.

3. I actually agreed with what she said to Anisha. Isn't that what all.mummies are like? Bigadna upar se mohabbat andar se kare woh teri ma....Anisha telling her that Mahima was not like other mothers stayed with me. Is it the fact that Mahima was heartbroken by what Anisha did or is it that Anisha didn't live up to what Mahima expected? Isn't a mother's love meant go be unconditional?

4. Anisha has no sense or filter. It seems like mother like daughter. My only thought when Mahima was telling Akshu to stay out of their family matters was had Abhi been there he would have said "Taiji, ab Akshu bhi hamari family hai". Also how can best doctor aunty say something so insensitive like "you don't have a mother." I wish Abhi had heard this.

5. MG melting and agreeing to AbhiRa ki shaadi to Swarna and Kittu dadi? Does this mean we get to see din shagana da soon??I can't wait.....

6. So wanted to mention this before i went on to THE CONVERSATION but Abhi tried to get Akshu to think about his heart beating for her and not go on a bade papa and his kids and family speech. Yet, she didn't get the hint. Doosri baar isko hint nahin mila.

7. Now coming to that conversation. Someone tell me was Abhi already emotional sitting out there with her? Or was he just tired? His expression when she said unki Akshu ne unhe itni taqleef di; Akshu ka pyaar unki zindagi le gaya. Lekin Abhi saved him...why isn't she concentrating on that? Silly girl why are you telling him that you were the reason for something that didn't even happen?

This is why.. this is exactly why Akshu needs other friends...yes Abhi is her everything but some things he didn't need to hear. Akshu need to understand that she can tell him everything but blaming their love for MG ki halaat isn't something that he would've wanted to hear.

Her leaving for Aarohi's khushi and her saying that HAMARE PYAAR ki keemat aise deni padegi are two completely different things. How was she equating those? Who was she equating those to? His expression when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat was like she had hurt his heart so badly. That's when he actually cried. When she said tumhare pyar ne mujhse duniya ki sabse badi khushi di...that didn't make him as happy as it should have because he was still stuck with the hamare pyar ki keemat aise chukani padegi.

Also she didn't include him in her apne?

Aisa pyar nahin manga tha maine? Again pyar ki keemat parivaar?

This is why the concept of one person being your everything might sound so romantic and so happy and sharing everything with your future husband might be the best thing but can one person really be your everything? Your love, your best friend, your therapist for free? Can one person really carry the weight of all that you tell them in addition to their own baggage?

This is why people have besties..best friends who are removed from parivaar vs pyaar so you can have these conversations with them and it doesn't affect your love to the extent that its hurting and affecting Abhi.

I know Akshu has no one but Abhi; I have said that myself but she could then have been a bit more tactful and diplomatic considering this is the guy she put through an entire kabhi haan kabhi naa...family above all else; nahin DR Abhimanyu Birla main tumse pyar nahin karti scenario even though Gauri Shankar ji ke jaise jodi ban jaaye haan aisi jodi ban jaaye; tode se na toote....

To those who I know will tell me that there should be no secrets between AbhiRa and she needs to share everything with him, I will just ask whether they think saying all this again and again and blaming her love to the one person who thinks she is the world was the right thing to do.

This is why people need other people around them; this is why people need friends.

Abhi might tell Manjari or Neil how hurt he was by her words and won't tell her but here I feel she needs to know how much her words hurt him sometimes. He cannot let everything go and forgive her words yet again without telling her how bad he felt when she said hamare pyaar ki keemat etc.

OK as you can see , I have a lot to say about this scene. If it seems I am only team Abhi then I am team AbhiRa but I adore Abhi waaay too much. I feel Akshu doesn't realise how much she hurts Abhi at times. I am not saying she shouldn't tell Abhi her secrets but she should sometimes know what she is saying can be perceived the wrong way or can hurt him or how at times she shouldn't insult his love.

From her POV she is sharing but what about his feelings. It reminds me of the Shenaaz Gill statement "meri koi feeling nahin hai? Tumhari feeling, tumhari!!!"

Anyways this scene will continue tomorrow.

8. I liked Vansh and Kairav's bond. This bond has been ongoing since S2.

9. Abhi is so hurt; and Akshu is busy dancing. Matlab MG is fine, she is dancing but my Abhi is upset because Akshu ko sab kuch dikhta hai but why does his love have to be on the back seat always?

10. I don't want this hurt to erupt onto Akshu.. he should tell her how it isn't fair to him to feel this way. He can't keep it all in or else if it erupts badly then it won't be fair to either of then.

11. Also where is the Shiv-Parvati connection with whatever Akshu was telling him today? Yes there won't be a sacrifice there but did Gauri ma ever tell Shivji that pyar ki keemat can't be parivaar?

12. I m telling you guys BP will arrive at Birla House towards the end of Saturday's episode. Then we will have to wait all of Sunday for this cycle to start again. Waise its fine., I need to finish my Netflix shows.

Please tell me what you guys think...I look forward to all the debates.

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